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Genesis 12:1-31Then the Lord told Abram, Leaveyour country, your relatives, and your Mensfathers house, and go to the land Relationalthat I will show you.Toolbox2I will cause you to become thefather of a great nation. I will makeyou a blessing to others.3I will bless those who bless you andcurse those who curse you. All thefamilies of the earth will be blessedthrough you.The win-win tool 14. MensRelationalToolbox The win-win tool 15. Genesis 13:5-75Now Lot, who was traveling withAbram, was also very wealthy with Menssheep, cattle, and many tents.Relational6But the land could not support Toolboxboth Abram and Lot with all theirflocks and herds living so closetogether. There were too manyanimals for the availablepastureland. 7So an argumentbroke out between the herdsmenof Abram and Lot. . . The win-win tool 16. Genesis 13:8,98Then Abram talked it over withLot This arguing between our Mensherdsmen has got to stop, he Relationalsaid. After all, we are closeToolboxrelatives! 9Ill tell you what welldo. Take your choice of anysection of the land you want, andwe will separate. If you want thatarea over there, then Ill stay here.If you want to stay in this area,then Ill move on to another place. The win-win tool 17. Genesis 13:10,1110Lot took a long look at the fertileplains of the Jordan Valley in theMensRelationaldirection of Zoar. The whole area Toolboxwas well watered everywhere, . . .11Lot chose that land for himself-the Jordan Valley to the east ofthem. He went there with hisflocks and servants and partedcompany with his uncle Abram. The win-win tool 18. MensRelationalToolbox The win-win tool 19. Genesis 13:14,1514After Lot was gone, theMensLord said to Abram, Look asRelationalToolboxfar as you can see in everydirection. 15I am going togive all this land to you andyour offspring, as apermanent possession. The win-win tool 20. Romans 12:16Live in harmony with eachMensRelationalother. 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