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Page 1: Making sure you succeed in getting that proposal

Making Sure You Succeed Making Sure You Succeed In Getting That Proposal In Getting That Proposal

of Marriageof Marriage

Carmen GilfillanCarmen Gilfillan

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It can be an issue when you’re ready for It can be an issue when you’re ready for marriage, but you’re unsure whether he is marriage, but you’re unsure whether he is

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Raising the idea of marriage in an upbeat, Raising the idea of marriage in an upbeat, non-aggressive way avoids holding your non-aggressive way avoids holding your partner to ransom partner to ransom

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Marriage is a vital issue so keep things Marriage is a vital issue so keep things casual and pleasant to ensure you casual and pleasant to ensure you succeed in getting that proposal of succeed in getting that proposal of marriage marriage

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The following tips will help increase the The following tips will help increase the likelihood that he’ll ask you to marry him:likelihood that he’ll ask you to marry him:

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1. Work through any issues around marriage1. Work through any issues around marriage

There may be a number of reasons why he There may be a number of reasons why he may have issues around marriage…may have issues around marriage…

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Work Through Marital IssuesWork Through Marital Issues

……He may know of people whose He may know of people whose marriages have broken down… marriages have broken down…

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Work Through Marital IssuesWork Through Marital Issues

……His parents may have divorced… His parents may have divorced…

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Work Through Marital IssuesWork Through Marital Issues

……He may just be unsure about that level He may just be unsure about that level of commitmentof commitment

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Work Through Marital IssuesWork Through Marital Issues

The key is to choose the right moments The key is to choose the right moments (and if you’ve been together a while you’ll (and if you’ve been together a while you’ll know when these are)…know when these are)…

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Work Through Marital IssuesWork Through Marital Issues

……To understand what he's thinking and To understand what he's thinking and what difficulties he has about getting what difficulties he has about getting married… married…

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Work Through Marital IssuesWork Through Marital Issues

……Talk these through and attempt to Talk these through and attempt to resolve them together…resolve them together…

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Work Through Marital IssuesWork Through Marital Issues

……So you can move forward and decide if So you can move forward and decide if marriage is right for both of youmarriage is right for both of you

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2. Make your relationship the best it can be2. Make your relationship the best it can be

If he hasn’t proposed yet that doesn’t mean If he hasn’t proposed yet that doesn’t mean he won’t… he won’t…

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Make Your Relationship The BestMake Your Relationship The Best

……In the meantime value the relationship In the meantime value the relationship you have, and the love you have for each you have, and the love you have for each other... other...

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Make Your Relationship The BestMake Your Relationship The Best

……There are people who would love to There are people who would love to have your kind of relationship, so don’t have your kind of relationship, so don’t take it for granted…take it for granted…

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Make Your Relationship The BestMake Your Relationship The Best

Keep the relationship solid by:Keep the relationship solid by:

CommunicatingCommunicating Being fair Being fair Avoiding secrets Avoiding secrets Adding varietyAdding variety

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3. Take your foot off the gas3. Take your foot off the gas

If you’ve been with your man a while and If you’ve been with your man a while and marriage is constantly on your mind…marriage is constantly on your mind…

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Ease Off The GasEase Off The Gas

……It may be that you’re beginning to get It may be that you’re beginning to get frustrated that he hasn’t yet proposed... frustrated that he hasn’t yet proposed...

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Ease Off The GasEase Off The Gas

This frustration, if not recognized and dealt This frustration, if not recognized and dealt with can begin to show through with can begin to show through

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Ease Off The GasEase Off The Gas

Wanting marriage is one thing, becoming Wanting marriage is one thing, becoming desperate is another and can be a turnoff desperate is another and can be a turnoff for anyone... for anyone...

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Ease Off The GasEase Off The Gas

……If this describes you, ease up, try taking If this describes you, ease up, try taking your foot off the gas a little…your foot off the gas a little…

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Ease Off The GasEase Off The Gas

… … And take each day as it comes. And take each day as it comes. Remember to keep things light and Remember to keep things light and upbeat…upbeat…

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Ease Off The GasEase Off The Gas

……And work on making your relationship And work on making your relationship the best it can be…the best it can be…

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In this way marriage will become just a In this way marriage will become just a natural next step for both of you…if it is natural next step for both of you…if it is

the right thing for both of youthe right thing for both of you

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If you want to discover more key tips If you want to discover more key tips on how to succeed in getting that on how to succeed in getting that

marriage proposal go to:marriage proposal go to:

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