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Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER F “For the Families & Friends of those who have died by violence” 19620 North 38th Avenue, Glendale AZ 85308-2215 Chapter Phone: (602) 254-8818 Chapter E-mail: [email protected] * National Organization of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. (POMC) 635 West 7 th Street, Ste 104, Cincinnati OH 45203 (513) 721-5683 Fax: (513) 345-4489 Toll Free Number (888) 818-7662 http://www.pomc.com/phoenix/index.html Volume 27: No. 4 April 2018 https://www.facebook.com/pages/POMC-Valley-of-the-Sun/ MONTHLY SUPPORT MEETING LOCATIONS 4 th Tuesday - Grief Support Meetings All Meetings Start at 7:00 PM *NO CHILDREN ALLOWED AT MEETINGS* ◄WEST VALLEY MEETING► Tuesday, April 24 7:00 PM Peoria Community Center 8335 West Jefferson Street Peoria AZ 85344 Facilitator: Joyce Lefler 602- 525-7217 ◄CENTRAL VALLEY MEETING► Tuesday, April 24 7:00 PM Mountain View Police Precinct Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ Facilitator: Beckie Miller Co-Facilitator: Carolee Holbrook 623-582-2406 ◄BILINGUAL EAST VALLEY MEETINGTuesday, April 24 7:00 PM Queen of Peace Church 30 West 1 st Street Room St. John 7 Mesa, AZ 85201 Facilitators: Sandy & Paulino Navarro 480-695-4789 ◄◄SPEAKER/INFORMATION►► MEETING (2nd Tuesday of each month) *NO CHILDREN ALLOWED AT MEETINGS* Tuesday, April 10, 7:00 PM *** Mountain View Police Precinct Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ (off AZ 51 at 20th Street between Glendale Avenue and Bethany Home Road - Across from Granada Park) ***Our meeting this month will be about the Crime Victim Compensation Program to help victims with funeral, hospital costs, counseling and more. Shawna Michie from the Maricopa County Attorney’s Office will present. NEWSLETTER EDITOR Mail Memorial Page items for “The Journey” by the 10 th of the month prior to publication month to: POMC Newsletter 19620 North 38th Ave Glendale AZ 85308-2215 *Please use order form on Page 11 You can also email items to [email protected] Be sure to place any article or picture in an attachment, otherwise it can’t be accessed properly (especially pictures) and may not be used. Also, be sure to put POMC Newsletter in the subject line of the email. CRIME VICTIMS LEGAL ASSISTANCE PROJECT Free legal aid to help assert victims' rights through Arizona Voice for Crime Victims @ (480) 600-2661, P.O. Box 12722, Scottsdale, AZ 85261 or contact Mary Wallace at [email protected]

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Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER

F “For the Families & Friends of those who have died by violence”

19620 North 38th Avenue, Glendale AZ 85308-2215

Chapter Phone: (602) 254-8818 Chapter E-mail: [email protected]

* National Organization of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. (POMC)

635 West 7th

Street, Ste 104, Cincinnati OH 45203 (513) 721-5683 Fax: (513) 345-4489

Toll Free Number (888) 818-7662

http://www.pomc.com/phoenix/index.html Volume 27: No. 4 April 2018 https://www.facebook.com/pages/POMC-Valley-of-the-Sun/

MONTHLY SUPPORT MEETING

LOCATIONS

4th

Tuesday - Grief Support Meetings

All Meetings Start at 7:00 PM

*NO CHILDREN

ALLOWED AT MEETINGS*

◄WEST VALLEY MEETING►

Tuesday, April 24 7:00 PM

Peoria Community Center

8335 West Jefferson Street

Peoria AZ 85344

Facilitator: Joyce Lefler

602- 525-7217

◄CENTRAL VALLEY MEETING►

Tuesday, April 24 7:00 PM

Mountain View Police Precinct

Community Room

2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ

Facilitator: Beckie Miller

Co-Facilitator: Carolee Holbrook

623-582-2406

◄BILINGUAL EAST VALLEY

MEETING► Tuesday, April 24 7:00 PM

Queen of Peace Church

30 West 1st Street Room St. John 7

Mesa, AZ 85201

Facilitators: Sandy & Paulino Navarro

480-695-4789

◄◄SPEAKER/INFORMATION►►

MEETING (2nd Tuesday of each month)

*NO CHILDREN

ALLOWED AT MEETINGS*

Tuesday, April 10, 7:00 PM

*** Mountain View Police Precinct

Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ

(off AZ 51 at 20th Street between Glendale

Avenue and Bethany Home Road -

Across from Granada Park)

***Our meeting this month will be about the

Crime Victim Compensation Program to help

victims with funeral, hospital costs, counseling

and more. Shawna Michie from the Maricopa

County Attorney’s Office will present.

NEWSLETTER EDITOR

Mail Memorial Page items for “The Journey” by

the 10th

of the month prior to publication month to:

POMC Newsletter

19620 North 38th Ave Glendale AZ 85308-2215

*Please use order form on Page 11

You can also email items to [email protected]

Be sure to place any article or picture in an

attachment, otherwise it can’t be accessed

properly (especially pictures) and may not be

used. Also, be sure to put POMC Newsletter in

the subject line of the email.

CRIME VICTIMS LEGAL ASSISTANCE

PROJECT

Free legal aid to help assert victims' rights

through Arizona Voice for Crime Victims @

(480) 600-2661, P.O. Box 12722, Scottsdale,

AZ 85261 or contact Mary Wallace at

[email protected]

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Robert Mike Sanders

April 1976

Toni Bachman

April 1997

Renee Scott

April 2012

Ernestina Marie Collins

April 1, 2005

Kristina West

April 1, 2012

Gibon O’Neal

April 1, 2016

Diego Sanchez

April 1, 2016

Ruben Cosseyleon

April 1, 2017

Katrina Ruiz

April 2, 2000

James K. McDonnell

April 2, 2002

John Craite

April 3, 1996

Daniel Freeman

April 3, 2007

Ursula Banashley

& Christina Williams

April 3, 2012

Wyatt Robert Cardany

April 3, 2015

Shelly & Andy Parks

April 4, 1999

Eddie Payan

April 4, 1999

Chad R. Conquest

April 4, 2007

Matthew R. Donaldson

April 4, 2009

Ruben A. Alvarado, Jr.

April 5, 2004

Roseanna Kolosa

April 5, 2007

Robin Lee Livesay

April 5, 2010

Jason Vanosdell

April 5, 2010

Robert Burton

April 6, 1993

Simon Torres, Jr.

April 6, 1997

Wendy Snodgrass

April 7, 1996

Bill Packard, Jr.

April 7, 2004

Cody B. Morrison

April 7, 2005

Victor Adam Galindo

April 7, 2017

John Crandall

April 8, 1993

William H. Chandler

April 8, 2000

Kristopher Royer

April 8, 2016

James LeSueur

April 9, 2004

Terra Ann Parker

April 9, 2004

Jamie Cardenas, Jr.

April 10, 1993

Mary, Brittney &

Bobby Fisher

April 10, 2001

Sophia Nunez

April 10, 2006

Keith Benefield

April 11, 2001

Rosemarie Little

April 11, 2011

Estelle Elena Tsoto Carlin

April 11, 2016

Alexandra Holmberg

April 12, 1994

Spencer Stingley

April 12, 1994

Michelle Dickinson

April 12, 2009

Jaissaac Sloan

April 12, 2017

Tanya Rae Samora

April 13, 1988

Ernie Scroud

April 13, 2002

Jose Rodriguez

April 13, 2008

Victoria Gameros

April 13, 2014

Thomas Hawthorne, Sr.

April 14, 1995

Rohber Brafford

April 14, 2006

Adam Kostewicz

April 15, 2006

Thom J. Kennedy

April 16, 1992

“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal.”

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Continued. . . .

Joshua Calkins

April 16, 2014

Susan Elaine Rancourt

April 17, 1974

Chris “Bear” Assman

April 17, 1997

Jaisaac Sloan

April 17, 2017

Gary Allen Fisher

April 18, 2015

Matthew Christensen

April 18, 2016

James Turley, Jr.

April 19, 1994

Nila Ruth Lynn

April 19, 2000

Ali Altug

April 19, 2001

Branden Geoffrey Walker

April 19, 2017

Padriac M. Hill

April 20, 1993

Joel McClure

April 20, 2003

Katie Humphrey

April 20, 2006

Brett Holbrook

April 21, 2002

Anders Ortega

April 21, 2006

Mary Martin

April 21, 2016

Demetris Grillo

April 22, 1995

Vincent Michael Contreras

April 22, 2009

Carl Scott

April 22, 2012

Alan Burdick

April 22, 2014

Jordan Miles

April 23, 2016

Bill Lewis Brown

April 24, 1992

Bill Schmidt &

Karen Swan

April 24, 1998

Bryan Allred

April 24, 2001

Alfonso Puyana

April 24, 2004

Christy Marie Gill

April 24, 2007

Christopher Winston

April 24, 2014

Bill Moxey

April 25, 1988

Jeremiah Miller

April 25, 2002

Emilio Tapia

April 25, 2008

Lincoln Brevard

April 25, 2010

Orville "Dean" Cuny

April 26, 1986

Mandy LeAnn Lund

April 26, 1995

Juan Canales

April 27, 2014

Christopher Alan Boyd

April 27, 2015

David Dill

April 28, 1990

Nick Pappas

April 28, 1996

Rafael Gaxiola

April 28, 2006

Jared Scott Olson

April 28, 2006

Esmeralda Rodriguez-Valdez

April 28, 2016

Terry Sackett

April 29, 2003

Edward James Green

April 29, 2005

Matthew Clarke

April 30, 1994

Stephen D. Perry

April 30, 1994

Kent Dunne

April 30, 1999

Adam Leyva

April 30, 2007

Vanessa Rose Ortega

April 30, 2013

Every effort is made to ensure

accuracy on these pages.

Please notify us immediately

with any errors or changes.

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VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER NEWS

TRIAL, JUDICIAL & ARREST UPDATES

Trial for the killer of Matthew James Lord McClean began March 3. Matthew is the son of Remi, and brother

to Brianna and Julieanne.

Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with each and every family member as they endure this difficult

process.

IN LOVING MEMORY GIFT DONATIONS (THANK YOU!)

(*All donations are tax deductible: Our chapter exists on the generosity of others, grants, and

fundraisers)

♥ Erin Alstad in very loving memory of her friend, Steven Henrichsen.

♥ Jan Lewis in very loving memory of her daughter, Shannon Lewis.

♥ Karen & Carl Anello in loving memory of their son, Carl Anello.

♥ Sandy & Paulino Navarro in very loving memory of their son, Michael Garcia.

♥ Don & Beckie Miller in very loving memory of their son, Brian Ray Miller.

♥ Carolee Holbrook in very loving memory of her son, Brett Holbrook.

CORPORATE & OTHER DONATIONS THANK YOU! UNITED WAY (Please Note: the write-in number to designate funds to our chapter through your employee

contributions is 0772). You must use this number for designating any funds to go to our chapter. Our chapter

name is not listed except by number. Donations from Melissa Mersch in memory of her son, Matthew,

Christine Busch in memory of her son, Erik, and Lisa Tamborski-Bishop in loving memory of her son, Alex.

AMERICAN EXPRESS - donations from Norma Yanez, anonymous, and Lindison Y. Webb in honor of

Del Edward Webb, and Tara E. Williams in memory of her brother Kirk Best and mom, Sally Whitney.

An anonymous donation was made to our chapter from one of our members and we are grateful.

GILA RIVER CASINO donated to our chapter from forfeiture funds grant

CHANCE FOR A SCHOLARSHIP TO POMC NATIONAL CONFERENCE IN WASHINGTON, D.C.

If you would like a chance to win a full scholarship (airfare, hotel and conference fee) to our National

Conference in Washington DC, this year being held August 2 – 5, at each speaker meeting you attend between

now and May, you can get a ticket to go in the drawing that we will hold at the May Speaker’s meeting.

COLD CASE REGISTRY FOR PHOENIX POLICE DEPARTMENT

The Phoenix Police Department has a Cold Case Registry on line. The link is

http://phoenix.gov/police/investigations/coldcase/index.html.

COLD CASE REGISTRY FOR HOMICIDES MCSO (SHERIFF'S OFFICE

The Maricopa County Sheriff's Office has a cold case registry for any victim, victim's family member, or other

lawful representative of a victim of a cold case who requests to be included in the registry. This process

provides law enforcement with an avenue to contact family when there are new developments in the case.

In order to submit a request, please contact the MCSO Homicide Unit. Telephone: 602-876-1087. E-mail:

[email protected]

SPEAKER INFORMATION MEETING – COLD CASES

Our speaker in March featured Lt. Shane Disotell of Phoenix Police Department’s Violent Crimes Division

and Detective Dominique Roestenberg of Cold Cases, both 20-year veterans of the Phoenix PD. They shared

honestly with our members their frustrations with unsolved cases. Largely, the Cold Case Unit went from 8

detectives to currently 2. This is due to not having enough officers at Phoenix PD in general and some

detectives being put to work to patrol our city to keep it safe. Other contributing factors are budget constraints

and a back log of evidence testing at the Crime Lab, which faces similar problems with staffing at a time when

murders are increasingly happening on a near-daily basis. Phoenix is attempting to hire more officers, but it is

not easy in today’s harsh climate against officers and even with something as simple as many of the applicants

not qualifying if they have used marijuana in their past. So, how, with all of these challenges, can a cold case

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be solved? Lt. Disotell assured us he is doing all he can to remedy the situation including putting Detective

Roestenberg in charge of reviewing cold cases. But they are also thinking outside the box such as putting Silent

Witness decks of cards in the prisons featuring victims and their cases because they have learned inmates talk to

each other and often someone comes forward with new information to help an unsolved murder. Phoenix is

also working with the Maricopa County Attorney’s Office Cold Case Division, of which two seasoned

prosecutors are now reviewing these cases as well, to see what can be accomplished to assist detectives.

Utilizing more technological advances will also help with solving more murders.

Recently a 35-year old case was solved as they had DNA on file. Unfortunately, with a case this old, it is often

hard to find witnesses from that many years ago. The original case agent had passed away, but continued

persistence found a patrol officer that had been on the scene at the time who watched the case agent collect

evidence. Simply having strong physical evidence with no corroborating witness could have likely resulted in a

weak, still unsolved case.

Detective Roestenberg shared he wants nothing more than to catch all the bad guys and get justice for the

victims and he will review a case if you contact him. He says to be patient though, as it takes time to go over all

the files and pictures and see if anything can be done.

*There was some heated discussion of what more can be done to get additional funding for both officers and

lab techs. It ultimately lies in the hands of our legislature and city officials. You can get involved by writing or

calling them and requesting they do more to solve this problem, preferably more sooner than later, but be

assured the Phoenix Police Department will continue to do all they can to resolve the issues also.

FRY’S COMMUNITY REWARDS PROGRAM FUNDRAISER FOR OUR CHAPTER

Our chapter is now a part of the Fry’s Community Rewards program. If you shop there, simply sign up (one

time only) to connect your VIP card and we will get a percentage of proceeds. Just go to

http://www.frysfood.com, select Register, under Sign In information, enter your email and create a password.

Select User Card # and enter your Fry's VIP number, last name and zip code. Under Select Your Preferred

Store, enter zip code of that store. Select Find Your Store then select Create Account. You will be prompted to

confirm your email. Click the hyperlink to finish creating your Online Account. If you already have an Online

Account with Fry's, you can skip this and go to https://frysfood.com/topic/community?activePage=community-

rewards-2. Select Sign In and enter your email and password. Select My Account and then Account Settings

from drop down menu. Click Edit under Community Awards. Under Find Your Organization, select box next

to POMC and enter the NPO number #29432. Save changes and you are good to go. If you have registered

correctly, you should see our organization information listed under "Community Rewards" on your account

summary page. Thanks for your support.

AMAZON SMILE FOUNDATION

We are also part of Amazon Smiles, in which a portion of your purchases goes to our chapter. If you use our

special link, you will automatically be asked if you want to support our chapter, Valley of the Sun.

https://smile.amazon.com/ch/31-122548

CHAPTER SIBLING COORDINATOR Amanda (Harris) Labelle is our Sibling Coordinator and provides support for siblings outside of meetings.

You can reach her by phone for more information at 623-866-3189. Amanda lost her brother, Joshua, to murder

and understands the sibling grief in a way only a sibling can.

CHAPTER’S 23rd

ANNUAL FUNDRAISER DINNER AND AUCTION

Our annual fundraiser auction and dinner for this year was very successful in raising funds for our chapter so

that we may provide our programs and services to our families. This year we had some sponsors for our event:

Phoenix Law Enforcement, Desert Diamond Casinos, Jackson’s Family Carwash, Sara Powell (crime victims’

civil attorney) and the Never Again Foundation. Thank you to everyone who attended or donated prizes, or

both. We cannot do this alone. Members of valley law enforcement agencies, the judicial field and other victim

services groups also attended to support us. Our auctioneer, Kevin Spratley, of Sonoran Benefit Auctions,

donated his services and our DJs from MIXX IT, reduced their fee. We appreciate all the support. Next year

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we are changing our event to the last Saturday in February. For the past 23 years, it has been the last Friday.

With growing traffic on Fridays and people arriving too late to bid on our Silent Auction prizes, we feel this

change will be for the best.

AFFIRMATION OF POMC NON-DISCRIMINATION POLICY

“It shall be the policy of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc., to provide equal membership/employment service opportunities to all

eligible persons without regard to race, religion, color, national origin, citizenship, age, sex, sexual orientation, marital status, parental

status, disabilities, membership in any labor organization, political affiliation, and for employment only, height, weight, and record of

arrest without conviction.”

*If you feel you have been discriminated against you may file a complaint with our National Office, 635 West 7th

Street, Suite 104,

Cincinnati, Ohio 45203. www.pomc.org (513) 721-5683

To refer a complaint to an appropriate investigating entity:

Office for Civil Rights

Office of Justice Programs

U.S. Department of Justice

810 7th Street, NW

Washington, D.C. 20531 www.ojp.gov

In order to file with the federal Office for Civil Rights (OCR) two forms must be downloaded from the internet and submitted in

writing to the ORC. The forms can be found at www.ojp.gov/about/ocr/complaint.htm.

Arizona Department of Public Safety

VOCA Administration

Civil Rights Coordinator

PO Box 6638 - MD 1320

Phoenix AZ 85005-6638 (602) 223-2491 www.azdps.gov/services/crime_victims

NEWS FROM NATIONAL POMC

Website: www.pomc.org Phone 888-818-7662

E-mail: [email protected]

The National Office has moved to a new location. Our address is 635 West 7th

St., Suite 104, Cincinnati, OH

45203.

The 32nd

Annual National POMC Conference will be held in Arlington, Virginia, at the DoubleTree

by Hilton Hotel/Washington DC on August 2-5, 2018. The room rates are $109.00 and the closest

airport to fly into is Reagan National Airport. They also have a free shuttle service to the hotel. The

registration form is on the POMC website now www.pomc.org.

National Crime Victims’ Rights Week is April 8 -14, 2018. The theme this year is “Expand the Circle

Reach All Victims”. If anyone attended the 2013 Conference in Cincinnati you may have met Brooks

Douglass. His revised movie will be at movie theaters the week of Crime Victims’ Rights Week. As

soon as we get more information we will let you know. When his parents were murdered, he and his

sister survived, and he became the youngest senator in Oklahoma.

FACEBOOK: We are having an issue with a Facebook account that is using the Parents Of Murdered

Children’s name as a group who chats with each other and puts posts on this account. First of all, they

are using National POMC’s name and we have asked them to change this Facebook account to another

name. Secondly, they are using National’s forms for our various programs and they are very

disrespectful in the way they talk to each other. Some of our members have become “admins” for this

account thinking they are helping POMC and it is not National POMC’s Facebook account. National

POMC does have a Facebook account, but we only post from the National Office and no one else can

post to this Facebook account. We have contacted Facebook and we were told copyright does not

protect our name under their guidelines. We have reached out to the “admins” with no success on

changing their name. We have contacted our attorney and she has sent a Cease and Desist Letter which

they have not paid attention to, so our next step is legal action. Unfortunately, this Facebook account

which is using National POMC’s name, has given the official Parents Of Murdered Children account a

reputation of not being respectful to other survivors, which in turn causes phone calls to the National

Office complaining about the disrespect and how they have been treated from some of the persons

writing on this account. These “admins” are acting like representatives of POMC and are not true

representatives of ours.

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National Crime Victims' Rights Week

(April 8 – 14, 2018)

This month is once again National Crime Victims' Rights Week all over our nation. This

year's theme is "Expand the Circle…Reach all Victims" as we face more and different crimes

such as what technology has brought, funding cuts in state budgets, and a changing world in

general. Nearly 50% of crime is not even reported and only a fraction of victims actually receive

the help they need. While we have come a long way in the field of crime victims' rights, we

need to remember always how far we still need to go and strive to improve things for all victims.

The Office for Victims of Crime (OVC) reports that 5 million violent crimes occur in the U.S.

each year. Violence hurts you and your community. Crime victims suffer a range of health

issues, both mental and physical. You are not alone. The aftermath of crime may feel

overwhelming. You have rights and options and may qualify for financial reimbursement

through Crime Victim Compensation. Support is available through VictimConnect.org or call

855-4-VICTIM.

Our organization, Parents Of Murdered Children, supports the push again for an amendment to

the constitution for Crime Victims' Rights. There are already provisions within it for the

defendant/criminals rights but nothing for the victims. When we come to you requesting letters

or emails or phone calls to your senators and congressmen or women please support it. Take the

time and let your voices be heard and join us in the battle for the rights of crime victims that

began more than thirty years ago and will continue until all victims are treated with dignity and

respect and provided the necessary services they need to heal and rebuild their lives.

“Justice will only be achieved when those who are not injured by crime, feel as indignant as

those who are.”

Solomon (635-577 B.C.)

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THE COURAGE TO GRIEVE (A Weekend of Hope and Healing in the Pines)

April 27 – 29, 2018, in beautiful PINE, ARIZONA

Our chapter is hosting our twenty-ninth, self-help, rewarding weekend of the courage to grieve,

to face the many overwhelming and difficult emotions that are the aftermath of murder and are

often compounded by the intrusion and frustration of the judicial process. Beneath the explosive

emotions of rage, hate, and revenge lay the more primary feelings of pain, fear, and helplessness.

Unresolved, these emotions can cause survivors to feel they are losing their minds. The isolation

survivors feel from those who will not or cannot deal with the impact of the loss, leave survivors

alone with their grief or discourage them from grieving at all. An integral part of this weekend will

be an examination of love, tenderness and affection, relaxation techniques, and the encouragement

to move forward, uncover and experience within a safe environment with others who truly

understand. The retreat has been designed to influence the reconstruction of a new life - a life that

has a renewed sense of purpose, though forever changed by murder.

The weekend begins with dinner on Friday night. Those attending will all meet at the cabin in

Pine, at 5:00 p.m., with introductions to the group. This cabin was purchased by Roger and Carol

Fornoff specifically for retreats. Their daughter, Christy Ann, was killed in Tempe, in 1984, while

collecting money for her newspaper delivery route. Our chapter has hosted 28 retreats at the

Fornoff’s cabin in the beautiful and peaceful pines surrounding it.

The retreat cost is no charge to our families as we obtain grant funds. Meals are home-cooked

and served family style as if you were at home. Roger is a very good cook and he loves doing so.

Space is limited to a maximum of 17, so reserve your spot now. *While no charge to attend, we do

need a deposit of $25 (per person attending/cash or check, please), which will be refunded to you

after your participation that weekend.

Many of those who have attended the weekend retreats will tell you, though it is hard emotional

work, it is very beneficial and rewarding. Husbands and wives, siblings, all family members should

attend together and learn that while we each grieve differently and had our own relationship with

our loved ones, we all share the pain and the trauma of losing a loved one to murder.

Please sign me up for the grief retreat in Pine. Deposit - $25 (cash or check only)

Name:_________________________________________________________________________

Address:___________________________________City:__________State: _____Zip________

Phone: Home:____________ Cell:_____________ E-mail: ___________________________

Need to Carpool _____

Any questions, please call Beckie @ (602) 254-8818 or E-mail [email protected]

*Mail form to POMC, Valley of the Sun Chapter, 19620 North 38th Avenue, Glendale AZ 85308-2215

*Map, info on what to bring and an information questionnaire will be mailed after sign up.

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POETRY PAGE On Another's Sorrow

(by William Blake)

Can I see another's woe,

And not be in sorrow too?

Can I see another's grief,

And not seek for kind relief?

Can I see a falling tear,

And not feel my sorrow's share?

Can a father see his child weep,

Nor be with sorrow filled?

Can a mother sit and hear an infant groan,

an infant fear?

No, no! Never can it be!

Never, never can it be!

And can He who smiles on all

Hear the wren with sorrows small,

Hear the small bird's grief and care,

Hear the woes the infants bare

And not sit beside the next,

Pouring pity in their breast,

And not sit the cradle near,

Weeping tear on infant's tear?

And not sit both night and day,

Wiping all our tears away?

Oh no! Never can it be!

Never, never can it be!

He doth give his joy to all:

He becomes the infant small,

He becomes a man of woe,

He doth feel the sorrow too.

Think not thou canst sigh a sigh,

And thy Maker is not near,

Think not thou canst weep a tear,

And thy Maker is not by.

Oh, He gives to us his joy,

That our grief He may destroy:

Till our grief is fled and gone

He doth sit by us and moan.

Source: On Another's Sorrow, Famous Death Poem

http://www.familyfriendpoem/on-anothers-sorrow-by-william-blake#ixzz2rqJL8fls

Family Friend Poems

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Brett Duane Holbrook

6/16/1984 – 4/21/2002

LIFE GOES ON By Cheryl McDonald

It’s true what they say, when a child is born,

A mother’s heart is no longer her own.

It runs and skips and giggles and grins,

And crawls in her lap, for a kiss on the chin.

But where goes her heart, when that child is gone?

Five thousand, eight hundred, forty-four days, and the clock ticks;

Sixteen years; one hundred ninety-two months; take your pick.

Does the passage of time mean it should make sense?

Can loss be measured in time increments?

As I yearn for the day when I’ll again see my son,

Is it true what they say, that life goes on?

I still breathe in and out and arise every day.

And work, and struggle, and yes, even play.

Things will get better, I’ve been told many times.

But “different” is the status for those left behind.

Time can’t heal all wounds nor break all bonds.

Can it be true what they say, that life goes on?

In the air and wind, I feel your strong embrace,

And your kisses from butterflies that land on my face.

I see your smile in the beams of the sun:

The twinkle of your eyes now shines in Eden.

And I hear your laugh in the lyrics of songs;

Is it possibly true, that life goes on?

It’s strange to think that pieces of your heart still beat

Inside some strangers whom I’ll never meet.

Do they know they carry these pieces from a heart of gold?

From my sweet boy, who will never grow old?

So many lives saved by your own.

Yes, it’s true what they say, that life goes on.

Revised by Carolee Nellis Holbrook

In Loving Memory

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VALLEY OF THE SUN

BOARD OF DIRECTORS (2018)

Beckie Miller, Chapter-Leader .......... .(623) 582-2406 Don Miller, Treasurer ....................... .(623) 582-2406

Claudia Marco, Co-Leader/Secretary..(480) 290-3908

Amanda Labelle, Co-Leader................(623) 866-3189 Kathy Hernandez,................................(623) 707-6825 Tim Osolin ....................................... ...(602) 615-7096 Denise Brewer..……………………......(917) 696-2928 Sandy Navarro.....................................(480) 695-4789 Paulino Navarro...................................(602) 828-1106 Carolee Holbrook.................................(602) 300-7665 (Volunteers) Carolee Holbrook - Office Assistance Denise Brewer - Anniversary Note Writer Kathy Hernandez - Facebook Page Coordinator

CONTACT NUMBERS

SIBLING SUPPORT: Amanda (Harris) Labelle is our

chapter's Sibling Coordinator providing support for

siblings. Her contact info is 623-866-3189 or email is:

[email protected]

POMC VOICE MESSAGING)....................(602) 254-8818

Chapter E-mail.……………………. [email protected]

Chapter Fax: .................................................(623) 582-0917

CRISIS LINE/MOBILE CRISIS TEAM

Empact Crisis Line ............................ ..(480) 784-4949

OTHER HELP LINES

Teen Lifeline.......................................…...(602) 248-8336

GrandCare (Grandparents help line) .....(602) 274-5022

Crime Victims Legal Assistance Project (480) 965-5640

MCAO Victim Services.............................(602) 506-8522

Crime Victim Compensation....................(602) 506-4955

♥♥♥ THANKS FOR CARING ♥♥♥ To the Mountain View Police Precinct for donating our meeting rooms. To the Department of Public Safety (VOCA), for the grant for our newsletter, and everyone who has donated gifts of their time, talents and energy to our chapter activities. With your help, we are able to continue the outreach that is needed by our community.

Memorial Wall Order Form

Please add my loved one’s name to the “Valley of the

Sun Memorial Wall in their Memories.” Each

Nameplate is $10. Our wall is displayed at many

special events across the valley during the year.

NAME__________________________________

Age:___________ Murder date: _____________

Picture Board

___ Check here if sending picture for the picture

board & or Holiday Memorial Video (no cost).

You may email picture to [email protected]

Chapter Bracelets

Red and black with words “Always in our Hearts.” $3

each # ordered _____

Chapter Window Decals

$10 each for auto or home with our logo and chapter

information: # ordered _____

*Make all checks or money orders out to POMC

*Mail to 19620 North 38th Avenue

Glendale AZ 85308-2215

Call 602-254-8818 and leave a message if you wish

to pay by credit card. Minimum $20 order

“The Journey” Memorial Page Order Form (newsletter)

Please reserve: □ ½ page (suggested donation of $10)

□ Full pg (suggested donation of $20)

Month you wish memorial to appear in: ________________

Loved One’s Name________________________________

Age _____

Date of Death_______________

YOUR Name_____________________________________

YOUR Phone Number______________________________

YOUR E-MAIL __________________________________

A half page will hold a picture and short poem OR message,

depending on space. If a photo is included, please provide

identification of the person on the back. If you wish the photo to

be returned include a self-addressed, stamped envelope, big

enough for the picture to fit in. Unless otherwise specified,

location, size and structure of the text and picture will be at

editor’s discretion and space permitting.

**We also, if space is available, print "Survivor to Survivor"

stories if you would like to send in a one page, single spaced and

typed document. Also, if you have written poetry about your loss

or have a favorite poem to share with others. We do edit for

misspellings and or profanity. There is no charge for these

items, either poetry or shared stories.

*Return this form with your material for The Journey by the 10th

of the month preceding the issue you wish it to appear in; for

example: September 10 for October's newsletter, etc.

*A donation for the memorial page can be made by sending a

check made out to POMC and mailed in care of:

POMC

Valley of the Sun Chapter

19620 North 38th Avenue

Glendale AZ 85308-2215

Return Address PARENTS OF MURDERED CHILDREN, INC. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER

19620 North 38th Avenue Glendale AZ 85308-2215 (602) 254-8818

WHY WE ARE HERE: MISSION STATEMENT: “POMC makes the difference through ongoing emotional support, education, prevention, advocacy, and awareness.” VISION STATEMENT: “To provide support and assistance to all survivors of homicide victims while working to create a world free of murder.” This project is supported by Grant No. 2014-VA-GX-0018 from the US Department of Justice - Office for Victims of Crime. The opinions, findings, and conclusions or recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the US DOJ or the Arizona Department of Public Safety.

Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc., is a self-help organization dedicated to the aftermath of murder. The success of its mission depends upon the participation of the families and friends of those lost to murder. POMC number (602) 254-8818