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Cf you jhvg Luts tjgm Ahrg to ig ACFFGYGMQ!

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ô you jhvg Luts!

Hntuhddy ct aogs mot rgqucrg kunj ahrcml to ig acffgrgmt. Ct cs quctg mhturhd tjht gvgry

jukhm igcml wcdd hdwhys ig acffgrgmt frok otjgrs cm sokg why or tjg otjgr hma tjgrg

cs motjcml so lrght hiout ct ignhusg gvgry jukhm igcml cs umcqug. Iut tjg

ACFFGYGMNG wjcnj wg hrg locml to nrghtg cs mot tjht sckpdg hma oracmhry!

Dgt–s hse oursgdvgs h qugstcom0

—\jy ao wg jhvg h sui`gnt nhddga Jcstory cm our nurrcnuduk?‛

Qjg khcm rghsom for tjcs cs tjg gxcstgmng of h fgw jukhm igcmls wjo nrghtg h khsscvg

acffgrgmng iy aocml gxtrhoracmhry tjcmls hma tjcs cs wjht eggps tjgk hdcvg gvgm hftgr

tjgcr aghtj cm tjg fork of jcstory!

Cm tjcs iooe wg jhvg h lrght opportumcty to ig h phrt of tjg jcstory, wjcnj aogs mot

rgqucrg lrght gfforts. Ct rgqucrgs cmvgstkgmt of hrouma >2 kcmutgs out of our gmtcrg dcfg

c.g. tjg kokgmt wjogvgr wcdd fcmcsj rghacml tjcs iooe, tjht pgrsom wcdd ig tjg mgxt

jcstory khegr. Igdcgvg kg!

C hdso prokcsg tjht tjg acffgrgmng cs locml to ig trudy posctcvg hma vhdug haacml mot

omdy to our dcvgs iut hdso to tjg vgry gxcstgmng of tjg nomngpt of dcfg om tjcs ghrtj.

Ct wcdd ig jcstory cm tjg dhws of dcfg khmhlga iy ‚Mhturg–. Qjg dgssoms frok ct wcdd ig

lcftga iy mhturg to hdd jukhm igcmls cmnduacml hdd otjgr forks of dcvgs iy why of cts

idgsscmls for pghng hma jhppcmgss forgvgr.

Qjg òurmgy to nrghtg tjg acffgrgmng gmas ht tjg dhst njhptgr hma C rgqugst you to mot

kcss hmy njhptgr cm igtwggm to gmsurg tjht our òurmgy of dcfg aogs mot kcss out tjg

fcmhd agstcmhtcom of pghng hma jhppcmgss!

Qjg acffgrgmng tjht wg wcdd nrghtg cs for our owm sgdf frok wjht wg hrg. Ct cs mgctjgr

cmtgmaga mor acrgntga towhras hmy nokphrhtcvg acffgrgmng frok wjht otjgrs hrg!

Acffgrgmt rgdclcoms jhvg igdcgfs cm acffgrgmt mhkgs hma / or forks of Loa (Mhturg).

Dgt–s ig Loa oursgdvgs.ôumas acffcnudt?

Dgt–s ht dghst try hma fcma out h sodutcom to tjcs.

Dgt us mow sthrt tjg òurmgy to hnjcgvg tjg ‚ACFFGYGMNG–.





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moioay iotjgrs to umagrsthma tjg agptj hma rghd kgsshlg of tjht nry hma tjg story

rgpghts ctsgdf!

Dgt–s try to hmhdyzg tjg trug kghmcml igjcma tjg tgrk ‚Nokphrcsom–.

Ct cs tjg phrhddgd gvhduhtcom of two jukhm igcmls wctj rgspgnt to ghnj otjgr for hmy

umagrdycml nrctgrch to fcma out ‚\jo cs igttgr tjhm tjg otjgr?–

\jy ao wg nokphrg?

\g sgg so khmy otjgr jukhm igcmls hnross tjg worda hma wg whmt to umagrsthma jow

wg hrg acffgrgmt hma igttgr frok tjgk hma so wg nokphrg oursgdvgs wctj otjgrs.

Dgt–s stop nokphrcsom hma sgg tjg ACFFGYGMNG wg wcdd ircml to oursgdvgs.

\g jhvg dost nomtrod ovgr our owm psynjodoly hma gkotcoms. \g jhvg hdd surrgmagrga

tjg ckporthmng of our gxcstgmng hs h jukhm igcml om tjcs ghrtj iy nokphrcml

oursgdvgs wctj otjgrs hdd tjg tckg. \g nokphrg hs pgr our owm agfcmctcom, emowdgalg

hma sgt sthmahras for tjg shkg wjcnj cs hdso cmfdugmnga iy tjg nokphrcsom aomg iyotjgrs for us, om our igjhdf too.

Cf wg whmt to nokphrg oursgdvgs wctj hmy lcvgm igmnjkhre tjgm dgt ct ig our owm

sgdf. \jy to rgstrcnt oursgdvgs to otjgrs iy nokphrcml wctj tjgk? Hdwhys nokphrg

our owm phst wctj our prgsgmt hma njgne wjgtjgr wg jhvg ckprovga or mot to kheg

oursgdvgs igttgr jukhm igcmls tjhm igforg hma so om.

Hs pgr tjg opcmcom of h fgw pgopdg, nokphrcml oursgdvgs wctj otjgr jukhm igcmls to h

ngrthcm gxtgmt khy jgdp us to umagrsthma wjht wg nhm ao to kheg oursgdvgs h igttgr

jukhm igcml tjhm wjht wg hrg. Jowgvgr, wg hdd kheg tjg icllgst kcstheg of aocml

‚KHQGYCHDC^QCN NOKRHYCÔM– ihsga om khm-khag hrtcfcnchd igmnjkhres dceg

cmnokg, gxpgmacturg, nomsukptcom, possgsscom, sonchd sthtus, fhkg, powgr, wghdtj,

mhtcomhdcty, rgdclcom, nrgga, nhstg, nodor gtn.

Ct rgstrcnts our snopg to ig h looa jukhm igcml. Ct nrghtgs psynjodolcnhd / gkotcomhd

scnemgssgs dceg hmlgr, glo, `ghdousy, cmfgrcorcty nokpdgx, fghr, cmsgnurcty, strgss hma

agprgsscom gtn. Ct sokgtckgs dghas to hnutg agprgsscom wjcnj kcljt cmfdugmng tjg

pgrsom to gvgm nokkct sucncag. ôkg khy njoosg tjg mglhtcvg phtj to ig sunngssfud

cm khtgrchdcstcn tgrks wjcnj dghas towhras tjg agstruntcom for hdd.

\jht wg forlgt cs tjht tjg dcfg cs h òurmgy omdy tcdd aghtj hma wg mgvgr hppdy for

gctjgr! Qjgrg hrg khmy njhrhntgrcstcns spgncfcn to ghnj dcfg hma wg mgvgr emow tjg

rghsom for ct. Khmy httrciutgs of dcfg hrg sckpdy cm-iorm hma khmy otjgr fhntorsnomtcmug to ig rudga iy dhws of dcfg hs agfcmga iy Mhturg tjrouljout tjg dcfg, wjcnj wg

jukhms nhm jhrady umagrsthma or prgacnt or njhmlg! @ust dooe ht tjg vhrcous forks of

dcvgs hrouma us jhvcml acffgrgmt httrciutgs hma wg wcdd lgt our hmswgr.

Sghrs wcdd phss iy, wg wcdd hdd lrow odagr hma tjg fcmhd agstcmhtcom for hdd cs tjg shkg.

Qjg fcmhd hnjcgvgkgmt cs mot wjht wg fggd ct sjouda ig. Qjg khtgrchdcstcn hnjcgvgkgmts

aurcml tjg dcfgtckg hrg tgkporhry hma dckctga to h phrtcnudhr dcfg. \jht rgkhcms

forgvgr cs tjg ÔWD.





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Jhvg wg gvgr tjouljt wjht nhm ig tjg rghd hma pgrkhmgmt hnjcgvgkgmt for tjg soud,

wjcnj cs fhr igttgr hma kghmcmlfud tjhm hdd tjgsg tgkporhry hnjcgvgkgmts hs agfcmga

wctjcm tjg jukhm khag hrtcfcnchd strunturg of gnomoky hma soncgty? Ct cs tjg nomtrod

ovgr our owm kcma hma sgdf-acsncpdcmg.

Qjg rghd jhppcmgss dcgs cm shtcsfhntcom, wjcnj nhm ig hnjcgvga omdy iy sprghacml dovg

hma jhppcmgss to hdd wjo hrg dcvcml om tjcs ghrtj. Khtgrchdcstcn Nokphrcsom wcdd mgvgrhddow us to ao tjht.

Mgxt tckg wjgm you nokphrg hse yoursgdf tjg foddowcml qugstcoms0

8. \jht hk C nokphrcml?

9. \ctj wjok hk C nokphrcml?

>. \jy hk C nokphrcml?

1. \jht rghd hma pgrkhmgmt vhdug wcdd ct haa to ky dcfg hma tjht of otjgrs?

7. \cdd ct jhrk hmyomg cf C rgkhcm Mgutrhd hma Cmacffgrgmt to tjg nokphrcsom or

wcdd ct jgdp to hnjcgvg Rghng hma Jhppcmgss for hdd?

Sour ^OWD wcdd lcvg you tjg igst hmswgrs!





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—C wcdd provg tjht C hk igttgr‛

\jht hrg wg fcljtcml for?

\g sjouda try to dcvg h kghmcmlfud dcfg hma mot agstroy ct iy ignokcml `ghdous of

otjgr jukhms. \g hdd hrg Loa–s (Mhturg–s) rgprgsgmthtcvgs hma mot gmgkcgs of ghnj

otjgr. \g hrg sonchd hmckhds wjo jhvg to dcvg tolgtjgr to gmsurg tjht hdd dcvgs om tjcs

ghrtj dcvg h dcfg fudd of jhppcmgss out of pghng hma looa jghdtj.

Dgt–s hse oursgdvgs h qugstcom0

—Jhs hmy omg of us fcdga hmy hppdcnhtcom fork igforg thecml icrtj to agncag om vhrcous

httrciutgs of dcfg wjcnj hrg cm-iorm cmnduacml otjgr tjcmls wjcnj hrg rudga hma

nomtroddga iy mhturg tjrouljout our dcvgs?‛

Cs ct our owm agncscom to ig iorm cm h phrtcnudhr fork? Nhm wg agncag wjgm ao wg

whmt to acg cm havhmng? \jy sokg forks of dcvgs hrg hmckhds / icras / pdhmts hma

sokg hrg jukhm igcmls? \jy sokg hrg ahre cm nodor hma sokg hrg fhcr? \jy sokg

hrg pjyscnhddy stroml hma sokg hrg mot or shy gvgm jhmacnhppga?

Ct cs hdd hiout tjg dhws of dcfg lovgrmga iy mhturg wjcnj cs ihsga om our owm hntcoms /

aggas tcdd h dcfg hnnoracml to wjcnj tjg mgxt fork hma httrciutgs of dcfg for our soud cs

agncaga. Qjcs cs emowm hs ‚Dhw of Ehrkh– wjcnj cs ihsga om tjg prcmncpdg of ‚Hntcom-

Yghntcom–. Qjcs nomtcmugs tcdd wg, tjg cmacvcauhd gtgrmhd souds, hnjcgvg ^hdvhtcom /

Koesjh / Mcrvhmh.

@ghdousy cs tjg out nokg of nokphrcsom hs acsnussga cm tjg prgvcous njhptgr. Ct hffgnts

our psynjodoly mglhtcvgdy hma jurts our glo. Ct lgmgrhtgs mglhtcvg gmgrly hma so wg

khy hdso ignokg gvcd hma hnt mglhtcvgdy, wjcnj cs jhrkfud mot omdy to otjgrs iut hdso

to our owm sgdf.

Cf omg nhm nomtrod tjg gkotcom of `ghdousy tjgm tjht pgrsom nhm hnjcgvg pghng of kcma.

Iy nomtroddcml `ghdousy wg nhm hnjcgvg jcljgst dgvgd of shtcsfhntcom frok our dcvgs,

wjcnj fcmhddy dghas to jhppcmgss. Ct cs hdso looa for iotj pjyscnhd hma kgmthd jghdtj.

Loa (Mhturg) wcdd fggd jhppy to sgg tjht tjgrg hrg so khmy jukhms wjo hrg jhppy to

sgg otjgrs jhppy iy sprghacml dovg cm tjg fork of jgdpcml otjgrs hma thecml nhrg of

ghnj otjgr cmnduacml otjgr forks of dcvgs.

Qjgrg wcdd ig mgw rudgs sgt to rum tjg worda ihsga om kutuhd jgdp hma no-opgrhtcom,

wjcnj wcdd hddow ghnj omg of us to dcvg h jhppy hma kghmcmlfud dcfg rhtjgr tjhm igcml

h phrt of tjg idcma rht rhng of khtgrchdcstcn nokpgtctcom out of `ghdousy.

Mhturg wcdd fggd jhppy for rummcml tjcs worda. Mhturg wcdd idgss hdd wctj ihdhmng cm dcfg

wjgrg ghnj jukhm jhs pghng, jhppcmgss hma nokpdgtg shtcsfhntcom cm jcs / jgr dcfg.





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Qjg mgxt tckg you fggd `ghdous hse yoursgdf tjg foddowcml qugstcoms0

8. Hk C fggdcml `ghdous? Cf ygs, for wjht rghsom hk C fggdcml `ghdous?

9. Jow hma wjy tjcs fggdcml of `ghdousy nhkg cm ky kcma? Cs ct jgdpcml kg or

jurtcml kg?

>. Cf C rgkhcm Mgutrhd hma Cmacffgrgmt to `ghdousy tjgm wcdd ct jhrk hmyomg

cmnduacml kg or wcdd ct jgdp hdd to hnjcgvg Rghng hma Jhppcmgss for hdd?






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—Oj mo! Qjht pgrsom cs hjgha of kg. Mow dgt kg sgg jow jg / sjg nomtcmugs to ig

tjgrg? C wcdd pudd jck / jgr aowm hma wcdd lo hjgha of jck / jgr‛

Qjcs cs wjgrg khòrcty of us spgma our prgncous tckg. Qjg tgrks nokphrcsom, `ghdousy,

nokpgtctcom souma sckcdhr to ghnj otjgr iut cm rghdcty tjgy jhvg tjgcr owm cmagpgmagmt

gxcstgmng hma ckphnt.

Hs wg shca wjgm wg nokphrg wg fggd `ghdousy hma tjgm wg sthrt nokpgtcml to fcma out

h sodutcom to our `ghdousy!

\ctj wjok hrg wg nokpgtcml? Otjgr jukhms dceg us. Cs tjgrg hmytjcml lrght hiout ct?

\jht hrg wg locml to hnjcgvg out of ct? Ct khy ig jcljgr cmnokg, sthtus, fhkg hma

powgr gtn. tjhm h fgw otjgrs, for h dckctga tckg pgrcoa. Hdd tjgsg ùst shtcsfy our glo.

Mhturg khmhlgs tjg dcfg om ghrtj hma trcgs to ihdhmng out tjcmls ovgr jgrg iut wg khegct acffcnudt for mhturg to sprgha cts idgsscmls gquhddy to hdd5 to sprgha dovg hma

jhppcmgss hdd hnross tjg ldoig to hdd forks of dcvgs.

Qoo kunj of nokpgtctcvg httctuag khegs our tjouljts, spggnj hma hntcoms mglhtcvg. Ct

khegs us fggd looa wjgm otjgrs dosg. \g ignokg sgdfcsj, mhrrow kcmaga, sjort

scljtga hma mglhtcvg.

Qjg rghd nokpgtctcom cs nokpgtctcom wctj omg–s owm sgdf.

Dgt–s try nokpgtcml wctj our owm sgdf hma sgg tjg kcrhndg! \g wcdd hnjcgvg jcljgr

shtcsfhntcom, jhppcmgss, sunngss hma pghng of kcma. Cmstgha of nokpgtcml wg sjouda

try to jgdp otjgrs. Nhrg for otjgrs cmnduacml hdd vhrcous forks of dcvgs. Ygspgnt hdd hmact wcdd rgagfcmg tjg prcmncpdgs om wjcnj wg lovgrm tjg dcfg.

Dcfg wcdd ignokg korg kghmcmlfud hma wortj dcvcml. Cf wg nhm nomtrod our gxtrgkg

nokpgtctcvg httctuags tjgm tjg rudgs of tjg lhkg wcdd njhmlg hma wg wcdd hdd lcvg icrtj

to h mgw worda wjgrg gvgry dcvcml nrghturg wcdd ig jhppy. Ct wcdd igmgfct hdd hma wcdd

gmsurg tjg shkg for hdd nokcml lgmgrhtcoms, wjcnj wcdd kheg tjg ghrtj igst pdhng to

dcvg forgvgr!

Gxtrgkg nokpgtctcom nhm mgvgr jgdp us to haa hmy rghd hma pgrkhmgmt vhdug to our

dcvgs ignhusg wg agfcmg tjg mgga of nokpgtctcom wctjcm tjg jukhm khag hrtcfcnchd

ioumahrcgs of ‚Gnomoky– hma ‚ôncgty– ihsga om khtgrchd igmnjkhres.

Ao wg nokpgtg for jukhmcty hma to hnjcgvg spcrctuhd lohds? Mo, Mgvgr. \g agvotg hdd

our tckg hma gmgrly ùst for ‚KHQGYCHDC^QCN NOKRGQCQCOM–.

\g sjouda jhvg kunj korg vhduhidg lohds to ig hnjcgvga wjcnj sthy doml tgrk, shy

gvgm pgrkhmgmt rhtjgr tjhm nokpgtcml to hnjcgvg omdy khtgrchdcstcn sjort tgrk

tgkporhry lohds.





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Qjg mgxt tckg you fggd dceg cmvodvcml yoursgdf cm gxtrgkg nokpgtctcom, `ust hse

yoursgdf tjg foddowcml qugstcoms0

8. Cf C whs to acg cm h fgw ahys, wjcnj hrg tjg lohds wjcnj C wouda dceg to hnjcgvg

iy tjgm?

9. Cf C hk locml to lrow oda, lgt wghe hma fcmhddy acg omg ahy tjgm wjcnj

hnjcgvgkgmts sjouda ig lcvgm korg ckporthmng hma prcorcty cm ky dcfg?>. \jgrg hk C cmvgstcml ky dckctga tckg hma prgncous gmgrly of dcfg? Cs ct wortj

dcvcml tjht why? Cs ct locml to haa hmy rghd hma pgrkhmgmt vhdug to hmyomg

cmnduacml kg?

1. Ao C mgga to njhmlg tjg why C hk cmvgstcml ky tckg hma gmgrly to kheg ky

dcfg noumt hma kheg ct korg kghmcmlfud tjhm wjht C nhm tjcme of?






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Jgrg nokgs tjg khcm nhusg igjcma hdd tjg gmgkcgs hs acsnussga cm tjg prgvcous

njhptgrs c.g. Nokphrcsom, @ghdousy hma Nokpgtctcom.

\g jhvg dost nomtrod ovgr our owm kcma. \g jhvg ignokg sdhvgs of our owm

psynjodoly. \g jhvg forlottgm tjht ghnj dcvcml nrghturg, cmnduacml us, cs h sckcdhr hma

hm cmacvcauhd gtgrmhd cmvcscidg ^OWD wjcnj cs sgphrhtg frok our nurrgmt fork of dcfg.

\g jhvg surrgmagrga oursgdvgs to our glo hma jhvg lot cmfdugmnga iy jukhm khag

hrtcfcnchd gmvcromkgmt hrouma us, wjcnj tghnjgs us tjg nomngpt of glo hma tjg

cmjukhm whys to protgnt ct.

\g jhvg thegm oursgdvgs fhr hwhy frok tjg prcmncpdgs of dcfg hs agfcmga iy mhturg. \g

hrg nhuscml jhrk mot omdy to oursgdvgs iut hdso to tjg vgry nomngpt of dcfg om tjcs

ghrtj. Our gfforts hrg acrgntga omdy towhras ‚khtgrchdcstcn– hma ‚sjow-off– ecma of

lohds hma wg hrg whstcml our tckg hma gmgrly cm hrghs tjht khttgr tjg dghst to dcvg hkghmcmlfud hma vhdug haacml dcfg aug to tjg glo trhp.

Qjg fhnt cs tjht tjg kokgmt wg wcm ovgr our glo hma htthcm mgutrhdcty hma cmacffgrgmng

frok jukhm khag khtgrchdcstcn gmvcromkgmt wg ignokg tjg kost powgrfud hma

nomstruntcvg jukhm igcml cm tjcs worda cm hmy khmmgr.

Glo aogs mot gxcst cm rghdcty. Ct cs `ust h psynjodolcnhd scnemgss, wjcnj lgts cmfdugmnga

iy tjg jukhm khag hrtcfcnchd khtgrchdcstcn gmvcromkgmt wctjcm wjcnj wg hdd dcvg.

Qo frgg oursgdvgs frok tjg sdhvgry of glo wg jhvg to nommgnt our kcma to our soud hma

sthrt fonuscml om tjg trug fhnts of dcfg. Glo nhm ig for dooes, vocng, pjyscnhd strgmltj,

hrt, emowdgalg, komgy, powgr, fhkg, sthtus, wghdtj gtn.

\g jhvg forlottgm tjht tjg trug prcmncpdgs of dcfg hrg khmhlga hma nomtroddga iy

‚Mhturg– hma khtgrchd dcfg nomtcmugs omdy tcdd aghtj.

Qjg kokgmt wg ignokg glocst wg mo domlgr rgkhcm jukhms iut wg lgt nomvgrtga to

dcvcml khtgrchds. \g dosg rgspgnt hma dovg of hdd our wgdd-wcsjgrs. \g fggd tjht ‚looa–

cs ‚iha– hma ‚iha– cs ‚looa– hma wg rghdczg our kcstheg omdy wjgm wg lrow oda hma

dgss usgfud hma hrg dgft hdomg, ignhusg khtgrchds hrg dcega omdy tcdd tjgy hrg usgfud. Ht

tjg gma wg rghdczg tjht wg jhvg hntuhddy dost khmy tjcmls, wjcnj khttgr tjg kost hma

wjht wg jhvg hnjcgvga iy tjgm sggks to ig of mo usg. Qjcme hiout ct!

Glo khegs us ruag hma hntcvhtgs our hmlgr. Ct khegs us tjcme hma hnt mglhtcvgdy. \g

ignokg sgdfcsj, rclca, sjort scljtga hma cmjukhm. \g khy jhrk otjgrs jhppcmgss. \g

dosg nomtrod ovgr our owm tjouljts, spggnj hma hntcoms, wjcnj khy jurt otjgrs hma

cmvctg trouidgs for our owm sgdf hs wgdd.

Loa (Mhturg) fggds sorry for sunj jukhms iut Loa (Mhturg) khy fcma ct acffcnudt to

jgdp tjgk to nurg tjgcr scnemgss ignhusg tjosg wjo hrg glocst hrg mot rghay to jgdp





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tjgksgdvgs. Hs pgr tjg dhws of dcfg iy mhturg, rgprgsgmtga iy our igdcgf cm Loa–s

idgsscmls, nhm jgdp omdy tjosg wjo hrg rghay to jgdp tjgksgdvgs hma otjgrs.

Qjg kokgmt wg ignokg glocst our agvgdopkgmt stops tjgrg ctsgdf. Cm fhnt ct

agtgrcorhtgs tjg quhdcty of our dcfg. \g dosg pghng of kcma hma jhppcmgss. Qjg gvcd

kcmaga pgopdg theg havhmthlg of pgopdg wjo hrg glongmtrcn for tjgcr owm igmgfct hma

wjgm tjg tckg nokgs to rgphy tjgy turm tjgcr ihne towhras tjg pgrsom cm mgga.

Ht tjg gma glocst pgopdg fcma tjgksgdvgs domgdy jhvcml mo rghd shtcsfhntcom hma

jhppcmgss cm tjgcr dcfg. Ht tjcs pocmt tjgy fggd lucdty hma try to ioma wctj tjgcr trug

wgdd-wcsjgrs hlhcm wjo tjgm forlcvg tjgk iut tjgm sunj jukhms mgvgr nokg out of

tjgcr lucdt-trcp tcdd tjg gma of tjgcr dcfg for wjht tjgy jhvg aomg to otjgrs.

Qo gmsurg tjht wg hrg mot glocsts dghrm to shy —^orry‛ wjgm wg emow tjht wg hrg

wroml hma try to ckprovg hma sgg to ct tjht tjg shkg kcsthegs hrg mot rgpghtga cm

futurg. Dghrm to shy —Qjhme Sou‛ wjgm wg emow tjht sokg omg jhs jgdpga us hma ao

try to jgdp otjgrs wjgm posscidg.

Hnngpt tjg dhw of mhturg tjht ghnj dcfg om tjcs ghrtj agsgrvgs gquhd rgspgnt, frggaok, pghng hma `oy. Hdso umagrsthma tjg fhnt tjht mo omg nhm lgt hdd jhppcmgss cm tjg worda

hdomg hma tjht jhppcmgss cs h fggdcml, wjcnj cmnrghsgs omdy iy sjhrcml ct hma mot iy

owmcml ct. Dhst iut mot tjg dghst, hdwhys rgkgkigr tjht tjg dhws of mhturg rudg our dcfg

hma dcfg cs mot locml to ig nomsthmt or pgrkhmgmt tjg why ct cs toahy.

Mgxt tckg wjgm you fggd glo hse yoursgdf tjg foddowcml qugstcoms0

8. \jo hk C?

9. \jy hk C tjg why C hk?

>. Hk C glocstcn? Cf ygs, \jy?

1. Cs glo jgdpcml hmyomg cm hmy khmmgr?

7. Cf C ao mot ig glocstcn tjgm wcdd ct nhusg hmy jhrk to hmyomg cm hmy khmmgr or

wcdd ct jgdp hdd to ig jhppy?

6. \cdd gvgrytjcml rgkhcm tjg shkg hs ct cs toahy?

<. \cdd C mgvgr lrow oda?

:. \cdd C mgvgr acg?






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\jht cs ‚hmlgr–? Ct cs hm gkotcom wjgrg wg ao mot hlrgg to or dceg h jhppgmcml hma so

wg rghnt to ct to gxprgss our acshlrggkgmt.

Hmlgr cdd ckphnts our tjouljts, spggnj hma hntcoms. Qjg omg, wjo lgts hmlry, tjcmes

mglhtcvgdy, khegs usg of ckpropgr dhmluhlg, tomg, vodukg hma ioay dhmluhlg. Cf ct

logs igyoma nomtrod tjgm omg khy hdso ignokg hiuscvg hma khy gvgm nhusg pjyscnhd

cmùry to jcksgdf / jgrsgdf hma / or to otjgrs.

Ygkgkigr tjht hdd jukhms tjcme, thde hma hnt acffgrgmtdy ignhusg ghnj omg of us jhs

lot umcqug psynjodoly hma gkotcoms. Jowgvgr tjg dhws of mhturg hdwhys rgkhcm trug

hma omg khy njoosg to hnngpt ct or mot iut tjht aogs mot njhmlg tjgk. Mhturg jhs lot

gmoulj powgr hma hdso rgspomscicdcty to nomtrod hma khmhlg cts dhws.

Qjgrg hrg khmy tjcmls cm dcfg wjcnj hrg gctjgr wjctg or idhne tjoulj fgw jukhms lgt

nomfusga iy kcxcml tjgk hma nhddcml tjgk tjg lrhy sjhags of dcfg. Qjht cs wjgrg tjg proidgk dcgs5 wg hdd gxpgnt gvgrytjcml to njhmlg hs pgr our igdcgfs hma opcmcoms. \g

nokg hnross so khmy acffgrgmngs cm opcmcoms tjrouljout our dcfg cm hdkost gvgrytjcml

wg tjcme, spghe or ao.

Mhturg gmsurgs tjht tjg worda cs rudga hs pgr cts dhws of dcfg hma aogs wjhtgvgr cs

mgngsshry to idgss us hma so hdso to pumcsj us.

Om hmy jhppgmcml hse your sgdf ùst tjrgg qugstcoms hs foddows0

8. \jht cs tjg rghd ckphnt of hmy lcvgm sctuhtcom, fhnt or gvgmt om kg hma otjgrs?

9. Ao C mgga to rghnt to ct? Cf ygs, tjgm wjht rgspomsg cs locml to ig igmgfcnchd to

kg hma gvgryomg gdsg, wjcnj wcdd hdso gmsurg pghng hma jhppcmgss for hdd?>. Hk C wroml? Cf ygs, tjgm jow sjouda C norrgnt kysgdf, wjcnj wcdd haa quhdcty

to gvgryomg–s dcfg? Cf mot, jow sjouda C jhmadg ct for tjg igmgfct of hdd?

Qjg rghntcom tjht nhusgs jhrk cs nhddga HMLGY hma tjg rgspomsg tjht jgdps cs

ÔDWQCOM. Qjus hmlgr cs mgvgr tjg sodutcom to hmy proidgk. Cm fhnt ct cmnrghsgs tjg

mglhtcvg ckphnt hma nokpdgxcty of tjg lcvgm proidgk, khecml ct acffcnudt to sodvg.

Qjg kost fummy tjcml hiout hmlgr cs tjht khmy h tckgs ct cs sui`gntcvg hma nomactcomhd

c.g. wg fcrst ùalg tjg pgrsom wjok wg hrg hmlry wctj hma tjg sctuhtcom wg hrg cm hma

tjgm agncag cf wg sjouda gxprgss our hmlgr or mot.

Cf tjg opposctg pgrsom cs korg powgrfud, cm hmy khmmgr, tjgm wg tgma to ig podctg hma

try to haùst hma rghnt hnnoracmldy. Qjcs khy hdso rgsudt cm h sctuhtcom wjgrg wg vgmt

out our frustrhtcom hma jgdpdgssmgss om otjgr cmmongmt pgopdg iy lgttcml hmlry om

tjgk ummgngsshrcdy. Qjus wg lgt hmlry provcaga wg emow cts nomsgqugmngs hma ao

mot fggd snhrga of opposctg pgrsom–s furtjgr rghntcom om our hmlgr, wjgm wg hrg surg

tjht jg / sjg cs dgss powgrfud or stroml tjgm us. Ct cs dceg njghtcml omg–s owm sgdf! ô ct

cs hdwhys igttgr to rgkhcm nhdk cm hmy sctuhtcom, wctj hdd pgopdg, to tjg khxckuk

gxtgmt posscidg!





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Kcma hma Qomlug pdhy h vgry ckporthmt rodg cm khmhlcml hmlgr.

@ust foddow foddowcml two lodagm prcmncpdgs hma tjcmls wcdd ig fcmg0

8. Qry to nomtrod your tomlug hma eggp your koutj sjut wjgm tjgrg cs mo rghd

mgga to spghe out, gspgnchddy wjgm you hrg hmlry. Njoosg to spghe dhtgr wjgm

your kcma cs nhdk. Ct wcdd mot omdy jgdp to rgsodvg tjg proidgk iut wcdd hdsoshvg gvgryomg–s tckg hma gmgrly.

9. ^top tjcmecml hiout tjg sctuhtcom ovgr hma ovgr hlhcm hma ao mot kheg hmy

jhsty agncscoms wjgm you hrg too kunj gxnctga out of hmlgr. \hct for sokg

tckg5 shy h fgw kcmutgs, h fgw jours, h ahy or two or gvgm korg hma tjgm

tjcme wctj h nhdk kcma hma agncag wjht sjouda ig tjg hpproprchtg hntcom tjht

mggas to ig thegm hma tjgm fcmhddy gxprgss your rgspomsg.

C hk surg tjht wjht wg wcdd agncag to nokkumcnhtg tjgm wcdd ig acffgrgmt frok wjht

wg kust jhvg tjouljt of nokkumcnhtcml wjgm wg wgrg hmlry! Ct wcdd igmgfct hdd hma

ircml out tjg hntuhd sodutcom to tjg pocmt of nomngrm.

Qjus tjg khcm fhntors to ig thegm nhrg of hrg to khmhlg kcma hma nomtrod tomlug to

aghd wctj hmlgr hma cts nomsgqugmngs. Dgt–s spghe rghdcty hma rhtcomhdcty, omdy wjgm

rgqucrga, to tjg gxtgmt rgqucrga hma wjgrg rgqucrga. \jcdg nokkumcnhtcml wg jhvg to

ig vgry nhrgfud cm agncacml tjg dhmluhlg, tomg, vodukg, ioay dhmluhlg tjht sjouda ig

kghmcmlfud hma vhdug haacml to sprgha dovg, nhrg, rgspgnt, pghng hma jhppcmgss!

Qjosg wjo nhm nomtrod hmlgr hrg dcega hma rgspgntga iy hdd. ^unj pgopdg hnjcgvg

khxckuk pghng of kcma hma jhppcmgss cm tjgcr dcfg wjcnj lgmgrhtgs posctcvg gmgrly

cm tjgk cmnduacml tjgcr surroumacmls. Qjgsg pgopdg rgprgsgmt Loa (Mhturg) hma tjgy

hrg jgrg to ao tjg jomor of sprghacml tjg trug sgnrgts of pghng, sunngss hma rghd

jhppcmgss wjcnj cs rgprgsgmtga iy tjg tjouljt nhddga ‚Idgsscmls of Loa (Mhturg)–.

\g ao hnngpt tjht wg hdd khy lgt hmlry cm sokg cmsthmngs gvgm tjoulj wg khy try to

nomtrod ct iy trycml mot to gxprgss ct ht dghst. \g hdso emow tjht ct cs mot tjht ghsy to

nomtrod hma khmhlg hmlgr. Iut ct cs mot ckposscidg! Dgt–s ao our igst to try ct out!

Qjg mgxt tckg you hrg hmlry wctj sokgomg hse yoursgdf tjg foddowcml qugstcoms0

8. Hk C hmlry? Cf ygs, wjy? \jht cs ky pdhm of rgspomsg? ^jouda C njhmlg ct to

ircml h sodutcom hma hvoca hmlgr?

9. \jht, \jy, \jgrg, \jgm, wctj \jok, Jow hk C locml to nokkumcnhtg?

>. Ao C rghddy mgga to nokkumcnhtg wjht C whmt to nokkumcnhtg? Nhm C hvoca ct?

Nhm C postpomg ct? Ao C mgga to rg-tjcme igforg C nokkumcnhtg?1. Qjg dhmluhlg, tomg, vodukg hma ioay dhmluhlg tjht C hk locml to usg hrg for

wjht rghsom hma hrg tjgy hpproprchtg or ao C mgga to koacfy tjgk to ig korg

posctcvg, soft hma podctg wjcdg nokkumcnhtcml?

7. Nhm C kheg ky nokkumcnhtcom sjort iut stcdd nokpdgtg hma gffgntcvg?

6. Nhm C tjcme, nokkumcnhtg hma hnt acffgrgmtdy to gmsurg Rghng hma Jhppcmgss

for gvgryomg?






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Ct cs tjg out nokg of hdd our gmgkcgs hs acsnussga tcdd mow cm tjg prgvcous njhptgrs.

Qjgy ao mot jgdp hmyomg, rhtjgr wg oursgdvgs sthrt fggdcml fghr hma cmsgnurcty ignhusgof tjgk. Qjosg wjo try to umagrsthma hma rgspgnt tjg dhws of dcfg lovgrmga iy mhturg

nhm ignokg mgutrhd hma cmacffgrgmt hma nhm dghrm trug spcrctuhdcty tjht jgdps us to eggp

hwhy frok fghr hma cmsgnurcty.

\jgm wg fggd cmsgnurg or snhrga, wjht ao wg ao? \g sckpdy nrghtg tjg shkg for

otjgrs hma tjus ct nrghtgs h njhcm rghntcom wjgrg gvgryomg lgts trhppga cmto tjg fggdcml

of fghr hma cmsgnurcty hma tjus tjg vgry nomngpt of dcfg ctsgdf dossgs pghng.

\g ùst eggp strulldcml for jhppcmgss. \g try to owm ct. Iut tjg rghsom wjy wg fhcd cs

tjht wg ao mot emow tjg ihscn fhnt tjht wg mgvgr sjhrga ct hma ùst trcga to owm ct.

Qjgrg hrg khmy whys cm wjcnj omg fggds ‚fghr– or ‚cmsgnurcty–. Irohady tjgy nhm igacvcaga cmto Rgrsomhd hma ônchd hrghs of Fghr hma Cmsgnurcty hs foddows0

8. Rgrsomhd cmnduacml Fhkcdy Dcfg0

Qjgsg hrg tjg hrghs rgdhtga to pgrsomhd hma fhkcdy dcfg c.g. rgdhtcoms wctj phrgmts,

irotjgr, scstgr, spousg, eca, rgdhtcvgs, frcgmas gtn. Qjg cssugs wjcnj khmy of us fhng hrg

doss of trust hkoml fhkcdy kgkigrs / rgdhtcvgs / frcgmas, spdcttcml up of fhkcdcgs,

quhrrgds, njghtcml, acvorng gtn.

@ust try to tjcme tjg rghsom wctj h rgdhxga kcma, wjy hdd tjgsg jhppgm hma wjht cs our

nomtrciutcom cm cts onnurrgmng hma hdso rgsodutcom? \g hdd hrg jukhms hma cf wg fhcd cm

rummcml our dcvgs wctj pghng, jhppcmgss hma looa jghdtj tjgm our dcfg ctsgdf cs h fhcdurg

hma tjgm mo khtgrchdcstcn hnjcgvgkgmt or hmytjcml for tjht khttgr cs of hmy rgdgvhmng

to hmyomg.

\ctjout jhvcml tjg pghng of kcma dcfg soumas ùst h whstg. \g fggd agprgssga. ^hy for

gxhkpdg khmy youml pgopdg hrg mot rghay to dooe hftgr tjgcr phrgmts wjgm tjgy lrow

oda iut tjgy forlgt tjg fhnt tjht tjgy wgrg mot rghay or skhrt gmoulj to ghrm julg phy

phnehlgs or kheg profcts rcljt frok tjgcr icrtj. Qjgy jhvg lrowm wctj tjg tckg hma

wctj tjgcr phrgmts dovg, support hma jgdp hma soom cm h fgw yghrs tjgy wcdd ig cm tjg

shkg sctuhtcom hs tjgcr phrgmts.

Rgopdg kheg kcsthegs hma tghnj wroml dgssoms to tjgcr ecas, wjcnj agstroy mot omdytjgcr dcvgs iut hdso kgssgs up tjg norg vhdugs of kutuhd jgdp hma no-opgrhtcom. Rgopdg

hrg ignokcml sgdfcsj aug to sjort tgrk hma khtgrchdcstcn vcscom for dcfg.

9. ônchd Dcfg0

Qjgsg hrg tjg hrghs wjcnj fhdd umagr tjg jukhm khag hrtcfcnchd strunturgs of Gnomoky,

ôncgty, Nhstg, Ygdclcom, Noumtry, Lovgrmkgmt, Dhw gtn. Qjg proidgks of julg

popudhtcom, gxngsscvg poddutcom hma whstg, ldoihd whrkcml, agpdgtcom of mhturhd





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rgsourngs gtn. hrg nhusga iy wjok? \jo cs nhuscml whrs hma tgrrorcsks? \jo cs

supportcml cmgquhdcty om tjg ihscs of rgdclcom, nhstg, nrgga, nodor, sthtus ihsga om

khtgrchdcstcn igmnjkhres? \jo cs rgspomscidg for norruptcom, frhuas, tjgft, snhmahds,

ecamhppcml, rhpg hma hdd sunj sonchd, gnomokcnhd khdprhntcngs gtn.?

Ct cs omdy wg jukhms. ô hrg wg tjg omg wjo cs fhncml ct or nhuscml ct? Ygkgkigr tjht

Mhturg cs tjg fcmhd rudgr. Ct cs mhturg tjht rudgs dcfg, wjcnj wg jhvg to hnngpt hma sohdso rgspgnt.

\jy hrg wg iorm hma wjy ao wg acg? \jo jhs proaunga hdd mhturhd rgsourngs, wjcnj

wg gmòy for our nomsukptcom? Ct cs Mhturg. \g jhvg to theg nhrg of mhturg hma hdso

try to khmhlg tjg dcfg om ghrtj cm h why wjcnj gmsurgs susthcmhicdcty of dcfg wctj gvgr

cmnrghscml pghng, jhppcmgss hma looa jghdtj for hdd.

Mhturg jhs agfcmga prcmncpdgs om wjcnj tjg nyndg of ‚…icrtj-aghtj-icrtj…– of soud

cmto vhrcous forks hma njhrhntgrcstcns cs locml om hma om. Ct cs ihsga om tjg ‚Dhw of

Ehrkh– c.g. prcmncpdg of ‚Hntcom - Yghntcom–. Qjg soud nhm wcm dcigrhtcom iy hnjcgvcml

^hdvhtcom / Koesjh / Mcrvhmh ht tjg gma of h jukhm dcfg iy ndghrcml Ehrkhs ihdhmng

(Hntcoms / Aggas), wjcnj trhp tjg soud cmto khtgrchd pdghsurgs hma phcms cm vhrcouskhtgrchd forks of dcvgs om vhrcous khtgrchd pdhmgts Vcz. Ghrtj, Jghvgm hma Jgdd.

ô mow wg jhvg to agncag wjgtjgr wg whmt to kheg our dcfg kghmcmlfud or agstroy ct

iy foddowcml tjg wroml acrgntcoms. Dgt–s kheg h òcmt hma noddgntcvg gffort hma umctg

hma nomtrciutg to njhmlg tjg why wg hdd tjcme, thde hma hnt. \g sjouda hdd jhvg h òcmt

doml-tgrk vcscom, wjcnj logs gvgm igyoma tjcs nurrgmt fork of our dcfg.

Iy hddowcml tjg nomngpt of fghr hma cmsgnurcty to ig tjgrg cm tjcs worda wg hrg hdso

nhuscml tjg shkg for oursgdvgs hma for tjht khttgr for hdd lgmgrhtcoms to nokg.

Ygkgkigr tjht wg hrg sonchd hmckhds hma so ct cs omdy kutuhd nhrcml hma sjhrcml

wjcnj nhm jgdp us.

Cf wg ignokg mhrrow kcmaga hma jhvg omdy h sjort tgrk vcscom iy ignokcml sgdfcsj

tjgm wg hrg puttcml our owm sgdf cmto trouidg ignhusg gvgry hntcom jhs lot h rghntcom.

Dgt–s umctg hma kheg our worda tjg igst pdhng to dcvg cm forgvgr iy rgkovcml tjg

gxcstgmng of ‚Fghr– hma ‚Cmsgnurcty– frok gvgryomg–s dcfg.

—Iy tjg why, wjht cs tjht?‛





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Qjcs cs tjg omdy hma fcmhd lohd wjcnj wg hdd jhvg to hnjcgvg.

Hdd tjht wg jhvg acsnussga so fhr cs hckga ht hnjcgvcml Rghng hma Jhppcmgss. \g jhvg

to gmsurg pghng hma jhppcmgss cmnduacml looa jghdtj mot omdy for wg jukhms iut for

hdd forks of dcvgs sprgha hnross tjg ldoig.

Hdd psynjodolcnhd hma gkotcomhd gmgkcgs dceg Nokphrcsom, @ghdousy, Nokpgtctcom,

Glo, Hmlgr, Fghr hma Cmsgnurcty hrg thecml hwhy pghng hma jhppcmgss frok our dcvgs.

\g fggd jhppy omdy cf wg fggd shtcsfcga. Qjg root nhusg of hdd proidgks hma worrcgs

hssonchtga wctj our dcfg cs ‚AG^CYG^–. Agscrgs hrg cmmukgrhidg hma mgvgr gmacml hma

jgmng wg hrg mgvgr gvgr shtcsfcga.

Khmy of our agscrgs hrg kgrgdy psynjodolcnhd. Qjgsg agscrgs hrg cmfdugmnga iyagkomstrhtcom gffgnt hma tjgy ao mot pdhy hmy rodg cm haacml tjg rghd vhdug hma

kghmcml cm our dcvgs to hnjcgvg pghng hma jhppcmgss. Cm fhnt khmy agscrgs hrg jhrkfud

to our ‚Jghdtj– hs wgdd.

\g hdd hrg nhuljt cm tjg ‚Qrhp of Agscrgs– wjcnj jhs khag us cmjukhm iy lgttcml

ichsga omdy towhras gxngss khtgrchdcsk. Agscrgs hrg rudcml our dcvgs iy nomtroddcml

our kcma. Hdd proidgks hssonchtga wctj our dcvgs wjcnj hrg acsnussga tjrouljout tjcs

iooe hma hdso sgvgrhd otjgr proidgks hrg h rgsudt of tjg Agscrgs Qrhp.

Agscrgs dgha to tjg mgga for ‚Nomsukptcom– hma ‚Rossgsscom–. Dot of our Nomsukptcom

hma Rossgsscom hrg hvocahidg hma ct wcdd mot jhrk hmyomg cm hmy khmmgr5 cm fhnt ct wcdd

jhvg h posctcvg ckphnt of cmnrghscml rghd pghng hma jhppcmgss for hdd forks of dcvgs

hnross tjg ldoig forgvgr wctj susthcmhidg lrowtj hma gvgrdhstcml sunngss.

Ct cs rghddy vgry njhddgmlcml to nomtrod agscrgs. Qjg igst hma kost ghsy sodutcom to wcm

ovgr our agscrgs cs to foddow tjg prhntcng of ‚Qhecml Vow / Ohtj hlhcmst Agscrgs– c.g.

Qhecml Vow / Ohtj to eggp hwhy frok ‚Nomsukptcom– hma ‚Rossgsscom– nhusga iy our

gmadgss agscrgs.

Ct cs vgry sckpdg, `ust ndosg your gygs, nomngmtrhtg om your irghtj hma nommgnt your

kcma to your ^OWD c.g. tjg rghd you hma your tjouljts hma cmstrunt your kcma tjht —C

agncag to hvoca Nomsukptcom / Rossgsscom of ZSP‛ (c.g. wjht gvgr you nhm agncag to

hvoca, cm tjg khmmgr posscidg iy you, wjcnj khy rgstrcnt ct nokpdgtgdy or to h ngrthcmgxtgmt or for h phrtcnudhr tckg frhkg).

Cf you igdcgvg cm hmy phrtcnudhr mhkg hma / or fork of Loa (Mhturg) hma gvgm vcsct hmy

phrtcnudhr tgkpdg tjgm theg sunj vows / ohtjs wjcdg prhycml to tjg Loa (Mhturg) cm

wjcnj you igdcgvg, khy ig wjgm you vcsct tjg tgkpdg.

Qjcs wcdd haa to your nomfcagmng hma hdso your agtgrkcmhtcom to foddow tjg vow / ohtj

hma wcdd jgdp you mot to irghe ct iy nomtroddcml your nomsncgmng.





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Cf you ao mot igdcgvg cm hmy phrtcnudhr mhkg hma / or fork of Loa hma / or vcsctcml hmy

phrtcnudhr tgkpdg tjgm ùst ig nomfcagmt of your cmmgr sgdf c.g. tjg soud hma ig

nokkcttga to ct for tjg vow / ohtj thegm iy you.

Cm fhnt tjcs cs tjg rghd hpprohnj iy tjosg wjo emow trug spcrctuhdcty hma tjg rghd Loa

c.g. ‚Mhturg–. Ygdclcom c.g. igdcgvcml cm hmy phrtcnudhr mhkg hma / or fork of Loa

cmnduacml tgkpdg, prhygrs, rctuhds, rctgs gtn. cs ùst h stgppcml stomg to rghnj to tjhtdgvgd of khturcty hma umagrsthmacml hiout tjg trutj of dcfg! Qjg rghd tgkpdg cs tjg

‚Ioay– hma trug prhygr cs ‚Kgacthtcom– for tjg fcmhd rudgr ‚Mhturg–, wjcnj cs tgrkga hs

‚Loa– c.g. ghnj cmacvcauhd gtgrmhd ‚ôud– wjcnj cs hm cmvcscidg dcvcml gmgrly!

@ust try ct hma sgg tjg khlcn tjg kokgmt you prokcsg yoursgdf to wcm hlhcmst your

hvocahidg agscrgs. Sou wcdd ignokg your owm ecml iy jhvcml nomtrod ovgr your

mglhtcvg psynjodoly hma ichsga gkotcoms. Sou wcdd jhvg nokpdgtg nomtrod ovgr your

kcma hma jgmng om your tjouljts, spggnj hma hntcoms.

Sou wom–t ig h sdhvg of tjg outscag hrtcfcnchd gmvcromkgmt fumntcomcml wctjcm tjg trhp

of agscrgs hma motjcml wouda cmfdugmng you hmykorg. Sou wcdd fggd lrght. Sou wcdd

fggd tjg powgr of sgdf-cmagpgmagmng. Sou wcdd lgt rgdcgf frok tjg fggdcmls tjht trouidgyou ummgngsshrcdy. Sou wcdd fggd rghd pghng of kcma hma trug jhppcmgss.

Mow tjht agscrgs nhm mot trouidg you hmy korg, you wcdd lgt FYGGAOK frok

AG^CYG^! Ct wcdd ig jgdpfud mot omdy to you iut hdso to tjg vgry nomngpt of dcfg om tjcs

ghrtj to hnjcgvg tjg fcmhd lohd of sunngss, looa jghdtj, pghng hma jhppcmgss forgvgr.

Dgt–s ao h skhdd gxgrncsg (Rdghsg ig 822% trug to your sgdf)0

8. Dcst aowm tjg tjcmls Nomsukga / Rossgssga iy you.

9. Dcst aowm your agscrgs.

>. Acvcag tjcs dcst cmto Mgngssctcgs, Nokforts hma Duxurcgs.

1. Gstckhtg tjg tckg hma gfforts rgqucrga for tjg gmtcrg prongss cm nomsukcml /

possgsscml tjgk hma cts ckpdcnhtcom om tjg mhturg hma otjgr dcvgs om tjcs ghrtj.

7. Mow njgne wjht rghd vhdug aogs ct haa to your dcfg hma agncag wjgtjgr ct cs

wortj tjg tckg hma gfforts you mgga to spgma om ct?

6. Cs tjgrg hmytjcml wjcnj jhs mo rghd vhdug iut wg stcdd nomsukg / possgss ct?

<. Cs tjgrg hmytjcml wjcnj hntuhddy jhrks us hma gvgm otjgr dcvgs, cm wjhtgvgr

khmmgr, wjcnj wg nomsukg / possgss?

:. Nhm wg stcdd tjcme of h dcfg wjcnj cs kunj korg pghngfud hma jhppy gvgm

wctjout sunj nomsukptcom / possgsscom?

3. \cdd mom-nomsukptcom hma mom-possgsscom haa hmy vhdug to tjg mhturg hma cts

dhws of dcfg to gmsurg pghng hma jhppcmgss cmnduacml looa jghdtj for hdd?

82. Fcmhddy ihsga om tjg hiovg hmhdyscs ndhsscfy agscrgs cmto Hvocahidg hmaWmhvocahidg hma njgne wjgtjgr wg nhm nomtrciutg to hvoca tjg proidgks hma

worrcgs hssonchtga wctj tjg nomngpt of dcfg om ghrtj, hs acsnussga cm tjcs iooe,

iy nomtroddcml our Nomsukptcom / Rossgsscom mggas?

Omng wg hrg tjroulj tjcs gxgrncsg, wg wcdd fcma tjht wg nhm hntuhddy ao wctjout khmy

tjcmls cmnduacml tjosg, wjcnj wg hrg hdrghay nomsukcml or jhvcml possgsscom of.

Jowgvgr wg sgdfcsj, sjort scljtga, glocst, nomfusga hma kcslucaga jukhms hrg

nhuscml julg jhrk to mhturg hma cts dhws of dcfg iy our gxngsscvg nomsukptcom /





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possgsscom, wjcnj cs nrghtcml ckihdhmng cm tjg worda cm hdd khmmgr. \g sjouda try to

nomsukg omdy to tjg gxtgmt wg mgga. \g sjouda try to nomtrod our agscrgs ignhusg tjgy

hrg gmadgss!

\g sjouda try to owm our psynjodoly / gkotcoms iy nomtroddcml our kcma. \g sjouda

mot hddow tjg hrtcfcnchd gxtrgkg khtgrchdcstcn gmvcromkgmt to cmfdugmng us. \g sjouda

mot tjcme omdy hiout oursgdvgs hma hdso for tjcs dcfg omdy. Dgt–s jhvg h iroha hma domltgrk vcscom for dcfg.

\g jhvg to gmsurg tjht ghrtj survcvgs hma nomtcmugs to ig tjg igst pdhng to dcvg

forgvgr. Ct wcdd mot omdy jgdp our mgxt lgmgrhtcoms to nokg iut wcdd hdso igmgfct our

owm sgdf aurcml tjg òurmgy of our soud cm vhrcous dcvgs, cm acffgrgmt khtgrchd forks,

jhvcml acffgrgmt njhrhntgrcstcns, umtcd wg hnjcgvg ^hdvhtcom / Koesjh / Mcrvhmh.

\g sjouda hdso try to rgstrcnt our nomsukptcom hma possgsscom to Vgl. ctgks.

‚Vglgthrchm– cs tjg igst why of dcvcml ignhusg ct cs dgss phcmfud hma scmfud.

Qjg sncgmtcfcn hma dolcnhd rghsomcml for tjg shkg cs tjht tjg dcfg of dcvcml nrghturgs dceg

hmckhds (cmnduacml fcsj) hma icras (cmnduacml gll) gtn. usga for proauncml Mom-Vgl.fooa hma otjgr nomsukhidgs gtn. jhvg lot korg ^GM^G^ dceg tounj, thstg, skgdd, scljt

hma jghrcml cmnduacml RO\GY^ to tjcme hma whde, fdy gtn. aug to vhrcous ioay phrts.

\jgrghs dcvcml nrghturgs dceg vglgthidgs c.g. fructs, pdhmts (cmnduacml kcde) gtn. usga

for proauncml Vgl. fooa hma otjgr nomsukhidgs gtn. ùst possgss tjg ioay c.g. tounj

sgmsg hma tjgy hrg mot lcftga wctj otjgr sgmsgs cmnduacml powgr to tjcme hma acffgrgmt

ioay phrts iy mhturg.

Ct khy mot souma tjht ghsy to ignokg nokpdgtg Vglgthrchm ckkgachtgdy iut wg nhm ht

dghst try to cmnudnhtg ct cm our ahy to ahy dcfg. \g nhm sthrt wctj nomsukcml Vgl. fooa

hma tjgm lrhauhddy sjcft hdd our mggas to Vgl. looas or ht dghst try to rgstrcnt our

nomsukptcom of Mom-Vgl. ctgks for Mom-fooa proaunts wjcnj hrg khag frok hmckhds

/ icras tjht jhvg acga out of tjgcr mhturhd aghtj.

Jowgvgr, tjg usg of tjcs acsnrgtcom cs njhddgmlcml ignhusg ct cs rghddy acffcnudt to

gmsurg cts hutjgmtcncty of igcml h ‚Mom-Dcvcml Mom-Vgl. ctgk–. Jowgvgr tjht wcdd jgdp

us to sthrt hvocacml Mom-Vgl. ctgks hma lrhauhddy sjcft to tjg Vgl. dcfg. Iut ht hmy

pocmt of tckg tjg igst dcfg nhm omdy ig tjg omg wjcnj cs nokpdgtg Vgl., wjcnj cs kunj

korg njhddgmlcml.

Ao wg agncag our icrtj / aghtj hma otjgr gxtgrmhd httrciutgs? Mo. ô hrg wg cm njhrlg

of our dcvgs or cs ct igstowga upom us iy sokg umemowm powgr, wjcnj cs cm njhrlg of

ct? Ct cs tjg dhws of dcfg iy mhturg, hm hutokhtga gtgrmhd systgk tjht khmhlgs tjg shkg ihsga om ‚Qjgory of Ehrkhs– (Aggas / Hntcoms). Iut wg jukhms jhvg dckctga kgkory

powgr to rgkgkigr our phst hma nokpdgtg fhnts of dcfg hma so wg nhm–t rgkgkigr tjg

shkg umtcd wg rghnj to tjg sthlg of ‚Okmcsncgmng– iy prhntcncml Kgacthtcom for sgdf-

rghdczhtcom hma hdso iy prhntcncml ^hnrcfcng hma Forlcvgmgss for rgauntcom of Ehrkhs.

Jowgvgr wg nhm ht dghst oisgrvg hma umagrsthma tjg worda hrouma us nomscstcml of so

khmy vhrcous forks hma njhrhntgrcstcns of khtgrchd dcvgs, wjcnj cs tjg proof of

Mhturg–s Dhws of Dcfg om cts owm!





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Jukhm igcmls hrg mot tjg omdy omgs wjo hrg dcvcml. \g hlrgg to tjg fhnt tjht hdd

hmckhds, icras, trggs gtn. hrg dcvcml nrghturgs. ô mow wjo agncags tjht wjo wcdd

ignokg wjht? Gvgm wctjcm h nhtglory of dcfg, wjo agncags tjht sokgomg wcdd theg

icrtj wctj pjyscnhd acshicdctcgs hma sokgomg wcdd mot? ô iy tjht sgmsg ghnj cmacvcauhd

soud lgts tjg opportumcty to vcsct hdd pgrkuthtcoms hma nokicmhtcoms otjgrwcsg ct wcdd

ig ùstcng to sokg hma h julg cmùstcng to otjgrs. ô iy tjht sgmsg tjgrg aogs gxct h

nomngpt of ‚Yg-Icrtj–. Oivcousdy ygs, otjgrwcsg wjht jhppgms to h ioay om aghtj?\jy ct stops fumntcomcml? Ct cs ignhusg dcfg cs mot tjht ioay. Dcfg cs tjg soud wjcnj whs

rummcml tjht ioay wjcnj lot trhmsforkga to sokg otjgr ioay om aghtj of tjg prgvcous

fork of dcfg umtcd wg sunngga cm hnjcgvcml shdvhtcom.

Qjg pdhng, fork hma njhrhntgrcstcns of ghnj mgw dcfg agpgma om our owm nomaunt tcdd

tjg prgvcous dcfg hma so om, ihsga om tjg prcmncpdg of ‚……Hntcom - Yghntcom……–

wjcnj cs rgfgrrga iy tjg tgrk ‚Qjgory of Ehrkhs– ihsga om tjg dhws of dcfg iy mhturg.

Qjg omg wjo nhm nomtrod agscrgs nhm sunngga to rghnj ndosgr towhras tjg udtckhtg lohd

of ^hdvhtcom / Koesjh / Mcrvhmh.

Qjcs nhm ig hnjcgvga omdy ht tjg gma of tjg khtgrchd dcfg hs h jukhm igcml ignhusgjukhms possgss haactcomhd powgr of tjouljts hma vcscom hs pgr tjg dhws of dcfg iy

mhturg. Cm sckpdg tgrks shdvhtcom cs h sthtg of dcfg cm ‚^pcrctuhd ^phng– wjgrg tjg soud

aogs mot agpgma om hmy ioay strunturg to survcvg hma tjus tjgrg cs mo furtjgr aghtj

htthnjga to ct. Ct cs tjg ioay wjcnj thegs icrtj, thegs irghtj, fooa hma whtgr hs khy ig

rgqucrga to dcvg hma fcmhddy gmas wctj aghtj hma mot tjg soud.

Qjg soud cs tjg arcvcml forng tjht eggps kovcml frok omg ioay to hmotjgr tcdd ct

hnjcgvgs shdvhtcom. Qjus ct rgdcgvgs tjg soud frok tjg trhp of ehrkhs hma tjus frok tjg

sdhvgry of icrtj-aghtj nyndg forgvgr hma jgmng hdd rgdhtga pdghsurgs, mggas, forkhdctcgs,

worrcgs, proidgks hma phcms gtn. hssonchtga wctj ct.

Ct cs so dolcnhd tjht wg hdd jhvg to phy ihne for gvgrytjcml wg ao hs pgr tjg dhw of

mhturg of ‚Pgro ûk Lhkg– of dcfg iy suffgrcml tjg gquhd hkoumt of phcms hma

trouidgs wjcnj wg nhusg to otjgr dcvgs, cm acffgrgmt dcvgs dcvga iy us, to phy for

gvgrytjcml wg aca tcdd tjht ahy hma hdso for tjcmls wjcnj wg nomtcmug to ao. Qjcs

nomtcmugs tcdd wg ao mot jhvg hmy ihdhmng cm our Ehrkhs hnnoumt wctj mhturg. Cf wg

sunngga cm ndoscml our hnnoumt of khtgrchd pdghsurgs hma phcms tjgm wg hnjcgvg

shdvhtcom. Ct cs tjg jcljgst dgvgd of pghng hma jhppcmgss for our soud frok cts frggaok

frok tgkporhry khtgrchd dcvgs om vhrcous khtgrchd pdhmgts c.g. Ghrtj, Jghvgm hma Jgdd.

Dgt–s umctg hma nrghtg h khsscvg ACFFGYGMNG cm our owm sgdf! Dgt ghnj omg of us

agncag —C whmt to ignokg Loa‛. ‚Qo ig Loa– cs ùst ‚Qo ig Looa–. Ct cs rghddy

njhddgmlcml. Jowgvgr wg khy mot dghvg gvgrytjcml hma strhcljt hwhy ignokg KOME/ ^HCMQ. Qjht cs mot hm cssug ht hdd. \g sjouda dcvg to sgrvg otjgrs cm h sgdfdgss sthtg

of ‚Kcma– iy agvotcml our soud to Loadcmgss wjcdg khmhlcml our khtgrchd mggas.

Dgt–s try to rgprgsgmt tjg gssgmng igjcma tjg tjouljt of ‚Loa– c.g. ‚Mhturg– iy igcml

‚Looa– c.g. Mhturhd (^pcrctuhd) cm cts trug sgmsg. Qjht cs igttgr tjhm whstcml tjg

prgncous icrtj of our soud hs h jukhm igcml. Dgt–s ht-dghst try to lgt ndosgr to our fcmhd

lohd of ^HDVHQCOM hma hddow our ÔWD to nomtcmug tjg òurmgy cm sghrnj of tjg

udtckhtg pghng hma jhppcmgss frok cts FYGGAOK FOYGVGY!




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Qjg vcgws kgmtcomga cm tjcs iooe hrg mot cmfdugmnga iy hmy rgdclcous igdcgfs. Qjgy

hrg tjg mhturhd dhws of pghng hma jhppcmgss hma tjg rodg of psynjodoly cm our dcfg

dghacml towhras tjg kost womagrfud lohd of wcmmcml FYGGAOK for our ^OWD.

Ky nomthnt agthcds0

G-Khcd0 njcrhlshcyhBlkhcd.nok / njcrhlshcyhByhjoo.nok

Ngdd0 (+38) 3:83 982 9>2

Ky otjgr G-Iooes & Rogks0

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• Njhmheyh Mctc - Agvgdopcml Dghagrs cm 8 Rhlg

• Vcvgehmhmah - Agvgdopcml Khmhlgrs cm 8 Rhlg

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Ijhlvha Lcth - Qjg Igst Khmhlgkgmt Iooe cm 8 Rhlg• Yhkhyhmh - Khmhlgkgmt of tjg Qjgory of Qckg cm > Rhlgs

• Khjhijhrht - Dghrmcml Khmhlgkgmt frok Vcaur Mctc cm 9 Rhlgs

• Ehicr Vhmc - Agvgdopcml Jukhm Cmtgddclgmng cm > Rhlgs

• Qjg ^pcrctuhd Ndui - Qjg Hrt of Qghk \ore cm 8 Rhlg

• Mgw Qjgory of Ygdhtcvcty - Qjg Hrt of Nrghtcvcty cm 8 Rhlg

• Cs Ghrtj Kovcml? Qjg Hrt of Dhtgrhd Qjcmecml cm 9 Rhlgs

• Vgl. Vs. Mom-Vgl. Aogs ct kheg hmy ACFFGYGMNG?

• Dcfg igyoma Komgy & Agvgdopkgmt. Ct–s Dcfg of Jhppcmgss & ^htcsfhntcom!

• 78 ^gnrgts of DCFG

• Qjg Gnomoky tjht Mgvgr Fhcds cm 8 Rhlg

• ROGK^0 Jukhm, Mhturg, Hmckhd, Dovg Sour Gmgky, Haudt, Dovg, Jghdtj

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Ky otjgr Cmtgrmgt Dcmes0Dcmegacm Rrofcdg0 jttp0//www.dcmegacm.nok/cm/njcrhlshcyhFhngiooe Rrofcdg0 jttp0//www.fhngiooe.nok/njcrhlshcyh Looldg+ Rrofcdg0 jttp0//looldg.nok/+Njcrhl^hcyhRjcdosopjgr Qwcttgr Rhlg0 jttp0//twcttgr.nok/njcrhl_shcyh

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^pcrctuhd ^pghegr & \rctgr

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