parenting styles. objectives identify parenting types and styles. demonstrate the different...
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Parenting Styles
Objectives
• Identify parenting types and styles.• Demonstrate the different parenting
styles• Compare & Contrast the different
parenting styles• Explain the impact parenting styles have
on the development of children• Identify positive guidance techniques
Types of Parenting Styles
Most parents can be classified into four main types by the style in which they guide their children. As we discuss each, think about where your own parents fits most appropriately. Do each of your parents use the same style?
Authoritarian: Limits without Freedom.
Parents’ word is law, parents have absolute control.
Misconduct is punishedAffection and praise are rarely giveParents try to control children's’ behavior
and attitudesThey value unquestioned obedienceChildren are told what to do, how to do
it, and where to do it, and when to do it.
Children with Authoritarian Parents
• May be anxious, withdrawn or unhappy
• Are easily frustrated (girls give up, boys are hostile)
• Do well in school• Are not likely to engage in
antisocial behavior• May rebel or become
submissive
Permissive: Freedom without limits.
Definition:Parents allow their children to do their own
thing.Little respect for order and routine.Parents make few demands on children.Impatience is hidden.Discipline is laxParents are resources rather than standard
makersRarely punishNon controlling, non-demandingUsually warmChildren walk all over the parents
Outcome of Permissive Parenting
•Least self—reliant•Least self-controlled•Least exploratory•Most unhappy
Children from permissive homes receive so little guidance that they often become uncertain and anxious about whether they are doing the right thing.
Uninvolved/Unengaged Parents
An uninvolved parenting style is characterized by few demands, low responsiveness and little communication. While these parents fulfill the child's basic needs, they are generally detached from their child's life. In extreme cases, these parents may even reject or neglect the needs of their children
The impact on children
Uninvolved parenting styles rank lowest across all life domains.
These children tend to
•lack self-control• have low self-esteem •are less competent than their peers•may become hostile, insecure or rebellious.
Authoritative/Democratic Parenting
The authoritative parenting style is considered to be the healthiest and most balanced approach to parenting. Authoritative parents set and enforce limits, but they do so to protect their children. They also engage their children with reasoning when enforcing those limits.
Authoritative/Democratic Parents
Balance between authoritarian & permissive stylesHave a lively & happy dispositionSet and enforce limitsAllow children to learn from mistakes
Democratic: Freedom within limits.
Middle ground between the two above Stress freedom along with rights of others and
responsibilities of all Parents set limits and enforce rulesWilling to listen receptively to child’s requests
and questions.Children contribute to discussion of issues and
make some of their own decisionsExert firm control when necessary, but explain
reasoning behind it.Respect children’s interest, opinions, unique
personalities.Loving, consistent, demandingAllow children to learn from mistakesReasonable expectations and realistic
standards.
Outcomes of Democratic Style
•Happy•Mostly self-reliant•Mostly self-controlled•Content, friendly, generous•Cooperative•High-achiever’•Less likely to be seriously disruptive or delinquent
Children whose parents expect them to perform well, to fulfill commitments, and to participate actively in family duties, as well as family fun, learn how to formulate goals. They also experience the satisfaction that comes from meeting responsibilities and achieving success.Activity: Fingerprints,