jealousy and modesty

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Jealousy and Modesty

Praised be to Allah the god of the worlds, and pray to Allah prophet Mohammed, all hisfamily, and companions, then:

From the charms of our religion the taking care of nobility of characters, the prophet-peacebe upon him-said: "Verily I have been but sent to perfect the most noble of manners."[validated by Alabani]

And when the prophet-peace be upon him-was sent, he confirmed the ignorance era goodmanners, and canceled their bad manners, and rectified what need rectifying.

And from the good manners of the ignorance era: the jealousy of the man on hisunmarriageable ones, but some of them were going too far that they surpassed the limits.Some buried their daughters alive; fearing monstrosity. Therefore, the legislator prohibitedthis, rectified and improved the jealousy part and made it from the paths of the faith, theprophet-peace be upon him-said: "No one more jealous than Allah" [Narrated by Bukhariand Muslim]

And the prophet -peace and blessings be upon him- said: "Verily Allah gets jealous and thebeliever gets jealous and the jealousy of Allah is to see a believer doing unlawful acts"

[Narrated by Muslim]

And he -peace and blessings be upon him- said when the sun eclipsed: "O community ofMuhammad! ByAllah, there is no-one more jealous than Allah..." [Narrated by Bukhari]

, ...

And the prophet said-peace be upon him-" Allah likes some of the jealousy [ClassifiedHasan by Albani]

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and when Sad son of bada-may Allah pleased with him-if I saw a man with my woman I


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would have hit him with the unfoliated part of my sword, the prophet-peace be upon him-said: do you wonder from Saad's jealousy, I am more jealous than Sad, And Allah is morejealous [Narrated by Bukhari] (unfoliated: to hit him with the edge of the sword not with itsside, at which the one who hits with edge intends to kill while the one who hits with the sideindent disciplining)

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And the companions-may Allah pleased with them- endowed with this prophetic mannerand kept on it, its matter the same as the essentials of the faith and its paths, so it wasn'tstrange that some of them were killed or kill in order to preserve this issue. Ibn Hashemrecited that a woman from the Arabs came with some earning (what is brought to themarkets to be sold there) and she sold it in the market of Kaynoka (one of the tribes of theJewish) and she sat at a jeweler there, and they insisted on her to show her face but sherefused, so the jeweler came to the edge of her cloth and tied it to her seat -without hernotice- so when she stood up she was exposed, so they laughed on her, and she yielded,

then a man from the Muslims leaped on the jeweler and killed him-and he was Jewish-so theJewish people pressured on that Muslim and killed him, so the prophet-peace be uponhim-walked to them, and surrounded them until they followed his judgment, so heevacuated them to Al Sham.

In this way the ancestors continued, and the Muslims never left or even neglect this mannereven at the week times that the Islamic nation passed by, like while when the crusaderswere occupying some of the Islamic countries in Al Sham and their occupation continued forabout two centuries, it was a time that some may think that they are staying until thelanding of Issa the son of Mary, at this time the historians recorded that the Muslims were

scorning them and looking to them as cuckolds, at which the one of them may be walkingwith his wife in the road and she meets a friend, so he stands away to let his wife speakswith her friend as she wants.

Some examples of the nonfeasance of the jealousy:

-In our countries-May Allah fill it with obedience-we are still better than the others in thisissue, although some are exceptions.

-You can see some of them in his car, and his wife gets outs from the car and takes too long

in a conversation and he should have been with her.

-And you see one of them, his wife in solitude with foreign men; with the driver in the car,or with the seller in a shop, or with the physician in the clinic, or somewhere else, and hesees nothing wrong with that, and the prophet-peace be upon him said-"whenever a mancombines with a women apart, the devil shall be their third" [validated by Albani]

-And also the man leaves his woman or the women in his custodianship going out withtransparent, describing, or short clothes.

-Also the getting out of the man with his wife and his unmarriageable ones in the publiccrowds, at which his women may associate with men, or she is exposed to their regards.


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-Also another example, the man leaves his woman to travel without any of herunmarriageable persons, the messenger of Allah-peace be upon him-said: "No mancombines with a women in solitude unless she is with one of her unmarriageable ones, andno woman travels unless she is with one of her unmarriageable ones. So a man stands upand said: Messenger of Allah "my woman gets out on pilgrimage, and I was requested in soand so of invasions, so he said: Go and pilgrimage with your woman" [Narrated by Muslim]

. : ! : . .

This is a militant in the sake of Allah, the prophet-peace open him-ordered him to leave theholy war to accompany his wife, that went in a holy travel which is pilgrimage, and with thepurist and most pious people, and even she has already gone, the prophet-peace be uponhim-said "go and pilgrimage with your woman".

The reasons of the proceeding:

What has been mentioned from examples is a reality happening and seen, although thecommon behavior is the preservation of jealousy. So what is the reason of what ishappening from some people in the absence of jealousy and modesty? Now, lets speakabout the rank of the modesty and its stature in Islam.

Modesty:

The modesty is one the paths of faith, as it came in the speech of the prophet-peace be

upon him-, so whenever his modesty decreases his faith decreases, and in the two validbooks the prophet-peace be upon him- said "The modesty only brings good" [Bukhari andMuslim]

And in a recitation of Muslim "All the modesty is good"

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and it is recited about Salman the Persian-May Allah be pleased with him-that he said: IfAllah wanted to doom someone he takes from him the modesty, so when the modesty istaken you find him only as an abominable disgusting one"

And the poet said:

I swear by Allah that there is no good in life nor the world if the modesty is goneAs long as the one has modesty he is good and the steam remains as long its cover is still.

And another said:

I see the one with no modesty nor honesty as if he is naked among the people.

And the slightness of the modesty at the woman has particular reasons, like:


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1-The leniency of the upbringing of it, and habit ever remains:If you rectify the branches it became right, and it never soften if it is wood.

2-The over association of woman with the foreigners, and the over talking with them.

3-The association with people with low modesty, or the repeating of their viewing, eitherresulting from traveling abroad or seeing them in the markets and parks, or watching themin the episodes, or something like that, because the good and bad manners is achieved byassociation.

4-And it might be from the most important reasons: the over getting out of the woman fromher home, the great and almighty Allah said: "And abide in your houses" [al-Ahzab 33:33]

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Transliteration: Wa Qarna F Buytikunna

And El Tabarany recited with a good bond that the prophet-peace be upon him-said "Thewoman is a private part, and if she gone out from her home the devil raises his glance toher, and she is never nearer to her God than the deepest part of her house" [validated byAlbani] [the devil raises his glance upon her and covet in her].

And the prophet-peace be upon him-said "Don't prevent your women from the mosques,and their homes better for them"[validated by Albani]

AlDomuaty the memorizing-may Allah have mercy on him-said:" EbnKhozuma and a groupof scientists declared that her praying in home better than the mosque, even if the mosquewas the mosque of Makka or Almadina or Jerusalem".

-And the reasonable and the sagacious one should realize that what some of the Islamiccountries has reached from degeneration and change didn't happen in one time, but beganusually with silly begins till the situation reaches what we see now, so pay attention.

Finally, you Muslim, verify your testimony that Mohamed is a messenger of Allah, so thatyou believe him in what he said, and obey him in what he ordered, and don't commit whathe prohibited and restrained, and don't you ever be inconsistent with his order in the sakeof your fancy or in conformity with anyone, the great and almighty Allah said "So let thosebeware who dissent from the Prophets order, lest fitnah strike them or a painfulpunishment." [An-Nur 24:63]

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Transliteration: L Tajàl Du`'a Ar-Rasli Baynakum Kadu`'i Baìkum Baàn QadYa`lamu Allhu Al-Ladhna Yatasallalna Minkum Liwdhan Falyadhari Al-Ladhna

Yukhlifna Àn 'Amrihi 'An Tubahum Fitnatun 'Aw Yubahum Àdhbun 'Almun

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