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LIVING AN INSPIRED LIFE
Being Peace & JoyINTENTIONAL CHOOSING
A LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT EXPERIENCETacoma Health Information Association
Thursday, FEBRUARY 19th, 2015
by Ghasem NahvipourPresident and CEO
Comprehensive Life Resources [email protected]
253-666-3496
How Do I Know I Have Inner PeaceSigns of Inner Peace
• Think and speak spontaneously from our true, divine self and our values rather than from fears, anxiety and guilt based on past experiences
• Ability to be fully present and enjoy each moment• A loss of interest in judging self & other people• A loss of interest in interpreting the actions of others• A loss of interest in conflict• A loss of ability of worry or anxiety• Frequent, overwhelming episodes of appreciation• Contented feelings of connectedness with self, others & nature• Frequent smiling• An increasing tendency to allow things to happen rather than make them happen• An increased susceptibility to love extended by others and the uncontrollable urge
to extend it
INTENTIONAL LIVING
Awarenesswithout
Judgment
Acceptancewithout
Judgment
Action Aligned
with Divine Self
Attune (Observe without
Judgment)
• Thoughts • Feelings•Behaviors
• Integrity• Kindness• Respect• Serving
Breathing
Meditating
Reflection Prayer
Inner Joy Inner Peace
Physical Well-Being
Acknowledge
Allow
• Giving• Forgiveness• Love/compassion
• Speaking• Listening
Receptiveness
TrustReceptiveness
Trust
Trust
Trust
TrustTrust
ReceptivenessReceptiveness
Receptiveness Receptiven
ess
LIVING AN INSPIRED LIFE
Open to new ideas and experiences. OPEN AND RECEPTIVE
FLEXIBLE
Mastery of Language
FOCUSED ON THE GREATER GOOD
OF OTHERS, TEAM AND ORGANIZATION.
ETHICAL INTEGRITY
FREE TO GIVE AND RECEIVE FEEDBACKWITH GRACE AND INTEGRITY.
MANAGING SELF ANDRELATIONSHIPS EFFECTIVELY
WITH GRACE AND INTEGRITY.
Able to adjust mindset and trying a different ways to do things.
Less is more: Listen with love and speak with respect
This involves an understanding that team members generate synergy that takes the team and the organization to new
levels. This in turn leads to growth that takes the individual to new levels.
Doing the right thing is top priority. To be counted on to live and act in accordance with our shared values, leads
to being reliable.
Able to take and make suggestions. Understand others freedom to express
difference of opinions in constructive ways.
This involves a greater understanding of self in relation to connecting with others and communicating in a way that
shows respect of self and others.
A gift to yourself and othersFORGIVENESS
I feel connected when I…
• Listen to and hear others without judgment
• Speak with respect and authenticity• Love and care for others
unconditionally• Feel with my heart• Know with my inner knowing
(Wisdom)
Trust and ConnectionThe Foundation of Any Deep and Meaningful Relationship
I feel TRUST when I am…• Transparent with self and others• Responsive to my needs and other’s
needs• Use care with my interactions• Sincere and genuine with the highest
integrity• Trustworthy
Trust and ConnectionThe Foundation of Any Deep and Meaningful Relationship
At the same time you are also willing freely to detach yourself from the expectations of receiving what you are giving.
THE LAW OF GIVING AND RECEIVING “Knowing when you give, you shall receive.”
“Detach from the expectations of receiving.”
In order to receive
anything in life you are willing
freely to give self/others what
you desire to receive.
AND
AND
THE
9 OFAs,
CONNECTIONAND EMPATHY.
GIVE YOUR As AWAY...
1. Awareness2. Acknowledgem
ent3. Acceptance4. Appreciation5. Action align
with...6. Allow7. Attune8. Apologize9. Amend
MOVING FROM THE WORLD OF
TOCs,OF
IS A CONSCIOUSCHOICE
•Confrontational•Controversial•Confusing•Comparing•Contradictory•Competing •Complex
THEWORL
D
Es, •Ethical•Empathetic•Enthusiastic•Energetic•Effective•Efficient•Entertaining
Intentional LISTENING, SEEING, AND SPEAKING
LISTEN
SEE
SPEAK
with ears of acceptance.
through eyes of compassion.
with the language of love.
LIFE CONNECTINGCOMMUNICATION PROCESS.
1. The CONCRETE ACTIONS we observe that affect our well-being (observations).
2. How we FEEL in a relationship to what we observe feeling.
3. The NEEDS, VALUES, DESIRES, etc. that create our feelings (needs).
4. The CONCRETE ACTIONS we REQUEST in order to enrich our lives.
WELCOME TO THE WORLD OF YOU DON’T KNOW, YOU DONT KNOW....AND ACCESS TO THIS WORLD IS THROUGH CONVERSATION AND RECEIVING/GIVING FEEDBACK.
WHAT YOU KNOW,YOU DON’T KNOW.
WHAT YOU KNOW,YOU DON’T KNOW.
WHAT YOU KNOW,YOU KNOW.
WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW,YOU KNOW.
(Infinite)
INTENTIONAL LIVING
Awarenesswithout
Judgment
Acceptancewithout
Judgment
Action Aligned
with Divine Self
Attune (Observe without
Judgment)
• Thoughts • Feelings•Behaviors
• Integrity• Kindness• Respect• Serving
Breathing
Meditating
Reflection Prayer
Inner Joy Inner Peace
Physical Well-Being
Acknowledge
Allow
• Giving• Forgiveness• Love/compassion
• Speaking• Listening
Receptiveness
TrustReceptiveness
Trust
Trust
Trust
TrustTrust
ReceptivenessReceptiveness
Receptiveness Receptiven
ess