including kids at church who behave aggressively
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Stephen Grcevich, MD President, Board of Directors, Key Ministry
Clinical Assistant Professor of Psychiatry, Northeast Ohio Medical University Senior Clinical Instructor, Child and Adolescent Psychiatry
Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine
Faith and Disability Symposium St. Peter’s United Methodist Church, Katy TX
October 13, 2012
Including Kids at Church Who Behave Aggressively
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Learning Objectives…
Identify characteristics of kids who are predisposed to aggressive behavior
Explore strategies for establishing ministry environments that reduce risk of aggressive behavior
Review approaches for intervening when kids are escalating toward or exhibiting aggressive behavior
Discuss ministry strategies when the risk associated with a child’s aggressive behavior prevents inclusion at church
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Subtypes of aggressive behavior:
Reactive aggression: Affect: fear, anger Arousal level: high Outcome: negative Impulsive Reactive Defensive Overt Hostile
Predatory aggression Affect: self-confidence Arousal level: low Outcome: positive for self Controlled Predatory Offensive Covert Instrumental
Vitiello B, Stott DM. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry 1997; 36(3) 307-315
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Definition of maladaptive aggression:
Aggressive behavior that occurs outside an acceptable social context
Maladaptive behavior is characterized by:
Intensity, frequency, duration and severity are disproportionate to its causes
May occur in absence of antecedent social cues Behavior not terminated in expected time frame, or in response to
feedback
Jensen P et al. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry 2007; 46(3): 309-322
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Traits associated with maladaptive aggression:
Difficulty with behavioral inhibition, emotional self-regulation
Irritability/anxiety frequently predominant mood Misperception of social cues Misinterpretation of environmental risk Difficulty with communication Cognitive rigidity…propensity to get “stuck”
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What situations at church may increase a child’s risk for aggressive behavior?
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What situations at church may increase a child’s risk for aggressive behavior?
Initial visits to an unfamiliar church Transition times before/after children’s activities Chaotic, unstructured activities Kids transitioning from one area to another in building Excessive sensory stimulation Unfamiliar staff, volunteers Following high stimulation, high energy activities Evening activities (time course effects of medications,
fatigue)
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Environment shapes behavior!
The more sensory input a child has to process, the less mental capacity remains for self-control. Consider…
Visual input/clutter, lighting, use of color Use of pictures to assist in communication Effects of loud noise Touch…not everyone likes it Comfortable seating http://drgrcevich.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/inclusion-
fusion-2011-harmony-welcomingenvironments.pdf
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Space Planning & Sensory Issues
Open check-in area with neutral tones and plotter images to reduce visual clutter
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Space Planning & Sensory Issues
Vineyard Student Union (middle school and senior high ministry)
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Communication aides:
Communication keys used to enhance volunteer name tags http://www.keyministry.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/PM-Appendix-3r-Sample-Communication-Key-and-Signage.pdf
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Keys to Behavior Management
Before During After
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Before…
Pray Create your classroom/respite culture
Encouragement Expectations
Plan proactively Physical arrangement of the room Staffing Content of the lesson Pace of the lesson “In the event of an emergency…”
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During: First line strategies
Proximity Control Distraction Hurdle Help Antiseptic Bounce
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During: Next steps
“Grandma’s Law” Emotional Labeling Watch YOUR language Managing other students for safety
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During: General Rule of Thumb
When a child/youth is demonstrating aggressive behavior that is predominantly impulsive in nature, decreasing the sensory stimulation in the environment is generally helpful
When a child/youth is demonstrating aggressive behavior that is predominantly perseverative in nature, distracting the child as early as possible before the pattern escalates is generally helpful
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After:
Non-judgmental conversation Problem-solving Quiet Allow for “busy work” Re-join peers Communicate with parents
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How can parents help?
Do share information with ministry team about techniques shown to help prevent/reduce aggression
Do administer medication shown to help reduce frequency, severity of aggressive behavior during church activities (with approval of treating physician)
Do be aware of the concern that aggressive behavior presents with largely untrained volunteers
Do consider keeping your child home when he/she exhibits aggression that you can’t successfully manage at home
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What if a child/youth presents too great a risk of severe aggression to attend church?
Support the rest of the family in attending church, participating in discipleship activities
Relational (home-based) respite Paid in-home child care/buddies with specialized training Scheduling church activities when child care available Whose responsibility is the child’s spiritual development? Church as resource provider to parent?
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Conclusions:
Kids with reactive aggression can generally be included in existing church programming
Churches may reduce risk of aggression behavior by designing friendly ministry environments
Providing teachers and group leaders adequate training to identify and intervene in potentially risky situations
Ensure sufficient staffing at times of enhanced risk Traditional church may not be the “least restrictive
environment” for some children/youth especially prone to aggressive behavior
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Stay in Touch! Key Ministry Website: http://www.keyministry.org
Church4EveryChild…Steve’s Key Ministry Blog: http://drgrcevich.wordpress.com Diving For Pearls…Katie Wetherbee’s Blog: http://katiewetherbee.wordpress.com A Reckless Pursuit…Harmony Hensley’s Blog: http://arecklesspursuit.wordpress.com
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Questions?