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  • 7/30/2019 OH! March - Leg Reading

    1/444 | MARCH / APRIL 2012 OH!

    Th t scc of

    How someonesits or stands canindicate whether

    youre welcomed orjust tolerated.

    B y DR L w C H S ng

    legreading44 | MARCH / APRIL 2012 OH!

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    HOw sOmeOnes legs are positioed

    he sitti ad stadi ca tell

    us much their persoalities ad

    attitudes. As ith most aspects of bod

    lauae, observatio of le positios

    ill be able to let ou obtai a lot more

    iformatio tha simpl talki to thatperso.

    This is especiall useful i Asia

    culture, here people ted to ear

    masks he deali ith others.

    For istace, if ou ask our fried

    hat he thouht of the cake ou had

    baked, he ould most probabl utter a

    complimet to please ou.

    To uderstad his true feelis, ou

    should observe the positio of his les

    as he sas those ords. As to hat

    he miht have actuall meat, the

    explaatios belo ould ive ou a

    better idea of the actual messae.

    Confdent legsTo better aue a persos opeess

    or level of codece i a situatio,it ould be easier to observe their les

    he there i a sitti positio. Do

    ote that for a oma eari a skirt,

    the les ill be ol slihtl apart due

    to modest.

    Most importatl, les kept toether

    ad closed at the kees idicate

    opeess plus a sese of self-

    assuredess. Frakess ad hoestca be demostrated he a perso

    has both feet o the roud ad

    poiti toard the other perso.

    Les crossed displa codece ad

    self-assuredess for both me ad

    ome, but ol if oe kee is crossed

    directl over the other.

    whe perso is feeli eutral toardsa situatio, the have o crossed les

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    TH ART F S C InC F L g RADIng

    hich meas eative or closed opiios hile

    their feet ot be poiti toards ahere iparticular. This positio ehaces the codece

    level of a perso.

    This esture shos a sese of self-assuredess.

    Further, the locki of their crossed le positio

    usi oe had idicates a clear si of a stubbor

    or touh-mided idividual ho is closed to a

    other opiio but their o.

    Dominant legsThis esture impliesobod ill move me from

    here because I have m

    feet ell positioed o the

    roud

    A domiat perso ould

    stretch out his les or crossed

    i frot of someoe. This

    bulli behaviour shos theperso has a stro ill ad

    appears to be self-cetred i

    order to be oticed.

    If ou ecouter such a perso, tr ot to

    arue ith him. Usi a persuasive method

    is more effective tha reasoi ith him.

    He miht ot liste to ou therefore,

    reasoi ith him or eve correcti his

    errors must be doe carefull.

    Lone legs I dot care ho ou perceive me. what

    matters is that I feel comfortable.

    whe riti books at home, I love to sit

    ith oe le uder the other. I love this

    stle because I feel comfortable ad Iam ot cocered about ho ad

    hat others thik of me the.

    Hoever, m mother complais

    of this improper sitti positio.

    wh? A pscholoist or bod

    lauae specialist ma iterpret

    this esture as someoe bei

    aturall idepedet, free-

    spirited, ad iformal.

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    whe commuicati ith someoe ith loe

    les, ou do ot eed to be

    too serious. Flexibilit ad

    iformal discussios bri

    reater results tha the formal

    discussios.

    Inclusive andexclusive legsFrom le positio observatios,

    e ca quickl determie if e

    are icluded or excluded i a

    coversatio. For example, he

    oure at a semiar or a part, ou

    ca determie if ou are elcome

    or simpl tolerated b observiother peoples les.

    If their feet sta i place ad the tist ol their

    upper torsos i our directio,

    the dot reall at ou to joi

    i the coversatio. Hoever, if

    their feet ope up to iclude ou,

    ou ko that ou are elcometo joi the coversatio. Also, the

    foot earest ou ill tur slihtl

    i our directio.

    The to us o the riht are

    ithi the coversi roup

    because their les are faci

    each other. The u o the left is

    excluded from the coversatio

    because his les do ot facethe speaker.

    From leg

    position

    observations,

    we can quickly

    determine iF we

    are included or

    excluded in any

    conversation.