PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-0

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

Alok k. Dubey B.com, MBA (CM)

Mail to : alok_dubey21@hotmail.com

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 1 -

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

Personality is depends on:-

1. Mental

2. Physical

3. Intellectual

Factor influence Personality:-

A. Heredity: we cannot help it.

B. General Appearances: we can do a little only.

C. Culture: We can change our society & atmosphere to change culture.

D. Experience: It counts valuable point to enhance personality.

E. Education & Training: Education & Training can help one to enhance his

personality.

Personality Traits (Characteristics):-

1) Appearance: Outer looking for example clothing, expressions and hairstyles

etc.

2) Speech Mannerism: It contains-

a) Clarity of voice

b) Tone

c) Speed

3) Gesticulation

4) Mental Alertness

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 2 -

5) Consistency of thoughts i.e. stability of thoughts

6) Types of approach:

a) Positive approach

b) Negative approach

7) Leadership Qualities

8) Self-confidence in a positive approach

ABCRL Formula:-

A. Accuracy

B. Brevity

C. Clarity

D. Relevance

E. Logic

Self-Confidence Existed in-

a) Self –respect

b) Self- esteem

c) Self –belief

Step for self-confidence:-

Step 1: Take off fear from mind

Step 2: Will (determination)

Step 3: +ve approach toward the life

Step 4: Know your shortcomings

Step 5: Inferiority complex

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 3 -

Formula for every step of l i fe:

+ve Approach

Motivation

No Inferior Complex

Self-Confidence

Right work at right time

Success

Appreciation

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 4 -

Outer Personali ty:

a) Neatness, cleanliness and well mannered

b) Active, Enthusiastic and practical

c) Well informed and quick to act

d) Disciplined and amiable

e) Dynamic, f lexible and reasonable

Professional Quali ty:

a) Clear in mind and systematic

b) Industrious and hard working

c) Responsibil i ty

d) Clear vision and strong wil l power

e) Concentration of mind

Inner Quali ty:

a) Sympathetic, sweet, loving & caring

b) Not vindict ive, impulsive, touchy & non-fluctuating

c) Calm & composed

d) Balance of extrovert ness & introvert ness

e) Balance of humour and sobriety

f) Balance of love & law

g) Confidence in self

h) Fearless & self control led

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 5 -

HOW CAN YOU CHANGE YOURSELF

Change by:

I. Action level

II . Thought level

Thought Level:

1. Waste thought :- impractical idea

2. Negative thought :- practical idea but harmful to self and

others

3. Ordinary thoughts

4. Posit ive thoughts

Brain

Left Hemisphere Right Hemisphere

1 Rational 1 Emotion

2 Verbal 2 Love

3 Logical 3 Patience

4 Scienti f ic 4 Tolerance

5 Creative 5 Caring

6 Analyt ical 6 Picture,color,Paninting

7 Data Interpretat ion 7 Music

8 Etc.

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8 Inspir ing etc.

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 6 -

Mind Intellect Resolves

WAVES OF MIND

1. Beta : - 13-25 Hz.

2. Alfa : - 8-12 Hz.

3. Theta : - 4-8 Hz.

4. Delta : - 0.5-4 Hz.

Thoughts are l ike f loods i f i t is controlled then it should have

more benefi t .

Self-realisation: - Who am I?

I am a soul.

SOUL “I”

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 7 -

Thoughts (Good/Bad)

Sanskar (G

ood/Bad)

Action (G

ood/Bad)

Conscious mind

Thoughts, Emotions, Desires

Subconscious mind, memories imprint,

impression, instinct, habits

Expression of Emotion, Desire, Decision through

the body

Intellect Judgement, Decision

Discrimination

My body sensory organs, motor organs

Observation is imprinted in subconscious memory bank

“I” PERSONALITY CONCIOUS LIKE

FORCE SOUL

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 8 -

Original Quality of Mind

1. Peace

2. Purity

To activate sub consciousness (feed good information to memory bank)

1. Hypnotism

2. Sudden depression

3. Meditation

Consumption of O2 in meditatin vis-a-vis Frequency of mind

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Beta = 4, Alfa = 3, Theta = 2, Delta = 1

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 9 -

Self Supreme World external

cycle

Universal Father-hood

Universal Brother-hood

“I”

Friend

Husband/Wife Son /Daughter

Worker

Requirement of Meditation:-

1. Confidence

2. Patience

3. Right Knowledge

4. Courage

5. Responsibilities

Courage: - to fight –ve & waste thoughts

Confidence: - in self

Knowledge

Responsibility: “to change self”

What does “I” refer?

Iron Golden

Silver Copper

“Change is the law of Nature”

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