networking for business - is it really that difficult to do?
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From lecture given at Trinity College Dublin Alumni Careers Network in February 2014. What does business networking involve? It isn't all about the big event and an intimidating room full of strangers. Networking is about building relationships that are mutually beneficial. It's not about how you can use people to get what you want.TRANSCRIPT
NETWORKING (is it really that awful?)
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Manipulative
Sleazy
CRINGE FEST
Only for extroverts
SO fake
net·work·ing verb
The cultivation of productive relationships for employmentor business
- Webster’s Dictionary
And maybe initiation
Who is it for?
ARE YOU A TAKER?
ARE YOU A GIVER?
“Hi, I’m Matt – feel free to walk all over me.”
I know it’s good for me.
But……
MYTH FACT
Or ?
You are either good at itor you are not.
MYTH ?FACT?
It’s a process, not an event
FACT?
MYTH ?
FACT?
MYTH ?
No-one can help you get what you want, if you don’t know what you want
Face-to-face networking is done by people who don’t knowhow to use LinkedIn
FACT?
MYTH ?
It’s all about… me ?
FACT?
MYTH ?
TalkingListening
Talking Listening
Get the balance right
“I never miss a goodchance to shut up”
- James Patterson
NETWORKING ISN’T SELLING
FACT?
MYTH ?
Why do we dread this?
Let’s blame ourmothers
What’s an hour of your time worth?
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