james malinchak’s develop a positive attitude tips
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James Malinchak’s Develop A Positive Attitude Tips
Developing a positive attitude is primarily about retraining the way you think about life. It is
not about ignoring the negative aspects of life, but instead about focusing on the positive
factors. Anyone can develop a positive attitude, but it does take a bit of determination, and
some days a leap of faith. This leap of faith may be needed to change from dwelling on
everything wrong to everything right!
If you listen to any motivational speaker, they will talk about positive attitude, on
accomplishments, on achievement, on moving on if things go wrong. It isn't always easy. If
you are overlooked for an internal promotion, for example, it would be easy to think
negatively about the situation. You start thinking maybe you need to get a job where you're
appreciated. You assume the person appointed got the promotion on his golfing ability and
not his leadership skills, and so on. This thought pattern spirals down into greater negativity,
perhaps turning inward as punishment for failing.
This isn't an easy situation to have to deal with, but try and consider what you could do to
make sure that you aren't overlooked for the next promotion. Learn from the experience and
continue moving forward. Change the negative energy into positive action. Whenever you
hear distressing news, you can't sometimes help but be affected by it. Even if it's a disaster
like the terrible Tsunami where you don't know anybody involved personally, you may
empathize with the survivors and mourn the loss and the devastation. You can't help that it
touches you.
Being empathic and compassionate doesn't make you a negative person. Watching the news
and resolving never to go to that region in case it happens again, listening to every news
broadcast, and watching reruns of the clips with the bodies piled high won't bring those
people back. However, it's etching those images on your mind. The reruns aren't played so
you learn to be word perfect with the reporters. They're for the people who didn't see them
the first time around! You've seen the news, now turn off the TV! Think about the situation if
you must, but think about how you could help. Positive action is going to help develop a
positive attitude.
Along those lines, avoid people you know who are unable to function without negativity. If
you can't avoid them, then build up mental body armor against them. When they've got
negative things to say, counteract these with positive reflections about the subject. To
develop a positive attitude, you don't have to hide away from reality. Rather, you need to live
reality in a way that allows you to contribute more effectively within society because you
begin looking at how to help resolve the issues creating problem instead of get buried under
the immensity of the problem itself. Think positive, be positive, and then stay positive! The
bonus in thinking this way is that like negativity, positivity is contagious - spread it around!
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