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October 2019 – June 2020

Preparation for

Holy Communion at Sunday Mass

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Front cover image: © Bible App for Kids

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Contents

Introduction 3

Practicalities relating to the Enrolment Ceremony 6

October 2019 Called and Chosen:

Enrolment Ceremony at Sunday Mass 7

Enrolment Ceremony outside of Mass 12

November 2019 We celebrate the Saints 17

December 2019 We wait for Jesus’ birth 20

January 2020 We listen to God’s word 23

February 2020 I’m sorry 26

March 2020 Lent 29

April 2020 We give thanks 32

May 2020 We receive the Body of Christ 35

June 2020 We are the Body of Christ 38

Appendix: Dates and Gospel readings 41

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Introduction

Welcome to our parish Holy Communion programme for 2019 – 2020. This

programme offers you, the parish community, a way of acknowledging and

supporting children and their families as they journey throughout this special year

towards the celebration of Holy Communion. While the child’s faith is primarily

developed at home, it is supported through participation and a sense of belonging at

the parish Mass.

As a parish community, we gather as God’s family of families to pray together and to

live the joy of the Gospel by reaching out in loving service. The parish community

intentionally expresses the reality of being companions on the journey by welcoming

children and their families who are preparing for the first of many communions, and

by integrating this journey into the Sunday Mass.

Family is the primary place where children and adults experience growing in love and

growing in faith. In the love of a parent’s gaze, we are opened to discover the love of

God and others. Robert Frost recognised that “We begin in infancy by establishing

correspondence of eyes with eyes”. Sometimes it is the parent who reveals God’s

love, other times it is the child. “There are those whose eyes so luminous shine, they

reflect upon our universe the light of the Divine” according to Edwina Gately.

However old we are, God always meets us where we are at! In prayer, we are

encouraged to look at God looking at us, loving us. In this tender regard, a personal

relationship with God is nurtured. Of its nature, it cannot remain private. It finds its

expression in loving action and concern for others.

The religious education programme Grow in Love also serves as a link in the home –

school – parish partnership through the family conversations encouraged in the

Thursday evening homework and through the visits of parish clergy in the classroom.

The school-based learning is also a significant component in this special time of

preparation of the sacraments of Reconciliation and Holy Communion.

How to use this booklet

This programme follows the liturgical year from October to June. It highlights Sunday

Mass as a celebration where we gather, listen to the word of God, are nourished by

the Body of Christ and are sent out to live the Gospel. It is coordinated by a

preparation team of parents in collaboration with the priest, members of the Parish

Pastoral Council, liturgy group and music ministers.

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The programme is designed to be flexible to suit the needs and possibilities of your

parish context. Choose a Sunday of your choice for this monthly programme.

Complement it with practices that have worked well for your parish in the past.

1. Involving different members of the community

• Ask a member of the Parish Pastoral Council to introduce the Gathering Rite

(Reader 1).

• Ask a number of people to be involved in the Mass: Invite a parishioner to read

the Prayer of the Faithful or you may like to invite a parent to read the

Communion Reflection. Invite a family to bring up the bread and wine to the

altar.

2. Creating a Sacred Space

• This creates a focal point and acts as a reminder that God speaks through signs

and symbols as well as words.

• You might like to invite the children who are preparing for Holy Communion to

bring their candle, received at the Enrolment Ceremony, and to place it in the

Sacred Space. To be ready for collection at the end of the Mass, please ask an

adult to quench the candles after communion. Remember - do what is practical

and possible in your parish in liaison with your liturgy group.

3. Choosing Music

In preparing for the monthly celebration, you might consult with the music

group so that they can incorporate some of the songs the children have been

learning in line with the liturgical season and preparation theme.

Some suggestions from Grow in Love

Oct: Called and Chosen Grow in Love (p.138)

Nov: We Celebrate the Saints Circle of Friends (p.44)

Dec: Waiting for Jesus’ birth Prepare Ye (p.120)

Jan: We Listen to God’s Word Following a Star (p.122)

Feb: I’m Sorry I’m Sorry, God (p.165)

Mar: Lent Grow in Love (p.138)

Apr: We Give Thanks This is the Day (p.212)

May: We Receive the Body of Christ Eat this Bread (p.191)

Jun: We Are the Body of Christ Circle of Friends (p.44)

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4. During the Mass

To enable the children grow in confidence with the various responses and

movements during the Mass, encourage the use of the Diocesan

Congregational Card. To promote inclusion in the community celebration,

invite people to come for a blessing if they do not wish to receive Communion.

5. The Readings and Prayer of the Faithful

The Ministers of the Word will proclaim the Readings.

For the Prayer of the Faithful, an older family member could be invited to read

or the Minister of the Word assigned on the Parish rota. If the children

preparing for Communion are writing their own prayers, please follow the

suggested headings:

▪ For Pope Francis, Bishop Ray / all leaders…

▪ For parents and families…

▪ For children preparing for the Sacraments…

▪ For the needs of our world…

▪ For people in our parish…

▪ For the dead…

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Enrolment Ceremony

The journey towards Holy Communion begins with the Enrolment Ceremony in

October. This is preferably during the Saturday Vigil / Sunday Mass, highlighting the

parish context of the faith journey. However, a parish might decide to have the

Enrolment Ceremony outside of Mass due to the size of the group involved.

Enrolment Ceremony at Sunday Mass

• The enrolment ceremony takes place after the Gospel.

• If you are giving a candle to the family of each child preparing for Holy Communion, confirm numbers beforehand. Place these candles on a table in the sanctuary or in the sacred space ready for distribution at the end of Mass.

• Have a photocopy of the commitment and responses for the families involved. This can be taken home and kept in their sacred space / stuck on the fridge as a reminder of the promises involved in this special year of preparation.

• Where individual photocopies are impractical, simplify the response of the parents and guardians / parish community to “I do”.

• Before the Concluding Rite, the candles are brought from the sacred space or table by the Altar Servers and distributed with the help of a member of the Parish Pastoral Council.

Enrolment Ceremony outside of Mass

• Where possible this would take place in the local church rather than the school,

inviting members of the parish community to participate by their presence and

prayer in this enrolment ceremony. Invite parishioners by announcing it at

Mass and in the parish newsletter.

• Ensure you have enough candles beforehand for every child who is preparing

for Holy Communion. Place these candles on a table in the sanctuary or in the

sacred space ready for distribution at the end of the ceremony.

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Enrolment Ceremony at Sunday Mass

Gathering Rite

Reader 1 Our parish community is delighted to welcome today the girls and boys

who are preparing for their Holy Communion next May. During the year

you will be learning more about our great friend Jesus, who calls and

chooses each one of us to be his friend. We need one another for our

faith to grow, no matter what age we are! Our faith journey began at

baptism when our parents, priest, family, friends and members of the

parish community gathered to welcome and pray for the tiny infant that

you were. We recall our baptism now with the lighting of the Paschal

candle.

Paschal candle is lit

Rite of Blessing and Sprinkling of Water Altar server holds bowl of water in front of priest

Priest Dear brothers and sisters, let us now ask the Lord to bless this water.

Water is a precious gift needed for all life. Let us grow in our appreciation

of it. Each time we bless ourselves is a reminder of our baptism.

May God’s grace help us to remain faithful to the spirit we have received.

Brief pause of silence…

Almighty ever living God, who willed that through water, the fountain of

life and the source of purification, every soul should be cleansed and

receive the gift of eternal life; be pleased, we pray, to + bless this water,

by which we seek protection on this your day, O Lord.

Renew the living springs of your grace within us and grant that by this

water we may be defended from all ills of spirit and body, and so

approach you with hearts made clean and worthy to receive your

salvation. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Priest sprinkles himself, ministers and congregation

May almighty God cleanse us from our sins, and through the celebration

of this Eucharist make us worthy to share at the table of his kingdom.

All Amen.

October 2019

Called and Chosen

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Liturgy of the Word

Readings of Sunday liturgy are proclaimed by Ministers of the Word

Homily Notes How do we really get to know someone? It might start with an introduction, or hearing something

about that person. A friend introduced me to a delightful, free app called The Bible App for Kids.

This has colourful animated bible stories in a child-friendly presentation. It can help us get to know

Jesus in a fun way. We also get to know Jesus from our parents and grandparents when they share

their favourite stories with us. We learn about Jesus in school too through the Grow in Love RE

programme. At Sunday Mass, we meet Jesus through the priest, through the parish community,

through the Scripture readings and in the Eucharist. When you’re listening, notice what verbs are

being used by Jesus and about Jesus. And the best way of getting to know someone is simply

spending time together. We will take a moment to do this after Communion today.

Over the months ahead, you and your families are on a journey of deepening friendship – with one

another and with Jesus. I look forward to seeing you at Sunday Mass where we celebrate God’s love

as a parish community. Every month we will have a special focus to help you prepare for the

sacraments of Eucharist and Reconciliation.

Enrolment Ceremony Reader 2 Now we will have a short ceremony of enrolment for the children who are

preparing for the first of many communions throughout their lives. In the Grow in Love programme, the children have been learning that through our Baptism each person has been called and chosen by God. Every time we gather as a circle of friends, as family, as a parish faith community, we do so in the company of our friend Jesus. I invite the children who are preparing for Holy Communion to stand. The response to each promise is We Do. After the priest’s blessing, say Amen.

Priest

Girls and boys, you have been preparing to receive the gift of Jesus through Holy Communion since you were small. Next year you will receive communion for the first of many times, to nourish and strengthen you in life. As you prepare in a special way in the coming months, do you promise to listen carefully to all the people who will help you learn about God’s love?

Children We do.

Priest Do you promise to try to get to know God better by praying at home with your family, by being a friend to Jesus and by coming to Mass regularly?

Children We do.

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Priest +May you know God’s great love for you. May you experience much joy growing in love with Jesus. May this joyful love flow out to your families, friends and wider community.

All Amen. Reader 2

Girls and boys thank you, you may now sit down. I invite all parents and guardians to stand for their commitment.

Priest God has called and chosen you to be parents and guardians. You have asked that your children continue the faith journey that they began at their Baptism. Do you promise to help your child grow in love with Jesus by praying together at home and by committing to engage in the Grow in Love homework with your child?

Parents I promise to pray with and encourage my child’s faith in this year of preparation for Holy Communion.

Priest Do you promise to love, support and pray with your children as members of this parish community through regular celebration of Sunday Mass?

Parents Priest All

I promise to pray with my child and I commit to accompanying my child to Sunday Mass. +May God bless you abundantly with wisdom, patience, joy and laughter. May you discover God’s love on this faith journey, more than you could ever imagine as your family grows in love. Amen.

Reader 2

Priest All Priest All

Would all our parishioners please stand. As members of the family of God it is our responsibility to be a welcoming, compassionate faith community. Do you, parishioners, promise to welcome and enable these families to deepen their faith and together as a faith community be a compassionate presence in our world? We do. As your priest, I commit to proclaiming the Good News of Jesus joyfully that together we may be a community gathered in love. Amen.

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Prayer of the Faithful

Priest Loving God, you call us to be your friends. You choose each of us to be a sign of your love. We ask you now to hear the prayers of our hearts. The response is Lord graciously hear us. Reader 3 For Pope Francis and Bishop Ray, that through their leadership we may better understand and respond to Jesus’ great love for all people and all creation. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us. Reader 3 For all children, that they may know and share the wonderful gift of Jesus’ friendship. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us. Reader 3 For parents, that God’s love may be revealed through their guidance, patience and generosity. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us. Reader 3 For those who are sick, that they may encounter God’s tenderness in the people that care for them. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us. Reader 3 For missionaries and aid workers who spread God’s message of hope, especially in areas of conflict and war. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us. Reader 3 For all who are finding life challenging at present, that they may be surprised by God’s closeness. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us. Reader 3 For the deceased members of our families and parish community. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us. Priest O God, generous creator of all life, hear and answer the prayers of our hearts.

We ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord. All Amen.

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Liturgy of the Eucharist

Communion Reflection

Reader 4

We pause for a moment to give thanks to Jesus…

Simply close your eyes… If you want, place your hand on your heart.

Become aware of the steady beating of your heart…

Know that Jesus is at home in your heart.

He is always present,

loving you,

all the days of your life.

Rest in this love.

Thank you, Jesus, for this time together.

Thank you for the gift of your loving friendship.

In the week ahead, help me share your love at home, in school and in the parish.

Amen

Before the Concluding Rite*

Priest I invite the children who are preparing for Holy Communion to come up

to the sanctuary to receive a candle. This candle may be lit when you

pray at home as a family or when you are discussing your Grow in Love

homework or at other special moments shared together at home.

When each child has received their candle:

Priest Receive this candle. May lighting it at home remind you that this faith

to families community welcomes, encourages and supports you as a circle of faith

friends. May Christ’s light always shine brightly in your hearts, your

homes, in our parish and in the world.

All Amen.

Concluding Rite as usual

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Enrolment Ceremony outside of Mass

Gathering Rite

Reader 1 Our parish community welcomes in a special way the girls and boys

who are preparing for their Holy Communion next May. During the year

you will be learning more about our great friend Jesus, who calls and

chooses each one of us to be his friend. We need one another for our

faith to grow, no matter what age we are! Our faith journey began at

baptism when our parents, priest, family, friends and members of the

parish community gathered to welcome and pray for the tiny infant

that you were. We recall our baptism now with the lighting of the

Paschal candle.

Paschal candle is lit

Reader 1 As we light the Paschal candle, may we be reminded of God’s love shining

in our lives.

Priest May God, who through water and the Holy Spirit has given us a new birth

in Christ, be with you all.

All And also with you.

Priest This holy water reminds us of Christ, the living water. It also reminds us

of our Baptism. Whenever we use holy water in blessing ourselves - as

we enter the church or at home - we’re thanking God for the precious

gift of life. We’re also asking for God’s protection.

Priest sprinkles holy water on the assembly

Priest In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

All Amen.

Opening Hymn: BAPTISM SONG

1. Water holy water. Over our heads. x 2 2. Candle, burning candle. God is with us. x 2 3. Garment, white garment. Sign of love. x 2

We are baptised in God’s name We are the children of God.

October 2019

Called and Chosen

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Priest Loving God you have chosen each one of us to be here tonight. During

this special time of preparation for Holy Communion, open all our hearts

and continue to draw us closer to your friendship.

Help us become followers of Jesus by loving and serving one another in

our homes, school/s and parish community. We ask this through Jesus

Christ our Lord.

All Amen.

Reader 2 We stand to listen to God’s word.

Alleluia, alleluia! I call you friends, says the Lord, because I have made

known to you everything I have learnt from my Father. Alleluia!

Priest A reading from the Gospel of John John 15:12-17

Jesus said to his disciples:

‘This is my commandment: Love one another as I have loved you. A person can have no greater love than to lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends, if you do what I command you. I shall not call you servants anymore, because a servant does not know his master’s business; I call you friends, because I have made known to you everything I have learnt from my Father. You did not choose me, no, I chose you; and I commissioned you to go out and to bear fruit, fruit that will last; and then the Father will give you anything you ask him in my name. What I command you is to love one another.’

The Gospel of the Lord.

All Praise to you Lord Jesus Christ

Homily notes

How do we really get to know someone? It might start with an introduction, or hearing something

about that person… A friend introduced me to a wonderful, free app called The Bible App for Kids.

This has colourful animated bible stories in a child friendly presentation which helps us get to know

Jesus in a fun way. We also get to know Jesus from our parents and grandparents when they share

their favourite stories with us. We learn about Jesus in school too through the Grow in Love RE

programme. At Sunday Mass, we meet Jesus through the priest, through the parish community,

through the Scripture readings and in the Eucharist. Just notice what verbs are being used by Jesus

and about Jesus. The best way of getting to know someone is simply spending time together. Jesus’

message is all about love, as we’ve just heard in this Gospel. He calls us his friends because he has

always loved us. Next May you will receive Holy Communion for the first of many times in your life.

However, Jesus is already with you, in your heart, loving you. For a moment, close your eyes and

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quietly put your hand on your heart. Become aware of your steady heartbeat. Know that Jesus loves

you constantly with every beat of your heart. Take a moment to thank Jesus for always being with

you. Add in anything you want to say to him… Amen. Open your eyes again.

Over the months ahead, you and your families are on a journey of deepening friendship – with one

another and with Jesus. On this shared faith journey, I look forward to seeing you at Sunday Mass

where we celebrate God’s love as a parish family. Every month we will have a special focus to help

you prepare for the sacraments of Holy Communion and Reconciliation.

Enrolment Ceremony

Reader 3 Now we will have a short ceremony of enrolment for the children who are preparing for the first of many communions throughout their lives. In the Grow in Love programme, the children have been learning that through our Baptism each person has been called and chosen by God. Every time we gather as a circle of friends, as family, as a parish faith community, we do so in the company of our friend Jesus.

I invite the children who are engaging in this time of preparation for Holy Communion to stand. The response to each promise is We Do. After the priest’s blessing, say Amen.

Priest

Girls and boys, you have been preparing to receive the gift of Jesus through Holy Communion since you were small. Next year you will celebrate the first of many times you will receive communion, to nourish and strengthen you in life. As you prepare in a special way in the coming months, do you promise to listen carefully to all the people who will help you learn about God’s love for us?

Children We do.

Priest Do you promise to try to get to know God better by praying at home with your family, by being a friend to Jesus and by coming to Mass?

Children We do.

Priest +May you know God’s great love for you. May you experience much joy growing in love with Jesus. May this joyful love flow out to your families, friends and wider community.

All Amen. Reader 3 Thank you, children, you can now sit down. I invite all adults to stand. The

next set of promises is for parents and guardians. Then the parish community will also commit to supporting you during this time.

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Priest God has called and chosen you to be parents. You have asked that your children continue the faith journey that they began at their Baptism. Do you promise to help your child grow in love with Jesus by praying together at home and by committing to engage in the Grow in Love homework with your child?

Parents I promise to pray with and encourage my child’s faith learning in this year of preparation for Holy Communion.

Priest Do you promise to love, support and pray with your children as members of this parish community through regular celebration of Sunday Mass?

Parents Priest All

I promise to pray with my child and I commit to accompanying my child to Sunday Mass. +May God bless you abundantly with wisdom, patience, joy and laughter. May you discover on this faith journey more than you could ever hope for or imagine as your family grows in love.

Amen.

Priest All Priest All

As members of the family of God it is our responsibility to be a welcoming, compassionate faith community. Do you, parishioners, promise to welcome and enable these families to deepen their faith and together as a faith community be a compassionate presence in our world?

We do. As your priest, I commit to proclaiming the Good News of Jesus joyfully that together we may be a community gathered in love.

Amen.

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Priest Loving God, you call us your friends. In trust we bring you the prayers of our hearts.

Reader We ask you Lord to bless all in leadership: Pope Francis, Bishop Ray,

all parents, guardians, teachers and priests.

Lord hear us.

Lord graciously hear us.

Reader We thank you for your great love for each one of us. We ask you Jesus

to help us get to know you more and more in the coming months.

Lord hear us.


Reader We ask you Lord to hold in your heart all people in our parish who are

housebound or lonely or struggling at present.

Lord hear us.


Priest Loving God who calls each one of us by name,

look with kindness on your friends gathered here tonight.

Throughout this time of preparation for Holy Communion,

may we continue to grow in love with you and with one another.

We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Priest Together we pray the prayer that Jesus taught us Our Father…

Priest As friends of Jesus, let us reach out and offer one another a sign of

peace.

optional Receive this candle. May lighting it at home remind you that this faith

community joins with you as a circle of faith friends to welcome,

encourage and support you.

Priest +May Christ’s light always shine brightly in your hearts, your homes, in

our parish and in the world. .

All Amen. Closing Song

Circle of friends all around you. Circle of friends, strong and true Circle of friends, always there for you.

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Preparation for Holy Communion at Sunday Mass

Gathering Rite

Reader 1 As a faith community, we welcome the girls and boys who are preparing

for the sacraments of Reconciliation and Holy Communion. This month

we remember in a special way all who have died and are now part of the

Communion of Saints. Their lives won’t have been perfect, yet amid their

faults and failings, they kept trying to love and live as Jesus calls us all to

do.

Liturgy of the Word


Homily Notes

In a wonderful document called Rejoice and Be Glad, Pope Francis describes the Saints as a circle of

friends who guide, encourage and protect us. He also gets us to look at the saints next door! Who

comes to mind when you hear that phrase? Pope Francis, likes to “contemplate the holiness present

in the patience of God’s people: in those parents who raise their children with immense love, in

those men and women who work hard to support their families, in the sick, in the elderly religious

who never lose their smile.” In other words, saints are ordinary people who reflect God’s presence.

Each of us in his or her own way can do this, wherever we are: at home, in school, in our workplace.

Pope Francis encourages us to listen to the word that Jesus speaks in our hearts. This is how each

one of us can use our personal gifts to share his message of love. The way in which we reflect and

show the love of God is unique to each person. There are many ways of sharing Jesus’ message. As

St. Catherine of Siena says “Be who God intends you to be and you will set the world on fire!”

On the first Sunday of this month, we heard the story of Zacchaeus. Jesus knows all about Zacchaeus

and his past decisions. Yet Jesus says to him, and to each one of us today: “I am here, waiting for

you!” What is your response? How will you be the saint that Jesus calls you to be?

November 2019

We celebrate the Saints

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Priest God our everlasting light, you enfold us with your love always. As we

celebrate our communion with you and the Saints, bend low to hear the

prayers of our hearts:

Reader 2 For Pope Francis, Bishop Ray and all leaders in our community, that their

example may offer a light of hope to all. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all people that we come to know and live the word that Jesus has

placed in our hearts. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For families and especially children who are preparing for Holy

Communion or Confirmation next year that they may grow in God’s

friendship. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all who live in poverty or isolation, that we may be compassionate

in our befriending and sharing. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all who are mourning the death of a loved one at this time, may

they know your closeness through the kindness of friends and the

prayers of our community. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all who have died, with gratitude for their love and the faith they

handed onto us. This week we remember especially…

Lord hear us.


Priest Patient God, you constantly call us

to be a radiant reflection of your love.

Open our hearts to listen to your voice.

Like the saints, may we use our gifts for your greater glory.

We ask this through Christ our Lord.

All Amen.

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Reader 3 In this moment of communion with Jesus, we pray

Céad míle fáilte Jesus.

Lord Jesus, I love and adore you.

You’re a special friend to me.

Welcome, Lord Jesus, O welcome,

thank you for coming to me.

Thank you, Lord Jesus, O thank you

for giving yourself to me.

Make me strong to show your love

wherever I may be.

Amen.

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Gathering Rite

Reader 1 As a parish community, we welcome especially the children who are

preparing for Holy Communion and Reconciliation. In a way, preparing

for these sacraments is like preparing for Christmas. In both instances we

are preparing to welcome Jesus more closely. This special time of

preparation over the next four weeks is called Advent, when we wait

with great joy for Jesus’ birth. To help us visually, we light one candle

every week on the Advent wreath. Notice how, as the weeks pass, the

wreath gets brighter. At Christmas we welcome Jesus, the Light of the

World.

Lighting of Advent Wreath

Reader 1 Loving God, you have always loved us, since the beginning of time and

long before we were born. As we light our Advent candle, we look

forward to welcoming Jesus our brother and your Son. He is your gift to

us. Thank you for sending Jesus to us. Amen.

Liturgy of the Word


Homily Notes

Part of the enjoyment of a major event is the lead up – like looking forward to school holidays, even

if by day two we’re bored!! Advent is a gift in itself, a time of preparation to help prepare our hearts

to welcome Jesus. Alongside the decorations, I’d encourage you to have a crib in your home. Some

of you may already be familiar with the Hipster nativity – a contemporary setting of the birth of

Jesus. I was startled when I first saw it - both amused and disturbed! If you Google Hipster nativity,

you will see Joseph and Mary posing for a selfie with their new baby Jesus. The shepherd is spreading

the Good News on Instagram and the three wise men have arrived on Segways, bearing Amazon

gifts. Even the stable is solar panelled and the cow is 100% organic. This is a very modern take, which

makes for an interesting family conversation. Who would you put at the birth of Jesus? Who from

today’s world would you not expect to see at the nativity? Whose are faces representing the poor

like the shepherds? Where do you see yourself at the nativity scene? Who might you need to meet

there? What gift are you bringing to Jesus? May you be surprised by the unexpected, and may you

know the abundance of God’s love as you prepare to welcome Jesus into your homes and hearts.

December 2019

We wait for Jesus’ birth

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Priest Generous God, we gather as a parish united with all who call you loving

parent. We bring you our prayers as we wait in hope for Jesus’ birth.

Reader 2 For leaders at this time, that their guidance may inspire kindness and

care for all people. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all who are waiting for a bed tonight in a homeless shelter, that they

may know of God’s love through our words and acts of compassion.

Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all families, especially those who are finding relationships challenging

at the moment. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all of us as we wait for Jesus’ birth, that we will take the time to

create a welcoming space in our hearts and in our homes. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all of our loved ones who have died, we ask the gift of your

eternal peace. We remember especially… Lord hear us.


Priest Gentle God, as we wait for the birth of your Son,

soften our hearts to find words of forgiveness.

Make us messengers of your peace.

Through Christ our Lord,

who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,

one God, forever and ever.

All Amen.

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Thank you for your all your love.

We are brothers and sisters through you, Jesus,

one family, in the Spirit of your love.

Bless us with the joy of love.

Make us patient and kind,

gentle and generous,

welcoming to those in need.

Help us to live your forgiveness and peace.

Protect all families with your loving care,

especially those for whom we now pray:

Increase our faith,

strengthen our hope,

keep us safe in your love,

Make us always grateful for the gift of life that we share.

Amen.

Pause for a moment …

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Gathering Rite

Reader 1 Céad mile fáilte to the girls and boys preparing to receive the sacraments

of Communion and Reconciliation. In our ongoing parish journey

accompanying you, we’re exploring today how we can listen better to

God’s word. We learn to listen first with our ears…and then with our eyes

and our hearts! As we begin our celebration of Mass, ask Jesus to help

you hear his message today. Open our eyes Lord. Open our ears. Open

our hearts to hear and respond to your word. Amen.

Liturgy of the Word Readings of Sunday liturgy are proclaimed by Ministers of the Word

Homily Notes

Who do you like and follow on social media? Who influences your thoughts and actions? If Jesus

was on Instagram or Twitter would you like and follow him? What do you think he would post on

Whatsapp? Would you retweet or forward his message? I imagine that there would be a lot of

parties and celebrations where everyone is invited! Look at what he’s communicating in the Gospels.

He talks about love a lot, and forgiveness. Take the newsletter home with you and look over today’s

Readings again. Find a line to live by. Make it your focus for the week. Let’s look. Let’s listen and

let’s live what God is saying to us.

Most of us tend to think that obedience is doing as you’re told. However, Jesus shows us that it

really means attentive listening and then responding to what you’ve heard. Like when he listens to

God’s voice at his baptism. The Gospel of Matthew gives us clues as to the significance of this event.

We see a dove, symbol of peace and new possibilities. Why new possibilities? We have to remember

another story, that of Noah and the ark with all the animals. The dove finally returned with an olive

branch signifying that new growth and life was happening. Remembering our stories is important to

us as families and as a Christian family. It gives us a sense of who we are, where we have come from

and where we’re going. At his baptism Jesus emerges from the water to hear God’s profound love

and joy in him. Responding to this great love, Jesus in turn shares this message, so that we may

know this deep love in our lives and live generously in relationship with God, others and all creation.

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Priest Everyday God, you invite us to be more attentive to your words of life, no matter how hectic or messy our lives. With trust, we bring you our prayers.

Reader 2 For all Church leaders, that they may be blessed with discernment in the

midst of confusion and clarity in promoting life amid conflict. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For parents and their children as they prepare for the sacraments, that

they may be surprised by joy in knowing God’s closeness. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all families, that we may deepen the art of listening well to each

other despite moments of frustration, boredom or anger. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all who seek new beginnings, that they discover deeper hope, trust

and faith through our encouragement and support. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For Christians, and all people of other faiths and none, that we may find

a path of unity through respect and kindness. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all who have died, that they may be held close in your love. We

remember especially… Lord hear us.


Priest Ever loving God,

in your kindness answer our prayers

and deepen in us the gift of listening heart.

Through Jesus Christ your Son,


one God for ever and ever.

All Amen.

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Teach me to listen for your love in my heart.

Teach me to listen for the many ways in which you love me:

to recognise your loving care through my family and friends;

at school or at work

and to see you in the beauty of creation.

Teach me to listen for expressions of your kindness and generosity

in my parish and local community.

Teach me to speak and be your love in our world.

Amen.

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Gathering Rite

Reader 1 As a parish community, we welcome especially the girls and boys who

are preparing for the sacrament of Reconciliation. Reconciliation is God’s

gift of forgiveness which helps build up the circle of friendship at home,

in our parish and in our world. Reconciliation is about remembering we

are always loved, no matter what happens. At the start of our Mass, let’s

pause for a moment and remember God’s great love for each one of us.

Act of Sorrow Priest A new translation of an old prayer can offer us a fresh understanding.

Instead of the Confiteor today we join in praying the Act of Sorrow that

the children have been learning. In this prayer, we begin with gratitude

for God’s great love; secondly, we tell God we’re sorry for the times we

mess up in our relationships; and thirdly, we look to future with hope.

I’ll start and you might repeat after me:

O my God, I thank you for loving me. O my God, I thank you for loving me.

I’m sorry for all my sins, for not loving others, and not loving you. I’m sorry for all my sins…

Help me to live like Jesus and not sin again. Amen. Help me to live like Jesus and not sin again.

Liturgy of the Word

Readings of Sunday liturgy are proclaimed by Ministers of the Word Homily Notes Who can tell me about a sin bin? It’s the term used to acknowledge a wrong move which causes

harm to a player. Interestingly the sin bin is only used in team sports. So from sports we learn that

we are side-lined or isolated from the team when we play unfairly. Equally when we do or say

something to hurt one another at home or in the classroom, our actions result in a distancing in

relationship. It’s not so easy to say I’m sorry, yet it is a wonderful gift which puts us back into the

circle of loving friendship. The sacrament of Reconciliation is God’s way of helping us to love one

another. We take a moment to prepare and reflect, asking for God’s help. When we meet the priest

there’s a word of welcome. Then there are five steps: I realise I hurt someone by my words / actions;

I say sorry to God; I receive my penance and pray the Act of Sorrow; I am forgiven; I try again. Step

by step we start again with hope, knowing we are always loved by God. For older teens and adults

there’s a free app called Reimagining the Examen which can deepen our reflection and preparation.

Pope Francis has three words that can make all the difference in life: “Please, Thank you, and I’m

sorry.” He wants us to get in the habit of saying these often, to build a loving home, school or work

environment. Let’s put them into practice in the week ahead: “Please, Thank you, I’m sorry.”

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Priest Tender-hearted God, you constantly assure us of your love yet we forget repeatedly. Increase our faith as we bring our prayers to you. Reader 2 For leaders of churches and nations, may they always encourage forgiveness and reconciliation. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us.

Reader 2 For parents who are helping their children prepare for the sacrament of Reconciliation, may the encouragement of forgiveness surprise you in unexpected ways. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us.

Reader 2 For a softening of our stubborn hearts and silent domestic battles, that God’s love may heal all hurting relationships. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us.

Reader 2 For the future of our planet, that we might reconcile our current wants with future needs for the sake of our children’s children. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us.

Reader 2 For our dead, that they may know true reconciliation in your presence. We remember especially… Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us.

Priest Gracious and patient God, bring healing to our lives, that we may sow beauty, not pollution and destruction.

We make these and all our prayers through Christ your Son, our Lord, through the power of the Holy Spirit. One God, for ever and ever.

All Amen.

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Jesus, did you ever fight with your friends?

Or with your cousins, or your Mam or Dad?

Sometimes we row over things…

And it feels hard to say we are sorry.

Help us to love others.

Help us to say sorry

when we have hurt them.

Help us to say sorry

when we have done something wrong.

Amen.

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Gathering Rite

Reader 1 As a parish community, we welcome especially the girls and boys who

are preparing for their Holy Communion. This month we’ve entered into

a special time in the Church’s calendar known as Lent. It starts on Ash

Wednesday and lasts 40 days until Easter Sunday. It celebrates God’s

great love story. The journey of Lent brings us on an adventure through

deserts and up mountains. It challenges us to leave unhelpful ways of

doing and thinking. Lent invites us to grow in love through prayer, fasting

and almsgiving. As we begin Mass, we pause to remember God’s

constant love for us.

Liturgy of the Word


Homily Notes If you were asked to find something that speaks to you of God, what would it be and why? For St. Patrick it was a shamrock whose three leaves represented God the Creator, Jesus the Son and the Holy Spirit. Every time we bless ourselves – at home or coming into this church – we call on the Trinity to help us in our lives. This simple action is a prayer because it represents our belief and trust in God. Did you ever wonder what goes on in the heart of the Trinity? A German friar once taught “In the heart of the Trinity the Father laughs and gives birth to the Son. The Son laughs back at the Father and gives birth to the Spirit. The whole Trinity laughs and gives birth to us. That laughter gives pleasure, that pleasure gives joy, that joy gives love and that is the Holy Spirit”. So, whenever we laugh or know pleasure, or joy, or love, we know something of God. During Lent we deepen our response to God’s love for us through prayer, fasting and charitable actions. These are expressions of the three most significant words in life: I love you. In prayer, we talk with God, telling God what’s going on, maybe asking for help and listening to God’s response. Or we might express our thanks or praise God. Fasting and almsgiving puts our focus on benefitting another rather than #mefirst. We can put some of our pocket money in the Trócaire box, or give a few of our toys or books to other girls and boys. It might be as simple as doing a random act of kindness without being asked. On the fourth Sunday of Lent we celebrate Laetare – the feast of joy, which is also Mothers’ Day. The Gospel that day celebrates moving from blindness to new sight. May we too grow in awareness of God’s great love for us this Lent and lean into the Lord’s tenderness through the gift of Reconciliation. This is not just for children! For everyone, there’s a céad mile fáilte, no matter how long it’s been since your last visit. Let’s look for, listen to, and live the joy of this Good News of God’s great love for each person.

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Priest Joyful God whose laughter births us in love, hear and answer the

prayers of our parish community.

Reader 2 For Pope Francis, Bishop Ray and all leaders, that through their example

we may grow in understanding your message of love at the heart of

Catholic Social Teaching. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For the work of Trócaire, that through their community development

and education programmes, our faith may be expressed in caring for

the poor and for all creation. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all children preparing for Holy Communion and Confirmation, that

this Lenten journey deepens their awareness of God’s love for them

through the sacrament of Reconciliation. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For our own intentions.

Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For the dead, whom you gather into your loving embrace especially …

Lord hear us.


Priest God of abundant love, you hold us in your heart from the beginning of creation. You constantly whisper your love in our hearts. Help us to see and respond generously to your loving presence active in our homes and in our community. We make these and all our prayers through Christ your Son, our Lord, All Amen.

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Jesus, you are always present with us at home.

Thank you for the gift of my family.

Help us to become aware of how much you care for each of us.

Help me to see how I can be kind and share with others this Lent.

May we grow in love, laughter and forgiveness.

Amen.

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Gathering Rite

Reader 1 Our word for Mass is born from the Greek word eucharisto meaning an

expression of gratitude or thankfulness. At Mass, we gather as a parish

community to give thanks to God for the gift of Jesus our friend. We hear

the word of God in the Readings, to which we respond Thanks be to God.

We receive Jesus in a special way at Communion, and we thank him for

this. Then, together we are all sent out into the wider community to give

thanks to God by our lives! How we live is an expression of our faith. So,

before we begin our celebration of Mass, pause and think over your

week. For what are you most thankful?

Liturgy of the Word


Homily Notes Holy Week and Easter is central to our faith. We gather together as a parish to remember and give

thanks for this gift of new life in the risen Jesus. During Mass, at the prayer of consecration, we hear

the words of Jesus: Do this in memory of me. This is a reference to two significant moments when

Jesus gathered with his friends on Holy Thursday. John’s Gospel tells us Jesus was with his disciples

about to have a special meal together, the Passover. Before they started eating however, he got out

a basin of water and a towel. He washed and dried the feet of his friends, a job the servants would

have done. The washing of the feet included everyone at the table, even despite Peter’s protests.

Unlike the state of the water afterwards, Jesus’ message was clear: remember me through acts of

loving service. Jesus invites us too to participate, not spectate. He loves us now, in this moment, as

we are. This is a gift for each one of us and this love has a knock-on effect. We pay it forward.

Later that same evening Jesus gave of himself by giving us bread and wine as his Body and Blood. At

Mass Jesus nourishes us through Communion. Jesus uses everyday moments to connect with his

disciples, to relate with us. Parents, you too live this dynamic of self-giving on a daily basis washing

and feeding your children, as well as the countless other acts of loving service! Jesus is present

alongside as you gather to eat at home. Despite the busyness and rushing, you might choose one

mealtime this week and pause to be more present to God’s friendship. It might be simply be a prayer

of gratitude for the meal, or listening to what each person is grateful for this week.

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Priest Everyday God, you are constantly caring for us through the ups and downs of our lives. With thanksgiving for, and trust in your love, we bring you our prayers.

Reader 2 For our Church, that we make our parishes a welcoming place for

everyone. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For those beginning a new chapter in life: couples preparing for

marriage, parents awaiting the birth of their child, students graduating.

Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For the children preparing to receive Communion for the first of

many times. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For the gift of creation, that in thanksgiving we may protect the world

and sow beauty, not pollution and destruction. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all who have died we ask for the gift of your eternal peace. We

remember especially… Lord hear us.


Priest O God of all life,

help us to discover you alongside us at all moments of our day.

Nudge us towards generous care for our brothers and sisters.

Through Christ our Lord,


one God, forever and ever.

All Amen.

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Liturgy of the Eucharist Communion Reflection



Thank you for your all your love every day.

God of Sunday, rest us in your loving friendship.

God of Monday, be alongside us.

God of Tuesday, surprise us!

God of Wednesday, teach us kindness.

God of Thursday, comfort us in our sad times.

God of Friday, help us forgive.

God of Saturday, delight in us.

Everyday God, may we grow in your love.

Thank you.

Amen.

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Sunday after

First Holy Communion

Gathering Rite

Reader 1 As a parish community, we welcome especially the girls and boys

who received communion yesterday for the first of many times.

Today we gather again to celebrate with joy the great gift of

Jesus’ friendship. This is a wonderful gift that your parents,

grandparents, teachers and parishioners share with you. Jesus

has promised he will always be with us. He’s the gift that keeps

on giving throughout our lives. This is Good News for all people

and for all creation.

Liturgy of the Word


Homily notes We’re still in the Easter season in our liturgical calendar, celebrating the joy of the risen Jesus.

Nature outside is bursting into new life with a profusion of colour and scents. Jesus our friend wants

us to have this fullness of life on the inside too. As Pope Francis puts it in his recent letter to young

people and the entire people of God “Christ is alive and he wants you to be alive!” The pace at which

we live is only becoming faster. We have speed dial on the phone. We communicate via instant

messaging. We eat fast food. We commute through rush hour - all pointing towards an impatience

to getting to the next thing faster. Pressure is on to look different: when we’re young, we want to

look older and when we’re older we want to look younger! Marketing ploys tell us we must have

their products to be good enough. Not so with Jesus. His friendship celebrates the uniqueness of

each one of us. He invites us to be part of a love story that begins with God and which continues to

be created through us and with us and in us. Finding our path in life, discovering our vocations – in

marriage, in the work you do, in priesthood, or religious life – is about becoming more fully the

person God wants us to be. It is always about being in relationship with others, of being there for

others. What might help us really receive the gift that is being offered us? Slow down. Listen. Find a

line in the Readings to live by. Try putting this into practice in the week ahead. Look. Listen. Live.

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Prayer of the Faithful Priest God of Tenderness, you invite us to a fullness of life in your loving service. With trust in your ever-listening presence, we bring you our prayers.

Reader 2 For our Church, that we become parishes of lively welcome,

compassion and outreach. Lord hear us.


Reader 2 For all families, that we continually grow in tenderness. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us.

Reader 2 For our children and young people, that they may come to know Jesus’ as a forever friend, always calling them to fullness of life. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us.

Reader 2 For people who are finding life hard at present, that our words and actions might be a source of hope and healing. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us.

Reader 2 For all who have died. We remember especially…. Lord hear us. Lord graciously hear us.

Priest God of abundant care, encourage us we go through the week ahead to see your friendship present in our daily lives. May we share this joy with everyone we meet. We make this prayer in the name of Jesus, your Son, our Lord. All Amen.

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May your joy in my heart

fill my song of thanks to you.

May your Spirit in my heart

inspire truth and courage.

May your love in my heart

spill over into acts of loving kindness

at home and in my parish.

Thank you.

Amen.

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Corpus Christi

Gathering Rite

Reader 1 In our parish celebration of Mass today, we rejoice in the gifts of faith

and family. Most of us received our faith through our families: parents,

grandparents, godparents, relatives and family friends. Faith is also

nurtured in our parishes through prayer and service to others. Through

the gift of God’s love for us, we become one family with all of God’s

people. Though we are many, we are one body. On this feast of Corpus

Christi, let the strength of Christ renew us to become God’s compassion

in our parish and in our world.

Liturgy of the Word


Homily notes Do you ever eat and still feel hungry afterwards? I’m sure there are all kinds of reasons associated with the nutrients in what you’ve eaten or perhaps linked with the context of what else is going on at the time. In today’s Gospel we hear Jesus tell us “I am the living bread”. In offering us his flesh and blood, Jesus is offering his whole self. There’s no holding back. We might struggle with this language, as did his followers. Yet what’s on offer here is Jesus as nourishment for each person and “for the life of the world”. We are nourished so that we too might be a lifegiving presence to others by our lives. God’s vision is one of unity and harmony, of abundance for everyone and all creation. During this Mass, we will also hear Jesus’ words “Do this in memory of me”. This refers to the story of the Last Supper. There are two parts to this: the breaking of bread and the washing of the feet. We remember Jesus’ life, death and resurrection through the Eucharist. And there’s also the witness element – that we express God’s love through our lives wherever we are…at home, in school, at work or on holidays. The word Amen means let it be so. It is a prayer that God’s vision for our world becomes a reality. And for this to happen God needs us. In saying Amen, we are giving our Yes to working with God’s Spirit in our lives. We are saying yes both to receiving Jesus as living bread and to being a member of the body of Christ. What grace do you need in your life today? What are you hungry for? Patience? Kindness? Love? Ask Jesus for what you need. In receiving the great gift of Communion, become this gift you receive. Become God’s patience or kindness or love to the people you meet in the week ahead. This way may we become the living body of Christ, a nourishing presence for all.

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Prayer of the Faithful Priest As God’s family and as the body of Christ, we bring our prayers to our

loving Creator.

Reader 2 For all Christians, that we may be a lifegiving presence in our world

through our everyday choices and actions. Lord hear us…


Reader 2 For all children who received the sacraments of Baptism, Communion and Confirmation this year, may their faith continue to be nurtured at home and through our parish. Lord hear us… Lord graciously hear us. Reader 2 For all young people who are sitting exams, may they be inspired by the Spirit to give the best answers they can. Lord hear us… Lord graciously hear us. Reader 2 For the gift of creation, that during the long summer days ahead we will respectfully care for our common home. Lord hear us… Lord graciously hear us. Reader 2 We pray for the dead, remembering this week… Lord hear us… Lord graciously hear us. Priest Generous God, in your abundant love, hear the prayers we make today in the name of your Son, Jesus, our Lord. All Amen.

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From the very beginning of time,

your love created the whole world.

With love you created each person,

and your love renews us every day.

You call us to be your love now

to those around us:

family, neighbours, friends.

May your love grow in us.

May we share your love.

May we become who we receive:

Love.

Amen.

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Date Intention Sunday Gospel Theme October Called and Chosen

6 Day for Life: Domestic Abuse Ordinary 27 Luke 17:5-10 Increase our faith 13 Ordinary 28 Luke 17:11-19 On gratitude 20 World Mission Sunday Ordinary 29 Luke 18: 1-8 Pray continually 27 Ordinary 30 Luke 18: 9-14 Be humble November We Celebrate the Saints 3 Ordinary 31 Luke 19: 1-10 Zacchaeus 10 Prisoners Ordinary 32 Luke 20: 27-38 What happens after we die? 17 World Day of the Poor Ordinary 33 Luke 21: 5-19 Do not be frightened 24 Christ the King Luke 23: 35-43 Lord, remember me December We Wait for Jesus’ Birth 1 Advent 1 Matthew 24: 37-44 Stay awake 8 Advent 2 Matthew 3: 1-12 Repent, prepare a way 15 Advent 3 Matthew 11: 2-11 Tell what you see and hear 22 Advent 4 Matthew 1: 18-24 How Jesus came to be born 29 Holy Family Mt 2: 13-15, 19-23 Joseph’s dream January 2020

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5 Epiphany John 1: 1-18 In the beginning 12 Baptism of Jesus Matthew 3: 13-17 My favour rests on him 19 Christian Unity 18 – 15 Ordinary 2 John 1:29-34 Jesus and John the Baptist 26 Catholic Schools Week Ordinary 3 Matthew 4: 12-23 Galilee, call of first disciples February I’m Sorry 2 Presentation Luke 2: 22-40 Simeon and Anna 9 Ordinary 5 Matthew 5: 13-16 Salt and Light 16 Ordinary 6 Matthew 5: 17-37 Living from the heart 23 Temperance Ordinary 7 Matthew 5: 38-48 Be guided by Love March Lent 1 Lent 1 Matthew 4: 1-11 Wilderness temptations 8 Lent 2 Matthew 17: 1-9 View from the mountaintop 15 Lent 3 John 4: 5-30 Lifegiving waters 22 Lent 4 John 9: 1-41 Seeing anew 29 Lent 5 John 11: 1-45 New life April We Give Thanks 5 Palm Sunday Matthew 21: 1-11 Simple preparations 12 Easter Matthew 28: 1-10 Do not be afraid 19 Easter 2 John 20: 19-31 Doubts and belief 26 Divine Mercy Easter 3 Luke 24: 13-35 Walking into understanding May We Receive the Body of Christ 3 Vocations Easter 4 John 10: 1-10 Jesus, the Good shepherd 10 Easter 5 John 14: 1-12 Way, Truth, Life 17 Easter 6 John 14: 15-21 On Love 24 Ascension Matthew 28: 16-20 I am with you always 31 Pentecost John 20: 19-23 Deep, radiant peace June We are the Body of Christ 7 Trinity John 3: 16-18 That you may believe 14 Corpus Christi John 6: 51-58 Living Bread

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