ppt 恕mar012011
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Peter Wan (Pastoral Care Worker)
Journal Club 21st Oct 2010
恕
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恕
如心。。。
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• 子贡问曰:有一言,而可以终身行之者乎。• 子曰:其恕乎 ,己所不欲,勿施于人。• Zi Gong asked: “Is there a word with which we should act in
accordance throughout our lifetime?” • Confucius replied: “It is ‘reciprocity.’ Do not do unto other what you
do not want others to do unto you.” • 论语 卫灵公 15:23
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恕 = 原谅?
• Reciprocity = Forgiveness?
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原谅 (Forgiveness)
• 古典阿兰文:取消、解开• 拉丁文 “ perdonare”: 没有保留的付出• 英文:开脱罪过• 总括来说,是单方面的行为
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恕 (Reciprocity)
• 古埃及、古希腊的伦理观• 跟孔子的“己所不欲,勿施于人”不相伯仲
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恕 (Reciprocity)
• 耶稣说:• 所以,凡你们愿意人给你们做的,你们也要照样给人做:• 法律和先知即在于此 ( 玛 7:12)• 你们愿意人怎样待你们,也要怎样待人 ( 路 6:31)• 因此,恕包涵一个“互助互惠”的互动 (interplay/interaction)
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心比心
• 恕,是“将心比心”• 替别人着想• 不为难别人• “ 如心”• 是一种德行
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• 恕 : • 我之心亦如人之心• 人之心亦如我之心• 恕己恕人• 兼恕萬物
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Reciprocity
• Reciprocity is not only the human way of harmonizing social relationships but also the human way of entering into communication with nature and establishing a dialogical connection with Heaven.
• “ 恕”不是协调社会关系的唯一的,也是与大自然进入沟通,及发展与天命一个交谈联系的人类途径。
• 杜维明, Centrality and Commonality, 106.
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原谅 ~恕
• 可以说• 通过彼此互相
• 给予对方的原谅• 达到 “恕”
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恕的不 / 是
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不是 忘記不是 容忍
不是 自我犠牲不是 一刀切
不是 一刻間的決定
恕
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恕是。。。
恕己
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恕是…
願意放開悲傷放棄因傷害帶來的情緒
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恕是。。。放开系于过去事情的紧张情绪
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恕是。。。
• 延续康复进程中• 的一份礼物
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恕是。。。
• 內化的過程• 是一種美好、自由• 和接納的感覺
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恕是。。。認知到我們無須怨恨憤慨和自憐
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恕是。。。
再不用等待懲罰 那些傷害我們的人 去做彌補我的損失 这是無補于事
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恕是。。。 接受無論我們做什麼去懲罰他人
也沒法治癒我們
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不斷運行我們在生活裏
有更好的事等著我們做
恕是。。。
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恕是。。。
• 我不再用 / 因他人的行為 / 過失
• 而懲罰自己
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除了恕外
我們可能會 …
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除了恕外我們可能會
否定不理淡化經歷的重要性
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除了恕外我們可能會
自責
以自己的言行去解釋這次經歷
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除了恕外我們可能會
成為受害者: 自憐、無助、受創傷主義
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除了恕外我們可能會
是生還者:與那些受創經歷疏遠認為自己是生還者
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恕的过程
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• 承認你曾受傷害• 從經歷中去探討和接受
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放開罪疚和慚愧的心情
停止所有以往的自責放開曾經發生在你身上悲傷的事
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停止再飾演受害者停止沈淪在自憐和自毀行為中停止責斥無辜的旁人 , 尤其是家人停止以最壞的打算去過生活 或準備重覆過去的生活
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放手吧改變思想的規範 / 看法活在當下
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從經歷裏學習放下
你的怒氣和憤慨
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嘉許你自己從這經歷裏不 只仍生存
也發掘出個人的優點和慈悲心作為成果
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以正確的觀點面對過去不再老是想著也不是忘記
只是視之為你人生經驗的一部份
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参考
• 孔子。论语。• 杜维明 . Centrality and Commonality: An
Essay on Confucian Religiousness. Albany, NY: State University of New York Press, 1989.
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后期制作、改编及整理
赵必成天主教华人灵修中心(The Chinese Catholic Spiritual Center)
New Brunswick, New Jersey, USA
2011 年 2 月 9 日