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Elements of Leadershipby Chris Cebo llero

01/07/2014

5 tips to keep your ego in check

Balance confidence and arrogance or your leadership will sink

Im sure it comes to you as no s urprise, but EMS is a very egotistical bus iness . Its that ego that keeps us from asking

the question Why? we dont want to look as if we dont know what we are talking about in front of our peers.

We all know those EMS leaders who take themselves too

seriously and lead with their ego. Those are the folks that,

when they look behind them, soon find they have no followers.

In this article, lets take a look at the ego and how we can

keep that pesky little guy in check.

Ego, defined

The term ego comes from the work of Sigmund Freud,

considered the founding father of psychoanalysis. In 1923,

Freud structured the human psyche into three parts: the id, the

ego and the super ego.

Briefly, the id includes basic drives and passions. The super ego is the conscience, punishing us with guilt when we

do something wrong. Ego is in the middle, managing the desires of the id, while protecting itself from the super

egos s ense of perfection.

Egos role is to protect the image you have of yourself. It will fight to protect that image whenever it seems threatened.

Ego as a defensive mechanism

Think about your days on the streets as p roviders. Whenever som eone ques tioned or criticized your medical care, how

did you react? We often became defensive.

In EMS, we want to have confident EMTs and paramedics. However, at times this confidence can push beyond a

healthy amount and border on the egotistical. Leaders including us are not imm une.

As you trans ition into a leadership role, the ego can becom e even m ore inflated, and the defense m echan ism s even

more exaggerated. As an EMS leader, allowing your emotions to dictate your actions s econdary to an overinflated ego

is a true recipe for destruction.

5 tips to manage your ego

It is crucial that you constantly work on balancing and adjusting your ego to the appropriate level. Here are som e ways

to keep it in check:

1. Make situations safer for everyone. In EMS, we have to ask the tough questions sometimes. Doing it in a non-

threatening way develops a s afe and trusting environment for you and your subordinates . If you can help yourself and

others feel safe, you can join together and move forward toward positive goals.

2. Manage your own tendencies to overreact. When your leadership is criticized and you feel threatened, you may want

to put the other person in their place. Step outside of this emotion for a moment. Ask yourself how you would want

someone to address you in that situation. If you dont want to be treated that way, then you can bet the other person

doesnt want to be, either.

3. Overcome the urge to be right every time.Ego definitely comes into play when we make ourselves right andothers wrong. When you believe that you have all the ans wers or use a my way or the highway approach, you truly

put your leadership creditability into question. Instead, use win-win thinking and behaviors to create a more cohes ive

team approach.

4. Get over your sense of entitlement.As a leader, remem ber where you came from. You work for your em ployees, not

the other way around. Believe in the powe r of servant leadership, and that will keep you humble.

5. Stop complaining.In your leadership role, it might seem easy to complain or point fingers in the direction of your

team. Complaining about others is a method used to assert the wrong in others and the rightness within you.

Everyone makes mistakes! Instead of complaining, break down the barriers of blame and create an environment

where less ons are learned with every mis take, and steps are taken to keep the mistake from happening again.

About the author

Chris Cebollero is a nationally recognized Emergency Medical Services leader, author, and advocate. With close to 30 years

experience directing and coordinating hundreds of Emergency Medical Technicians, paramedics, dispatchers, and support staff.

Currently Chris is the Chief of Christian Hospital EMS in North St Louis County.

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