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Preventative Interventions that Increase Student Cooperation and Compliance
CSS Conference Presentation2013-2014
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Pam Hart, Educational ConsultantRegion 18 ESC
Putting Your Best Feet Forward!
The Story of Eric
POSITIVE TALK
“I” Statements
Using contingencies
Eliciting vs. Imposing consequences
Help kids “visualize” positives
“Empathy” is the foundation of emotional intelligence.
“Hope” Building
The Compliance Burger
Bun- Start with a positive statementCheese- Point out current, unexpected behaviorMeat- State expected behavior'Let-Us'- Give prompt followed by space and timBun- Return and praise expected behavior
Bun- "Thanks for sitting quietly!"Cheese- "I see you are still reading your book."Meat- "Right now the class is working on math."'Let-Us'- "Make a good choice to get your math out, and I will check back with you."Bun- "I see you have your math out ... Great choice!
Are you going to start on the front or back?"
CHOICE
Everyone (adults too) prefer choices! Many, frequent choices =empowerment
Practice using these short phrases:• Would you rather ____ or ____?• What would be best for you, ___ or ___?• Feel free to ___ or ___.• What would help you the most, ___ or ___?
_Teaching With Love & Logic by Jim Faye
CONTROL
Can you control another human being?
Asking vs. telling
Key words to use for reflective questioning: WHAT WHEN WHERE HOW
STAY AWAY FROM… WHY!
Dr. Marvin Marshall
Discipline Without Stress, Punishments, or Rewards_by Dr. Marvin Marshall
REFLECTIVE QUESTIONING
For Changing Behavior For Getting on Task For Commitment For Improving Quality For Complaining For Starting Conversations
Discipline Without Stress, Punishments, or Rewards By Dr. Marvin Marshall
Dr. Marshall’s Coaching “Stems” for Changing the Way We Talk (Handout)
Changing the Way We Talk
Move from:• I’ll try• I might• I’d like to • There isn’t time• I don’t think that will work• But• I’ll think about it
Move to:• I will• I promise• I commit to• Let’s find time• I wonder how that can work• Yes, and• I will resolve to
Dr. Marvin MarshallDiscipline Without Stress, Punishments, or Rewards
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0REJ-lCGiKU
Enthusiasm and Passion
SELF TALK
Life is a conversation… Interestingly, the most influential person we talk to all day is our self. And, what we tell our self has a direct bearing on our behavior, our performance, and our influence on others.
From Dr. Marvin Marshall’s book:Discipline Without Stress, Punishments, or Rewards
www.aboutdiscipline.com
This little guy is willing to try anything…for the cheese!