Journey to Love Journey to Love Attracting & Building Loving RelationshipsAttracting & Building Loving Relationships

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Learn from Your PastLearn from Your Past

Who were your first teachers and Who were your first teachers and mentors?mentors?

What have you experienced in your What have you experienced in your past relationships?past relationships?

What are the lessons you’ve learned?What are the lessons you’ve learned?

Make a list of your dating and Make a list of your dating and relationship styles – are they working relationship styles – are they working for you?for you?

Release and Let Go of Your HurtRelease and Let Go of Your Hurt

Holding on to your hurt only keeps you Holding on to your hurt only keeps you stuck. stuck.

“ “Anger is like eating rat poison, hoping Anger is like eating rat poison, hoping the other person will die.”the other person will die.”

Clear out the hurt.Clear out the hurt.

Open your heart to receive love.Open your heart to receive love.

Write letters to release people from Write letters to release people from your past to their highest and greatest your past to their highest and greatest good.good.

Own and Support Your Own Own and Support Your Own Personal Needs and DesiresPersonal Needs and Desires We attract what we yet don’t know.We attract what we yet don’t know.

Why do you think we do that?Why do you think we do that?

We need to learn the lessons!We need to learn the lessons!

Relationships Relationships alwaysalways give us the give us the opportunity to grow.opportunity to grow.

Get clear with what you want or you’ll Get clear with what you want or you’ll keep attracting what you don’t want.keep attracting what you don’t want.

Create Safe BoundariesCreate Safe Boundaries

What are boundaries?What are boundaries?

How do we know what boundaries we How do we know what boundaries we need to set?need to set?

Look at our past hurts to see what Look at our past hurts to see what boundaries you need to set?boundaries you need to set?

Honor your own boundaries first, and Honor your own boundaries first, and then others will also respect them.then others will also respect them.

Accept Your GreatnessAccept Your Greatness

Love yourself first.Love yourself first.

See your own true value.See your own true value.

When you see your own true value it will shine When you see your own true value it will shine through for others to see.through for others to see.

What Do You Want?What Do You Want?

Your past is filled with lessons and gives you Your past is filled with lessons and gives you clarity on what you desire in a partner and a clarity on what you desire in a partner and a relationship/marriage.relationship/marriage.

Write down 10 of the most important things that Write down 10 of the most important things that you must “mutually share” with a partner.you must “mutually share” with a partner.

What are the “deal breakers” that are going to let What are the “deal breakers” that are going to let you know he/she is not the one.you know he/she is not the one.

Do Something DifferentDo Something Different

What are you doing now to meet your potential What are you doing now to meet your potential partner?partner?

Is it working for you?Is it working for you?

Where might you find your compatible partner?Where might you find your compatible partner?

Do what you love and live your true passion.Do what you love and live your true passion.

Enjoy the ProcessEnjoy the Process

Dating is meant to be fun.Dating is meant to be fun.

If it’s not – what’s actually happening?If it’s not – what’s actually happening?

When you’re really clear with what you desire When you’re really clear with what you desire you’ll attract it into your life.you’ll attract it into your life.

Don’t waste your time or someone else’s, if Don’t waste your time or someone else’s, if they’re not the one for you.they’re not the one for you.

He/she is someone else’s treasure.He/she is someone else’s treasure.

Inform the UniverseInform the Universe

What do you do when you really want something?What do you do when you really want something?

Write it down.Write it down.

Get focused.Get focused.

Create your relationship story 5 years from now, Create your relationship story 5 years from now, as if it’s happening right now.as if it’s happening right now.

Read it out loud. Share it with a trusted friend.Read it out loud. Share it with a trusted friend.

Step-by-Step ProcessStep-by-Step Process

If you would like a step-by-step process, you can If you would like a step-by-step process, you can do it all in one book:do it all in one book:

Journey to Love: Journey to Love:

Attracting & Building Loving RelationshipsAttracting & Building Loving Relationships

WorkbookWorkbook

If You Always Do…If You Always Do…

If you always do If you always do

What you always did,What you always did,

You will always getYou will always get

What you always gotWhat you always got

Don’t give upDon’t give up

What you really wantWhat you really want

For something you wantFor something you want

RIGHT NOW.RIGHT NOW.