Tiffany Karlin, Partner Mueller Prost LC

AGENDA

Visualization and the Secret

Never Lose Sight of Your Greatness

Finding Purpose

Persevere

Don’t Hold Back

Form Your Life Pie

Find Spiritual Presence

Have Fun

Pay it Forward

Finding Our Leadership Voice

“What we know matters, but who we are matters more”. ."~ Brene Brown

*Finding Your Voice as a Leader- Paul Larsen

Discovering your critical leadership

VALUES

Creating a compelling vision to get the OUTCOMES

you desire

Building relationships with INFLUENCE and

credibility

Making decisions that reveal your

COURAGE to take a stand

Communicating your overall

EXPRESSION to create a legacy

Leadership

Authority

Service & Sacrifice

Love

WillUnique ability as human beings to align our intentions with our actions

A verb. Identifying and meeting the legitimate needs, not wants, of those we lead

When we meet the needs of others, we will be called upon to serve and even sacrifice.

When we serve and sacrifice for others, we build authority and influence

When we build authority with people, then we have earned the right to be called a leader.

LEADERSHIP MODEL

Intentions + Actions = Will

*The Servant Leader- James Hunter

Power of Visualization

“We all possess more power and greater possibilities than we realize, and visualizing is one of the greatest of these

powers.”

-Genevieve Behrend

“Whatever the mind…can conceive it can achieve.”

-W. Clement Stone

The Secret

“The secret is the answer to all that has been, all that is and

all that will ever be.”- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Step 3 Receive

Step 2 Believe

Step 1 Ask

“What things so ever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them,and ye shall have them.”

—Mark 11:24

“All that we are is the result of what we have thought.” -Buddha

Mind Mapping

Mind mapping is one of the best ways to capture your thoughts and bring them to life in visual form.

“What would I do if I weren’t afraid?”—Spencer Johnson, Who Moved my Cheese

“Fear is the root of so many barriers that women face. Fear of not being liked. Fear of making the wrong choice Fear of

drawing negative attention. Fear of overreacting. Fear of being judged. Fear of failure. And the holy trinity of fear:

fear of being a bad mother/wife/daughter..”

–Lean In, Sheryl Sandberg

Chase Your Greatness.

“Don’t ever let anybody take away your dreams by putting a ceiling about you because of their own ignorance and insecurity.”- Play Big, Dr. Jen Welter

Why Do I Admire Myself?

1. What you see in yourself that you admire the most? What are your most admirable traits?

2. What should you do to become even more admirable from your own point of view?

3. Thank yourself for being admirable. How do you plan to reward yourself when you become as admirable as you desire?

Personal Mantra

1. Review your biggest achievements.

2. Rate each item from one to 10.

3. Select the one item that makes you feel the most confident, self-assured, and strong.

4. Condense it into one word.

5. Use this one word daily.

Achievements: Ranking:

1.

2.

3.

4.

5.

6.

7.

8.

YOUR Mantra:

Helping Others Feel

Valued

Team Member'sName

What canyou do tomake this personfeel valued and

important?

What canyou to elevate the meaning of their

work?

Find Your…

Leaders must decide what matters in life before they can live a life that matters.”—A Leaders Legacy, James Kouzes & Barry Posner

Do you join organization's that share the same values?

“Developing ourselves as leaders begins with knowing our key convictions. Clarifying our own values and aspirations is highly personal matter and no one else can do it for us.”—A Leaders Legacy, James Kouzes & Barry Posner

Do you lead with your values and does your team and peers know what you care about and why they should be following you

What are my Values?

Self-sufficiency Ambition Teamwork

Fun Influence Authority

Fulfillment Learning Respect

Honor Humility Creativity

Faithfulness Wealth Achievement

Duty Happiness Security

Compassion Edge Openness

Inclusiveness Innovation Objectivity

Individuality Change Faith

Fairness Responsibility Family

Freedom

Persevere.

“Greatness is not an accident. Greatness is a choice you make over and over and over. And when you choose personal greatness--big or small—it becomes a part of who you are….It (greatness) took work. It took strategy. It took perseverance. Don’t leave your greatness to chance.”—Play Big, Dr. Jen Welter

Turn NO into NOW WHAT!

“We hold ourselves back in ways both big and small, by lacking self-confidence, by not raising our hands, and by pulling back when we should be leaning in.”- Lean In, Sheryl Sandberg

Don’t Hold Back.

Discover Your Life Pie.“Women do give something up. It’s biology. Let me tell you what I gave up. I wanted my career. And so I never had children. Maybe I would be able to do it with children now. Still, 25 years ago, when I was entering broadcasting, it just wasn’t possible to achieve the highest levels and raise babies along the way. It was my choice. Of course I wanted children. But I chose to put my career first, and I cannot blame anyone for my happiness or lack thereof.”

-- Maxine McKew, Broadcaster“Its not that bosses want you to give up your family or hobbies. They’re just driven by desire to capture all of your energy and harness it for the company.” --Winning, Jack Welch

My Life Pie.

Wellness/Health

Career

My Life Pie.

Wellness/Health

Career

Finding Spiritual Presence.

Meditation Church

Yoga Deep Breathing

Being in the Moment

Mentoring

Reading

Taking time for “Sabbath”

“When you set aside time for Sabbath, whether it is an hour, a morning, or a day, put in the box those things you not don’t wan to use. For some, a computer or telephone….can serve as a physical reminder of what we leave behind when we enter sacred rest.”– The Sabbath, Wayne Mueller

“Let us remain empty as possible so that God can fill us up.”

--Mother Teresa

“Have a positive attitude and spread it around, never let yourself be a victim and for goodness’ sake—have fun.”—Winning, Jack Welch

Pay it Forward.

“Before you are a leader, success is about growing yourself. When you become a leader, success is about

growing others.”

--Winning, Jack Welch

“My life is an invisible whole and all of my activities run into one another….my life is my message.”—Mahatma Gandhi

Finding Your Leadership Voice

Visualization and the Secret

Never Lose Sight of Your Greatness

Finding Purpose

Persevere

Don’t Hold Back

Form Your Life Pie

Find Spiritual Presence

Have Fun

Pay it Forward

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Thank You!Tiffany Karlin, Partner tkarlin@muellerprost.com

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