is peer support final presentation
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Island SchoolYear 10 Peer Support Seminar
Sonia BasiliSt. John’s Counselling Service
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Peer Support
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Brainstorm…..
• Think of a time when you needed support from your peers?
• Who did you go to?• What type of support was helpful?
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Who am I?
• What is Counselling?
• Who should see a counsellor?
• Do we need to be counsellors when we support our friends?
• Island School : Rm 416 – Fridays • or by appointment [email protected]
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Self- Awareness
• Before I can walk in another’s shoes, I must first remove my own,
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What do you see?
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Paradigms
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Try out new lenses…
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Five Essential Helping Skills
Accepting
Non-judgemental
Understanding
Genuine
Trustworthy
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Hearing vs. Listening
Listen or thy tongue will make thee deaf
LISTEN FIRST TALK SECOND
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I need a pair of….
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Listening to people talk about theirproblems makes them feel better
It does 3 things:
1)Shows that we care2)It shows that we
understand3) Makes them feel valued
Attentive listening:listening with
care and empathy
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“I can understan
d how you feel.”
“I’m really sorry
you feel that
way.”
SYMPATHYEMPATHY
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Volunteer?
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Roadblocks to Helping
1) Ordering/Commanding2) Warning/Threatening3) Moralizing/Preaching4) Advising/Giving Solutions5) Lecturing/Giving Logical Arguments6) Judging/Ridiculing/Blaming/Name-Calling/
Sarcasm/Shaming/Put-Downs7) Playing Psychologist/Analyzing/Diagnosing8) Consoling
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Lessons from Charlie Brown
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Nonverbal AttentivenessKEEP “SOLER” in MIND
S –square stance
O–open posture
L –lean toward
E –eye contact
R – relaxed stance
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Paraphrasing:
You feel _______________Because_____________
Student: I know I shouldn’t be so hard on myself. But I can’t seem to stop second guessing everything I do.
• Helper: It sounds like you’d like to be easier on yourself, but you aren’t able to control your reactions
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But..what should I say?
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Types of Question
C = Clarifying Questions
O-E = Open-Ended Questions
Cl = Closed Questions
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Clarifying Questions
• Deepening our understanding of what is being said or to allow people to consider a situation and their feelings about it more deeply.
Do I understand you? Are you saying….?
When you say….What do you mean?
I think I lost you. Could you go over that again?
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Open-Ended Question
“What did you do when that happened?”
“How does that make things different”
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Closed Questions
“How old were you when you moved?”
“Did that make you angry”
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Your Turn…
- Groups of 3
- Counsellor, Student & Observer
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Summary:
Are YOU really LISTENING?