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OUR LITURGY

WE KEEP IN OUR PRAYERS

Those serving in the Armed Forces: :

Jonathan Viegas, Brian Roemer, David

Concepcion, Patrick Brasel, Sean Brasel, Chris

Ehlers, Donald Dikijian, Kristopher Rodgers,

Caes Waldron, Aaron Waldron, Nicholas

Cipriano, Andrew Paul, Nicholas Paul, Sam

Saracino, Joseph Mantz, Christian Thompson,

Jeffrey Hurley, Peter Miceli, Shaun Lieb,

Patricia McDonald, Hunter Mantz, Michael

Accardi, Christian Cseh, Francis Manalo.

Those who are sick and shut-in: Fr.

Bernardino Esguerra, Justin Carlomusto,

Andrew Baltazar, JFC, AMG, Albert Geraci,

Elizabeth Klix, Christina Baynes, Leslie Fagan,

Robert Scotti, Christine Clements, Helen Meyer,

Jennifer Noon, Patricia Kiley, Pauline Wittman,

Frances Szala, Brian Mayer, Roseann Lukasik,

Jeanne Patrick, Jean Marie Mikhail, Marie

Wengerter, Barbara Umstadter, Evelyn Stoveken,

Dorothy & Patti McGrath, David Cutts, Kristen

Drago, Diane Raimondi, Ted & Judy Dalley,

Anthony & Phyllis Mastropierro, Rose Della

Santi, Maria Ingrassia, Florence Cannon,

Concetta Lemmo, Jean Byrne, Julie Leo, Gloria

Stamato, Deacon Tony Martucci, John Earles, Jr,

Mervyn & Jonathan Fonseca, Tilda D’Elia,

Gailann Tromello, Luz Zalduondo, Nellie

Tomasczewski, Kathleen Matta, Mary Claire

McGregor, Rachel Manning, Joanne Kronowski,

Natalie Lucas, Connie Novozinsky, Esulina

Casale, Eva Uyar, Patrick Payton, Theresa & Otto

Schuett, Rita Clendenning, Melissa Stumpf,

Barbara Kowalski, Jeanette Rogers, David

Rose, Tom Chell, Al & Joan Mantz, Jean Bain,

Lance Hilkene, Judy Mulderig.

Those recently deceased: Charles Patrick

Gallagher

UPCOMING WEDDINGS

May 3 – Nicholas Trumper & Angelique Adamo

May 3 - Andrew Denbigh & Amanda Larkin

WORSHIP SCHEDULE

Monday, April 7

7:00 am Alex Wilson

9:00 am Ramona Comet

Tuesday, April 8

7:00 am Jack Zdenek

9:00 am Nathlie Baum

Wednesday, April 9

7:00 am John Westdyke

9:00 am Eleanore Grabowski

Thursday, April 10

7:00 am Ann Flanagan

9:00 am Dec’d of Jasolka Family

3:30pm Sacrament of Reconciliation

Friday, April 11

7:00 am Adelide Russell

9:00 am Dec’d of Interrieden Family

8:15 pm Marianna & Wojciech Jaroszonek

Saturday, April 12

9:00 am Judy Buckwald

4:00 pm People of the Parish - HF

5:30 pm Virginia Cole

6:30 pm Sacrament of Reconciliation

Sunday, April 13

8:00 am Vincenzo Pagano

9:00 am Dec’d of Goodman Family - HF

10:00 am Dec’d of Gaffney & Gilmartin

Family

11:00 am Josephine Molinaro - HF

12:00 pm Edward & Estella Bittner

1:30 pm Eugenia Matlosz & Jana

Okulowicz

5:00 pm Carla Mason

MEMORIALS THIS WEEK Sanctuary Light SML

Dec’d of D’Agostin Family

Vigil Light Blessed Mother Int. of Venturini Family

Estelle Roehm

Vigil Light Sacred Heart Dec’d of Ely-Banas Family

Vigil Light St. Joseph

Sylvester Cascio

Int. of Frances Szala

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Bread & Wine offered at all Masses

In Memory of Maria Lacirignola

Also available: Sanctuary Light at HF and

Sacred Heart.

READINGS FOR THE WEEK

Monday: St. John Baptist de la Salle –Dan

13:1-9, 15-17, 19-30, 33-62; John 8:1-11

Tuesday: Num 21:4-9; John 8:21-30

Wednesday: Dan 3:14-20, 91-92, 95

Thursday: Gen 17:3-9; John 8:51-59

Friday: St. Stanislaus – Jer 20:10-13; John

10:31-42

Saturday: Ez 37:21-28; John 11:45-56

Sunday: Mt21:1-11; Is: 50:7-7; Phil 2:6-11;

Matt 26:14-27:66

SECOND COLLECTION

This weekend the second collection at all

Masses will be the Flower Collection for both

churches for Easter. Your generosity is most

appreciated.

EUCHARISTIC ADORATION

Monday: 6:30–7:30 PM at Holy Family Chapel

Thursday: 1–5 PM at St. Mary of the Lake

“Come to Me, all you who are heavily burdened and I will give you rest.”

DIVINE MERCY HEALING MASS

Sunday, May 18 - 2 PM

Holy Family Chapel

2014 LENTEN & HOLY WEEK

LITURGIES

SM = St. Mary Church / HF = Holy Family Chapel

DAILY MASSES OF LENT (SM):

7 AM, Monday – Friday / 9 AM, Monday – Saturday

RECONCILIATION (SM):

•3:30 PM Thursdays & 6:30 PM Saturdays

•Additionally: Monday – Wednesday,

Apr 14 - 16, following 9 AM Mass

•Tuesday, Apr 15, 6:30 PM (English & Polish)

Please note: Reconciliation will not be available on Holy Thursday nor on Holy Saturday, nor Easter

Week, nor the Saturday after Easter. Reconciliation will resume after the Second Week

of Easter beginning with Thursday,

May 1 at 3:30 PM.

PASSION (PALM) SUNDAY: Regular Weekend Mass Schedule

HOLY THURSDAY, Apr 17 Morning Prayer: 9 AM, HF

Mass of the Lord’s Supper:

8 PM English HF / 8 PM Polish SM

followed by optional adoration until Midnight

GOOD FRIDAY, Apr 18 Morning Prayer: 9 AM, HF

Liturgy of the Lord’s Passion:

3 PM English HF / 8 PM Polish SM

Stations: 7 PM, English and Polish, SM

HOLY SATURDAY, Apr 19 Morning Prayer: 9 AM, HF Blessing of Easter Food:

9:30 AM HF English / 11 AM & 1 PM SM Polish

Easter Vigil: 8 PM English HF / 8 PM Polish SM

EASTER SUNDAY, Apr 20 SM – 8, 10 AM, 12 PM, & 1:30 PM (Polish)

HF – 9 & 11AM

Note: No afternoon Mass on Easter Sunday

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LENTEN JOURNEY

STATIONS OF THE CROSS Fridays of Lent (excluding Good Friday)

Following the 9 AM Mass Conducted by parishioners, all are welcome.

STATIONS OF THE CROSS

Fridays of Lent (excluding Good Friday),

Starting March 7, 5 PM

Holy Family Chapel Conducted by Deacon Vince. Following the

Stations will be the Lenten Fish Dinners (see

article below).

LENTEN ADORATION

Jesus asked HIS disciples "will you not watch

one hour with ME?" The Sorrowful Mysteries

of the Rosary and the Chaplet of Divine Mercy

will be recited during Lent at the 6:30 through

7:30 Adoration hour on Monday evenings, at

Holy Family Church in Lakewood. All are

invited and welcome.

LENTEN FISH DINNER

Fridays of Lent (excluding Good Friday)

6-8 PM

Holy Family School Cafeteria

Dinners will be served in the Cafeteria for a cost

of $13 per adult and $9 per child under 12.

Sponsored by the Knights of Columbus.

PARISH JOURNAL

SHARING OUR TREASURE

Stewardship, A Way of Life

Weekly Sacrificial Offertory

Number using envelopes 594

Total Contributions $12,520.00

Give, and it will be given to you. A good

measure, pressed down, shaken together and

running over, will be poured into your lap. For

with the measure you use, it will be measured to

you. -Luke 6:37-38

SCHEDULE OF EVENTS

Wed, April 9 St. Vincent de Paul meets at 7p in

Guild Hall.

Thurs, Apr. 10: Rosary Altar Society meets at

7p in Guild Hall

Apr. 13, Ultreya, Holy Family Cry Room, 12

noon

Mon, Apr. 28: Baptismal Preparation Class for

parents, Community Center, 7p

Thurs, May 1: CDA meets at 7 p in Guild Hall.

Sun, May 18: Divine Mercy Healing Mass at 2p

in Holy Family Chapel

SPRING PARISH MINISTRY FAIR

THIS WEEKEND, APRIL 5/6 AT HFC

Our Fall Parish Ministry Fair was a great

success with many people stopping by and

learning about the ministries of our parish and

many volunteering. In the fall, we had the fair

in Guild Hall by St. Mary Church. This

weekend we will hold the fair in the Parish

Community Center by Holy Family Chapel

after the 4 PM, 9 AM, & 11 AM Masses.

CONTRIBUTION STATEMENTS Statement for 2013 donations are now available.

If you would like your statement, please send a

stamped, self-addressed envelope to the rectory.

Please print your name, address and your

envelope # (4 or 5 digits) on the envelope.

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ANNUAL CATHOLIC APPEAL

Each year the Bishop seeks the support of all of

the members of the diocese to further the work

of our ministries. Each of us has a vital part in

all we do in Christ’s name, and each of us can

share in all we do with a gift to the Annual

Catholic Appeal. Our single Act of Faith

propels the works of love that build up our

Church. You make that happen with a generous.

I ask you to take a moment and truly reflect on

any help you can give. We truly need everyone

to participate. This year we again are striving to

reach our parish goal of $115,000. We have

reach 54% of our goal with $61,546.70 pledged.

I am always grateful and moved by the level of

support you give to our parish. I thank you for

this support, and may God continue to bless you

and your family.

To participate in the Appeal, please respond to

the mailings you have received from the diocese

or give online. There are pledge cards and info

available at the doors of the churches. Pledges

and contributions can also be put in the Sunday

collection. ~ Fr. Mike

HOLY FAMILY SCHOOL

VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

1…, 2…, 3… strikes and

you're… IN!... for our Blue

Claws volunteer night.

We need you (must be 18 or

older) to help distribute food at the concession

stands of the home of the Lakewood Blue

Claws. Doing so provides a donation from the

Blue Claws organization to the school.

Our scheduled night for serving is

Wednesday, April 16 at 6:30 PM. Please

consider serving your community and helping

Holy Family School raise funds for continued

education.

EASTER EGG HUNT sponsored by Holy Family School

Join us for good family fun

Sunday, April 13

12 noon

Grounds of Holy Family School (in case of bad weather, please gather in the gym)

Bring your own basket! All ages welcome!

There will be prizes, games and crafts. Coffee

and refreshments will be served.

SPRING CLOTHING DRIVE

THIS SUNDAY, APRIL 6 from 8 AM -1 PM both churches

All clothing is used in the U.S. and goes to

families in need.

TRIPLE CHOICE RAFFLE All families should have received their raffle

tickets by now. They are $3 each with 10 tickets

per book for a total of $30. Drawing is May 1!

1st prize: $6,000 visa gift card

2nd prize: $3,00 visa gift card

3rd prize: $1,000 visa gift card

Additional books are available at the rectory or

Holy Family School.

HFS ANNUAL SNEAKER STRUT Wednesday, May 7th

Think of sponsoring a student for this great

walk-a-thon at HFS! Look for more info about

this great fun event really soon!

BLUE CLAWS PARTY FUNDRAISER June 2, 7 PM

Please save the date for our big game day. This

is sure to be a home run as we watch from the

party deck, exclusively reserved for St. Mary of

the Lake and Holy Family School. As you enjoy

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all the food you can eat, you will listen to the

sweet harmonies of our combined choirs

singing our National Anthem. Ticket packages

will be available and reserved seating a must for

this clawsome event with the Lakewood Blue

Claws.

Tickets for this game will be sold at the rectory.

Any questions, call Cori at 732 363-0139.

Tickets are $10 general admission OR $25 for

general admission as well as all you can eat

from 6:30 PM to the 7th inning stretch. Enjoy

hamburgers, hot dogs, fries, etc. and all the non-

alcoholic drinks you’d like. Both tickets include

seating and access to our private party deck

reserved ONLY for St. Mary of the Lake/Holy

Family. There will also be a 50/50.

Let’s get this party started!

Tickets are limited.

For further details, to volunteer, to purchase

tickets or any questions, please call Cori at 732-

363-0139, ext 411. Thanks for your continued

support.

SCHOOL LITURGIES

Apr. 6, 9 AM – HFS & PREP 2nd grades at

Mass & Banner Retreat

Apr. 16, 1 PM – 3rd Wednesday Spanish

Mass

PARISH COMMUNITIES

LENTEN FOOD DRIVE

THIS WEEKEND – APRIL 5/6 The Catholic Daughters of ct. St. Mary of the

Lake, # 310, are running their annual Lenten

food drive. Please help them to feed the hungry

this Lent. Add a extra can or two in your

weekly shopping cart. No glass please! Please

use the list of alphabetical names for suggestion

of needed items based on Family Last Names:

ABC - Canned fruit/vegetables

DEF - Rice/pasta GHI - Canned meat

JKL - Peanut butter MNO – Dried Milk

PQR - Coffee, tea, juice STU - Canned soup

VWX – Cereal YZ - Tuna Fish

ROSARY ALTAR SOCIETY The Rosary Altar Society needs your assistance

in maintaining the sanctuary and altar linens for

St. Mary of the Lake. We presently have several

persons with health issues and need your help.

We pair you with an experienced partner. The

duty roster for each team is once every 5-6

weeks. Please leave your name and phone

number with the rectory office, 732 363-0139,

or visit us at the ministry fair on Saturday and

Sunday April 5 & 6 after the Masses at Holy

Family Church.

ADULT ALTAR SERVERS Adult altar servers are needed for funeral

Masses. We will train you and rotate the teams

of two persons. It would require about 1½ hours

of your time when you serve. Please call Natalie

at 732 364-4284 if you have questions or wish

to become part of this ministry.

RESPECT LIFE MINISTRY

VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

Birthright is seeking volunteers for its Toms

River office. Training is provided with a

commitment to a 3 or 4 hour shift once a week.

Birthright upholds that every pregnant woman

has the right to whatever help is needed to bring

her child to term and plan constructively for

their future. Volunteering at Birthright is a great

way to witness to the importance of every

person by offering women in distress practical

assistance and encouragement without

judgment. Please call the Toms River office at

732 349-0154 or visit www.birthright.org.

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FAITH ENRICHMENT

CATHOLIC WOMEN OF ZION

DAY OF RECOLLECTION Saturday, Apr 12, 9:00 AM - 1:00 PM

Holy Family School, Lakewood

Mass at 8:30 AM Catholic Women of Zion is a ministry of

healing of mind, soul, and body inspired by the

Holy Spirit to meet the needs of today’s

Catholic women. Join these “Morning Retreats”

which meet every other month on a Saturday to

hear talks by guest speakers, pray, and to share

our faith. Fee of $20 includes lunch.

This month’s speaker is Dr. J. Dennis Cadigan,

who lives and works in Ocean County since

graduating from Penn State University with a

PhD in Clinical Psychology. Dr. Cadigan

invites us to join him as he shares on the topic: “God’s Call to Holiness.”

Please register by Tues, Apr 8 by calling St.

Mary of the Lake Church at 732-363-0139 x777

and leaving a message. Please spell your last

name and leave a phone number.

LOCAL EVENTS

WORKSHOP Caregiving Workshop: Care for the Caregiver

Caregivers of aging parents, spouse and child

with Disabilities and those who support them

will meet at Joan of Arc Parish, 100 Willow

Bend Road, Marlton on Saturday, April 26 from

1 – 3:30 PM.

A panel of experienced caregivers, a nurse,

psychologist and hospital chaplain will share

ways to help you. Your input is valuable.

Registration fee of $15 covers a book, handouts

and refreshments. For more information

contact: Janis Bell, Coordinator for Maturing

Adults, Department of Pastoral Care at 609 403-

7194. Register by mail or online:

dioceseoftrenton.org/caregivingworkshop

CANONIZATION PILGRIMAGE April 22 – May 2, 2014

On April 27, Popes John XXIII and John Paul II

will be canonized. A pilgrimage to the

ceremony in St. Peter’s Square will be led by

Fr. Leandro Dela Cruz (St. Mary’s, Medford)

and Dcn. Vince Ricciardi (Assumption, New

Egypt) including: round trip Newark/Milan via

United Airlines; 9 nights at 4 star hotels; 1 night

Venice; 2 nights Florence; 3 nights Rome; 2

nights Perugia; 1 night Milan. Cost is $3,495

per person in a double occupancy (single

occupancy on request). For details, call

Michelangelo Tours, 877-267-2307.

MEMORIAL CONCERT Sunday, April 27, 3 PM

United Methodist Church, Lakewood

Richard J. Allen Memorial Concert to benefit

Interfaith Hospitality Network of Ocean County

featuring the Billy Lawlor Quintet. Tickets: $15

and available at door & through IHNOC office

HARBOR HOUSE The 2014 Harbor House 400 Ride for New

Beginnings Registration is open. This is a 400

mile charity bicycle ride July 9 through July 13

with a 3 day option. Anyone interested in

participating as a rider or support team member

can contact Tom Large at

thomas.large@sprint.com or 732-470-6892. All

proceeds from the ride support the runaway,

abused and/or homeless children of Ocean and

Monmouth Counties at Harbor House.

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DUSZPASTERSTWO POLSKIE

Duszpasterz: Ks. Marian Kokorzycki Tel. 732- 363-0139, ext. 421 Cell. 484-368-4636

6 kwiecień 2014–piąta Niedziela Wielkiego Postu , V Tydzień Wielkiego Postu

Rekolekcje Wielkopostne – 11, 12 i 13 kwietnia 2014

Łazarzu, wyjdź z grobu Czasami się zastanawiam czy i ja nie jestem jak Łazarz, od wielu dni, a może

miesięcy czy nawet lat będący już w grobie, cuchnący i martwy? Czy nie przywaliłem swego grobu wielkim

kamieniem obojętności i ironii, drwiny i cwaniactwa? A może do mnie odnoszą się też słowa Jezusa: "Jeżeli

ktoś chodzi za dnia, nie potknie się, bo widzi światło ... Jeżeli jednak ktoś chodzi w nocy, potknie się, bo brak

mu światła." A ja, czy chodzę za dnia, czy raczej wolę noc i ciemność? "Łazarzu, wyjdź z grobu!" - człowieku

obudź się! Chodź w światłości dnia, a nie potkniesz się! Nie kombinuj i nie oszukuj samego siebie, bo może ci

się tylko wydaje, ze jesteś żyjący i że dobrze się masz, a w rzeczywistości jesteś już trupem błąkającym się po

bezdrożach i manowcach świata zmarłych. Może samego siebie i innych próbujesz tylko łudzić i mamić

pozorami i maskami życia i dobrobytu, a w rzeczywistości jesteś tylko marionetką pociąganą za sznureczki

swoich przyzwyczajeń, nałogów, grzechów i drobnych układzików? "Łazarzu, do ciebie mówię wyjdź z grobu

i ożyj !!!!!"? Przejrzyj na oczy i zobacz światło dnia, nie daj się mamić ułudom bogactwa, doczesnych uciech

i przemijających sukcesów. To wszystko jest tylko złudzeniem, które prędzej czy później mija i pryska, jak

bańka mydlana. Wydaje ci się, że żyjesz, wydaje ci się, że powodzi ci się dobrze i, że możesz być z siebie

zadowolony. Ale czy na pewno żyjesz? A może jednak jesteś w grobie i trzeba abyś usłyszał głos Chrystusa

wołającego z mocą: "Łazarzu ! wyjdź z grobu !" Panie Jezu Chryste , Ty jesteś Panem życia i śmierci.

Nie pozwól mi abym był żywym trupem, ....

Intencje Mszy Świętej:

6 kwiecień – o błogosławieństwo Boże dla Daniel Kłosowski- intencja rodziców / o błogosławieństwo Boże dla Lucjana i laury oraz Lucjanka, intencja Babci - -1:30 pm

11 kwiecień- piątek - w kościele Holy Family, Droga Krzyżowa wraz ze Szkołą Polską o godzinie -7:30 pm - sakrament pojednania -spowiedź tego dnia od godziny 7:30 pm / intencje mszy świętej-ś.p. Marianna i Wojciech Jaroszonek, intencja córki Barbary - -8:00 pm 12 kwietnia – sobota - w kościele Saint Mary, - po mszy świętej błogosławieństwo Najświętszym Sakramentem (każdej osoby) oraz udzielanie sakramentu chorych, możliwość spowiedzi, intencje mszy świętej - ś.p. Eugienia Matlosz-intencja Farrugia ś.p. Jan Okułowicz-intencja córki Barbary - -7:30 pm 13 kwietnia - Niedziela Palmowa- ś.p.Władysław Targoński-intencja rodziny ś.p. Jerzy Tarnowski-intencja dzieci / ś.p. Jan Ciesielski-intencja żony i dzieci- -1:30 pm

..... Rekolekcje Wiekopostne prowadzi ks. prałat dr. Jerzy Karbownik-kusztosz Sanktuarium Matki Bożej Ostrobramskiej w Skarżysku-Kamiennej – ks Jerzy obecnie cały okres wielkiego postu prowadzi rekolekcje w Kanadzie i Stanach Ziednoczonych.

4 maja I Komunia św. w naszej parafii. Prosimy wszystkich parafian o modlitwę w intencji 14 dzieci przygotowujących się do przyjęcia tego sakramentu na polskiej mszy. / 27 kwietnia w dzień kanonizacji Jana Pawła II mszę św. o 1.30 pm rozpoczniemy krótkim programem przygotowanym przez dzieci z polskiej szkoły. W tym dniu będziemy wspominac I rocznicę dzieci, które w ubiegłym roku przystąpiły pierwszy raz do Stołu Pańskiego.

.-Triduum Paschalne –Wielki Tydzień –Wielki Czwartek 17 kwietnia –Msza Wieczerzy Pańskiej – 8:00 pm,

...Wielki Piątek 18 kwietnia – Droga Krzyżowa (bilingual-polish-english) o godzinie 7:00 pm ...Liturgia Wielkiego Piątku – 8:00 pm,...Wielka Sobota – święcenie pokarmów – w kościele Saint Mary o godzinie 9:00 am, -

o godzinie 11:00 am i o godzinie 1:00 pm (możliwość spowiedzi w Wielką Sobotę w godzinach 9:00 am - 1:00 pm) - Liturgai Wielkiej Soboty – począek - 7:30 pm. .....Niedziela Zmartwychwstania Pańskiego- Adoracja

Najświętszego Sakramentu – początek o godzinie 4:30 am – procesja i początek REZUREKCJI - 5:45 am, druga msza święta w niedzielę Zmartwychwstania Pańskiego o godzinie 1:30 pm, - poniedziałek wielkanocny msza święta o godzinie 7:30 pm. ……rozpoczęliśmy przygotowania do koronacji Ikony Matki Bożej Częstochowskiej – Naszej Matki – Matki Imigrantów w 2014 - w 125 rocznicę naszej parfii jako wotum dziekczynienia nasza polska wspólnota wykona oprawę stacji Drogi Krzyżowej, prosimy o modlitwę. ... dziękuję Wszystkim Naszym Rodakom dobrej woli za zaangażowanie się w polskim duszpasterstwie – w naszej polskiej szkole w Lakewood – w polskich organizacjach - niech Wam Bóg błogosławi - ks. Marian

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