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Winter 2011
Meet Baz’s new
baby girlEating Out with the kids
MADE IN INDIA:a WA woman’s journey through surrogacy
MELANIE HEARSE JOURNALIST and mother of seven and four year old boys, has worked on a range of local and national publications, focusing on parenting, health and lifestyle articles. She worked for 10 years in the public health sector before deciding to follow her passion to be a writer when her first son Max was born.
GARY AUSBRUCH, ACCOUNTANT is financial controller for a Perth-based mining company. When not busy controlling the finances, he has had columns published on the challenging subject of the lighter side of accountancy, and has written for SBS TV. He has two young children, Ella and Sebastian.
BROOKE EVANS BUTLER, JOURNALIST has written for home improvement, bridal and women’s lifestyle publications, but says Offspring enables her to combine writing with her new favourite hobby, being a mum to her beautiful baby boy, Caleb.
HEATHER ZUBEK, WRITER/TEACHER has worked in schools and the corporate arena in both Perth and Brisbane. Now a mother of two teenage boys, Heather works from home as a freelance writer for a variety of state and national publications. Heather loves discovering and writing about all things books, boys and family.
LISA FERNANDEZ, RADIO ANNOUNCER is a Perth girl who is currently doing the breakfast show on 92.9 FM with Basil Zempilas and Sam Mac. As a mother, Lisa wants to “nurture, encourage, teach, inspire and give my love unconditionally... because the reward is so incredibly great”.
CLAIRE ARMSTRONG, JOURNALISTa journalist of five years and a mother of two. “I love a challenge, journalism provides me with a mental challenge and motherhood has the ability to challenge every aspect of my being, and I wouldn’t have life any other way.”
ARI O’CONNELL, COLUMNISThas had work published in Australia, Japan and England, and is currently completing her first novel as part of a PhD project. Ari has recently given birth to her first child, Gabriel.
DEVON PLUMLEY, MIDWIFE believes her work is most satisfying when she can empower a woman and her partner to birth their baby naturally; and the new little human being thanks his mummy with a squeal!
JENNIFER BLACK, TRAVEL WRITER was an Award Winning Travel Manager for Flight Centre and Harvey World Travel for 10 years. After years of personal travel experiences and now with two young boys in tow, Jennifer writes about ‘Family’ Travel - where to go and how to get there with minimum stress!
The Contributors
KATE BULLEN, DIETITIAN is co-founder of www.doyoueat.com.au and mum to two young children. Kate loves chocolate and pizza – usually eaten separately! Her passion lies in making healthy eating simpler for everyone, and you will often hear Kate saying that food should be enjoyed!
MIYA MAEDA, ARTIST/BLOGGERearned a BA in Fine Art and worked in the visual arts industry for over 10 years. Miya is the creator of the kids craft blog: jellyfishjelly.com She currently cares for her young family by day and writes for her blog by night.
JOHANNA GARNETT, FOOD & NUTRITION is the owner of JVG Events and created Yum In My Tum, which is the only food festival dedicated to children in Australia. Yum In My Tum is devoted to educating children on growing, cooking and tasting food.
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ISSUE 6 WINTER 2011Offspring magazine is produced and published by Family Life Publications ABN: 55 398 258 346 PO Box 724 Claremont 6910
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Contributing writersLisa Fernandez, Kate Durack, Ari O’Connell, Gary Ausbruch, Claire Armstrong, Melanie Hearse, Ngala Parenting Team, Helen Davey, Alana Blacka, Miya Maeda, Vishal Maharaj, Rhiann Allen, Leah Hansen, Kate Bullen, Johanna Garnett, Jennifer Black.
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After recently reading about
the 2011 Federal Budget I am
concerned that further Government
efforts to make everybody employed
are not always in the best interests of
the family. The recent move to cease
welfare payments for single mothers
unless they return to work or school
before their child turns one, as well as
the shift to reduce or cease payments
for families where there is a stay at
home parent, seems to be yet another
scheme to get everyone working.
Once upon a time the family came
first, now it seems it’s our economy,
and to get everyone back on the
employment treadmill – young, old,
male, female, mothers – as quickly
as possible, regardless of what sort
of unpaid ‘work’ with the family
they’re already doing. I wonder what
is becoming of the Australian social
fabric when economic stimulus seems
to be favoured over family welfare.
It seems to me all the financial
incentives to use childcare, coupled
with increasing the early childhood
education hours, is to encourage both
parents to work. (When I was a child I
went to Pre Primary for a couple of half
days only; now Pre Primary is full time
and from next year Kindy will be three
full days per week.) And why? Is it really
to offer our children great education and
learning opportunities? Or, is it so both
parents can return to work as quickly
as possible? I suspect the latter. The
value of parenting seems to have taken
a backseat to an obsession with driving
our economy forward.
If women want to return to the
workforce and opt to use childcare
because that’s where they’d rather
be that’s fine because it’s her and
her family’s choice. I am a working
mother because I enjoy the sort of
stimulation offered by non-domestic
work (and we can’t survive on a single
income!), and many mothers do, but,
that is far different than women being
forced to go back to work when their
children are very young.
Many women are already torn
between having to work and staying
at home with their children because
it’s not financially viable to be a stay-
at-home mum.
I also believe there is a lot of
pressure on mothers to return to work
quickly after having children because
there is a common view that mothering
is not a credible job. I know I personally
heard all too often: “So when are you
going back to work?” or “Have you put
your child in day care yet?” or better
still, “So, what have you been doing?”
As if I was on “time out” and somehow
being a stay at home mother wasn’t
enough. And I thought parenting was
the most important job in the world!
I say bring back the opportunity
to be a stay at home parent, certainly
don’t penalise people who want to be
at home with their children. In fact, I
go a step further and say women (or
either parent) should be paid if they
choose to stay at home with their
children; and effectively receive proper
recognition of the good “work” they do.
These parents are not doing the
wrong thing and our Government
should be the first to recognise this,
and certainly not be pushing mothers of
young children back to work.
Happy parenting – it’s the best job
in the world!
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4 The ConTribuTors
5 ediTor’s noTe
10 LeTTers To The ediTor
Feature articles12 AnnounCing AvA
Channel 7 news reporter and 92.9FM breakfast
show host, Basil Zempilas, shares his joy of
becoming a father
16 MAde in indiA: The journey
Through surrogACy
One West Australian woman’s journey through
surrogacy takes her to India
22 off the Air with Lisa Fernandez – The dog whisperer
92.9FM’s breakfast show host is rehabilitated by
Cesar Milan 24 Winter fashion favourites
Keeping kids cool in the cold months
28 Funny Mummy’s business – bedtime stories
Ari O’Connell discusses baby’s night time antics
30 Product reviews Indulge in a pregnancy massage at Yummy
Mummy; and find out about a high chair that
grows with your child
32 dad’s word
Gary Ausbruch’s day in the life of Mr Mum
34 dining out in Perth – with the Kids Melanie Hearse searches for Perth’s most
family-friendly restaurants
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44 internet featureOur selection of websites offering gorgeous products
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Primary Years58 If the school fits
Claire Armstrong identifies the different approaches to
schooling in Western Australia
66 The bullying issueIs your child a victim of bullying? How to identify the
warning signs
68 our darlingsGorgeous photos of Offspring readers’ children
Health 70 Losing baby weight
Why losing weight after having a baby isn’t as simple
as it seems
72 revive for OffspringNurse Practitioner Leah Hansen offers health care
advice to readers
Food and Nutrition 74 Fussy pants
Practical ideas to put an end to hearing
‘I don’t like this’ at dinner time
77 Winter warmersA tempting recipe for the perfect Tomato Soup
79 The great outdoors – kids love it! Our guide to camping with families
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Thanks for sharing your editor letter in the latest Offspring mag. In my own search for an answer I started an article on making the decision to have another baby.
It is hard when the desire for another baby is there and each month there is disappointment. I have been in a quandary about whether to have another baby yet feel the disappointment each month when I know I’m not.
I always thought I wanted three or four children. I have two and last year I had a miscarriage, which seems to be such a taboo subject to talk about. It makes people very uncomfortable yet everyday I think about it. Now as I acknowledge the first anniversary of that loss, I finally have stopped calculating how old that baby would be if the pregnancy had continued.
In deciding to have another baby I worry about my age (37), the risks to the baby and, even more so, my energy levels and how I would cope with more on my plate. I’m not sure I’m doing such a great job with the two
children I have. Money concerns come into
play as I have returned to part-time work and that would have to stop for a period. My mum is also not keen on the idea (everyone has an opinion) and the support (including childminding) could be compromised.
I’m also very scared of another miscarriage. Then I think perhaps I should just be thankful for the two healthy children I have, particularly hearing stories such as the one about Aurora (it also made me stop and feel the love in my heart for my two). Maybe it would be greedy and I’d be tempting fate.
However, none of the rationale defies my desire to nurture another baby, for my children to have another sibling and to grow our lovely family. I guess with all my searching for the ‘right’ answer I have discovered that for me to be at peace with whatever decision I make the answer has to come from me and what is right for our family.
As far as an age gap, there are
six years between my daughter and son. It has been great as each has had their time to be ‘the baby’ and my daughter is an amazing help with the maturity to understand the demands of a baby.
So Kate, I wanted to wish you all the best and hope for your baby dreams to be realised in the near future.
NAME WITHHELD, PERTH
Quest for a baby
In deciding to have another baby I
worry about my age (37), the risks to my baby and…my energy levels and how I would cope with more
on my plate.
We want to hear from you! If you would like to express your opinion in response to an article or feature in this edition of Offspring please write to The Editor, PO Box 724 Claremont 6910 or email [email protected] Subject: Letter to the Editor. You can stay anonymous if you wish.
Letters to the editor
Exotic birthing talesHi just finished reading your Autumn
edition and had a huge laugh with my husband about the article on cultural births!
It was so fascinating, and I especially laughed hard about the Mexican women who get to tie a rope around their husbands’ testicles and pull it each time they feel a contraction!! I love that! Hubby didn’t laugh as hard as I did :)
I also wish I knew about the Maori’s
idea of reading out a list of baby names and picking whichever one the baby sneezes at. That could have come in handy for us as we struggled to choose a name for our 15 month old boy!
Anyway, this is the first time I read your magazine from cover to cover – was given a copy at Gymbaroo – and love it. Really well designed (I am a journo and sub myself) and the articles are great. You do an awesome job.
REBECCA WALLIS, HERNE HILL
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By Melanie Hearse
Popular Perth media personality, Basil Zempilas, and wife Amy have embraced parenthood taking in their stride the changes that come with having a newborn.
announcingAva
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By Melanie HearseHotel in Mt Lawley. “We were
introduced by mutual friends and
immediately found the conversation
easy. We kept in touch and slowly from
a firm friendship our relationship
developed. It was a very exciting time
for both of us,” Amy says.
A couple of years into their
relationship, Amy decided she was
keen to explore other career options.
She was accepted into Emirates
Airlines and promptly moved to Dubai
where she was based for four years.
“We kept in touch and maintained
a good friendship. I suppose you could
say we went our separate ways for a
time but I think that time spent apart
made us much stronger when we
reunited,” she says.
A finalist in Cleo’s Bachelor
of the Year and currently
the weeknight sports
presenter on Seven News, AFL
commentator for Melbourne radio
station SEN and co-host of the “Lisa,
Baz & Sam” show on Perth’s 92.9FM,
Basil Zempilas is a man unfazed by a
busy schedule. His wife Amy, a former
mining industry PA and international
flight attendant is also used to a
demanding schedule but is just as
ready to settle into her new life as
parent to nine week old daughter, Ava.
Basil and Amy both grew up in
Perth, with Basil attending Floreat Park
Primary School and Hale School. He
graduated from Murdoch University in
1992 with a degree in English Literature
and Mass Communications, and took
up a cadetship as a sports reporter with
Seven News. Basil was also a member
of the West Perth Football Club, playing
five seasons before retiring to focus
on his media career. Amy attended
primary school across several states
of Australia before completing her
secondary education in London.
Zempilas has had a successful
and fulfilling career. In 1996 he was
promoted to weekend sports anchor
on Seven News, and then to weeknights
in 2001. During this time, he also
hosted a locally-produced football
show, Basil’s Footy Show and is now the
regular studio anchor for Channel 7’s
Telethon. Basil has also been involved
in the coverage of five Olympic Games
with the Seven Network.
Basil and Amy met at the Queens
“I think Ava is very lucky to have Amy as a mum and I think in many ways I love her even more now seeing how good she is with our little girl.”
On the 6th September 2009, Amy and
Basil married in Kastellorizo, Greece.
“When I came back from Dubai, I
knew I was ready to move to the next
phase of my life and begin thinking
about starting a family,” she says.
“When Basil and I started spending
time together again, we both realised
we were in the same place, we had a
lot in common and it just felt right.
We had grown up with similar family
values and beliefs,” Amy explains.
Both intend for Ava to grow up
knowing about her Greek heritage and
plan to take her to visit her Greece
based family whenever time allows.
Amy’s pregnancy with Ava was
a welcome surprise to both of
them, and after the excitement of
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hands-on dad, I’d spend every day
with Ava if I could but I know Amy’s
going to do a wonderful job with her
when I’m not around because of work
commitments. Amy and I share similar
values which makes me confident
that Ava will be getting the same
qualities instilled in her, regardless of
whether it’s Mum or Dad delivering
the message,” he added.
As for their dreams for Ava, they
share the hope that she will grow up
to be a happy and confident girl who
feels encouraged and supported to
chase whatever her passion may turn
out to be.
“Basil and I are lucky people, we
genuinely enjoy what we do, and we
want that for Ava, for her to enjoy
and find success with whatever she
decides to do,” says Amy.
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kids to work hard and achieve great PH
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things, and while we do hope she’ll
be successful, we really want her to
enjoy life and have fun with it. It is
more important to enjoy every day of
the journey rather than be locked in
by goals and the sole aim of being top
of the game.”
Basil commented that the whole
experience from marriage to
pregnancy and now sharing a new
baby has been very positive. “Amy
thrived during her pregnancy and
even more so now as a new mum.
I’ve been very proud of the way
she has adapted and embraced the
changes. She’s a wonderful mum; I
think this is what she was destined
to do, be the best mum she can be.
She’s doing a great job, I think Ava is
very lucky to have her as a mum and
I think in many ways I love her even
more now, seeing how good she is
with our little girl.”
discovering they were expecting while
away on holidays, Amy settled in to a
straight-forward pregnancy, save the
initial 12 weeks of rolling nausea. At
one week overdue, Amy was induced.
“I walked into the labour ward
feeling slightly apprehensive – we
had done the classes and we knew
the basics, but it’s not the kind of
experience you can fully prepare
for so I will admit to a few nerves,”
shares Amy. “A huge positive was
our fantastic health care team; my
obstetrician was very accommodating
and happily talked me through every
stage and made me feel supported
and confident,” she says.
A close relationship with both their
families has helped Basil and Amy
in their new incarnation as parents.
“We’ve been very blessed to have both
sets of parents nearby to help out,
with someone dropping food in every
couple of days, or coming over for a
visit, just generally to be around and
let us know how much support we
have with raising Ava,” says Amy.
Amy and Basil, in part, credit their
smooth transition into parenthood to
receiving dire warnings in the lead-up
to Ava’s birth.
“It’s funny how many people had
painted a picture of no sleep and no
time for anything else once she arrived,”
Amy says. “But our reality has been a
very pleasant experience. We’re blessed;
she’s been a wonderful little girl, a real
delight.” The couple acknowledge it is
still early days, “but so far so good, we
really are enjoying every minute of being
parents and the new challenges each
day brings,” Amy says.
When it comes to parenting styles,
they agree Basil is likely to be the
firmer of the two, though both are
certain they want to instil the same
values in their child.
“I think we will be pretty similar
parents, though I probably will be
stricter – especially when she gets a
bit older and the phone starts ringing!”
says Basil. “I’d like to think I’m a very
“There is a lot of pressure on kids to work hard and achieve great things, and while we do want that for her, we really want her to enjoy life and have fun with it – it is more important to enjoy the journey than to slog away with the sole aim of being top of the game.”
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Nardia and Cameron’s journey into surrogacy
began when Nardia was diagnosed with
cervical cancer after a routine pap smear at
only 29 years of age. Only weeks after returning from her
romantic honeymoon, Nardia dropped into her GP’s office
to talk about getting her body prepared for pregnancy.
Her GP suggested that it would be a good idea to do a pap
smear in case she fell pregnant quickly. The results would
mark the start of a whole new pathway in the newlyweds’
life plan – Nardia had cervical cancer and needed a
hysterectomy, meaning they would not be starting the
family they had planned.
“A panel of doctors discussed my case, and I was told
that a hysterectomy was the only way forward,” she
shares. “As you can imagine, that kind of information hits
you in the face like a brick wall - a 29 year old woman
planning to have children suddenly facing the fact that
pregnancy was never going to happen. I was told that
keeping my ovaries carried a 5% risk of the cancer coming
back, but I decided that it was a small enough risk and
I didn’t want to make decisions about my fertility that
couldn’t be undone, so I decided to keep them. It sounds
all very rational and well thought out now, but at the time
it was about grabbing at options so that I could think about
it later when everything slowed down.”
The decision turned out to be an important one – while
Nardia and her doctors are reasonably confident the
cancer has been successfully treated, keeping her ovaries
meant that the option of surrogacy was still open. While
the option was theoretically open, it was only the first step
on a very long and difficult road.
Surrogacy in Australia is far from straight forward.
Melanie Hearse talks to one Western Australian woman whose health ordeal prevented her from carrying her own child, but led to complicated but inspirational path through surrogacy.
Made in India
There are restrictive requirements that surrogate mothers
have to meet, as well as medical and psychological
assessments, not to mention the difficult task of actually
finding a woman willing to carry another’s child. It is
illegal in Australia to make financial gain from surrogacy,
so women are certainly protected from being exploited.
However, it makes it hard to justify, unless you have some
compelling reasons to do so, such as it being for a family
member or close friend.
In the beginning, after her father-in-law suggested
surrogacy, Nardia’s sister put her hand up to carry the
couple’s child for them, but even this plan failed. Under
SUrrOGACysurrogacya journey through
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Australian legislation, a surrogate must already have had
her own children. “We were blind sided by that. My sister
was happy to do it for us, and we had talked through
the possible ramifications. We knew it would be hard,
but because of the law and the fact that she hadn’t had
children yet, it was no longer even an option. She hadn’t
had children yet because she wasn’t ready to raise a child,
but she was happy to carry a baby for her sister who
couldn’t,” says Nardia.
The next step involved scouting on websites for
Australian women willing to be a surrogate. Though they
had some success finding women that would help, this
option turned out to be a dead end, as every woman that
had agreed eventually pulled out.
“I do understand this, it is a huge thing to put your body,
your family and your emotions through, but at our end it was
just devastating. We started losing hope that we would ever
have a child of our own,” confesses Nardia. “We didn’t want
to exploit anyone, and we weren’t looking for an easy road
to parenthood. We were a couple in love, with a good home,
who just wanted to bring a baby into our family.”
At this point, Nardia started looking into overseas
surrogacy. Her internet research showed that many
successful Australian surrogacy’s were performed overseas
in the US and India. After rejecting the US as too expensive
(you can pay over $200,000), Nardia starting zoning in on
India, where the cost averaged around $35,000 - $50,000.
This constitutes years of annual wages in India, enabling
surrogates to put their children through school, including
University, and still have enough to buy a home. While this
can be seen as incentive for exploitation, there is also the
reality that for some women this is a win-win situation -
“That kind of information hits you in the face like a brick wall – a 29 year old woman planning to have children suddenly facing the fact that pregnancy was never going to happen.”
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“We started losing hope that we would ever have a child of our own... We didn’t want to exploit anyone, and we weren’t looking for an easy road to parenthood.”
Nardia and Cameron had to return home for almost
nine nail-biting months. Medical reports and scans were
sent regularly, and the doctor was always available for
questions. But their child was growing and developing in
another country, in a virtual stranger’s womb and home.
“To be honest, at times it was almost easier that this
process was happening in another country, sometimes
we just needed to shut ourselves off and pretend it wasn’t
happening. The last couple of years had been full on, and
to be so close was hard,” Nardia confides. “I have to say
that anyone going through this needs a strong marriage
and a good support network because it is a very hard way
to become a parent.”
At 37 weeks, the surrogate mother was induced, and
Nardia and Cameron had only five days notice to book
flights, fly to India and get settled into their temporary
they give the gift of life and then have the opportunity to
set their family up for the long term.
Nardia read about a doctor whom had already had great
success and had a solid reputation in the field. The doctor
had recently opened up her own clinic in India, the Corion
Fertility Clinic.
“To start with, we had little to go by, just some email
and phone communication and a lot of reading at my end
about the work the doctor had already done,” Nardia says.
“We were obviously nervous as we’d had such bad luck
already and it was so far away. We wouldn’t necessarily
meet the mother, we wouldn’t be in the same country
while our baby was developing. It just wasn’t how we had
planned to start a family. But, we wanted a child more
than anything, and in our gut we knew this was the right
clinic and the right way forward for us.”
From here, Nardia had to go through the standard
grueling IVF procedures, including daily injections and
hormone swings, then a painful operation to harvest
her eggs. Nardia and Cameron had to travel to India to
sign contracts and were there when the embryos were
implanted, where they experienced their first breakthrough
– their surrogate became pregnant on the first try.
After the successful and reaffirming pregnancy results,
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home, before checking in at the hospital two days before
the birth. On the day of the induction, Nardia asked the
nurse what time everything was starting, only to have her
return saying it was time to get moving – the surrogate
was having an emergency caesarean and things were
about to happen very quickly.
“We waited in the hall with three other men waiting for
their children to be born and suddenly a little bundle came
through the doors. Our son Lawson Cameron was with us.
It all happened really quickly, we thought we’d be there for
hours and all of a sudden our boy was in front of us, it was
pretty overwhelming! He was taken away for all the standard
tests, and we went back to our room. After four long hours he
was back with us in our suite and ours from that point on.”
After the hospital, there was a lot of paperwork to arrange
in order to take Lawson back to Australia. They had to apply
for a birth certificate, then citizenship, a passport, and finally
an exit permit to leave India. It was 17 days after his arrival
before they were able to board a plane and come home.
“Arriving at Perth International airport with our son was
amazing, we had some very excited family members waiting
to meet him but we were just exhausted – we wanted to get
home and start settling into the normal routine and life with
our boy that every new parent looks forward to.”
When asked if she was planning on going through
it again (Australian legislation permitting) Nardia was
positive she would. “Look, it was hard, and there are times Ph
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are mad to even think about it, but we have always wanted
to have our own children, and we definitely want more.
All I can say is, if you really, really want something like we
wanted babies, you just have to keep slogging away until it
happens. It might not be the experience you pictured, but
the end result is there and very worth it.”
Looking at Nardia and Cameron standing with their
miracle son Lawson, it is easy to see that they fully
appreciate the experience that brought them together.
The funny thing about doing things the hard way is that it
can bring an extra appreciation to something many take
for granted. And while it might never be the path you’d
choose, it is well worth the difficulties along the way.
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surrogacy in australia: the lawsIn all states in Australia (except Tasmania which bans all surrogacy under the Surrogacy Contracts Act 1993), altruistic surrogacy has only recently become legal. However, in all states and the Australian Capital Territory arranging commercial surrogacy is a criminal offence.In Western Australia (under the Surrogacy Act 2008) altruistic surrogacy is only legal for couples consisting of the opposite sex (single people and same sex couples are banned from altruistic surrogacy).
Meeting the criteria• To become a surrogate mother in Australia, you must meet the following criteria: • you must be older than 25 years and younger than 52 years of age. The only exception to this will be the unique circumstance whereby the gestational carrier is carrying a child on behalf of her daughter or daughter in-law. In this circumstance a maximum age of less than 55th birthday will apply.
• you must have given birth to a baby, which has become a healthy child.• you cannot have prior history of pregnancy
exacerbated illnesses or pregnancy complications or have a current illness that is likely to be exacerbated by pregnancy.• you must have an established relationship with the commissioning parents for a period of no less than 2 years by the time of the embryo transfer.• Neither the carrier nor the would-be recipient can suffer from a significant psychiatric disorder that would impair either the decision-making around the surrogacy process or the ability of the commissioning parents to care for the child.
the process• you will undergo a medical consultation with the proposed surrogate mother and the Assisted reproductive Technologies and medical treatment required will be explained.• Counseling must be undertaken by all involved parties, including children of the surrogate if over the age of four. • All parties may be required to have independent psychiatric and obstetric assessment.• All parties must each obtain independent legal advice from a solicitor or barrister, who will be required to provide the clinic assisting the procedure with a written certificate confirming that they have advised the couple on their rights and obligations and the implications for any children arising from the surrogacy arrangement.
• All relevant information will be submitted to an Ethics Committee at the chosen clinic for final approval. • Once a pregnancy is confirmed, ongoing consultation with the clinic counsellor will take place. This is to ensure that the full implications of the surrogacy, particularly in relation to plans for delivery and handing over the baby, have been discussed. • Under current legislation, the child is deemed to be that of the birth mother, meaning you must legally adopt the child.Join us on Facebook
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Before returning to Australia with the child, an application must be made for an Australian Citizenship by Descent, which requires proof that the birth mother is not the biological parent of the child. Surrogacy births in India will list the biological parents and not the birth mother on the birth certificate.
the concerns around surrogacyThe key concerns around surrogacy are based on two issues; the best interests of the child and the rights and feelings of the surrogate mother. There are things you will need to consider before you enter into a surrogacy arrangement, and counseling, whether it is legislated or not, is a good idea. Issues need to be considered such as how parties will feel if the surrogate changes their mind pre or even post pregnancy.
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(who is now 18 months old) I already had a baby boy. He is big
with black and tan hair and he drools a lot, especially when
it’s hot. His name is Atticus and he is a beautiful nine year
old rottweiler. Up until then, my relationship with Atticus
had been a walking, talking cliché of man’s (or in this case
woman’s) best friend. We did almost everything together. We
would take long, leisurely walks around Mount Lawley and
he would sit at my feet while I sipped coffee at one of our
regular Beaufort street cafes. When I was chilling out at home
he would edge up onto the couch and snuggle close to me as I
watched TV, and I didn’t have the heart to kick him off. (They
don’t call them puppy dog eyes for no reason!)
I felt safe with Atticus because I knew he would always
protect me. And he was big enough to hug when I felt a bit
sad. He always seemed to sense when I’d had a bad day and
he would amble over to lick my face as if to say, “Hey it’s
cool...I’m here for you!” Quite simply, he adored me and the
feeling was more than mutual.
But things were about to change for my best friend and I
because the, as yet, unnamed baby was due to arrive in less
than four months! Which is why I found myself standing
in front of Cesar Milan with a picture of a 45 kilogram
rottweiler and an ultrasound scan asking, “What should
I do???” He looked at me, expressionless. He looked at the
picture of Atticus, and then slowly moved his head to look
at the ultrasound of my unborn child. There was a silence in
the room, so long and painful, I wondered if perhaps he had
spoken but due to some pregnancy-related medical anomaly
I had suddenly become deaf. But then I saw it. A grin. Which
OFF THE AIR with Lisa Fernandez
Oprah Winfrey once called Cesar Milan to personally
ask for his help with her unsocial dog. I mean, how
impressive is that? Well, according to Cesar it wasn’t. He said
he treated her just like any other person because his main
purpose was to teach her how to be calm and assertive and
train her dog. It was Oprah who needed rehabilitating. Can
you imagine telling Oprah she has the problem and not the
dog? The man has balls, I’ll give him that.
My interview with Cesar took place right here in Perth
when I was five months pregnant with my daughter Isabella.
I love the work Cesar does with dogs whilst ‘rehabilitating
people’ so I was completely and utterly star-struck when I
walked in the room. My first thought was, ‘Wow he’s tiny!’
and the second was, ‘I hope to God he can help me!’
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environment so that Isabella would always be safe, and in
turn, how he would instinctively be her companion and
protector.
I do understand that not everyone will share my
positive attitude towards dogs and children living together.
And I stress that supervision is an unquestionable
requirement. Dogs should never be left alone with
children. But I’m glad that Isabella has had the opportunity
to grow up with a canine companion. I have watched them
communicate with each other in a silent language that
even I as her mother find wondrous.
turned into a smile. Which became a chuckle and then I heard
his incredibly sexy accent for the first time as he said, “I have
four rottweilers. And two small boys. you will be ok as long
as Atticus knows who is boss”. Well, let me just tell you that
my heart soared. I felt pure relief as a weight lifted from my
shoulders. I could have a dog in the house with a baby and
furthermore it was going to be fine! I was like a Christian
at the feet of an evangelist preacher being told what the
righteous path was, and knowing I was on it!
I soaked up every bit of advice he imparted regarding dogs
and small children. I frantically took notes as he spoke: always
make sure the dog knows his place in the family; I am the boss,
then the child and then the dog. He told me to set boundaries
with Atticus but also to include him in activities with the baby.
Go on walks together but always have the pram in front so he
knows his place. Be calm and assertive when saying, “Get back”
if Atticus is too close to the baby and remember that I am the
pack leader and let him know I’m in charge. I’m sure that most
good dog training books will provide similar information but
Cesar also gave me a confidence and a mindset that cannot be
bought over the counter.
Cesar took away my fear of bringing a baby into a house
with a big dog. He showed me how to take control of my
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If you have a baby who likes to party into the early
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brain has done a runner, you have to wade through sleep
advice from books, the internet, well-meaning friends and
family and, most wearyingly of all, Parents Of Good Sleepers.
Not that I’m jealous or anything, but when faced with
Parents Of Good Sleepers graciousness can be a problem.
In fact it can be Very Hard Work to smile and nod when
your baby has been displaying an over-sized fiesta gene for
as long as you can remember. Very Very Very Hard Work.
What I’m really saying is, graciousness is overrated. We
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– when you know deep in your toes that you will NEVER
get a proper sleep again - never hurt anyone. There are
probably health benefits to having regular meltdowns. I bet
BEDTIME STORIESSleep deprivation is not a four letter word but it could be. It should be. Heck, in this house it is.
they boost your antioxidants or something.
If you’ve got one of those babies that has slept from
6.00pm to 7.00am from three weeks of age you’re probably
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because you still have a brain that works, one that can
count to 10 and spell K-A-T and realises when you’re
wearing your jumper inside-out-and-backwards. You’re
one step ahead in the parent game. But if you could just
stop tutting for a moment and listen up, there are a couple
of things I need to say.
fibbing is okay with me. You want to white-lie about
how your baby has you up every two hours, and you’re so
tired you crunch coffee beans to keep yourself going? I’m
all ears and sympathy. In fact, the more lies about how
much sleep you aren’t getting, the better. Knock yourself
out! Grow that nose, Pinocchio. You have a friend in me.
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It takes a village to raise a child. I think we should
pretend we’re that village and swap our babies for a couple
of days. Hillary Clinton would be pleased.
Now, if you’ve got the other sort of baby, one that
has a penchant for 3am milk shooters and pre-dawn
paaaarrrrtttttaaaaaayyyyssss, you’re probably feeling like
a Parent On The Edge Of A Meltdown Moment. Luckily
enough help is at hand. There’s loads of sleep advice
around – just take your pick. It goes something like this.
Give your baby a dummy. If you don’t soothe him he’ll
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Don’t give your baby a dummy. You’ll create A Dummy
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Your baby is too hot. He Might Overheat!
Your baby is too cold. He Might freeze!
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Your baby is manipulating you so let him cry. Otherwise
You Will Be His Slave forever, Even When You Are 100 And
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Never leave your baby to cry. You will damage him
psychologically and create A Menace To Society.
Play womb-like heartbeats to soothe your child. He
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Keep your baby’s room quiet and bore him to sleep.
Silence Is Golden!
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It’s All Your fault! Menace Creator!
Look, it probably is all my fault but at this stage I
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everything’s going to be my fault. There’s plenty of time for
the hair shirt. I don’t need to start now.
In the meantime, I’ve got the scoop on those miracle
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The ones who like nothing more than a good night’s
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Do you want to know the truth about those perfect,
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Can you handle the truth about those perfect, sleeping,
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Well, this is the truth about those perfect, sleeping,
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They are not real. They do not exist. fantasy!
Yup. Their parents look you straight in the eye and tell
you big, fat fibs about how their baby sleeps and sleeps,
and everyone in the family sleeps and sleeps, and their
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nobody! – snores.
How do I, of all people, have this scoop of scoops?
Unfortunately, if I told you I’d have to...well, get all
Godfather on you. And that would be very tiring.
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energy, which unfortunately aren’t
my best attributes, plus a knack for
arts and crafts. And although you can
take deep breaths, learn empathetic
techniques and drink coffee, there’s
just no teaching artiness or craftiness.
I get nervous
when I see
my daughter
assembling an
assortment of
glues, sticky tape,
scissors, coloured
paper, feathers
and glitter.
“That’s not how
Mummy does it,” she critiques, after
inspecting my feeble efforts at collage.
The same comment was made in the
morning after I attempted to dress
her in an unnecessarily complicated
jacket-cape thing with buttons in
strange places.
And again when she saw how I
tried to present her lunch on the plate
to look like a clown, but managed to
make it more like the evil Chucky doll
from the Child’s
Play movies. I
know our one
year old was
thinking the
same thing based
on the strange
look he gave me
after he let the
first mouthful
of the mashed vegetable concoction
I prepared cascade down his top, and
the second one plop over the side of
his high chair. “Well that’s how Daddy
does it,” I retort to him, as if he can
understand me. I keep my cool, just,
with a big fake smile plastered on
my face. “Come on kids,” I urge them.
“Let’s embrace change!”
And that’s really what it boils
down to. A change of routine is as
unsettling for parents as much as it is
for kids, and that’s why the occasional
day being a Mr Mum can be such a
challenge for all concerned. But just
as being a stay at home parent can be
monotonous, exhausting and tiresome
on occasions, so can commuting to
and from work with all the other ants
and sitting in an office staring at a
screen all day. The key is to live in
the moment and throw yourself into
whatever role you find yourself in.
Which is easier said than done.
So to all the Mr Mums, no, I don’t
want to be you. But I salute you.
“That’s not how Mummy does it,”
she critiques, after inspecting my feeble
efforts at collage.
very wet). The food is fantastic, the
beer selection has always kept the
men folk happy and the massive
park that backs up to the outdoor
dining area is a winner with the kids.
Bringing a football is a good idea as
the adults can take turns kicking it
with the kids. For the younger ones,
Clancy’s have cleverly thought to
sell reasonably priced Playdough. For
those who don’t like seafood, there is
always a small selection of non-fishy
dishes that are very tasty and the
desserts are divine for an afternoon
catch-up with the girls.
Clancy’s now offers a family-
friendly City Beach venue with the
same great food and child-friendly
environment.
51 Cantonment St, Fremantle
(08) 9335 1351
195 Challenger Drive, City Beach
(08) 9385 7555
www.clancysfishpub.com.au
EATING OUTwith the kidsMany first time parents
experience a real shock when
their formerly well behaved baby
turns into a toddler and a dining out
nightmare. By the second time around
though most parents have a couple
of restaurants up their sleeves that
know how to handle the kids – offering
something extra to make their children
so welcome they don’t distract the
other diners (half of which are normally
toddlers anyway!). Melanie Hearse
shares her “happy places” that have
been wining and dining her clan since
her eldest hit 12 months.
SienaS LeederviLLe
Sienas Leederville has an indoor
playground that is a glass-fronted
room so parents can keep an eye on
the under five action (older children
are of course welcome). The food is
good, the menu offering standard
Italian fare, simply executed with
mid range prices and plenty of tasty
children’s options. The true value
however, lies in being able to sit back
with a good coffee or wine after the
meal while the kids give themselves
a sleep-inducing work-out in the
playroom. Monday to Wednesday is
$12 - $15 pizza and pasta night and
bookings are highly recommended.
115 Oxford Street, Leederville
(08) 9444 8844 www.sienas.com.au
CLanCy’S FiSh Pub
Clancy’s in Freo is fantastic for a
Sunday lunch (though less so if it’s
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ninniku JiP
If you’re in the mood for tasty Korean
food, Ninniku Jip is modern, delicious
and has a children’s playground
right in the middle of the restaurant.
Surrounded by a glass wall so that you
can see all the playroom action, the
playground is fitted out with a slide,
playhouse, X-box and a Play station.
Even better, the restaurant itself is
wheelchair and baby-pram friendly
(the restaurant is spacious enough
to accommodate twin prams).
867 Albany Hwy, Victoria Park
Ph: 9355 1988
www.ninniku.com.au
Tips To iMprove your cHildren’s dining ouT eTiqueTTeHere are a few simple tricks to encourage good behavior when dining out
1 look at it from their point of view
Work with them by choosing a restaurant that allows a bit of noise
and provides some kind of entertainment such as a playroom, toys or
pencils and coloring in books (or bring your own). Also make sure the
cuisine is suitable for their tastes and that you are not expecting them to
eat hours later than they would normally (and get straight in there and
ask for an appetizer to buy yourself a bit of menu consideration time!)
2Teach restaurant manners at home
Children only know what they have been taught and what is
reinforced, so if they are allowed to zoom around with a mouthful and
walk back and forth picking at their plate at home, that is what you
can expect to see when you dine out. You can also help yourself out by
practising restaurant dining at home on occasion. Start with a salad dish,
then a main course and then dessert, as this will teach them to sit at the
table longer.
3leave on a high note
Make sure you don’t hang around for hours just because the kids are
tolerating it. Rather than waiting for them to melt down, make a point of
trying to leave while everyone is still happy – this sets up a nice routine
and allows you to reward them for their good behavior.
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dim Sum – northbridge
For a Sunday catch up with friends or family, those with
young toddlers can get a lot of mileage out of a dim sum
lunch. As the food is continuously brought around on trolleys,
and they tend to be very busy, the kids will be sufficiently
distracted from their need to get up and create a scene. A
word of warning – not all kids are adventurous eaters, so come
prepared with a few snacks the first time you go. Two of our
family favorites for food and service are:
Golden Century Chinese Seafood Restaurant,
191 James St, Northbridge (08) 9328 2388
Xintiandi Restaurant
40 Francis St, Northbridge (08) 9228 9619
the beaChhouSe
This one rates a mention even though most parents have
already found it because it is the ultimate place for a
school holiday catch up coffee with the girls. The coffee
is delicious and there is a good lunchtime food selection,
and the best part is – the kids will be good to you for up to
three days after you visit just out of gratitude!
The Beachouse has a
massive indoor climbing
gym and heaps of other
areas with ball pits, video
games and bikes to ride.
It can get loud and very
hot and cold depending
on the weather, so layers
are recommended for
everyone.
5 O’Malley St (At rear of
the building), Osborne Park
(08) 9242 8800 www.thebeachhouse.org.au
SaLt on the beaCh
Offering a large
playground and an
open door policy on
sandy feet, this North
Fremantle beer garden/
restaurant is a very
relaxing way to pass
an afternoon or enjoy
an early evening meal.
The food is good, and
the prices reasonable,
but it is the ability to
kick back in a seat and
enjoy the salt air while
eyeballing the children
that makes it really
work.
They also offer
kids’ birthday party packages and a very reasonably priced
weekend breakfast buffet where children under four eat for
free and it’s only $10 for those under 10.
Salt has an outdoor playground inside the venue and
a Kids’ club which offers face painting and games every
Friday from 5.30 to 7.30, and their mascots, Salty the
dolphin and Peppa the penguin, roaming the area.
44 Port Beach Rd, North Fremantle (08) 9430 6866
www.onthebeach.net.au
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If you’re not quite ready to completely give up your pub
lifestyle, the Rosemount in North Perth has a decent beer
garden with giant Jenga and Connect Four for the kids to play.
The yard space is pretty tiny, and it gets really busy after
12pm (and smoking is permitted outside, so when it gets
busy it gets a little smoky), but if you sneak in at just the
right time for an early lunch the kids will be very happy to
play where you can see them, and the food is fantastic for
families - nachos, burgers, seafood and pizzas.
Cnr Angove and Fitzgerald St, North Perth (08) 9328 7062
www.rosemounthotel.com.au
CaFe Savini
This is a trickier
one – if you are in
for the long haul or
trying to eat with a
large group Savini’s
may not fit the bill,
but for an incident-
free, nice family meal,
Savini’s is well worth
a visit. The food is
amazing; pricey, but
not overpriced, and
the owners are so
friendly and interested
in talking to the kids
and making sure they
have what they need
(including books, toys and
pencils) that our children have neither the
time nor the inclination for their normal antics.
80 Walcott Street, Mount Lawley
(08) 9271 6366
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heathCote reServe
There are
actually a couple
of dining options
at Heathcote – a
lovely basic café
with great coffee
as well as a fine
dining option, the
Bluewater Grill.
Many of the times we’ve been down to play on the massive
outdoor play area (it’s very elaborate with wooden pirate
ships to climb on and multiple play areas along the whole
side of the building) we’ve witnessed gorgeous wedding
receptions, so if you were looking for a child-friendly
venue for a wedding, it would top my list. The restaurant
itself is very elegant and slightly back from the playground
area, but there is a large lawn area out the front where
little people can let off steam between courses. For those
with a minimal budget, you can enjoy a picnic in the play
area with a couple of fresh coffees from the outdoor café.
56 Duncraig Rd, Applecross, 6153 Ph: 9315 7700
the eden hiLL bar and biStro
Originally the Rangeview Hotel, the Eden Hill Bar & Bistro
underwent an overhaul in 2010 and now boasts an alfresco
beer garden and massive kids’ room that has arcade
machines, toys, kids movies, colouring-in and a playground.
There’s a good range of food at reasonable prices
and plenty of room for children to move around within
eyesight, meaning more meal time before the kids make it
clear it’s time to move on.
260 Morley Drive East, Eden Hill, 6054
Ph: 9279 4222 www.edenhill.com.au
StiCkybeakS CaFé
The food is fantastic and well priced, but what really
sells this place is its setting within the grounds of one of
Perth’s best playgrounds, the Lotterywest playground at
Kings Park. While they are closed in the evening, they do
a great breakfast and lunch making it a lovely weekend
destination for a lazy brunch.
Sticky Beaks Café
37 Kings Park Road, West Perth
(08) 9481 4990
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mundaring Weir hoteL
Perfect for an afternoon out with a large group, the
Mundaring Weir Hotel caters well for families and groups
– a good pick for an afternoon birthday celebration if you
have plenty of friends or family with kids. There is a good
range of food available and all of it good (traditional pub
grub as well as wood-fired pizzas). Sunday is family day
and the pool is open to visitors. From 3pm onwards you
can partake in the lamb spit roast.
Mundaring Weir Road, Mundaring, 6073
Ph: 9295 1106 www.mundaringweirhotel.com.au
Carriage CoFFee ShoP
Situated on the Fremantle Esplanade in the middle of the
park with playgrounds nearby, this is a great early morning
breakfast option for the kids. You can sit down and enjoy
a basic breakfast and if your kids are particularly twitchy
to get out and play, you can grab your coffee takeaway
and stroll over to the play equipment. The prices are
reasonable and the coffee is good.
45 Marine Terrace, Fremantle 6160 Ph: 9335 3645
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By Ngala EducatioN tEamBRAINS
Building
Contrary to common belief the baby’s brain is not just determined by genetic makeup. Similar to the construction of a house, formation of the brain needs to happen in a sequence that supports the long-term developmental blueprint for brain development.
Just as the lack of the right materials can result
in altered blueprints, the absence of appropriate
experiences can lead to alterations in genetic potentials.
Furthermore, even though the brain retains the capacity to
adapt and change throughout life, this capacity decreases
with age.
An early, growth-promoting environment takes place
during pregnancy. It is therefore essential that the unborn
baby receives adequate nutrients to develop normally. Just
as the selection of the best building materials is important
in the realisation of the full potential of an architect’s
blueprint, a healthy environment in the pregnancy allows
the brain to develop to its full potential. This includes an
abundant supply of nutrients and a healthy lifestyle of the
expectant mother.
Lack of nutrition, high levels of prolonged stress and
severe maternal infection contribute to changes in the
baby’s brain. Alcohol and certain drugs (legal and illegal)
may affect the developing brain.
One of the most exciting advances in child development
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“One of the most exciting advances in child development has been the discovery that babies actually learn before they are born.”
has been the discovery that babies
actually learn before they are born.
Hearing is the easiest of the senses
to assess. Modern ultrasound
scanning has shown that from 25
weeks onwards, the foetus responds
with rhythmic swimming or kicking
movements to sounds and vibrations
from the outside world.
We have all seen how newborn
babies turn their heads in the
direction of a sound, but what is
amazing is that during pregnancy a
developing baby is already displaying
this skill. In the last trimester, the
baby’s brain busily processes the
rich orchestra of gurgles, swishes
and beats that can be heard through
the amniotic fluid and the sense of
hearing becomes increasingly refined.
It is perhaps not surprising that
the sense of hearing is remarkably
well developed at birth. No wonder
the sound of the vacuum cleaner or
washing machine soothes and settles
the newborn baby! And of course, the
baby is familiar with mum and dad’s
voices.
At 38 weeks gestation the baby
forms a memory of the sound
patterns that echo through the womb
and reacts with exquisite sensitivity
to strange rhythms and tones. If the
mother relaxes to a favourite song, it
will have an immediate and calming
effect on the baby. Even after birth,
hearing a familiar tune can settle and
soothe a fretful baby.
So what iS the ‘Sequence of an unborn baby’S brain development’?
The egg is implanted
into the uterine wall, and
conception is considered
at two weeks old. Although it is
still an embryo in its definition and
formation, the backbone, cardio-
vascular system (a beating heart) and
the brain begins to form. In this phase
the embryo further develops the three
sections of the brain.
The neural tube that
connects the brain and
spinal cord also closes in
this period and the formation of the
brain hemispheres, combined with
some brain wave activity begin.
Other organs such as the
circulatory system begin to function
with all four chambers of the heart
present. The facial features begin to
develop, with clear and distinguished
arms and legs, complete with fingers.
By now, the nervous
system is quite developed
with brain neurons rapidly
forming at 250,000 per minute. The
nervous system by now is quite
developed with brain cells (neurons)
rapidly forming (250,000 per minute.)
The spinal cord is clearly defined
and the spinal nerves start to stretch
out from it. The brain enlarges very
little as compared to its birth size and
shape, along with the development of
the taste buds and vocal cords.
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“As the brain is actively processing many senses it is quite possible that your unborn child will begin to dream.”
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The heart, liver, spleen and many other organs
are already functioning, and the baby is
receiving plenty of nourishment through the
placenta. The baby also begins its practice of inhaling and
exhaling for breathing.
The baby’s torso is now growing rapidly and is
completely covered with lanugo (fine hairs that protect the
skin). The sense of hearing also sharpens at this stage.
The baby makes its presence known by pulling and
tugging on the umbilical cord.
At this stage the uterus begins to expand to allow
more room for the baby. The bones are growing
and becoming hard. A barrier made from a
substance called Myelin protects the spinal cord.
The developing brain becomes capable of forming millions
of motor neurons, enabling the baby to develop and create
muscle movements voluntarily. The fore brain develops into
the left and right hemispheres of the brain and complex nerve
connections of sensory perceptions are being produced.
As the brain deciphers complex sensory
perceptions the baby becomes capable of
distinguishing between different sounds. All
the nerve cells that have so far formed and developed
independently begin to join and form a complete nervous
system.
The brain starts to regulate all body functions and
activates the auditory and visual systems that heighten
the baby’s overall senses.
The spinal cord begins to harden and straighten
out and the nervous system is more developed
and capable of controlling voluntary breathing. The
optic nerve is heightened in perceiving light from any direction.
During the previous weeks the brain was smooth in its
form. At this stage, its tissues begin to develop creased, wave-
like formations. The brain waves also become stronger at this
stage which enhances auditory and visual sensors.
As the brain is actively processing many senses it is
quite possible that your unborn child will begin to dream.
This stage is highlighted with a slowing of brain
development. The brain continues to grow and
increase rapidly in size, all the while establishing
connections between nerve cells. The brain along with the
lung is the last organ to develop, and is completed close to the
end of the third trimester. A newborn’s brain is only about one-
quarter the size of an adult’s but contains 100 billion neurons,
which is the most a human being will ever possess!
As you can see, it is truly nature and nurture working
together to give children the best start right from
conception. To maximise your baby’s brain growth before
he or she is born try singing, stroking your tummy,
laughing, eating healthy food and trying to minimising
stress, which can only enhance your baby’s development.
Ngala holds two-hour workshops on “Building Brains”.
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a home birth is usually a private and peaceful experience, but it’s another story entirely when it’s unplanned and takes place in your driveway.
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The road to motherhood for a second time was long
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would ever have another child to call her own.
after two miscarriages, Christine and partner Damieon
Cribb approached their third pregnancy with caution and
reservation.
“at the time i fell pregnant we were not trying, quite
the opposite in fact, we were in the midst of moving from
Queensland to western australia,” Christine says. “i was
hesitant to tell Damieon because the previous losses had
been so hard on him. we were both sceptical about the
outcome and found it hard to get excited.”
Christine confides it wasn’t until the third scan the pair
realised this baby was hanging around, but says even up
until delivery they had doubts of a successful outcome.
“Despite my fears, i tried to give the baby a lot of love
and constantly talked and rubbed my belly,” Christine adds.
During the pregnancy she was plagued with chronic
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“All I could think about was him catching the baby, I remember saying it over and
over that he had to catch him.”
with her history in mind, Christine decided a
homebirth was out of the question and wanted to be in
a hospital setting when she delivered to ensure medical
attention was on hand if necessary.
Three days before delivery, there was a false start with
intense Braxton Hicks. The day before Christine noticed
reduced movements from her otherwise active baby.
and then things started happening for real at their Halls
Head home in the early hours of Monday 18th april. it was
evident the end of her pregnancy was looming; she was
going to become a mother again.
“The contractions really picked up about 3.30am
when the pain became unbearable,” she told Offspring. “i
woke Damieon and told him it was time to head into the
hospital. we left for the hospital about 4.45am.”
Unfortunately upon arrival the contractions slowed and
became increasingly sporadic and an internal examination
showed only 2cm dilation. a midwife suggested the couple
return home for a while longer as the labour wards were full.
Once home, the contractions started gaining in intensity.
“i knew he was coming and soon,” Christine said.
The couple once again prepared to head to the
hospital, but things started happening much quicker than
anticipated.
“i got to the front door and the contractions were just
piling on top of each other. i doubted we were going to
make it to the hospital,” Christine explains. “By the time
i got to the first pillar in the driveway i was calling to
Damieon to get a towel and he was yelling to hurry up and
get in the car.
“i managed to get around to the passenger door and he
lent across and opened it for me. i put one hand on the
open door and one on the car roof and knew the baby’s
head was right there.
“i yelled that he needed to call an ambulance.”
Damieon ran inside and called an ambulance and the
head was completely out by the time he was back outside.
“all i could think about was him catching the baby, i
remember saying it over and over that he had to catch
him,” Christine recalls with electricity in her voice.
“Damieon tried to lay me down or get me to sit on the
driveway, anything to make me more comfortable, but
once i was pushing, i had to stay where i was and that was
simply standing there leaning on the car door.
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“i wasn’t screaming, but i was bearing down, obviously
making enough commotion that the neighbours started
coming out.”
in the end there were two neighbours in assistance,
unfortunately the retired midwife who lived in the street
had gone away the day before.
“while the shoulders were passing through i could
feel Damieon behind me, guiding the baby out and one
more push and Haanei was here, in our driveway and
not breathing. it was so surreal,” Christine gushes. “i was
calling out ‘is he ok?’ it was my Number One concern.”
“we were starting to freak out, as we had no medical
attention or knowledge of what to do, but finally, after
what felt like ages, Haanei started crying and a huge
relief swept over us, we knew he was ok, at least to some
degree.”
in the few minutes before birthing the placenta,
Christine managed to get back inside the house.
“So there i was having just given birth, sitting with the
door wide open, Damieon holding Haanei, the placenta
being delivered and all thoughts on if the baby was ok and
ambulance officers appeared beside me.”
The cord was clamped and Damieon cut it, and the
family were swept off to the hospital. On arrival Haanei and Christine were examined by the
surprised midwives. Despite his early arrival at 37 weeks
and 4 days at 3.25pm, Haanei George weighed a healthy
3.07kg and was 48.5cm in length.
The lack of medical attention meant Haanei had some
fluid on his lungs, but seemed otherwise in good health,
however, after an initial breastfeed, he refused to feed for
another day, sparking concern.
“Blood tests showed an infection somewhere in his
body, so they started intravenous antibiotics and we were
sent home with oral antibiotics,” Christine explains. “The
first week of his life was emotionally very hard.”
“i never visualised his birth happening the way it did. But
as a result his dad has formed a very tight bond with him
and after the losses and initial reservation, we had it is so
important to have that love surrounding Haanei. after all it is
not just sleep and food that helps them grow, but love too.”
The birth did grant Christine her wish to be drug free.
“it was at the top of my list, with exclamation marks,
and clearly i accomplished that,” she laughs.
The tiny bundle gurgling in his father’s arms remains
completely oblivious to the commotion surrounding his
first moments.
“Damieon is already talking about next time. i could
see us doing a home birth again, but definitely with a
midwife in assistance. i’ll just take it one step at a time for
now, i have been blessed with my miracle,” she muses. “i
guess we will have a pretty amazing story to tell at his 21st
birthday party though.”
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The prevalence of electronic modes of
communication, work and play with screen
based devices such as Tv, DvD’s, Play Stations,
emails, social networks such as Facebook and Twitter,
ipods and iphones, is concerning many educators and
parents. They fear children are no longer learning how to
engage and socialise properly, face to face, the good old
fashioned way.
Let’s not forget you only get to be a kid once! we need to
encourage our children to get outside and play games and
sport, not just sit in front of a Tv or computer screen to
play; to get together with their friends & family in person
and talk, rather than communicate by texting or emailing.
we should make sure that at a young age children interact
with their friends in imaginative play, rather than be
spoon-fed imaginative ideas by the Tv or movies.
By helen DaVey, B.a.eD, PrinCiPal of helen o’graDy Drama aCaDemy
research indicates too much “screen time” is affecting the psychological development of young children, with current recommendations suggesting parents should limit their children’s screen time to no more than two hours per day.
Let’s“just pretend”
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Bringing back good old fashioned “Let’s Pretend” is a
great place to start as it encourages children to be creative
and imaginative, something of which they have bucket-
loads, but which often needs to be helped along by finding
an appropriate outlet.
This is where the Performing arts can be a fantastic
creative outlet for children. we are so lucky
in Perth to have quality programs
around that expose children to
music, dance and speech and
drama classes, and which provide
opportunities for children to
interact, use their imaginations,
be in a creative environment and
learn so many important life skills
– in particular, sound communication
skills!
a while ago, i received a call from Kylie,
Mum of five year old Jacob. She was very concerned that
Jacob was not making friends at school and had been told
by his Pre-Primary teacher that he hardly spoke in class and
couldn’t even look his teacher in the eye. Kylie mentioned
that Jacob spent a lot of time at home watching DvDs and
Puppets can bring lots of excitement and creativity to imaginative play. Finger
puppets, hand puppets and handmade puppets (such as popsticks and paper plates or socks, material and buttons) are a great way to get children playing
and interacting. Puppets can use different voices, lots of emotions and also provide a way for children to learn how to express themselves verbally with no pressure. Parent involvement can be loads of fun
and play sessions can even end in a puppet show.
A very effective way of encouraging children to engage in imaginative play is to provide them
with the good old “dress-up box”.
A shop – use shopping bags, cans and packets of (non-perishable) food, play money, a cash register (shoe box). Doctor’s office – toy doctor’s kit, or
handmade equipment such as tea towels for slings, toilet paper for bandages, band aids, pen and paper for taking notes, plastic syringes for giving medicine.
A boat – made out of a large cardboard box, or even some chairs and rugs. Include fishing rods
(sticks and string), oars, hats, buckets, telescopes or binoculars (empty toilet rolls!). Cars/trains/planes
– again, made out of cardboard boxes, or chairs. Kitchen – old cooking utensils, boxes or chairs to
represent the stove, oven and fridge. Plastic food can be used, or you may even like to use some real food
such as cereal, pasta and so on!
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that he could recite every word of
some movies and act out many of the
characters at the same time. She said
that at home he was pretty verbal and
had a great imagination, but it didn’t
seem to transfer to school or other
social situations. it had been suggested
to her by the teacher that she give
drama classes a go.
well, to cut a long story short, Jacob
has been going to his weekly speech
and drama classes for over a year
now. initially, he was shy and quiet
in class and merely followed other
kids around in the various activities –
always with a little smile on his face.
Gradually, that smile grew and grew
and so did Jacob’s confidence. Jacob
began to put his hand up and offer
creative suggestions, to be the first to
volunteer to get up in front of the class
to demonstrate his ideas, to bounce
into the class, look his drama teacher
in the eye and say “Hi Caroline! wait
til you hear what i did at school
today!” From the little boy who was
practically dragged into his first class
by his mother, to the outgoing, friendly,
articulate boy who wishes “drama was
on every day” there has been a huge,
positive change.
Jacob now has lots of friends at
school and plenty of play dates after
school. He wants to take news each
day to year One so that he can get up
in front of his class and talk to them.
Jacob’s mum says he watches far less
Tv as he is too busy playing with
his friends, getting his mum to help
him write stories and also making up
plays with his brother which he likes
to perform for the whole family.
we all want similar things for our
children: we want them to be happy,
successful and healthy. we want them
to be able to speak out for themselves
and we want to arm them with the
ability to be active participants in
whatever life has to offer.
That is why i wholeheartedly agree
that we should limit our children’s
daily screen time to two hours or less.
after all, there is plenty of time in front
of a screen once we are responsible
adults. incidentally, if you multiply
the two hours daily by 365 days and
multiply that by 17 years – it works out
to 12,410 hours which is equivalent to
approximately 517 days. Crazy!
Think back to your own childhood
before the obsession with Tv and
computer screens. what did you do
with those 12,000 odd hours? How
do we want our children to use that
time? whilst the temptation of the
screen has never been stronger, the
variety of alternatives such as the
many performance arts programs
available has thankfully never been
more varied. we, as parents, have the
opportunity to expose our children
to creative outlets which will help
unlock their incredible potential. So
help your child find that drama, dance
or music class which is not only going
to give them bright, ‘technicolour’
memories of a vibrant childhood, but
also give them the tools they need for
a bright, ‘technicolour’ future.
An “Imagination Corner” can be a small area in a child’s bedroom, loungeroom, or on the
patio where an imaginary real life scenario is set up. The theme can change as
often as you feel like.
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Creative & non competitive fun for 3yrs old to adults. Beginners to advanced. Also classes for intellectually disabled• Jazz / hip hop • Classical ballet • Contemporary
Michelle Babicci School of DanceFun and caring classes
Phone: 9243 6946 Email: [email protected] www.michellebabiccischoolofdance.com.au
Fun And FItness through dAnceThe Michelle Babicci School of dance has been running successfully since 1990 with weekly classes currently held at the Uniting Church Hall in Wembley. It offers classes for beginners to intermediate and advanced for three year old children through to teenagers and even adults.
The Michelle Babicci School of dance also offers classes for intellectually disabled primary school students, teenagers and adults.
Principal, Michelle Babicci, says it is a “no frills dance school that offers a fun and relaxed learning environment”.
“We focus on developing a variety of dance skills in a caring and non-competitive atmosphere to enable each student discover their own creativity,” she says.
“Each student is special in their own way and we endeavor to encourage them to have an appreciation for one another and their God-given talents.”
Students can do classes for fun & fitness with the option of assessment and exams in classical ballet.
The School also holds an annual concert near the end of the year which is a highlight for all the students.
The School aims to develop ongoing fitness and technical improvement; to create team spirit and confidence, while fostering a genuine love and freedom through the enjoyment of dance.
For information visit www.michellebabiccischoolofdance.com.au
Be the Best you can Be!Performers Academy Australia opened in February 2010 and has been going from strength to strength. All classes are taught by qualified teachers with firsthand performance experience so they are suitably equipped to inspire, instruct and encourage students to reach their full potential and be the best they can be!
Principal, Carolyn Sinnett, has been dancing since she was two and enjoyed a successful and varied career as a professional dancer, singer and actress, appearing in musicals in the West End and on tour, in productions aboard cruise ships and on television. Here in Perth, she also teaches at WAAPA and has choreographed productions at the Regal Theatre and His Majesty’s Theatre.
“Whether students wish to pursue a career in the performing arts or simply dance for fun and fitness, they are all encouraged to work hard and do their best in a fun and nurturing environment,” she says. “Whilst they learn and develop dance and performance related skills, students also gain many valuable transferable life skills such as self-awareness, confidence and discipline which will aid them in the future, whatever career path they choose.”
Classes are available to students aged 3 years and upwards.
For further information visit www.performersacademy.com.au or call 0404 545 845.
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Drama Showtime classes (5 -14 years) are FUN and include singing, improvisation, skits, creative movement, scriptwork and theatre games – all designed to increase your child’s self-confidence and bring out the ‘natural performer’ in them! Acro-stars (5-12 years) is a NEW class where students can learn acrobatic tricks in a fun and encouraging atmosphere taught by a qualified gymnastics/acrobatics instructor.
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KIndY drAMA KIds Are ALL stArs!Some of our Kindy Drama lessons (for 3 – 5 year olds), involve our students in dressing up in their favourite costumes! Our self development program, which aims to give preschoolers confidence, verbal skills and self esteem, runs three main themes each term and each theme includes opportunities for children to dress up and enjoy using props. Pictured here, are some of our groovy kids dressed up as stars for our recent “Music” theme.
Fun-filled Kindy Drama classes are run by the Helen O’Grady Drama Academy, which has been running after school programmes for 5 – 17 year olds for over 30 years! After many requests from parents, the Kindy proram was started for 3 – 5 year olds and is held weekly in the Northern and Western suburbs of Perth, during the day, after school and on Saturday mornings. They have become very popular and places fill fast!
Weekly classes are held for 3 – 5 year olds, 5 – 8 year olds, 9 – 12 year olds and 12 - 17 year olds throughout Perth, so there is a class near you!
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Crawling Caterpillar
CraftycrittersCrafty Ideas for Uncrafty Parents
1. Punch a hole into the base of each plastic cup.
2. Cut the card rolls into pieces about 5cm long.
3. Tie a large knot into the string and thread it into the cup and out the bottom.
4. Next thread on a piece of card roll.
5. Repeat with cups and card rolls until the caterpillar reaches a suitable length.
6. Attach a pipe cleaner to form the antennae.
7. Twist to secure. 8.Then tie off the last cup. Use the remaining length of string to pull the caterpillar along.
Stick or draw on some eyes and your caterpillar is ready to wiggle!
Here’s how to make a simple caterpillar that really wriggles. ● SUiTS AgeS 3 ANd UP. CRAfTiNg Time: ½ HoUR.
You will need: ❏ 10 x plastic cups ❏ Toilet rolls ❏ string❏ joggle eyes (optional) ❏ pipe cleaner
By Miya Maeda, creator of JellyfishJelly.coM
Most parents have probably looked
at the clock with despair and
wondered, “How on earth am I going to
fill the next five hours until bed time?” Although craft may
be way at the bottom of your To Do list – somewhere after
“teach the kids the drums” or “juggle venomous spiders” –
it can be simple, inexpensive and lots of fun!
With the right ideas and a few supermarket items, you’ll
be getting crafty in no time. Here are some bright ideas to
get you started.
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Stained Glass MosaicsA fancy name for a simple project using coloured Contact and whatever bits you have around the house. Children can easily stick objects straight to the plastic. No glue, tape or staples required.● SUiTS AgeS 6 moNTHS ANd UP. CRAfTiNg Time: 5 miNUTeS To SeT UP.
You will need: ❏ Contact – one colour or many ❏ sticky tape ❏ scissors ❏ a range of things to stick on the Contact
1. Cut a piece of Contact to fit whatever convenient window space you have. Use a window or glass door that is easy for the child to reach. Peel off the backing paper and use the sticky tape to adhere the corners of the Contact to the glass. Remember to put the non-sticky side of the contact against the glass. The sticky side should be facing out.2. Children can now stick the pieces straight onto the Contact. for many more projects and crafty tips visit www.jellyfishjelly.com
Straw boxThis activity is suitable for children of all ages; even babies can have a go. The best part is it takes seconds to make. The idea is simple – poke the straws into the holes. Use the box to store all the straws in.
You will need: ❏ small cardboard box such as a shoebox ❏ coloured straws ❏ scissors ❏ pen or pencil with a reasonably thick diameter
1. Cut the straws into a variety of sizes.Use the pen to pierce several holes into one side of the box.2. Show your child how to thread the straws into the holes.*optional: draw different coloured circles around each hole that match the colours of the straws. Show them how to put the right coloured straws into the corresponding hole.
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Where your child will attend school is as
easy as geography for those parents happy
with the education provided at the local
public school. For others it may follow religious values,
or be a mirror image of the education they themselves
experienced, or is perhaps set in family history. But for
many, the options are endless and at times overwhelming.
Whether you elect for private or independent education,
which covers a realm of religious and educational
philosophy schools, it is vital to make your decision early,
as there are often waiting lists and fees to consider.
Many parents without religious attachments are still
eager for their children to gain a private education. It may
seem the options are limited in Western Australia, outside
of alternative philosophy approaches, but there are several
schools without any affiliations,
including Murdoch College,
Helena College, the International
School of WA, for example and
several Christian colleges who tout
their non-denominational approach, as
well as community schools.
The best place to start looking is
the internet. Almost every school has a
website, some more comprehensive than
others. Once you have your shortlist you
will be able to find out more through open
days, tours or meeting with the school
principal and key staff members.
Your local council’s website should
have a list of schools in your area which
is useful when considering travel time.
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Friends and family can provide valuable feedback about
their personal experiences with schools. But remember,
reputations are often slow to change; unlike staff, principals
and attending students, which change from year to year.
Here is a broad overview of the schooling options
available.
Public
Going to school close to home can have its advantages. These
include having friends in the neighbourhood, the option of
walking to school, having other parents nearby to assist with
school runs and the potential for involvement in the local
community.
Most government schools take enrolments from the
second term of the year before your child will start school
with preference given to students within the local area.
To enrol, parents must provide a birth certificate and
immunisation record, and sometimes proof of residency in
the form of a utility bill.
If you are not happy with the local school assigned to
your catchment area, you can put your child’s name down at
another government school, in the hope that a place becomes
available once the local intake enrolments are complete.
All government schools have some form of fee structure
and, while encouraged, it is still voluntary and ranges
from $100-300 in primary years. The only way to know the
exact cost of a particular school is to ask. In addition to
the voluntary contributions, parents will also have to pay
for stationery, books, school uniform, sports equipment,
musical instruments, school trips and camps.
Religious
There are 11 major religions represented in WA schools
including Anglican, Baptist, Catholic,
Church of Christ, Free
Reformed, Greek
Othodox, Islamic,
Jewish, Lutheran, Seventh-
day Adventist and Uniting
Church.
The majority of religious schools
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Most Catholic schools require copies of your child’s
birth certificate, immunisation record, latest school reports
if transferring from another school, baptismal certificate,
letter of reference from a church pastor and an application
fee, generally $35-50. The school follows up applications
and interviews with the prospective students and their
families before offering places with annual fees ranging
from $900-2350 plus levies for early primary years.
An enrolment preference scheme
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with First Round offers given
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reference, however Baptist and
Anglican schools usually offer places
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Many of the Baptist, Anglican,
Lutheran, Islamic and Jewish schools
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of hosting classes from Kindergarten
through to Year 12, allowing students
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for the duration of their studies.
Annual fees at Baptist schools range from $2100 to $4350
for junior school, meanwhile fees at Anglican schools can
fetch anywhere from $2500 to $15,500 for primary education.
Lutheran education averages $2500 annually for early
primary, Islamic $1400 to $3000 annually, with heavy
discounts for siblings and Carmel School, the only
Jewish school in Perth, charges an enrolment fee of $200
and states a fee schedule is available upon application;
however, the school’s philosophy is to not exclude any
Jewish child and offers fee assistance as needed.
Children are free to
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and are siblings of students are often given
priority. The application process includes a
non-refundable fee of around $100. Annual
fees range from $4600-$8000 for primary
years, with additional levies and fees.
When choosing Montessori education it is
important to consider secondary education as many schools
do not go beyond primary years. The Montessori School in
Kingsley is the first in WA to include a secondary school.
Steiner – Waldorf approach
Steiner or Waldorf education is based on the methods of
Rudolf Steiner and aims to educate the child artistically,
from a holistic approach, by weaving art into every subject
to bring academic subjects to life.
Steiner schools are structured differently to the
majority of schools with no hierarchy or principal and
the teacher stays with the same class for the duration of
primary school.
The use of electronic media by students, particularly
television, is strongly discouraged.
Whilst there are fewer Waldorf schools than Montessori,
they are also generally cheaper. The application fee ranges
from $35-60 and annual fees from $2500-$4500 for Year One.
Few Steiner schools cater for the high school years. The
Perth Waldorf School in Bibra Lake is one rare example
offering Kindergarten through to Year 12.
Community/Alternative/Open Learning
Another option is community schools, sometimes called
alternative or open learning education. The schools act
independently and form their own curriculum and ethos,
the core philosophy is child-centred learning.
The schools pride themselves on encouraging a
direct partnership between parents and teachers in the
Montessori approach
Montessori education is growing steadily in Australia. It is
based around Dr Maria Montessori’s belief that education
begins at birth and during the
first years the child’s power of
absorption and learning is at its
highest.
Children are free to choose
their own activities and work at an
individual pace within the ‘prepared
environment’ classroom. Classes are
grouped in a three year age range.
The role of the teacher in the
Montessori approach is held
by a director who observes and
unobtrusively monitors each child’s
development.
Most schools require attendance
at information evenings or classroom
observation prior to application. Preference is given to
children in order of wait lists and on the basis of interviews;
however, children who have attended Montessori playgroups
Steiner schools are
structured differently
to the majority of
schools with no
hierarchy or principal
and the teacher stays
with the same class
for the duration of
primary school.
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education of children and are often small, co-educational,
multi-cultural and non-denominational.
One such example is Bold Park Community School
(BPCS). Rose Carey, the Registrar, says the school is unique
in its ability to offer the Reggio Emilia style of education
beyond early childhood, into primary, middle and college
years, after gaining registration to teach Year 11 and 12
from this year.
Rose explained that the Reggio Emilia approach views
young children as strong and capable. The child is not
an empty vessel ready to be filled with knowledge but a
unique individual who already has a great deal to offer.
Enrolment usually consists of a form and registration
fee. However, fees vary greatly as the schools operate
independently. For example, Kerry Street Community
School in Hamilton Hill charges $310 per term and does
not have a book list or uniform, and charges half price
fees for siblings, while the Quintilian School in Mount
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$1745 per term for primary years.
Home School
Another alternative is home based education. For some
people in remote locations home based learning is the only
option. However, other factors such as disability, illness,
behavioural problems, gifted children, cultural or religious
conflict or lack of confidence in the local schooling system
can lead families to opt for home schooling.
Still confused?
While it is important to consider each school based on its
individual information, parents should visit the schools
and meet with staff. At any school the staff and their
commitment will make a difference to the environment
and child’s experience.
All schools, whether state, private, religious or
alternative have their own culture and philosophies, so it
is important to consider your family’s beliefs and interests.
There is no point sending your child to a school which
holds values you do not respect.
the directory of public schools in WA can be found at
http://www.det.wa.edu.au/schoolsonline/home.do
to find out the private schools in your area try
http://www.privateschoolsdirectory.com.au/ or
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The girls have embraced the Junior School’s partnership with the Slow Food Movement. With their love of gardening and enthusiasm to observe the growth of a tiny seeds, they set about establishing a herb garden. Enjoying the slow food process of growing and harvesting food will continue in the weeks to come as the herbs are harvested, in particular when making bouquet garnis and mint sauce.
Guildford Grammar School has a long-standing reputation for providing an outstanding broad-based education for young people. The School is known for its high academic standards, sporting and cultural opportunities, and traditional values.
Catering for K-12, the School is made up of a co-educational Preparatory School, a boy’s only Senior School and boarding facilities for around 110 boys.
Guildford Grammar School has developed its own junior secondary curriculum for Years 7, 8 and 9; one that is specifically “built for boys”. The Catalyst program offers young men the opportunity to participate in a three-year program of courses and projects with a foundation of numeracy and literacy, as well as providing the flexibility and opportunity for boys to pursue areas of individual interest. The Catalyst program is generating international interest, with the School invited to present a paper at an international teaching and learning conference in May 2011.For more information visit www.ggs.wa.edu.au or call 9377 9222.
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the australian Federal Government reports that one in every four students in australian schools are victims of bullying.
By Vishal Maharaj, Child and adolesCent PsyChologist, azure PsyChology
Bullying is not something new and has been
around for much of human history and can be
defined as the intentional tormenting of others
through physical, verbal, or psychological behaviour. It can
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range from hitting, shoving, name-calling, threats, and
mocking to extorting money and treasured possessions.
Modern technology and communication forums such as
chat rooms and social networking sites have seen a rise
in cyber-bullying, so much so, that serious bullying is
prevalent amongst most social groups.
According to statistics commissioned by the Australian
Federal Government in 2010 one in every four students in
Australian schools are victims of bullying.
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It is here that children continue their learning process of
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If there is disruption to any of these developmental
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physical symptoms - reduced immunity to infection leading
to frequent colds, coughs, flu, bedwetting, headaches and
loss of appetite.
psychological symptoms – anxiety, panic attacks,
Detecting Bullying in your childSome parents find it difficult to elicit information from their
children because bullying can be shameful and embarrassing for
the victim as it displays a clear indication of their inability to deal
with the situation. There is also fear that if you do tell someone life
will become much more difficult. Given this restraint, it is critical
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• Returns from school with torn, damaged or missing
belongings
• Has unexplained cuts, bruises, and/or scratches
• Has few, if any, friends
• Appears afraid of going to school
• Has lost interest in school work
• Complains of headaches, stomach aches
• Has trouble sleeping and/or frequent nightmares
• Appears sad, depressed, or moody
• Appears anxious and/or has poor self-esteem
• Is quiet, sensitive, and passive
• Significant changes to general routine
Bullying is the intentional tormenting of others through physical, verbal, or psychological behaviour.
depression, thoughts of suicide, self-harm, forgetfulness,
poor concentration, flashbacks, an unusual degree of fear
and social isolation.
behavioural symptoms - tearfulness, irritability, angry
outbursts, obsessiveness (the experience takes over your
life), hyper vigilance (feels like but is not paranoia), mood
swings, withdrawal, picking, scratching and drug use.
Any of the above symptoms are in fact serious and if
not addressed at the right time can lead to more complex
problems in adulthood. Therefore, it is important to
address the issues once the problem has been identified.
additional informationIf you feel that your child is currently a victim of bullying
or in fact a bully please contact Azure Psychology on
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the average weight gain in pregnancy is anywhere between 12-14 kilograms however many women gain more than 15 kilograms, making it more difficult for them to regain their pre pregnancy shape and be at optimal health post pregnancy.
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So what are some ways around this? Firstly, don’t buy
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exerCiSeOne of the most common questions mums ask is “How
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weight that has been acquired on bums, legs and arms
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seem like an impossible task.
It is well documented that spot fat removal – such as
belly fat – is not possible and that an all-over body exercise
routine needs to be established to successfully rid areas of
fat, like the stomach. However, post pregnancy, the core is
important to focus on as it has not had much of a workout
over the previous nine months. The stomach muscles
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QMy children are one and three and they’re always getting sick! They’re not in day care but we do a lot of activities like
playgroup and dancing. We always seem to come away with a cold, gastro or some other nasty illness, while my friend’s kids cruise through germ free. Is there anything I can do to bolster their immune systems? Will the endless parade of illness ever end??
Last winter they were constantly sick and I’d rather avoid that this year if possible. They eat balanced diets, have plenty of fresh air and exercise and I strongly encourage hand washing. What can I do other than staying home all winter?
A On average toddlers have around nine colds per year, with Kindy kids having around 12 colds per year, and adolescents and adults have up to 7 colds per year. Some people will have more or less dependent on their own immune systems, level of exposure to the virus and other factors such as exposure to cigarette smoke, diet, exercise, sleep etc.
The best way to prevent children from catching colds is to teach them proper hand washing. The common cold is spread mostly by hand-to-hand contact. For example, a child with a cold blows or rubs their nose and then touches your child, who then touches their eyes or picks up food increasing the risk of becoming infected with the cold virus.
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So, I’m stuck in my opinion of what to do and how it will end up. I don’t want to lop off their foreskins unnecessarily. However I don’t want them to end up having to be operated on when they are older and suffer even more.
They have no infections and no discomfort so far.
A This is a highly debateable topic. For expert advice I suggest you talk to an urologist or urological surgeon for expert advice if you are concerned. Phimosis, is the inability to retract the foreskin of the penis. In fact, only about 4% of male babies are born with retractable foreskins and normal bathing of the penis with water and mild soap are generally sufficient to cleanse the penis.
Many people view this normal condition in children as phimosis and mistakenly attempt to force the foreskin back. This can cause harm and lead to the formation of lesions and the condition called acquired phimosis. Generally this condition in young children will totally disappear in all but a few cases by age 17.
The common cold is also spread by infected objects such as door handles, books, pens, remotes, computer keyboard and mouse. The common cold virus can live on objects for several hours, allowing time for your child to touch the object and then rub his or her eyes or nose or eat food prior to good hand hygiene. If your child or other family member has symptoms of a cold it is wise to keep them home and avoid contact with other people to keep the cold from spreading. You should also encourage your child to cover his or her mouth when sneezing, to use a tissue for nose blowing and to wash their hands after blowing their nose, coughing or sneezing. If a tissue is unavailable, teach your child to cough in their sleeve.
Keep a track on your calendar of when the children have a cold; the symptoms they have and how long it lasted and if you noted any potential triggers. If you are concerned this will provide you with some good information to take to your GP.
Q I have a 20 month old and
am concerned that we’re not brushing his teeth well enough. It’s not easy to do even when he’s being 100% cooperative. What’s the best way to take care of his teeth and at what age should he go to the dentist?
A Your child should see a dentist by the time they are one year old and tooth brushing is crucial from the time your baby has even one tooth. Start to develop a habit of brushing in the morning and night to establish a routine. Even before your baby has teeth, you can gently brush the gums, using water on a soft baby toothbrush, or clean them with a soft washcloth.
Once there are additional teeth, use infant / baby toothbrushes that are very soft. Brushing should be done twice daily using fluoridated toothpaste. Flossing should begin when two teeth touch each other. Ask your dentist to show you the right flossing techniques and guide you as to how often this should be performed.
Q Its a bit sensitive I guess but I have two boys (seven and three years old) whose foreskins don’t retract. One doctor has
told me they have Phimosis and they will never retract and another has told me not to worry and to leave it alone!
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PantsBy KAtE BuLLEN, DIEtICIAN AND CO-FOuNDER OF www.DOyOuEAt.COM.Au
fussy
are the words ‘yuck’ or ‘i don’t like this’ frequently heard at dinner time in your house? and are they generally voiced in reference to vegetables or meat? Well, you are not alone.
As a mum and a dietician, these words are regularly
uttered in my house too. So, I started to do some
reading, and it seems that the most disliked foods are
vegetables, followed by meats and fruit. No huge surprises
there! Here are a few reasons why these foods are most
often rejected:
1. It might be a protective mechanism, passed down from
our ancestors, to avoid poisonous foods.
2. Children seem to have a preference for sweet foods.
3. Children are creatures of habit and are often happy to
eat foods with which they are comfortable and familiar.
Fussiness is usually age related. Children often develop
fussiness with food around the age of two, while it
dissipates as they start school. Eating or not eating food
is a way for kids to express their independence and often
has nothing to do with the actual food you are giving them.
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When kids reject food it can be about the power play.
Remembering this can be empowering when you’re trying
to cope with the constant food rejection!
The good news is that there are a number of ways to
tackle fussiness, including continuing to offer different
types of foods on a regular basis. A two year old will need
to be offered a food at least 10 times before they show an
interest. A four to five year old may need to be offered a
food 15 or more times before they will accept it.
Also, it is not only how often a food is offered but how
the food is offered.
The mother is usually the most influential person when
it comes to kids liking food. Not surprisingly, the foods that
mum likes is often what the kids will like. And the reverse
– if mum doesn’t like a food, then usually the kids won’t
like it either. I am guilty of this – the only food that I really
don’t like is potato (five years at boarding school ... and I
suspect way too much Deb potato!). Now my four year old
daughter doesn’t like potato either. This isn’t a big issue
as we can get through life without mashed potato, but if
mum doesn’t like mushrooms, carrots, cucumber, peas,
beans and asparagus, then the children probably won’t
either. Our role modelling as mums is very powerful and
not to be under-estimated.
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• Serve up a shared family salad & get kids to choose at
least 10 pieces. Good for counting and gives kids some
control
• Offer vegetables as snacks
• Make plain pikelets and add a small tin of corn, grated
zucchini, carrot or chopped mushroom
• Have a salad sandwich as an afternoon snack. Try lettuce,
cucumber, tomato, avocado, grated carrot, mushrooms,
beetroot.
• Pizza – use pita bread or make your own bases. Add
baked pumpkin, zucchini, capsicum, mushrooms,
tomatoes and baby spinach.
tasty vegetables
• Kids generally like lean meat, so cut all fat from meat and choose lean mince.
• Offer meat with a dipping sauce • Meatballs are fantastic as the meat is moist• Meat kebabs – add colour with capsicum, pineapple, tomato and zucchini• Try different cuisines – tacos with lean mince or beef strips and salad, or tender slow cooked goulash• Burgers with mince patties and salad.
tasty meat
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• Choose fruit in season – cheaper and better quality
• Always have tinned fruit (in juice – not syrup) on hand.
Great for when out & about
• Frozen fruit is great on cereal, in milkshakes and baking
• Dried fruit is another option. Just not too much! The
small boxes of sultanas are a great serve size.
• Add fruit to salads. Oranges and mandarins can be used
instead of salad dressing.
tasty fruit
Vegetables are often preferred raw. A tasting plate is
something that I use at home. Some days I will get out all
our vegetables and ask my four year old to pick four or five
to have on her plate. Giving her some involvement and
choice really helps reduce the fussiness.
Social situations can encourage children to eat foods
that they usually don’t eat at home. A typical story is a
child at day-care who will eat all their vegetables but never
will at home. Consider this early peer pressure and use it
Children often develop fussiness with food around the age of two, which tends to dissipate as they start school.
Coming into winter, your family might not have seen
winter vegetables, such as sweet potato, pumpkin, swede
and turnip for many months. Try offering a food that your
child hasn’t tasted, or previously didn’t like, with a food
they do like. For example, when I make up a vegetable
plate I will often include a fruit (eg: apple, pear, mandarin,
kiwifruit) that they like. The fruit adds sweetness and
increases the chance of snow peas, carrots, roast pumpkin
and sweet potato being eaten.
Kate Bullen is an Accredited Practising Dietician and
Mum to a four year old and 18 month old. For more
information can be found at www.doyoueat.com.au
to your advantage! If you know they will eat something
elsewhere then they can eat it at home with you.
Another tip I use is having an early dinner – say 4.30-
5.00pm (yep – that early!). Then, if needed, a quick snack a
little later, bath and bed. Keeping it simple is the key!
If your child still refuses to eat then they are probably
not hungry. An easy trap to fall into is to keep offering
food but my advice is calmly take the food away (I put it
in the fridge in case they are hungry later) and move on.
A healthy child will not suffer from missing the odd meal
but they will learn a valuable lesson. We have had many
nights when my four year old daughter has gone to bed
without dinner. She is fine and she has now worked out
that if she doesn’t eat dinner then nothing else is offered.
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Winter has to be one of my favourite seasons - log fires, thick jumpers and cold toes. It’s also one of my
favourite cooking seasons. Soups and stews are amongst some of the oldest dishes in the world and teamed with fresh warm bread … well, I’m in foodie heaven!
They are also some of the easiest dishes to make and so very simple for children to help prepare.
Growing up, a favourite of mine was always tomato soup. The following recipe is based on a dozens of varieties I’ve tried over the years, along with some input from family and friends. I have finally found my perfect winter warmer....
winterwarmers
Easy PeasyMy favourite kitchen appliance to use during these cooler months is by far the slow cooker. I just throw all the ingredients in on the morning and by evening I have a house filled with delightful smells and not long after a belly filled with warming food!
Probably my favourite meat to cook in the slow cooker is beef, although lamb comes a close second.
And the great thing is, I don’t need to give you a recipe because anything really does go! Just put some chunks of beef, potatoes and any veggies you fancy along with some beef stock (enough to cover the meat) and maybe a dash of red wine and some fresh thyme or bay leaves and you can’t go wrong. Just add a bit of cornflour at the end to make a lovely, thick gravy. Lamb forequarters or shanks are also a great alternative, although I do like to brown the lamb first in a pan prior to placing it in the slow cooker.
Don’t forget to join us on Facebook to connect with other Mums for recipe ideas and up to date news about Yum In My Tum!
By JOHANNA GARNEtt
Tommy Soup800g canned whole tomatoes1 long red chilli, chopped4 garlic cloves, chopped½ carrot, grated1 tsp caster sugar2 tbs olive oil2 slices of sour dough bread, crust removed and cubed2 tbs balsamic vinegar2 tbs freshly chopped basil250ml waterSalt and pepper to taste.
Place tomatoes, chilli, carrot, garlic, sugar, oil, 250ml water and salt and pepper in a pan and bring to the boil. Then simmer for 15 mins. In a separate bowl, place the bread and balsamic and allow to soak for 10 mins. Add the bread and some fresh basil to the soup simmer for another 10 mins. Then, using a stick blender, blend until smooth. Serve with fresh bread and small fresh basil leaves.
All kids need dirt, trees, water,
experiences with animals and
adventure to grow healthy, happy and
strong! You can get all of these wonderful
experiences from … camping!
You don’t need to have camping gear
you can hire a campervan or rent a chalet or cabin in a
caravan park. In fact this is a good way to find out if your
family enjoy it before you start investing in tents and
sleeping bags.
Suggested camping destinations Within a two to four hour drive of Perth: Yanchep, Greenhead,
Dongara, Geraldton, Mandurah, Bunbury, Busselton, The
Perth Hills, Toodyay, Pinjarra, The Stirling Ranges.
For those wanting to escape the Perth winter consider
going further afield and exploring The Coral Coast, Pilbara
or Kimberley, as May to October is the best time to visit
these areas.
CampervansFor those of you cringing at the thought of sharing showers,
camp kitchens and going without home comforts such as
TV, campervans are a good way to begin camping. Many
provide their own shower and toilet and come equipped with
kitchens, TVs and DVDs so you don’t have to go completely
cold turkey especially for those with older children.
Tents, Caravans, Cabins
Many caravan parks offer cabins with your own kitchen
facilities but only provide communal showering/toilet
blocks. For those who want to really camp and stay
in a tent, you can enjoy a much cheaper holiday and
experience the curiosity and excitement that ‘tent living’
brings to children. Camping offers your children a chance
to meet and play with a host of other children and
hopefully as you point out the luxuries of your home that
they are missing, they will appreciate them more when
you return home.
Heading north for the winterWith all of this in mind we took the boys camping last
September. We hired a Maui van and drove up the coast
to Shark Bay. Did you know the region, including and
surrounding Shark Bay, is World Heritage Listed? You don’t
need to take your family overseas to experience culture
and history, it is right on your doorstep and you need to
show your kids, after all it is their heritage! The van was
lots of fun and a great way to travel. The boys could sit
at the dining table in the back and draw and play games
while we drove, as the camper is fitted with seat belts. This
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We’ve got plenty of fun stuff for kids of all ages.
Hurry limited places.
Challenge StadiumSwim School | Gym Dance | Kanga Karate Holiday Sports Club ZumbAtomic | Fit Club
9441 8222venueswest.wa.gov.au/cs
Arena JoondalupSwim School | Gym Flippa Ball | Sporting Clinics Holiday Sports Club | Fit Club Vacation Care
9300 3355venueswest.wa.gov.au/aj
Monkey Mia is worth a day trip but is not for camping;
the resort is lovely but really only offers an up-market
holiday. The kids loved the dolphin experience and enjoyed
a camel ride on the beach.
If you have time to drive further north to Warroora
Station (pronounced Warra) it is an ideal place to
experience the Australian outback in its most natural
state. They can accommodate caravans and motor homes,
but for a true ‘outback, all natural, camping holiday’ you
can’t beat Warroora. You can find your own secluded spot
in the dunes near pristine coastline and enjoy fantastic
fishing, exploring and the most amazing night skies. An
important tip – take fly nets as this is a working cattle and
sheep station. The property is ‘eco-friendly’ and they pride
themselves on taking care of the ‘fragile nature of this
area’. For more information on booking, facilities and rules
visit www.warrorrastation.com
Sample Pricing – family of four Campervan.
Seven nights Maui 4 berth van, approx $245 per day. All
bedding and crockery is supplied.
Camp grounds and caravan parks ranged from $35 - $100
a night. Tip - We stocked up on food before we left Perth.
www.mauicampers.com.au
made for a very peaceful journey and not nearly so many
“Are we there yets?”
It is advisable to plan an itinerary and book ahead
as you will need a powered site and June to October is
busy. The boys really enjoyed the changes in landscape
and farm animals, which prompted many questions
on science, agriculture, climate and geography. The
wildflowers were also in full bloom and a beautiful sight.
We stopped for a night at Wildflower Caravan Park to break
up the journey and then headed to Nanga Bay – an hour
south of Shark Bay.
Nanga Bay
This is a terrific spot, right on the beach. It's a safe camp
site environment for kids to be able to do some exploring
on their own. Facilities include a swimming pool, hot
natural spa and a range of camping options, from tent
sites to chalets. Keep in mind that the shop has limited
supplies and is pricey however they do offer great value
‘family roast nights’.
Next we stayed at Shark Bay Caravan Park which was
clean, has a great pool area and is central enough to walk
or scoot into town.
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handy camping websiteswww.westernaustralia.com/campingwww.familyparks.com.auwww.australiassouthwest.comwww.nztravelorganiser.com. www.kangarootentcity.com.au - Camping checklistswww.travel-australia-online.com/camping-checklist.html
Planning ahead for the summer school holidaysOne of my favorite overseas destinations is New Zealand
and the best way to see it is to drive. New Zealand
has some of the best camping grounds you will find
anywhere in the world. They have excellent facilities, are
exceptionally clean and they are everywhere!
So if you want to combine camping with a plane ride
and Duty Free shopping this family holiday takes some
beating. The campervan companies are all located at
the airport so you can literally step off the plane straight
into your accommodation and start driving. The roads
are fantastic, it is easy to get around and you are never
more than half an hour’s drive from the next place. New
Zealanders love tourists; they are exceptionally helpful
and proud of their country.
The kids will love the camping grounds, action-packed
adventure parks and activities like jet boats, white water
rafting, caving, hiking, and skiing, and will be fascinated by
the Maori villages and traditions. The parents will love how
easy this holiday is, not to mention the delicious cuisine
and award winning wines! You will need to book now for
the December to March period which is the best time to go
camping in New Zealand and booking in advance will get
you the cheapest airfares.
www.newzealand.com
Heading south – winter or summerAfter declaring the Shark Bay camping trip a huge success we
decided to go camping again, but this time we headed south.
Bush camping is the best way for kids to really explore
the outdoors with few limitations (other than safety
factors), allowing them to get dirty and make their
own fun. Finding moments of stillness and quiet in an
otherwise noisy and overly stimulated environment is
precious. For this type of ‘free or natural’ camping visit
www.exploreaustralia.net.au
Advantages of touring the South West in a campervan:
Unlike when you head north, there are many towns close
together so you can enjoy a few different locations without
having to spend hours driving.
The winter time can be beautiful Down South; although
it can be quite cold, there is still lots of sunshine around.
Winter Down South offers you a chance to explore
more than just the beach.
Sample Pricing
There is literally an abundance of caravan parks, cabins,
farm stays, holiday houses to chalets so the best way to
get started is to Google the area you want to visit. You will
have plenty of information and websites to choose from
and you can plan a holiday to suit your budget.
Camping tips for families
• Teach young children to stay within eyesight, and
older children within earshot.
• Sort and pack each day of your children’s clothes
within individual small plastic grocery bags in his
suitcase. This way your child can grab a bag in the
morning and have a full set of clothes for the day,
and at night he can stuff the dirty ones back in the
bag thus not mixing up the rest of the suitcase.
• The key to comfortable camping with kids is to
dress them in several layers, which can be peeled
off as they get warm or added on as they cool off.
• Provide each child with their own torch to prevent
any arguments. Children love to play with the
torches and having one also makes them more
at ease after dark. Torches are also handy when
making trips to the showers/toilets, for making
shadow puppets on tent walls and for reading
before bed.
• Teach your children to treat the outdoors kindly.
It’s a great opportunity to educate them about
sustainability, animal habitats, littering and caring
for our environment.
• Camping with children is more fun when you
bring a playmate along. Two or more children will
entertain themselves for longer periods than will a
single child.
• If you have a campervan and are staying in caravan
parks it is easier not to use the onboard bathroom/
toilet facilities – less that you have to clean. We
used this area as storage space.
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CALENDAR OF EVENTSFRiDAy 27Th MAy TO 5Th JuNE 2011
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TimE various
vEnUE various
COnTACT Sarah Langley 0426 243 738
TuESDAy 7Th JuNE
PAREnT/BABy wORkSHOP - "kiDS’n’mUSiC" An interactive, creative music session for parents & babies using a variety of props including scarves, brushes, instruments, bubbles, sign language, body percussion and more. Morning Tea provided.
COST $6 per person
TimE 10.30am to 11.30am
vEnUE Joondalup Library, 102 Boas Avenue
COnTACT To book please phone 9400 4707
TuESDAy 14Th JuNE 2011 (also July 12th and August 8th)
wOOlDRiDGES “THE READinG TREE” READinG PROGRAm FOR kiDS Held every second Tuesday of each month our dedicated library specialist will read to children while parents can relax in the coffee lounge.
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TimE 10.30am to 11.30am
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COnTACT Bookings are essential, please call 9241 4800
calendar of eventsSATuRDAy 18Th JuNE 2011
HAnDmADE CHilDREn’S mARkETS Handmade Children’s Markets showcases a wide variety of quality handmade and other goods and services for children aged zero to ten years old.
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TimE 10:00am to 2:00pm
vEnUE Melville Civic Centre, Almondbury Rd, Booragoon (entry off Davy St)
COnTACT [email protected], 0424958630
SuNDAy 19Th JuNE 2011
COnvERSATiOnS wiTH THE DAlAi lAmA His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama of Tibet will be engaging with Australian audiences through a series of Public Conversations.
COST $15 to $50
TimE 9.30am to 11.30am
vEnUE Burswood Dome
COnTACT www.dalailamainaustralia.org
WEDNESDAy 22ND JuNE
PAREnT/BABy wORkSHOP – “BABy SiGnS” A captivating session showcasing techniques to communicate with your baby months before your baby even learns to speak. Learn some simple signs using the AUSLAN sign language and find out the benefits of using this program. Morning Tea provided.
COST $6 per person
TimE 10:00am to 11:30am
vEnUE Whitford Library, Cnr Marmion and Banks Avenues, Hillarys
COnTACT Bookings are essential: 9401 8222
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COST $17
TimE 10am
vEnUE Fremantle
COnTACT Julia 0450 067 036 [email protected]
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CALENDAR OF EVENTS calendar of eventsFRiDAy 24Th TO 26Th JuNE 2011
EvERywOmAn ExPO The latest in cosmetics, fashion, health and beauty, wine and food, lifestyle and fitness, personal enlightenment, spiritual guidance and more.
COST $10-$15
TimE 9.00am to 6.00pm daily (8pm on Friday)
vEnUE Perth Convention and Exhibition Centre
COnTACT www.everywoman.exibit.com.au
SuNDAy 26Th JuNE 2011
PERTH UPmARkET Over 150 stalls including handmade clothing, jewellery, giftware, toys, and art. Includes a dedicated Junior Upmarket section.
COST FREE
TimE 10.00am to 4.00pm
vEnUE Winthrop Hall, UWA
COnTACT www.perthupmarket.com.au
SuNDAy 3RD JuLy
TREASURE HUnT mARkET PlACE A market for new goods and services that has something for everyone
COST FREE
TimE 10am to 1pm
vEnUE Craigie Leisure Centre
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MONDAy 11Th JuLy
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TimE 10.00am to 12.00pm
vEnUE Piney Lakes Education Centre, Winthrop
COnTACT Ph: 9364 0790 Email: [email protected]
MONDAy 11Th JuLy
THE wOnDERFUl wORlD OF wORmS Learn about the magic of worms by building a worm-farm. Make your own seedling pots out of recycled newspaper to fill with yummy vegetables to grow in your garden at home.
COST $6 per child
TimE 1.00 to 3.00pm
vEnUE
COnTACT
Held at Piney Lakes Environmental Education Centre, Leach Highway, WinthropPhone: 9364 0790 or Email: [email protected]
FRiDAy 15Th TO 17Th JuLy 2011
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COST $31.50 to $75 (concession and child prices available)
TimE 9.00am to 5.00pm daily
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SuNDAy 24Th JuLy 2011 (also Sunday 18th September)
CHATTERBOx mARkETS Chatterbox Markets is the newest market in Perth not to be missed. Showcasing a wide variety of boutique, handmade and unique products for all ages from Work at Home businesses.
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TimE 10am to 2pm
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SATuRDAy 30Th AND SuNDAy 31ST JuLy 2011
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COST Various, some events are FREE
TimE 9.00am to 5.00pm daily
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SATuRDAy 6Th AuguST 2011
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COST Tickets $20 full and $15 concession from WAAPA Box Office 9370 6895
TimE 7.30pm to 9.30pm
vEnUE Midland Junction Arts Centre
COnTACT Sarah Ryan, 9267 9466 or [email protected]
SuNDAy 7Th AuguST 2011
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COST FREE
TimE 11.00am to 3.00pm
vEnUE Fishmarket Reserve, Guildford
COnTACT Swan Valley Visitors Centre, 9379 9400 or [email protected].
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TimE 11:30am to 3:30pm
vEnUE Garvey Park, Fauntleroy Avenue, Ascot
COnTACT Marielle Azzopardi 9477 7248 or [email protected]
SuNDAy 21ST AuguST
mARkET GiRl – BOUTiqUE HAnDmADE mARkET Market Girl is a boutique handmade market with something for everyone. The place to see all the emerging designers & unique retailers across WA.
COST FREE ENTRY & FREE PARKING
TimE 10am to 3pm
vEnUE Joondalup Reception Centre
COnTACT www.marketgirl.com.au, [email protected]
SuNDAy 28Th AuguST 2011
CiTy TO SURF The annual City to Surf for Activ fun run includes the marathon, half marathon, 12 km run and walk and 4km run and walk.
COST fees for registration
TimE from 6am
vEnUE Perth City, Perry Lakes and City Beach
COnTACT www.citytosurf.activ.com.au
PARTy DiRECTORy
Hire or Buy affordable, good quality costumes!
Balloons & accessories also available!
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[email protected]: 0457 965 334
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Diana Panucci 0419 173 200Christening Attire for both Boys and GirlsPlease phone to arrange an appointment
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Child Care Centre
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