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Page 1: Overcoming Impostor Syndrome: Tips to Advocate for ...€¦ · Tips to Advocate for Yourself at Work. Meet your hosts Brandy Warwas Job Seeker Experience Indeed Claire Wasserman Founder

© 2020 Indeed Inc. All Rights Reserved

Overcoming Impostor Syndrome: Tips to Advocatefor Yourself at Work

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Meet your hosts

Brandy WarwasJob Seeker Experience Indeed

Claire WassermanFounderLadies Get Paid

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+ Understand impostor syndrome

+ Combat it

+ Advocate for yourself

Learning objectives

The information presented in this webinar is provided as a courtesy, and any views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Indeed. It does not represent a forecast, prediction, or other indication of future market or economic performance, and should not be relied upon for such purposes. Indeed is not a career or legal advisor and does not guarantee job interviews or offers.

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Understand impostor syndrome

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The belief that you are not as good as you've presented yourself to be...

...and that people will find out.

Definition

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Pause for a poll:How has impostor syndrome manifested itself for you?

+ Downplay your achievements

+ Discount praise+ Crumble when you receive

negative feedback+ Dwell on mistakes+ People please+ Afraid to take risks+ Strive for perfection+ Immense pressure to prove

yourself+ Accomplishments = identity

and self-worth

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You’re in good company.

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60% of executives say impostor

syndrome negatively impacted their ability to lead confidently

Source: Harvard Business Review, 2014

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Anxiety + Depression

Missed opportunities

Burnout Waste of energy

There are serious consequences

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How to combat impostor syndrome

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Acknowledging your negative feelings is the first step to changing your perception.

Validate it

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Noting when you experience self-doubt can help you accurately observe your emotions and triggers.

Track it

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+ Find a visual+ Make a mantra

Plan for it

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+ Ice cream + Takeout+ Shopping

Reward yourself

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+ The value you create+ Process, not outcome

Shift the focus

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+ Speak up+ Share your story

Experiment in vulnerability

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Talk to a confidant who can give you perspective and help remind you of your strengths.

Find a buddy

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Keep a record of any compliments at work or positive feedback. This will help you absorb the praise in the moment, and you can look back on it when you need a reminder of your great work.

Make a brag book

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Impostor syndrome can be exacerbated in workplaces that:+ Encourage competition/

comparison+ Lack diversity and

community+ Poorly communicate

expectations

Consider your company culture

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Research the company valuesFind a company with a culture that will help you thrive.indeed.com/companies

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Watch your words

+ Could+ Should+ Must+ Have to+ Always+ Never

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Focus on the present

+ Is this thought process helping me?+ If so, how?+ If not, why+ Is there anything I can do right now?+ What’s a (realistic) plan for the future?

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I should never be late.I prefer to be on time

I should never let anyone else down.I like to help out as much as I can

I amI feel

Reframe it

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Advocate for yourself

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Articulate your wins

+ Obstacles you overcame+ Times you took initiative+ When you went above and

beyond+ Things you're proud of!

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Embrace your superpowers+ Enthusiastic+ Positive+ Leader+ Detail oriented+ Creative+ Team builder+ Empathetic+ Thoughtful

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Speak with authority

+ “I actually have a question...”+ “I just think...”+ “I'm no expert in this but...”+ “Does that make sense?”+ “This may be a stupid question, but”+ “Umm...”+ “Like...”

Try the Just Not Sorry Gmail plugin

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Stop apologizing.

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Get perspective Let go Focus

Take up space Learn

Present with confidence

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Keep working on itIt may take time to move the needle on your self-confidence, but remember it’s a practice.For more advice to help you along the way, check out Indeed’s Career Guide.indeed.com/career-advice

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Feeling like an impostor isn't necessarily a bad thing

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Time for Q&A!

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Thank you!