march 2018 | adar - nsan | 5778 | ol. 88 | no. 7 …...2018/03/08 · of passover. i have written...
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MARCH 2018 | ADAR - NISAN | 5778 | VOL. 88 | NO. 7
Erev Passover FRIDAY, MARCH 30 6:45 AM Shacharit, Siyyum Bekhorim & Breakfast Room 108 & 109 11:16 AM Last Time to Eat Chametz 12:19 PM Burning of Chametz Finished 6:00 PM Minchah Service 7:22 PM Candle Lighting
Day 1, Shabbat & Yom Tov SATURDAY, MARCH 31 9:30 AM Morning Service Goldsmith Hall No Library Minyan 7:22 PM Minchah Service & Ma’ariv 8:22 PM Candle Lighting
Day 2, Yom Tov SUNDAY, APRIL 1 9:30 AM Morning Service Goldsmith Hall 6:00 PM Minchah Service Goldsmith Hall
First Intermediate Day MONDAY, APRIL 2 7:00 AM Shacharit Service Village Shalom 6:00 PM Minchah Service Village Shalom
Second Intermediate Day TUESDAY, APRIL 3 7:00 AM Shacharit Service Village Shalom 6:00 PM Minchah Service Village Shalom
Third Intermediate Day WEDNESDAY, APRIL 4 7:00 AM Shacharit Service Village Shalom 6:00 PM Minchah Service Village Shalom
Fourth Intermediate Day THURSDAY, APRIL 5 7:00 AM Shacharit Service Village Shalom 6:00 PM Minchah Service Village Shalom 7:28 PM Erev Yom Tov
Day 7 FRIDAY, APRIL 6 9:30 AM Morning Service Goldsmith Hall 6:00 PM Minchah Service Goldsmith Hall 7:29 PM Candle Lighting
Day 8 Shabbat & Yizkor SATURDAY, APRIL 7 9:30 AM Morning Service Goldsmith Hall No Library Minyan 8:30 PM Ma’ariv & Havdalah 9:00 PM Permissible to Eat Chametz sold through CBS
2018 Passover Service Schedule
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Several years ago, there was an article in the New York Times by best-selling author, Bruce Feiler, titled “The Stories That Bind Us.” In this article, he spoke about the importance of family stories that generations tell one another about themselves. In this article, he spoke about the “Do you know?” ques-tions that children will sometimes ask parents. These ar-en’t questions to get the right answer to homework, but rather family origin stories: do you know where your grandparents went to high school? Do you know about when someone in our family had a terrible illness? Feiler quotes a research project from Emory University about familial resilience. The researchers of these studies were uniquely poised to do this research because they began with families in early 2001, and then continued the research after the trauma of 9/11. The most resil-ience was with families that took time to share family stories. Feiler writes:“The more children knew about their family’s history, the stronger their sense of control over their lives, the higher their self-esteem and the more successfully they believed their families functioned. The “Do You Know? scale turned out to be the best single predictor of children’s emotional health and happiness.”It is also inspiring for us that we have an entire holiday dedicated to sharing a meal, remembering, retelling and re-living our family’s story. This is the emotional DNA of Passover.
I have written about Passover before, but this article made me see it in a new light. For the Seder to be maximally successful – it can’t be limited to one or two nights of Passover. The mitzvah of “you shall tell your child…” is incumbent upon us all the days of our lives. The seder, though, gives us the model. Think of all the elements that set the stage for effective family story telling: we allow (encourage) the children to ask us stories about our family (“mah nishtanah…”). We create triggers – like symbolic foods – that remind us of our family’s story. We share a meal that is prepared with love, and that itself often carries family stories in the recipes and ingredients (“Bubbe’s matzo ball soup, our aunt’s kugel, etc.). We allow for stories that bring pain and joy, and live deeply in both of these emotions. We allow the stories to teach us about our lives today. The greatest challenge in our hyper-current world – is connecting our individual family story to the larger family story of the Jewish people. By taking time at meals, though, to share stories of our individual family and from the Torah and from Jewish history, perhaps we can demonstrate that these are not separate threads but part of the same fabric. Annie, Gavi, Ellie and Dani join me in wishing you and your loved ones a very joyful Pesach!
RABBI DAVID M. [email protected]
FROM THE Rabbi’s Study
Passover: the Original Story that Binds Us
Every week a few people make calls to remind people they have a yahrzeit of an immediate family member. We need people who are willing to make 5-10 calls. Callers can choose if they want to call every week, every other week or 1 time a month. Please consider helping with this nice service to
members of our synagogue. If you are able to receive emails, you can do this. If you can help, please call or email Rita Sha-piro, who is coordinating this service. [email protected] or 816-941-9592.
Yahrtzeit Callers Needed
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From the Desk of Bernie FriedLife Lesson 6: Look Out World; Here I ComeOscar Wilde wrote, “Be yourself. Everybody else is already taken.” Why is it many of us dream of being someone else? Remember when you wished to be the cool guy or girl, the most popular kid in school? When was the last time you wished you were someone else? When was the last time you tried to be another person because you didn’t think you would fit in if they saw the real you?
I remember a poster in my daughter’s room when she was an infant that read, “Be patient. God isn’t finished with me yet.” God made us in his image. He decides when we come into this world; He decides when we leave this world. In between, it is up to us to live our life as we choose in the persona we choose. The best persona is the one we were intended to be. So, instead of trying to be someone else, why not try to be the best version of you. As that famous philosopher Dr. Seuss said, “Today you are you; that is truer than true. There is no one alive that is youer than you.”
Bestselling author Jessica Sorensen wrote, “Be who you were supposed to be instead of who they make you feel like you should be.” Rather than trying to be someone else, try being yourself. Not only the “yourself ” you are today, but the best “yourself ” you can possibly be.
We all dream about being the best at whatever we do, to reach the pinnacle of excellence. Motivational speaker Maxie McCoy put this in perspective when she commented, “Instead of focusing on being the best (at what you do), focus on being the best you can possibly be.”
Join me in committing to be the best ‘You’ you can possibly be. And from where do I get this wonderful insight? From the best source possible, that Maven of Mischief Dennis the Menace who said, “The best thing you can do is to get good at being you”. Hey world, I’m almost there.
I can’t wait until tomorrow because I believe I am getting better every day. Let’s all focus on getting better every day. One day, I know I will emerge as the best me I can possibly be. And then, I will strive to be even better. One day, we all will emerge as the best we can possible be.
Hello World. Here I Am.
BERNIE FRIED
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR [email protected]
Congregations Help Feed the Hungry for PassoverHunger never takes a holiday. As we approach the season of Passover, there will be hundreds among us who will struggle to put food on the table let alone those special items to celebrate a Seder.
YOU can help make a difference. Join Jewish Family Services, The Rabbinical Association of Greater Kansas City and area congregations in collecting Passover food items. (The first Seder begins Friday, March 30) More than 160 families will be helped through your participation in the Passover food drive.
Among the items needed are grape juice, matzah and matzah meal, cake meal, baking mixes, matzah ball mix and soup. Our congregation has chosen to collect donations of matzah ball soup mix and grape juice; packaged items
should be labeled “Kosher for Passover”. Drop off items at Beth Shalom through March 19. Monetary donations are also being accepted by check or online through the JFS site http://www.jfskc.org/; funds are used to purchase food items to include in the holiday food packages. By participating in the Passover Food Drive you are putting into action the traditional words of the Haggadah, ‘let all who are hungry come and eat”.
There are a variety of volunteer opportunities available in connection with the Passover Holiday Food Drive. If you or someone you know wants to volunteer, please call 913-730-1410 or email [email protected]. For more information about the Food Pantry, please contact Jo Hickey, JFS Food Pantry Director at 913- 327-8257 or email her at [email protected].
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Purim Fun at CBS
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Have you ever thought about the Jewish opportunities for our teens? Take a moment to consider the options that exist, be it through what you have heard from others or witnessed first-hand. For me, several things come to mind. Here is a list I came up with: youth groups, sleep-away camp, Shabbat services, reading Torah, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, Jewish holidays in the home and at synagogue, Religious/Hebrew High School, Jewish-sponsored travel trips, leadership programs, Birthright, Jewish sorority or fraternity, Hillel, KC Federation programming, and events through the Jewish Community Center. When you take a moment to consider these opportunities, it certainly provides many options for our teens to discover about themselves, engage with others in our community and find a connection to our faith.
Being involved Jewishly for teens may actually be easier than we realize due to the relative familiarity they may feel with many of these programs. Whether it is a spiritual, religious or social Jewish involvement there is a foundational commonality among Jewish teens when they are interacting with other Jewish teens. There really isn’t a need for “the ice breaker” because the comfort often already exists! This can be powerful for strengthening their Jewish identity and it has a tendency to build upon itself over time as our teens continuously engage.
As teens gain more independence and stronger opinions about where they want to spend their time, who then is ultimately responsible for whether they are involved in any of these options? The teen? The parent? As a parent, what can we do to support our teens in creating this long-lasting connection? I’ve heard many parents talk about their role with varying degrees
of influence and with differing degrees of success. That can be very frustrating! Like any other core value a parent might desire for their kids, aiding in some way a connection to our faith can serve as a powerful guide for their future Jewish identity into adulthood.
For parents who feel they have very little impact on their teenagers in this area, I believe parents can still offer SOMETHING towards supporting our teens long-term connection with Judaism. Keeping in mind that each family, teenager and situation is different, consider these three parental responsibilities for their teen’s connection to Judaism that can be effective for any family: 1) Role Model 2) Exposure 3) Encourage
Role-Modeling: We know this as parents, how powerful role modeling is for our kids. The best is to find opportunities that are significant to you and those that you are open to exploring.
Exposure: This is my personal favorite and quite an important reminder to all of us that exposure gives our teens an awareness to what is out there Jewishly, while providing them with the chance to figure out what aspects are meaningful to them.
Encourage: This seems easy but speaking from a parent of a teenager, this can be the toughest part. Encouraging what we think is right? What the teenager thinks is right? Or some overlap of the two? I am still learning the balance between the two while focusing the encouragement around “planting the seeds” for further consideration.
Executively Speaking
Connecting Teens to Judaism – Our Role as Parents
by DANA SCHWARTZ
Bottom line, you never know what will “stick” or resonate with our teens! Perhaps our role in helping our teens enhance their Jewish connections will have a greater positive long-term impact than we could have ever imagined! One day, it will be our teenagers’ turn to take on the role of the parent. Let’s do our best to offer this next generation of Jewish adults the modeling, exposure and encouragement for future generations of Jewish teens.
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Linda Lessner will be honored as a “Woman of Valor” at the annual Beth Shalom Sisterhood Torah Fund Luncheon on April 5. Linda was a recipient of the Sisterhood Past Presidents’ Leadership Recognition Award. In addition to being Sisterhood President from 2011-2013, she was Sisterhood Membership V.P., Sisterhood Education Co-V.P. and assisted with the Torah Fund Campaign and annual luncheon. Linda has chaired both the Sisterhood/Congregational calendar and the Sisterhood Annual Movie Event. She has also volunteered in the Sisterhood Gift Shop. Currently, Linda chairs the Sisterhood Long-Range Planning Committee.
During her working career, she was President of the Women’s Transportation Club of Greater Kansas City. Linda’s activities in the Brandeis National Committee included serving as Co-President for four years and working on their Listen and Learn educational programs.
At CBS Linda has been co-chair for Steppin’ Out, a social group for age 60 and older congregants and friends who met quarterly for dinner and entertainment. She has participated in Lechem’s serving of hot meals for the needy. Currently she serves on the Board of Directors and is the congregation’s liaison to the Kansas City Jewish Chronicle.
In Women’s League for Conservative Judaism, IntraContinental Region, Linda’s responsibilities included Ways and Means Chair, Area Director and Board of Directors member.
Linda and her husband Larry have two children and two grandchildren. For the above reasons and her willingness to always lend a hand when asked, Linda is very deserving of being honored as a “Woman of Valor.”
Sisterhood
Sisterhood Book Club will meet on Wednesday, April 25 at 1:30 pm at the JCC in the large boardroom on the main floor. The club will be discussing “Moonglow” by Michael Chabon.
“In 1989, the author, Michael Chabon traveled to his mother’s home in Oakland, California to visit his terminally ill grandfather. Tongue loosened by powerful painkillers, memory stirred by the
imminence of death, Chabon’s grandfather shared recollections and told stories the younger man had never heard before, uncovering bits and pieces of a history long buried and forgotten. The novel collapses an era into a single life and a lifetime into a single week.“
For more details or to attend, contact Linda Lessner at 913-897-0122 or at [email protected]; or Irma Katz at 816-943-3469 or at [email protected].
Sisterhood Book Club Meets April 25
A Woman of Valor
Sisterhood Calendar CampaignBerenice Haberman and Bev Newman, Calendar Co-chairs, announce that Sisterhood has launched its 2018-19/5779 Congregational Calendar Campaign of selling listings, tributes and ads to its congregants and advertisers in the Kansas City metropolitan area. The calendar is Sisterhood’s major fundraising project, and its proceeds support both congregation and Sisterhood programs. The calendar/directory is complimentary to all Beth Shalom congregants, non-congregant Sisterhood members and advertisers.
Over the years, the calendar has been a valuable advertising vehicle for many area businesses. We welcome all congregational business leaders to consider this tool in their promotional planning for the coming year. It is a great value and opportunity to advertise one’s business every day for 16 months. Our professional designer can create your ad and accommodate you in any way to meet your advertising budget. Full page ads are also available in color for a minimal extra charge. For further information contact Berenice Haberman, 913-894-6657 or [email protected]. Ad forms are available at the Beth Shalom website, http://bethshalomkc.org/events/sisterhood/.
Please complete your ad form and return it with your check payable to Beth Shalom Sisterhood by April 3.
Everyone is invited to join Sisterhood on Thursday, April 5, in Goldsmith Hall to celebrate the success of our 75th annual Torah Fund campaign and enjoy a delicious Passover luncheon catered by Steve Ellenberg and Bagel Works. Hors d’oeuvres and wine begin at 11:00 am in the Grand Hall.
The afternoon’s entertainment will be provided by Fall Risk, a jazz and funk band comprised of nine KU students. During the luncheon the Past Presidents’ Leadership Recognition Award will be presented to Gloria Sher and the Woman of Valor Award will be presented to Linda Lessner. Invitations have been mailed. Guests are welcome. Both reservations and donations (including previous pledges) are due by March 23 in order for contributor names to be included in the program. Checks should be made out to Torah Fund.
Torah Fund luncheon chair is Cathy Newman. For more information contact Cathy at 913-814-7404.
The 75th Annual Torah Fund Luncheon
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Praised is the True Judge
Of Blessed Memory We express condolences to our Beth Shalom Members, their Families and Friends.
Harriet Hertzfield, z”l FEBRUARY 4 - 19 SHEVATHarry K. Shopmaker, z”l FEBRUARY 16 - 1 ADAR
PLAQUES HAVE BEEN DEDICATED In Memory Of...Yahrtzeits Join us for morning or evening minyan to say Kaddish for your loved one. See service schedule, page 11.
Baruch Dayan HaEmet
14 ADAR - MARCH 1Benjamin AltshulerLeo BlonskyJennie BrownEunice CopelandClara FoxMorris FriedsonBernard HershmanAnna KarsAnna KatzSol KatzElias KrigelHarry LernerDavid LitwackCharles MalcyRachel PosnerMyer ShapiroSarah TempofskySherman Zinn
15 ADAR - MARCH 2Sol FoxJulius FriedThomas GoldmanBirdie HakanMax HarrisLouise LevitchEllen MatzdorffJoseph MonovitzJacob RubinLeon SchillerAnna ShanbergJoseph ShapiroPearl Silverforb
16 ADAR - MARCH 3Samuel BaronSidney BermanAnnie BobreckerMorris DobrowskiAnna GlazerCatherine KaplanBetty KaufmanSarah KoralchikHenia LangnerAlexander MallonSidney MoskovitzJean RogersAlbert SchwartzPhilip ShankmanMatilda ShedorskyNancy SingerHattie SupofskyStanley Yukon
17 ADAR - MARCH 4Lewis BrattBernard EveloffLouis HershmanLouis HorowitzMeyer LevinsonMax LiebermanMolly MeyersStephen PenznerEthel PfeferEsther RogellHershel SalvayBenjamin SeigelFannie SteinWolf TurecElizabeth WedlanIsadore WeintraubHyman WeneckLouis Witschner
18 ADAR - MARCH 5Sandra CohenNyman GeisterHinda GreenbergLena KamenBess KopinLouisa LevinKatherine OverbeckIsadore ShaftonBirdie ShlyenPhilip SmolinskyShirley White
19 ADAR - MARCH 6Izzy EngelRachel EveloffSarah FeigenbaumBeatrice GershonMorris GoldMorris GordonHerbert KarbankSol LevinRose MalmonPhilip MillmanJacob ParelmanTillie SchniderJoseph ShaftonArnold ShanbergHelen SteinzeigJean TaxmanHenry Zimmerman
20 ADAR - MARCH 7Leon BernsteinJacob BrownEmanuel CopelandRose GordonHerman HershmanBenjamin HoffmanSol JunsbergMeir KellerHelen LoefflerDarlene MeltzerRobert ParelmanElizabeth PfeferD, Lena RopeMollie ShapiroHarry ShefrinRuth SilversteinMorley SteinbergCelia TraninSamuel WengroverErnst WertheimFrances WinerAbraham Zacharias
21 ADAR - MARCH 8Harry AgronMary AronsonIssie BernbaumMary BrennerJulius BridgesRobert ColemanBetty EdwardsDonald EllisMilton FirestonePaul GoodmanRonald GoodmanDora HarrisonGittel LevineJack PoiznerAnna SalvayRose SingmonEdward Stein
22 ADAR - MARCH 9Evelyn AlsterC C “Judy” CohenRebecca CohenBeckie CohnAbraham DavisSamuel EisenSimon FrankYetta GinsbergMinnie GolinskyGussie GoodmanHarry HerowitzSam KarosenLeah KoffmanWilliam LeffSamuel LevittRosa LippmanJulius MarkowitzBarney OppenheimerLillie PeltzmanTillie PlotkinEmma Sternberg
23 ADAR - MARCH 10Isidore BernsteinBen BloustineHerman CopakenCharles FinkelsteinAnne FishmanPearl FleiderJennie GershonAnna GrossSadie KatzmanJacob KramerHarry KrantzAdolph LoefflerMeyer PresentWilliam RothschildClara SheftelHarriett TilzerMary Tonkin
24 ADAR - MARCH 11Dora BrennerSarah CarrollSamuel DiamantSarah GerberRebecca GoldbergMary GollerJacob GoodmanJack HimmelsteinMelvin HoffmanEtta KatzmanDavid KramerSarah KrantzVrem LevensMildred LevinsonMax MorrisHarry RittmasterWill SwerdloffHenry Zinn
25 ADAR - MARCH 12Martha FleiderAbe GordonPearl JacobsRose LevyAlbert LipseyRosa PfefferDavid RogoveinEsther ShapiroSol StolovNed WeissChiel White
26 ADAR - MARCH 13Nathan BeckerArthur BrandLouis BrownDavid EpsteinJacob EpsteinMinnie FriedsonHenry GreenbaumNathan GumowitzFrances HaithJoseph KatzeffGertrude KillmnickMorris LernerLena LichtigerHarry MarkowitzEugene NovorrCharles RosenthalHarriett RosenthalNathan SiegelSaul SiegelJoseph SilvermanEdythe Trillin
27 ADAR - MARCH 14Ella BassinIsadore BeckerDoris BushStanley GoodmanFannie GordonSam GreenbergEzra KowalskyPhillip LevineJulius LevitchAdolf PuckerZlotta SchniderBen SoslandFannie Stevens
28 ADAR - MARCH 15Jette BergmannRuth DavisDave GardeskyLillian LeibsonReva LindmanGoldie MallinJacob MyronReda NoahSusie ParelmanHelen ShapiroMax SteinJoshua WaxenbergJoseph Wolf
29 ADAR - MARCH 16Jack BramsHarry ChaikinSophie FeinDora FoxRea FriedEsther GalitzkyAnna PeltzmanHelen RudnerSidney RyweckEthel SilbermanAnne SingerJacob SingerFannie SloanWilliam SosnowMarie TraxlerRose Weiss
1 NISAN - MARCH 17Tillie BrennerMorris BrooksRose BroudyLouis Cohen
Tillie DreiseszunPerez DubinskyMaier EisemannPamela GaleMenuha GoldbergMaynard GordonBarnett HoffmanAbraham LeveyBesse MarksLawrence PelofskyAbraham PeltzmanPaul ShaletMinnie SimonsHarry TabolskyRachel Vogel
2 NISAN - MARCH 18Goodman AceBen BenjaminIda BlenderIsidore CohenThomas CohenEsther GilbertFannie GlassHerman GoldwasserMorris HammerHarry HardingVera HershmanClara KahnDonna LevineLouis LevyElisabeth SorkinJeanette Wishna
3 NISAN - MARCH 19Minnie AppleNettie BondellKatie BrownArthur ChapmanTillie CohnBertha DiamantAnna GrossmanMarjorie JacobsSarah KahnPhenie KosovitzRebecca LeVineSarah MilenskyFlora RiegerJack RubackWolf SchlozmanDavid SchwartzAnna ShaoulRebecca SheskinMorris Stein
4 NISAN - MARCH 20Melvin GoldmanAbraham KrigelSophie LevineCarl NusbaumThomas ParnessAlvin PelofskyMirah RostovHerman SilvermanMorris Webber
5 NISAN - MARCH 21Morris BigusBen BloomAaron E CopelmanSadie GoodrichSam GutovitzTovia LachsAbraham LernerMollie NeusteterEtta PriceSophie Risburd
Charles SolskyGabriel SpectorJerome StolzoffRuth Zimmerman
6 NISAN - MARCH 22Ruth BakerTillie BlendSarah DayMichael FrischerCharles FurmanIda KornblumWalter I MarchLouis RabicoffJacob Shapiro
7 NISAN - MARCH 23Harry BergerRebecca ByersJudy ChaikinMax ChemelAlbert GreenbergJacob GreenbergRuben KernSimon MnookinEdnah SheskinIke SteinzeigBertha TulchinskyZeev Viner
8 NISAN - MARCH 24Ernestine BenjaminPaul BermanLeon FogelLouis GinsbergYolan GreenbaumAnna KivovitchEvelyn MarksHenry MichelsonPat NovorrRuth RosenbergBailey SchultzCarl SchwartzMeyer Wechsler
9 NISAN - MARCH 25Annie DworkowitzTzivye FoxCecil LevinHyman NamanMinnie NovorrDavid RudnerFroma SpitcaufskyEdward SteinSarah WagnerPearl Wasserman
10 NISAN - MARCH 26Minnie AchtenbergDaisy BernsteinMayer BernsteinMary BlondFrances DenebeimIrvin GasserSarah GilbertElizabeth GoodmanAlexander GumowitzLeslie JacobsonRose KrashinNed LevinDavid LevitchGeorge LipsitzCaroline RosenthalJacob SchmidtJean SilvermanHarry StolovMorris Swerdloff
Clara TempofskySimon Tonopolsky
11 NISAN - MARCH 27Bertha HoltzerHenry KargerTillie PelofskyClara RappaportMinnie SchleinAnna ShapiroEsther SteinbergHannah Steinzeig
12 NISAN - MARCH 28Gerta BaruchAnna BaumHanna BernsteinRose BortnickMorris EllisAbraham EpsteinArthur HerzmarkFannie KarbankSarah KatzHarry LipskyHelen ParnessMax PartnoyBessie RosengartenArnold SchoolmanDavid SingerMinnie SolomonPhyllis WainstockMorris Weinberg
13 NISAN - MARCH 29Barney AllisSaul BaumAnn BrotskyLouis ChaikenR Robert CohnLena EaglsteinBenjamin FeinbergAbraham GoldmanAlan GouldSusie PeltzmanAnn RolskyKatie RosenbergLena ShermanKenneth SimonNathan WexlerHelen Winer
14 NISAN - MARCH 30David BlumkinMindel BursteinEsther CopelmanAlvin JacksonHelen KrashinPhillip MagazineBeatrice NicholasIra RosenblumSylvia Shopmaker
15 NISAN - MARCH 31Ray BrodieDora GabaJack GellerBen GibianBela KentSol MallonAbraham MarksWilliam NowickRegina PlattnerIda SapirsteinJennie SiegelbaumHarry Supofsky
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Todah Rabbah!
Contributions through February 21, 2017 are listed below. Thank you for thinking of us.ANN & ISADORE GALE SCHOLARSHIP FUNDIn Memory ofMiriam BlaivasRoman & Svetlana
Sorkin
BENJAMIN RYWECK TORAH FUNDIn Honor ofBirth of Sandy SmithJoan MarchIn Memory ofWalter I MarchJoan March
BETH SHALOM GENERAL FUNDIn Honor ofMike & Mollie
BerenbomMark & Cathy MaslanDavid & Lynne BockMichael & Beth DriksArt & Diane FedermanJeff RotimanIn Memory ofAbraham Leo
AlexanderEd & Cheryl
AlexanderMoishe & Reizel
AltmanYakov AltmanRudy BaruchCraig & Amy BothCharles M Bernstein,
M D Sharyn BernsteinPauline BlonskyMarilyn BlonskyMarilyn BresselJerold BresselHope CohnElizabeth HennickMax EaglsteinBill & Janet EaglsteinRubin FriedBobbie BogradStan GoldbergEstelle MinkinJohn Goldberg
& Marla BrockmanKalman GrollmanMeyer GrollmanPaul Grollman
Alice GrossmanRon & Harryette
CoopermanDavid Feingold
& Trudi GalblumMarcus & Sonia
KaswanLouis & Marilyn
KesslerNaum KhalemskyOleg & Emiliya
KheyfetsIdelle KopitnikShirley MalashockMorris LevineHarold LevineMaxine MargolinLynn GordonDonna LimbaughGertrude MitzMel & Elaine GlazerSadie OzarI.I. OzarDorothy PeltzmanRobert PeltzmanHenry PresentMichelle P StelmachLena RosenbergRae CohenOscar RosenbloomMichael & Hue GreenJacob RotmanRoss TonkensSheldon SandlerBettye BalkinMilton SearlesMark & Toube SearlesWilliam SilvermanDavid & Lynne BockCelia SteinbergDonna SeymourRuth WasserstromRichard Wasserstrom
BETH SHALOM LIBRARY FUNDIn Memory ofYetta BarskyDolores MillerGertrude MitzRochelle Mitz
BOY SCOUT TROOP 61In Memory ofEdith QuitoPhillip & Barbara
Goodbinder
BREAKING BREAD FUNDRAISERIn Honor ofSteve & Lisa RubenCharlotte KesslerVictor & Annie
WishnaJason Sokol
CEMETERY MAINTENANCE FUNDIn Memory ofAlbert BegleiterBeverly BegleiterRuth RogalMichael & Linda
BegleiterSol GlassHarry & Hedra
MersonStan GoldbergEstelle MinkinGerry GoldbergRobert L HoffmanBeverly A HoffmanBruce & Susan
WinstonRose KatzeffHerb & Alice SteinHarry KaufmanMitch & Lisa
HamburgEsther Funk LichtorJeffrey Levine
& Reed FletcherHannah MarkowitzRuth Rubin ShapiroJerry ShaprioCarl MattersGabriel & Sandra
SeidmanGerald SheftelMarcia SarachekLeonard & Sylvia
ShopmakerSandra Lehman
ELEANOR & JOSEPH KOPIN ENDOWMENT FUNDIn Memory ofJoseph KopinAnita Daniels
GALE & MAXINE GROSSMAN RELIGIOUS SCHOOLIn Memory ofAlice GrossmanAllan & Nancy
Reichman
HANAN WEDLAN FAMILY FUNDIn Memory ofEleanor Abrams &
Mary Ann MourHarry & Reva
KaufmanJudy Budz
HAZZAN BEN-YEHUDA’S DISCRETIONARY FUNDIn Memory ofJoseph RosenbergDeborah Rosenberg
JACOB H & ROSE LEVINE TEACHER DEVELOPMENT FUNDIn Memory ofJacob H LevinePeter & Bev NewmanHarry ShopmakerArt & Linda LevineSusie & David Swift
KARBANK FAMILY FUNDIn Memory ofFlorence KaplanJoseph Smuckler
& Marcia Karbank
KIDDUSH FUNDIn Honor ofBilly Silverman
& Ann KartyAaron Goodbinder
MARCIA EVELOFF LECHEM FUNDIn Honor ofCarol BassKen & Sandi LernerHoward Coppaken’s
Speedy RecoveryJimmy & Sunni
RosenbloomIn Memory ofEsther BergBen CosnerJerry & Barbara
Cosner
Louis BurnsteinDavid & Rosalyn
BurnsteinEd KrigelWarren SanderRob & Cindy DanielsSophie LevinLee & Esther
PearlmutterFrederick MarshockHope & Marshall
TalbotEdith QuitoJeff & Linda SanderCharyl RubinDanielle Nisenkier
Levine & FamilyAnn SchifmanAlan & Tina Chapman
MARCUS BRAND SCHOLARSHIP FUNDIn Memory ofSadie OzarMilton & Marilyn Ozar
MERNA & SYLVAN SIEGLER FUND FOR JEWISH CAMPINGIn Memory ofAlice GrossmanEd KrigelMerna Siegler
MEYER J PACHTER VIDEO LIBRARYIn Appreciation ofMinnie PachterRegina PachterIn Memory ofEmmanuel EntinRegina Pachter
MORRIS & ROSE WEINBERG ENDOWMENT FUND FOR CAMP SHABBATIn Memory ofLeah GladstoneSteve Weinberg
RABBI GLICKMAN’S DISCRETIONARY FUNDIn Appreciation ofAlan EdelmanShirley Sander,Jeff & Linsa Sander,Mindy Forman
Rabbi David Glickman
Bradley & Taly Friedman
Mark & Ellie Mandelbaum
Rose Carr & FamilyShirley Sander,Jeff & Linda Sander,Mindy Forman”Larry KalenderShirley Sander,Jeff & Linda Sander,Mindy FormanIn Memory ofIrene LandyRichard & Beryl
SilbergLily WinerClarence & Alice
Winer
ROSALIE SIEGEL MEZZUZAH FUNDIn Memory ofLester LevinAnnie & Harry LevinRosalie & Stanley
SiegelEvelyn Gibian
& Family
ROSE FAMILY EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION CENTERIn Honor ofthe Birth of Micah
LeRoy Miller Berman
Anne BrattBirth of Your New
GrandchildSusie & Paul
BlackmanIn Memory ofAlice GrossmanMiles & Saly Ross
SAM & ESTHER DANIELS PRAYER BOOK FUNDIn Memory ofRubin FriedDonald & Ruthann
Zurovsky
SHIRLEY S & ALBERT I GOLLER CAMP RAMAH SCHOLARSHIPIn Memory ofWarren SanderScott & Debra
Grayson
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March Anniversaries will be celebrated on March 17.To sponsor a Kiddush contact Jill, 913-647-7279.
MARCH Anniversaries
4 Kristopher & Lindsey Zeid . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 6 Alan & Allison Myers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35 6 Allen & Linda Schick . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52 11 Norman & Alison Heisler . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34 11 Harold & Linda House . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45 13 Sol & Nora Dubin. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42 14 Joshua & Laura Galler . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 18 Michael & Gabrielle Handler . . . . . . . . . . . 29 19 Steven & Jennifer Paul . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 23 Alan & Eleanor Hoffmann . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49
23 Neal & Dana Schwartz . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 24 Warner & Esther Bergh. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61 24 Jerry & Sandra Fogel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 25 Bruce & Devra Lerner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40 26 Thomas & Pamela Glickman . . . . . . . . . . . 18 26 John Goldberg & Marla Brockman 29 26 Helene Lotman & Frank Tallman 18 28 Jeffrey & Jamie Wordsworth . . . . . . . . . . . 25 29 Craig & Amy Both . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26 31 Louis & Joyce Pack . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33
Mazal Tov to...
The following Beth Shalom Scouts and Scouters who were honored at Scout Shabbat on February 24:
Earning the Maccabee Award were: DYLAN FREIDEN, DANIEL HERTZFIELD, ARI NATENBERG & THEODORE NATENBERG
Earning the Aleph Award: EVAN ALBEE, DANIEL GALLER & SAMUEL HERTZFIELD
Earning the Ner Tamid: BEN FINE & SAMUEL WASSERMAN
Presented the Shofar Award: BRIAN BELL & BRUCE HERTZFIELD
MARCH Announcements
Shira Michaela PellegrinoMarch 17 / 1 Nisan
Shira's parents are Vincent & Marcy Pellegrino. Grandmother is Harriet E. Goldstein of Sarasota, FL. Her brothers are Jacob and Jonah. Shira attends Lakewood Middle School.
Shira’s hobbies include basketball, ice skating, soccer, swimming, drawing, Oboe, playing with family dog Turbo and spending time with family and friends. Shira’s mitzvah project is volunteering for Wayside Waifs. Relatives and friends are invited to attend the service and following Kidduch Luncheon after the services.
DAY YEARSDAY YEARS
We have Beautiful Seder plates in all price ranges.....Charoset bowls, matzah plates & covers, Elijah cups, hostess gifts , plus LOTS of fun items/games for kids.
Passover is ALMOST HERE and The Gift Shop has you covered!
Hours:
Sunday 9:15 am - 12:15 pm
Mon - Fri. 10:00 am - 2:30 pm
Questions: contact Mary Weiner- manager 913-642-9363
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MARCH 2018 | Adar & Nisan 5778
Candle Lighting Blessing/,¨C©J k¤J r¯b eh¦k§s©v§k Ub²U¦m±u uh¨,I§m¦n§C Ub¨J§S¦e r¤J£t o¨kIg̈v Q¤k¤n Ubh¥eO¡t wv v¨T©t QUr¨CBarukh ata Adonai Eloheinu melekh ha’olam, asher kiddeshanu b’mitzvotav vetzivanu lehadlik ner shel Shabbat. March Service Schedule Shabbat CBS Weekdays
Kabbalat Shabbat FRIDAY. . . . . . 6:00 PM Minchah SUNDAY-THURSDAY . 6 PM
Main Service SATURDAY . . . . 9:30 AM Shacharit MONDAY-FRIDAY . . 7 AM
Library Minyan SATURDAY . . . . 9:30 AM
Minchah MARCH 3 . . . . 5:55 PM
Minchah MARCH 10 . . . 6:02 PM
Minchah MARCH 17 . . . 7:09 PM
Minchah MARCH 24 . . . 7:16 PM
Minchah MARCH 31 . . . 7:22 PM
Shacharit SUNDAY . . . . . 8:00 AM
114 Adar
THURSDAY
Peltzman Class 10:00 AM Adult Ed
215 Adar
FRIDAY
5:55 PM Candle Lighting
316 Adar
SATURDAY
Minchah/Ma’ariv/Havdalah 5:55 PM
6:55 PM Havdalah Shavua Tov!
417 Adar
SUNDAY
518 Adar
MONDAY
619 Adar
TUESDAY
720 Adar
WEDNESDAY
Warm Up America! 10:00 AM
Downtown Talmud Jam 12:00 PM Adult Ed - Reservations are required Contact Trinity Standridge at tstandridge@bethshalomkc org Lathrop & Gage Downtown Offices
821 Adar
THURSDAY
Peltzman Class 10:00 AM Adult Ed
922 Adar
FRIDAY
No Preschool, Mini Spring Break
6:02 PM Candle Lighting
1023 Adar
SATURDAY
Birthday Shabbat 9:30 AM
Minchah/Ma’ariv/Havdalah 6:02 PM
7:03 PM Havdalah Shavua Tov!
1124 Adar
SUNDAY
No PRS Classes
1225 Adar
MONDAY
No Preschook - Mini Spring Break
1326 Adar
TUESDAY
1427 Adar
WEDNESDAY
No PRS Classes
1528 Adar
THURSDAY
Peltzman Class 10:00 AM Adult Ed
1629 Adar
FRIDAY
7:09 PM Candle Lighting
172 Adar
SATURDAY
Shira Pellegrino’s Bat Mitzvah 9:30 AM
Anniversary Shabbat 9:30 AM
Minchah/Ma’ariv/Havdalah 7:09 PM
8:10 PM Havdalah Shavua Tov!
183 Adar
SUNDAY
No PRS Classes
194 Adar
MONDAY
205 Adar
TUESDAY
216 Adar
WEDNESDAY
PRS Classes Resume
227 Adar
THURSDAY
Peltzman Class 10:00 AM Adult Ed
238 Adar
FRIDAY
Grandparent/Special Person Day RFECEC 7:16 PM Candle Lighting
249 Adar
SATURDAY
Shabbat Services 9:30 AM
PRS Shabbat School 10:00 AM
Minchah/Ma’ariv/Havdalah 7:16 PM
8:17 PM Havdalah Shavua Tov!
2510 Adar
SUNDAY
No PRS Classes
2611 Adar
MONDAY
2712 Adar
TUESDAY
2813 Adar
WEDNESDAY
PRS Classes Resume
PrayerWorks 10:00 AM
2913 Adar
THURSDAY
3014 Adar
FRIDAY
Shacharit followed by Siyyum Bekhorim & Breakfast 6:45 AM
Last Time to Eat Chametz 11:16 AM
Burning of Chametz Finished 12:19 PM
Minchah Service 6:00 PM
7:22 PM Candle Lighting
3115 Adar
SATURDAY - DAY 1 OF PASSOVER
Morning Service 9:30 AM
No Library Minyan
Minchah & Ma’ariv Service 7:22 PM
8:22 PM Candle Lighting
Congregational-Wide Events - See each department for their activities.
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Shabbat Services and Sunday morning Shacharit will be held at CBS,14200 Lamar
Weekday Minyan will be held at Appleman Synagogue, Village Shalom, 5500 W 123rd St
Please Note: On Tuesday, Wednesday and Fridays, Ohev Sholom will join us for the Morning Minyan.
RFECEC = Rose Family Early Childhood Education Center PRS = Polsky Religious School
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Scroll Deadline Submit articles to the Administrative office.March 12 for April
Erev Passover
March 30
Passover
March 31 - April 7
No PRS Classes
April 1, 4
No Preschool
March 30 - April 6
Offices Closed
April 6
Parashat HaShavua is an ongoing, monthly program taking place every third Shabbat of the month at 9:00 am in the conference room. The goal of this program is to engage its participants in a stimulating discussion of the weekly torah portion in a friendly atmosphere, where the difference of opinions is respected and questions are encouraged.
The next session will take place on March 17, when PARASHAT VAYIKRA will be discussed. An informal atmosphere and deep level of discussion are the trademarks of this gathering. No prior experience is required, and everybody is welcome to join.
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Congregation Beth Shalom, an egalitarian Conservative synagogue, is a welcoming community of individuals from diverse backgrounds, strengthening connections with God, Torah and the Jewish people through communal commitment to prayer, study and acts of loving kindness.
Office Hours MONDAY-THURSDAY 8:30 AM - 5 PM
FRIDAY 8:30 AM - 3 PM
Closed on Federal HolidaysMt. Carmel Cemetery Hours 816.398.9290 MONDAY, WEDNESDAY 8 AM - 4:30 PM
TUESDAY, THURSDAY CLOSED SATURDAY CLOSED FRIDAY & SUNDAY 8 AM - 4 PM
NATIONAL HOLIDAYS 9 AM - 4 PM
Exceptions: Thanksgiving, Chirstmas Day, New Year’s Day & Easter JEWISH HOLIDAYS CLOSED
Sisterhood Gift Shop HoursDuring Business Hours 913.647.7298 MONDAY-THURSDAY 10 AM - 2:30 PM
FRIDAY 10 AM - 12:30 AM
SUNDAY 9:30 AM - 12:30 AM
Other Hours BY APPOINTMENT ONLYCall Mary Weiner 913.642.9363 or 913.406.9296
FOR B’NEI MITZVAH REGISTRIESCall Tina Chapman 913.345.8773
Coming Attractions
Parashat HaShavua For more information, contact Svetlana Sorkin at 913-393-1715 or [email protected].