leadership blind spots

44
Blind Spots Overcoming R E D A E L S H I P

Upload: jdjarrell

Post on 12-Jan-2015

630 views

Category:

Documents


0 download

DESCRIPTION

Based on the book by

TRANSCRIPT

Page 1: Leadership Blind Spots

Blind Spots

Overcoming

R E D A E L S H I P

Page 2: Leadership Blind Spots

Presented by:

Jonathan "JJ" Jarrell

Page 3: Leadership Blind Spots

Leadership is the art of getting

someone else to do something

you want done because he

wants to do it “ Dwight D. Eisenhower

Page 4: Leadership Blind Spots

Fearless Leadership The courage to take a bold

stand, act decisively, and

engage with others in an

extraordinary way “ Malandro

Page 5: Leadership Blind Spots

Are you a fearless leader?

Page 6: Leadership Blind Spots

Loretta Malandro

wrote a great book on

Fearless Leadership

One of her key insights was that we all have

Blind Spots

Page 7: Leadership Blind Spots

Blind Spots Trucks have a number

of blind spots that hide things (i.e.,

cars, people, buildings,

etc..) from the drivers view

PFG has many trucks on the road

Page 8: Leadership Blind Spots

Blind

Spots

Page 9: Leadership Blind Spots

Leadership

Blind Spots

Malandro “

Unproductive behavior that

undermines business

results and working

relationships

Page 10: Leadership Blind Spots

10 Blind Spots

Let’s see what they are

Page 11: Leadership Blind Spots

Going it alone

Page 12: Leadership Blind Spots

Not asking for help

Not accepting help

Not talking about stress

Not including others in

decisions “

Malandro

Symptoms

Page 13: Leadership Blind Spots

Being insensitive to your impact on others

Page 14: Leadership Blind Spots

We judge others on their

behavior but expect them

to judge us by our

intention “ Malandro

Perception

Page 15: Leadership Blind Spots

Having an “I know” attitude

(I’m right)

Page 16: Leadership Blind Spots

Arrogant Having an answer for

everything, rigid and fixed

views, lack of intellectual

curiosity, not listening, “

Malandro

diminishing what others have to say,

arguing with everyone who does not

agree with your point of view, refusing

to explore alternatives and options

Page 17: Leadership Blind Spots

Avoiding

difficult(crucial)

conversations

Page 18: Leadership Blind Spots

Understand that you make the

situation worse for others

when you don’t have those

crucial “ Vital Smarts

Crucial Conversations

conversations when the crucial

moment happens

Page 19: Leadership Blind Spots

Blaming

others or

circumstances

Page 20: Leadership Blind Spots

Being personally accountable

for business results and your

impact on people, even when

others accept zero

accountability “ Malandro

Accountability

Page 21: Leadership Blind Spots

Yeah!!!!

But If you use these two

words…

You might need to take

more accountability

Page 22: Leadership Blind Spots

Treating

commitments

casually

Page 23: Leadership Blind Spots

Not keeping commitments

Not fulfilling promises on time

Symptoms

Always maintaining an “escape hatch” Not providing a clear commitment or non commitment

Page 24: Leadership Blind Spots

Conspiring

against others

Page 25: Leadership Blind Spots

When I'm angry at someone, I

don't let them know. I just

smile pleasantly

“ Urban Dictionary

Minnesota Nice

to his or her face and then proceed to

talk about them behind their back

Page 26: Leadership Blind Spots

Withholding emotional

commitment

Page 27: Leadership Blind Spots

“ Malandro

Hearts and Minds intellectual commitment – people engage

and focus energy on implementing change

When an organization can capture

both the “hearts and minds” –

emotional and

Hearts and Minds

Page 28: Leadership Blind Spots

Not taking a stand

Page 29: Leadership Blind Spots

“ Malandro

Indecision An indecisive leader

cripples a group or

organization by

sapping the energy and

drive of people

Page 30: Leadership Blind Spots

Tolerating good enough

Page 31: Leadership Blind Spots

“Settling for the ‘status

quo’ is never reaching for

greatness.”

Unknown

Accountability

Page 32: Leadership Blind Spots

Removing The

Blind Spots

Page 33: Leadership Blind Spots

“If I told you what blind spots

you have, you would deny

them, or you

Malandro

Truly Blind

would argue, debate, and defend why

you do what you do “

Page 34: Leadership Blind Spots

What can you do to identify your

blind spots?

Page 35: Leadership Blind Spots

Find people who can help you identify your blind spots and ask

them to help? Must be people who feel comfortable telling

you the truth…

1

…that is the hard part

Page 36: Leadership Blind Spots

Empathy practice – take 10-minutes to look back at the last few hours of your

day. Write down your specific behaviors (like it was a video that showed only the

actual behaviors) and actively look to identify any of the 10 blind spots

It is hard to do this without some self-editing / bias – but try to be

brutally honest about it – it really can help

2

Page 37: Leadership Blind Spots

Create an Action Plan

What is your Action Plan for

identifying your blind spots

and taking bold action to

dosomething about them?

Page 38: Leadership Blind Spots

Insert Your Name Here

Ultimately who is accountable?

Page 39: Leadership Blind Spots

Accountable 100%

We should wear this

badge everyday

Page 40: Leadership Blind Spots

I will fully and completely take charge of my

own actions. I will not accept less than the

best from myself or my team. I will hold

myself accountable for both my own and my

team’s results. I will only make commitments

that I can make and that I intend to keep

I will not make excuses

100% Accountable Pledge

Page 41: Leadership Blind Spots

I cannot change anyone’s behavior but my own – so I will focus on how I can change to achieve success. I will ask for help when I need it. I will gladly accept help when it is

offered. I will be open to insights that others have and listen to their ideas, thoughts, and

opinions without bias. I will search out information on my blind spots from those

who work with me. I will not blame others or circumstances for not meeting commitments

I will engage 100% in

everything that I do

Page 42: Leadership Blind Spots

I will “play to win” and not “play to not lose.” I will take bold action when necessary. I will

speak the truth. I will not tolerate good enough. I will face difficult situations and

hold crucial conversations when necessary. I will actively examine how my behavior is

impacting others

I will strive to be a fearless leader who

makes a difference everyday. I will hold

myself accountable to all these things

I will not make excuses

Page 43: Leadership Blind Spots

Thank

You

Page 44: Leadership Blind Spots