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  • New beginnings need coaching!

  • An opportunity

    • John Constable, Hampstead Heath with a Rainbow

  • The challenge

    • Cildo Meireles, Babel

  • Solutions focus inquiry

    Naum Gabo, Standing Wave

  • Conversations with magic

  • Subverting and challenging

  • From problems to solutions

    1. What is the problem?

    2. How long have you had it?

    3. How did it arise?

    4. Who or what do you think is to blame?

    5. What’s your worst experience in dealing with this problem?

    6. Why haven’t you solved it yet?

    1. What outcome are you hoping for?

    2. How will you know when you’ve got it?

    3. What might others notice?

    4. What will be better?

    5. What resources or experience do you already have that might help you solve the problem?

    6. What is going to be your first step?

  • Anchoring my development

    Cultivating presence

    Committing time and energy to

    active reflection Actively

    seeking feedback

    from colleagues, clients and

    friends

    Living life fully

    Investing in a broad

    worldview

    Experimenting with new ways

    of being

    Continuing to work

    unresolved issues and unfinished business

    Tolbert & Hannafin 2006

  • My coaching foundations: Questioning*

    • What makes a

    good question

    • How much do you

    prepare

    • Intention

    • In the moment

    • Put lists away

    This and following 6 slides are based on Coaching Fundamentals by Ana Karakusevic, Roffey Park

    Institute

  • My coaching foundations: listening

    • Is a coach the same as a

    good listener?

    • Listening as presence

    • Listening to ourselves

    • Connection, possibility and

    co-creation

  • My coaching foundations: feedback

    • Give or offer?

    • Lightness

    • Non-righteousness

    • Exploration

    • How we receive it

  • My coaching foundations: trust and boundaries

    • Takes a long time to build

    • Self-awareness

    • Is it counselling?

    • Is it mentoring?

    • Trust own self and hunches

    • Whole person

  • My coaching foundations: Imagery

    • Metaphors and

    language

    • Images and

    imagination

    • Powerful change

    makers

  • My coaching foundations: presence

    • A coach not as mirror but equal partner

    • Presence of mind

    • ‘the next question’

    • Growth is not a linear path

  • My go-to questions

    1. What outcome are you hoping for?

    2. How will you know when you’ve got it?

    3. What might others notice?

    4. What will be better?

    5. What resources or experience do you already have that might help you solve the problem?

    6. What is going to be your first step?

  • My go-to quote

    ‘That’s a way to see it and

    there is also another way

    to see it.’ Insoo Kim Berg