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Remember it is who you are that
heals, not what you know.
- Carl Jung
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• So what is suicide exactly –
symptom, syndrome or
unrelenting pain?
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• Suicide can occur when no
psychiatric disorder exists – but
profound distress and
psychological pain is present
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• The presence of hopelessness is
more of a risk factor than
depression as it relates to suicide.
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Royal Road To Suicide(Thomas Joiner)
• Past attempts
• Repeated injuries (child abuse)
• Repeated witnessing of pain, violence,
injury (family, some professions)
• Repeated exposure to pain and
provocation (military)
• Insomnia and agitation
In the suicidal mind, death becomes more
comforting than frightening
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Perceived Burdensomeness
Thwarted Belongingness
Those Who Are Capable of Suicide
Serious Attempt or Death by Suicide
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• Although a cure is not always
possible, healing always is…
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Connection is necessary to bring hope.
Compassion must be present along with the
suffering for there to be connection.
Connection can calm distress which can
then increase cognitive fluency.
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Compassion........
• It is having the felt sense of someone
else’s pain with the desire to alleviate it
• In compassion there is an implicit equality
between people
• When the pain is emotional, we meet it in
order to alleviate it – struggling against
things tend only to make them worse
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The more direct the question, the more
truthful the answer...........really?
• The more suicidal, the more likely
someone is to withhold
• Actions speak louder than words –
practiced the suicide, planned it out,
acquired means, amount of time spent
thinking and planning
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Not only what we ask but when
we ask and how we ask (Shawn Shea, M.D.)
• Behavioral Incidents – specifics
Do you have a gun? Where is it? Have you taken it out? What was happening at that time?
• Shame Attenuation – through the clients eyes
Many people who are diagnosed with a life threatening illness lie to protect the people they love, have you ever had to do that? Given all of the pain you have been in, have you ever felt suicidal?
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• Gentle Assumption – assumes and asks
What drugs have you tried? What other ways have you thought of killing yourself?
• Symptom Amplification – used when people tend to minimize
How many hours a day do you spend thinking about suicide, 8, 10, 15?
• Denial of Specific – used when a client denies a generic question
What other drugs have you tried – none – have you tried cocaine? Have you ever thought of killing yourself with a gun?
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Stated Intent – what they say
Reflected Intent – actions and cognitions
Withheld Intent – 95/5 or 5/95
Real Intent – this is what we are trying to
ascertain.
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This model moves back in
time.....CASE approach (Shea)
PAST EVENTS---- RECENT EVENTS---PRESENTING EVENTS---IMMEDIATE
EVENTS
(2 months) (last 48 hours) (now & next)
Start Here
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Presenting Events
(last 48 hours)
• What? How much? How many left? Intent?
when, where? Real and perceived
lethality? Drugs and alcohol? What
stopped them? Did they initiate their own
rescue? How where they found? How did
they feel after that?
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Recent Events
(last 6-8 weeks)
• Flexibly use gentle assumptions, denial of
the specific. Attempting here to uncover all
methods considered or tried.
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Past Events(don’t spend as much time on this)
• Previous attempts
• Number of attempts
• Most serious attempt
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Immediate Events
(now and next)
Their thoughts now
Level of hopelessness
Desire and immediate intention
Plans
Actions
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What can help..........
• Hearing death hopes as well as living
fears
• Social connection buffers suicide
• Access to immediate help………….
• A word about “contracts”
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If an attempt is in progress or
imminent…
• 911 – police, ambulance, paramedics
• Hospital emergency department
• others………….
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If there is risk but it is not an
emergency…
• http://suicideprevention.ca/
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A Response Following the Suicide of a Client
or Patient
• What did you respect and appreciate about her/him?
• How did you honor her/him?
• How did she/he resist their circumstances?
• What difference did knowing this person make for you?
• What difference did you make in their life?
• How did you try to see this person and dignify them as a person?
• How can her/his life enter into your work to help others?
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