never give up
TRANSCRIPT
Never Give Up
This time 2 years ago I didn’t care if I lived or died.
I remember driving along the motorway and thinking, ‘Well, it wouldn’t be the end of the
world if I was in a crash right now and it all went up in flames’. I just felt, y’know, meh,
about it. Indifferent.
Numb.
My dreams and goals seemed so big and far away and impossible. The overwhelm of
frustration made me momentarily blind to my personal power.
I thought I had been beaten.
I blamed the world. Society. My friends. My family. My ancestors. Everyone and
everything. Except myself. I was surely just a victim of my circumstances! What
else could I do? It wasn’t MY fault.
Summer is meant to be bright and fun and full of energy, but instead I just saw darkness
and I thought I would never see the light again.
I withdrew. I created a little cave and in I went.
Was this it? Was it time to give up? Was it time to put the previous 7 years of
entrepreneurship, and all that work, blood, sweat, tears, highs, lows, adventures behind
me?
Did I just not have it in me to keep going down my own path?
And what was that path anyway?
What did I want to do?
And I went through some of the motions of work and doing business. The bare
minimum. I taught what I knew but it wasn’t enough.
Where was the passion? Where was the spark?
I was searching for something but I couldn’t quite grasp it.
And then one day I woke up. It was MY FAULT. It was all my fault. If I wasn’t were I
wanted to be it wasn’t because of my circumstances, or society, or friends or family or
ANY of that stuff. It was because of ME!
The moment I took full responsibility for myself and my situation, things changed. I
changed back into ME again. The real me. The gungho, positive, usually happy me.
The me I love.
I turned it all around.
We can’t blame anyone but ourselves for our supposed failures, for our lack, for
our circumstances because HELLO weren’t you there? Weren’t you a
participant?!
During the last two years I’ve learnt more about myself, my capabilities, what I can
withstand and what I will do to have the life that I want, on my terms and now I help
others to do the same and create a life of FREEDOM.
I think that’s why I fell into that dark place; because I wasn’t making the difference that I
wanted. I wasn’t affecting and helping people in the way I know I can. I was teaching,
but not leading, and now I am. The dreams and goals and ambitions that seemed so far
away now feel possible and are actually happening.
Don’t give up on yourself. Don’t give up on your dreams and goals and ambitions.
Take full responsibility, it’s SO empowering. Never give in. Things will change
when YOU decide to change. You can do this!
Karen x
ABOUT Karen Strunks is a speaker and
author and helps daring, rebellious,
nonconforming women create a No
Compromise life and business doing
exactly what they love.
Ten years ago she left her ‘cubicle cage’ and made a break for
freedom to follow her passions; from dominatrix, to photographer, to
social media and marketing teacher to today, empowering women to
step away from the norm, break the rules and follow their passions.
Her work has been featured in print, TV and radio such as The
Guardian, BBC, Radio 4, Time Out NYC, The Telegraph, BBC Radio
Wales, and she has worked with national and international brands.
Karen regularly speaks at conferences and lectures at universities on
entrepreneurship, and about her story of leaving the 95 to pursue a
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