player burnout/dropout mike singleton, m.s. massachusetts youth soccer assoc. director of coaching
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Player Player Burnout/DropoutBurnout/Dropout
Mike Singleton, M.S.
Massachusetts Youth Soccer Assoc.
Director of Coaching
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What Is Burnout?What Is Burnout? “emotional exhaustion, depersonalization, and reduced
personal accomplishment” (Maslach and Jackson, 1984)
Translation to youth sport
Psychological, emotional, and physical withdrawal (Smith, 1986)
WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?
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Dropout vs. BurnoutDropout vs. Burnout
Burnout Includes:
1) Emotional Exhaustion
2) Negative Responses to Others
3) Low Self-Esteem
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Why do Children Play Why do Children Play Sports?Sports?
BOYS To have fun To do something I am good at To improve skills
GIRLS To have fun To stay in shape To get exercise
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Why do Children Why do Children Dropout?Dropout? Want to do other
activities
Talent
It is not fun
Dislike the coach
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Is This Really A Is This Really A Problem?Problem?
70%-75% of all youth sport players quit by age 13
Of the 16 players on your U12 team, only 4 will play at the U14 level
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Causes for BurnoutCauses for Burnout Social/Interpersonal
Negative Parental Influence, Team Culture (coaching), Competition for Attention, Personal Problems
Psychological Lack of Enjoyment and Unfulfilled Expectations
Physical OVERTRAINING, Injury, Persistent Fatigue
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Different Coaching Different Coaching StressorsStressors Too much emphasis on winning
No playing time Substitute after a mistake Not talking to team after a loss Relating performance to self-worth Making “friendship” conditional on performance
Playing Favorites
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Parental DifficultiesParental Difficulties Parents living through children vicariously
Lack of the ‘Emotional Moat’
Sideline yelling
Parents comparing own children to others
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Perspectives of Some Perspectives of Some ParentsParents “I’m making sure my son doesn’t make the same
mistakes I made.”
“She’s our financial ticket.”
“It’s his choice to play. He wants to do it.”
“From the moment she came out of the womb, she was going to be a soccer player.”
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In Our Minds?In Our Minds? What do you consider failure to be?
When is embarassment OK?
Stand up!
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Framing LearningFraming Learning
Self Mastery vs Outcome Orientation What is success? Are mistakes OK?
What are we really saying with our words and actions?
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Perspectives of Some Perspectives of Some PlayersPlayers How do children interpret their stressors?
Others won’t like me unless I am a star People do not care about me, they only care about the way I play My parents like “Johnny” better No matter how hard I try, it is never good enough If I don’t play, I won’t get yelled at This is not fun I have no time to do anything I want to do
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Who Makes the Who Makes the Decisions?Decisions? Early teens want autonomy and
independence Young teens want to express selves They want to separate from parents
Coaches and parents make most of decisions for players
Goals clash = no fun
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Who Knows When to Who Knows When to Stop?Stop? Negative Training Syndrome
Coaches/Parents misuse the “Overload Principle” Excessive Physical/Psych overload without
adequate rest Decreased performance
Did players choose these ends?
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Athlete Identity IssuesAthlete Identity Issues Players are trying to develop an identity in this culture
created by adults…..what is the often the result?
↓ Who are you?..........I’m an athlete What do you do outside of sports?.....Nothing What do you want to be when you grow up?....
...An athlete
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Signs of Seriousness Signs of Seriousness Depression Apathy Physical/Mental Exhaustion Persistent illness/injury prone Withdrawal/Alienation Sense of Failure/Low Self Esteem
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Create a Positive Create a Positive EnvironmentEnvironment Set performance goals that are short-term and
attainable Selective Use of the Democratic Process (team
goals, favorite activities) “Speak With” vs “Talk At” (listen) Encourage creativity and risk-taking (we learn
from mistakes) Allow players to laugh Have fun yourself, it is contagious!
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Create a Positive Create a Positive EnvironmentEnvironment Focus on emotions of players, not your own!
Who accepts criticism well, who does not? Group vs. individual feedback Gender differences
Ask questions of your players at practices and games: How do you feel? What did you do well? What could you have done better? What can we do to insure that?
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Create a Positive Create a Positive EnvironmentEnvironment Parent Education, Parent Education, Parent
Education Clarify Expectations of Parental Behavior (ride home) Keep open communication Detail your goals for team and player to parents Ask why their child plays? What are child’s goals? Parent’s goals? (vicarious?) Watch interactions between player and parent Involve parents in selected team activities
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What To Do If Too What To Do If Too Late?Late?For those who stay:
Listen to your player’s problems and empathize
Recommend selected days off Do what you can to help them develop
coping skills (attributions)
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What To Do If Too What To Do If Too Late?Late?For those who depart:
Be involved w/ establishing amount of time to take off
Maintain communication throughout this period
Discuss situation with parents Recommend a counselor
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The Game For All The Game For All Kids!Kids! Shall we define an age bracket to clarify
who qualifies as a “kid”?
“I have never lost a game…some have just been called before we were done playing!” --unknown
Lifelong Fun!
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Further Questions?Further Questions? Michael Singleton, M.S.
Massachusetts Youth Soccer Assoc.Director of [email protected]
Special thanks to:Dr. Lance Green, Ed.DTulane University Dept. of Exercise and Sport Science