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    Journal of SCHOOL SOCIAL WORK April 2013Journal of SCHOOL SOCIAL WORK April 2013

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    Journal of SCHOOL SOCIAL WORK April 2013Journal of SCHOOL SOCIAL WORK April 2013

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    A National School Social Work monthly dedicated to networking of parents and teachers.

    Price Rs 20.00

    Journal of

    School Social Work

    Note: Views expressed by the contributors are not necessarily

    the official view of the Journal.

    Journal of School Social Work,8 (New 14), Sridevi Colony,

    Seventh Avenue, Ashok Nagar,

    Chennai 600083

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    98406 02325

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    gmail.com

    Focus: Pattern Recognition

    Honorary Special Editor:

    Dr Rajendrakumar, Chairperson,

    Department of Social Work,

    Bangalore University, Jnana Bharathi Campus,

    Bangalore

    C o n t e n t sVolume IX Issue 11 A p r i l 2 0 1 3 Page

    Editorial Prof Visvesvaran P K 02

    Patterns of Power Struggle and

    Remedy at Hand Dr Vijayalakshmi V 03

    Pattern Recognition: A Challenge before

    Parents Prof Visvesvaran P K 11

    Typical Relationship Patterns in Families Naidu P J 13

    Concept Paper on Control Vs. Autunomy 17

    Casework Intervention for the Hearing ImpairedDr Sinu E 19

    Changing Patterns in Daily Routine among

    Urban Commuters Sandhya Rani P J

    Nafisa Khan and Dr Charumathi P J 27

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    Editorial

    Ruth Benedict in her

    anthropological masterpiece

    Patterns of Culture identifies the

    modal personalities in different

    societies. The typical Dobuan

    suffers from chronic anxiety, hostility

    and paranoia. His gods are hostile

    beings and all social relationships are

    characterized by deliberate fraud,

    treachery and double-dealings. On

    the other hand, the average Zuni is

    friendly, co-operative and peace-

    loving. That is because his deities

    are benevolent and his culture

    encourages peaceful resolution of all

    conflicts. Erich Fromm refers to the

    Manus who are highly competitiveand drive themselves to despair and

    death pushed to the brink by intense

    rivalry towards one another.

    Identification of patterns is, thus, very

    important for human beings to

    understand one another. To adapt

    Swithun Bowers (who uses the

    following phraseology to define

    social work) pattern detection is an

    art, based on the knowledge of thescience of human relations. One

    should have some knowledge of the

    Freudian theory, the behavioural

    approach and the modern schools of

    treatment such as the client-centered

    Rogerian therapy to discern typical

    patterns of behaviour in our clients.

    Identification is, however, only the

    first step and is not a solution by itself.

    Also, any diagnosis is only tentative

    and the therapist should have an

    open mind to revise his views as he

    goes along and as new facts come

    up.

    A corollary to this is the fact that

    symptoms are a mixed bag and not

    a holdall. For example, a person

    may exhibit symptoms of anxiety,

    depression and obsessive-

    compulsion all rolled into one. Any

    attempt to put it in anyone particular

    pigeon hole may fail.

    More important than this is the

    need to avoid labeling, either thesymptom or the client. For example,

    the childs enuresis may belong to

    the revenge type (punishing the

    parents) or regressive type (arising

    from sibling rivalry) or may represent

    both, usually the last. Let not the

    therapist label a boy permanently as

    a mother-hater or an exhibitionist

    though he manifests these

    tendencies alternatingly. For labelingmay prove to be a self-fulfilling

    prophecy and turn an one-time

    offender into an incorrigibly chronic

    antisocial character. Identification of

    patterns is a handy therapeutic tool

    but let us guard against its fall

    out,namely role inflexibility.

    Pattern? Yes! Rigidity ? No!

    11

    Introduction:

    In this article, the importance of

    recognizing the pattern of behaviour

    evinced by children early in life and

    of channelising their energies in the

    right direction, with professional help,

    if need be, will be examined. Also it

    will be emphasized that behaviour is

    not monochromatic, but is a multi-

    coloured quilt.

    The psychoanalytic approach:

    Sigmund Freud (1856 1939) said

    that every child passes through

    certain stages and the problems thatarise in each stage should be

    resolved amicably or there will be a

    spill-over effect or fixation that will

    haunt the rest of his/ her life. First,

    there is the oral stage, the desire to

    suck and ingest milk at will. If

    problems arise at this age, he may

    end up as a chronically pleasure-

    seeking person, and incorrigible

    hedonist, a smoker or addict. So,let parents watch out for this tendency

    in the child, the symptoms being

    constant pleasure-seeking and instant

    gratification.

    Next comes the anal stage where

    the child takes pleasure in activities

    related to elimination. A child who is

    Pattern Recognition:

    A Challenge before ParentsVisvesvaran P K *

    * Prof Visvesvaran P K, Editorial consultant, JSSW

    chastised mercilessly for soiling may

    develop a hoarding or withholding

    tendency and may become a stingy

    person who is reluctant to help and

    part with things though he/ she can

    afford to. They may even become

    sadistic, deriving pleasure from

    seeing others suffer.

    This is followed by the oedipal

    stage with attachment to the parent of

    the opposite sex and hostility to the

    parent of ones own sex. Here too

    these tendencies must be handled

    carefully, lest they become life-longproblem.

    Enlisting professional help:

    Let us take the case of a youth

    who may show symptoms of

    becoming an intellectual, loves

    books and encyclopedias, tries to

    read works far above his age (not

    always with success, perhaps). This

    is a welcome sign and must be

    encouraged and not scoffed at.Concurrently, this boy may also

    indulge in masturbation, sexual

    exhibitionism and may even become

    fond of housemaids. Let not the

    parents feel alarmed at this

    development or feel ashamed of their

    son or be annoyed with him.

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    Parents who feel they cant handle

    the latter tendency should seek

    professional help. In the

    contemporary world, with advanced

    medical techniques, therapists have

    a number of remedies at their

    disposal with which boys excesses

    can be corrected and meaningfullychannelised. Exhibitionism and

    voyeurism (the tendency to peep)

    should be professionally treated lest

    they become embarrassing problem

    for the individual when he grows up

    and occupies prestigious position, as

    the budding intellectual is almost sure

    to.

    Physician, heaThis article can

    be quoted asl thy self!Parents would do well to be aware

    of their own shortcomings, especially

    patterns of behaviour and

    communication that may adversely

    influence the conduct of their children.

    Eric Berne says that adult play some

    games repeatedly, for example,

    why-dont-you- yes- but in which a

    person keeps offering endless

    reasons for his failings or reluctance

    to act. The remedy is to stop playing

    this game and start acting to

    overcome ones shortcomings.

    Berne also says that it is better not to

    be a stern parent or helpless like a

    child but strive to behave like a

    mature adult in our everydaytransactions. Let parents identify their

    habit patterns and correct them, with

    professional help, if necessary.

    Another wri ter says that some

    parents during mealtime start up

    quarrels or become critical of others.

    This becomes a die-hard pattern of

    mealtime behaviour, day after day.

    He suggests, instead, learn to

    discuss ideas with humour andconcern for truth. Your children will

    follow suit.

    Conclusion:

    Early manifestation (patterns)

    should be carefully monitored and be

    deftly, unemotionally and

    professionally handled. For, what is

    at stake, is the concerned childs

    present wellbeing and trouble-free

    future.References:Berne Eric (1964): Games People Play. New York: Grove Press

    Freud, Sigmund (1939): Complete Works,edited by J. Strachey, London: Hogarth

    Free Press.

    Fromm, Ercih (1977): The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness, New York: Penguin

    Books.

    Landsberg Michaele (1971) : How to Understand Yourself,Readers Digest, Jan

    1971.

    You are welcome to use the material in this article and it

    can be referred in APA style as:

    Visvesvaran P K (2013): Pattern Recognition: A

    Challenge before Parents. Journal of School

    Social Work, IX-11, pp 11-12.

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