national stonewall democrats dnc platform drafting committee testimony july 28 2012

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Testimony before Democratic National Committee

Platform Drafting Committee

Minneapolis, Minnesota

July 28, 2012

Aaron Zellhoefer

Good morning Mr. Chairman, Governor Strickland.

Greetings, Members of the DNC Platform Drafting Committee and fellow Democrats.

My name is Aaron Zellhoefer and I am speaking on behalf of the National Stonewall Democrats,

the national voice of LGBT Democrats, the largest LGBT organization working with the

Democratic Party and working to elect Democrats across the country. I bring greetings from our

Executive Director, Jerame Davis, our board, and local affiliates, LGBT Democratic clubs and

caucuses from every state.

As a point of personal privilege, I would like to also take this opportunity to congratulate

National Stonewall Democrats founder Congressman Barney Frank on his recent marriage to his

long-time partner, Jim Ready. The entire Stonewall Democrats family wishes you both the

happiness and fulfillment you both deserve.

We are here today to advocate for the passage of a plank that speaks specifically to full marriage

equality in the national Democratic Party's platform.

This is the Time

Some may think that this is a leap for our Party, that the Party is not ready, or that it may be

politically unwise to do this now. We say that as LGBT individuals, we are ready for marriage,

and over 70% of Democrats including President Obama - now agree. Change never comes

easily, absent risk, nor when it is most convenient. Please also consider that failure to act at thismoment in history may be, at best, a lost opportunity, at worst, a serious political error. The

strong step on behalf of civil rights that our party took in its platform in 1948 (at the urging and

leadership of Minnesotas own Hubert H. Humphrey) was a strong statement of the ideals that

our Party stands for. Just as importantly, it forged a national Democratic coalition that serves us

well to this day.


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President Obama made history by becoming the first sitting President of the United States of

America to be outspoken in support of the freedom to marry. His leadership for our Party and our

nation has forever changed the dynamic of this conversation and has created the opportunity to

once again stand on the right side of history and to strengthen our diverse national coalition.

Young people today, of all stripes and persuasions, are searching for the political party theyll

call home. Lets make sure were speaking to their ideals of inclusion, freedom and diversity.

Upholding Marriage

Some think that we as LGBT individuals want to change the definition of the word marriage. To

the contrary, we are seeking tojoin marriage, not change it to affirm the ideals of strong

families that are built on love, commitment, responsibility supported by friends, family and the

larger community.

When women were finally afforded the right to vote, did we have to change the word, vote?

When our schools were desegregated, did we redefine, school or education? When weallowed openly gay people to join the army, did we have to change the word, "army?"

The freedom to marry the person you love builds families, strengthens the institution of

marriage, and moves us one step closer to realizing full equality for all Americans.

State Battles this Year

In Minnesota we will be voting this November on whether we should change our state

constitution to permanently limit the freedom to marry. Your leadership on supporting marriage

equality right now, this year, will send a strong message and will be a huge boost in our efforts to

not be 31st state to have changed their state constitution to limit marriage to only opposite sexcouples. Rather, we could become the first state to vote no and reject one of these hurtful and

harmful amendments. Three other states, Washington, Maine and Maryland, are also facing

ballot measures in defense of the freedom to marry. Lets all say together, The politics of

division stop here and stop now. This Party our Party will not stand for it.

Love and Practicality

I love the idea of marriage equality for just that reason...Love. To be sure there are numerous

practical matters, provisions in our laws that allow us to care for and protect our families to

carry out the activities of life with some measure of dignity and confidence. In the state of

Minnesota alone, there are at least 515 laws to which committed LGBT couples have no access.

An examination conducted by the GAO in the aftermath of the passage of DOMA revealed over

1,100 federal rights and protections from which gay couples are barred. These range from areas

that affect our lives as fundamental and far ranging as end of life issues, health care, health

crises, credit, taxes, inheritance, legal relationships, public services, raising children, property

ownership, and so on.


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Dreams and Aspirations

On April 20th of this year, I celebrated my 10th anniversary with the man I love, my partner

Kevin. The next day, I was elected and given the honor to represent Minnesota as a national

delegate to the Democratic National Convention this September in Charlotte. To say the least, it

was an exciting and momentous weekend. As I was running to be a national delegate I promised

to work hard to see our Party pass a plank in our platform to include marriage equality.

It is important for me to tell you how much this means to me on a personal level. My brother

Adam is getting married to the woman he loves in September. It is very exciting and

heartwarming to watch him planning for that day, but Ill confess that I'm also a little envious. I

can't wait for the day that I can have the same opportunity. I can't wait until the day that I'm able

to get down on one knee, and not say, Will you civil union me? or Will you domestic

partnership me? Rather I can't wait until the day, where I'm able to go out for a romantic

dinner, followed by a walk by one of Minneapolis beautiful lakes, with the stars twinklingabove. Im guessing that I will have butterflies in my stomach -- that exhilarating feeling so hard

to describe, and be able to get down on one knee and ask, will you marry me? with the full

knowledge of what that means that well be actually getting marriedin every sense of what

that word means.

I can't wait to call my mom and dad and tell them the good legal news. I can't wait to call my

brother and ask him to be my best man. I can't wait to call my best friend Brian and tell him the

good news. And I can't wait for that special day that we all dream about for years. With all of our

family and friends, Kevin and I will able to say, I do, to marriage.

Today, I ask you to say, I do. National Stonewall Democrats asks our fellow party members, to

say, I do, -- not to change marriage, but rather to include LGBT individuals in the full light of

equal rights with the understanding that our right and freedom to marry the person we love builds

lives of dignity and vitality.

I ask you to say, I do, to making my dreams and the dreams of millions of gay and lesbian

Americans - become reality.

Thank you for your time.

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