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50094 NON-PROFIT ORG US POSTAGE PAID EAU CLAIRE WI PERMIT NO 32729 PESI P.O. Box 1000 Eau Claire, WI 54702-1000 A division of PESI, Inc. A NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION CONNECTING KNOWLEDGE WITH NEED SINCE 1979 www.pesi.com www.pesi.com ! Wilmington, DE Wednesday, January 11, 2017 King of Prussia, PA Thursday, January 12, 2017 Cherry Hill, NJ Friday, January 13, 2017 Wilmington, DE Wednesday, January 11, 2017 King of Prussia, PA Thursday, January 12, 2017 Cherry Hill, NJ Friday, January 13, 2017 Save Over 60% month a go.pesi.com/PN Transform Your Practice for $ 1 1-Year Subscription to Psychotherapy Networker Magazine – $12 Promo Code: LV Be inspired by top experts! Kabat-Zinn Siegel Gottman Save Over 60% Rebuild Trust, Love & Loyalty after an Affair Rebuild Trust, Love & Loyalty after an Affair • Infidelity affects approximately 50% of committed relationships • Innovative in-session strategies to help couples in the healing process • Be more confident treating high conflict couples • Help couples recover with a detailed and evidence- based treatment model 1. Distinguish between the different types of infidelities and how they affect treatment differently. 2. Recognize the 8 vulnerabilities to and 3 areas of opportunity for infidelity. 3. Explain how to implement techniques for assessment of the affair and common co-morbidities. 4. Describe strategies to use for helping your clients rebuild trust. 5. Explain the importance for couples to create meaning and understanding of the affair. 6. Summarize ways to enhance your skills for guiding your clients through the forgiveness phase of treatment. 7. Describe approaches that will help couples through the recommitment phase of therapy. Types of Infidelity and Their Impact of Treatment Physical Affair Emotional Affair and Its 3 Elements Physical-Emotional Affair Atypical Infidelity Complex Affairs Gender, Vulnerabilities and Opportunities Genetic Predispositions Once a cheater, Always a Cheater? Opportunity in the Work Place, With Previous Partners and on the Internet The Assessment Phase of Infidelity Treatment Oral History Interview and No Secrets Contract PTSD Symptomology, Teaching Self- Soothing and PTSD Homework Common Co-Morbidities Such as Depression and Substance Abuse Rebuild Trust Phase of Healing High and Low Cost Trust Building Behaviors Prove It Homework Assignment STI and Pregnancy Testing Homework Assignment Catch Your Partner Pleasing You and The Love Jar Homework Assignment Create Understanding and Meaning Phase of Therapy The Slippery Slope and Walls vs. Windows 4 Factors Groups That Set The Context Creating The List of Changes The Regrettable Incident Exercise Forgiveness Phase of Treatment What Forgiveness is, What it Isn’t and the Potential Payoffs Fears and Apprehensions The Choice and Repercussions of Not Forgiving Self-Forgiveness, Cheap Forgiveness vs. Genuine Forgiveness The 10 Mistaken Assumptions and Maladaptive Personal Beliefs About Forgiveness The Formal Apology Session Recommitment Phase of Healing Build Rituals of Connection Plan for Reclaiming Places, People & Events Tarnished by the Affair Trust Statements Celebration to Signify Mutual Re- commitment Build Protective Factors Phase of Therapy Reversing Walls v Windows Improve Conflict Management Compromise and Repair Attempts Increase Love Maps, Fondness and Admiration Turning Towards Behaviors INFIDELITY INFIDELITY OUTLINE OBJECTIVES www.pesi.com/inhouse Earn CE where you work! Bring this training & many others to your facility! Have a seminar idea? A manuscript to publish? The nation’s top speakers and authors contact PESI first. If you are interested in becoming a speaker or have a new topic idea, please contact Anna Rustick at [email protected] or call 715-855-8195.

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Rebuild Trust, Love & Loyalty after an Affair

Rebuild Trust, Love & Loyalty after an Affair

• infidelity affects approximately 50% of committed relationships

• innovative in-session strategies to help couples in the healing process

• Be more confident treating high conflict couples

• Help couples recover with a detailed and evidence-based treatment model

1. distinguish between the different types of infidelities and how they affect treatment differently.

2. recognize the 8 vulnerabilities to and 3 areas of opportunity for infidelity.

3. explain how to implement techniques for assessment of the affair and common co-morbidities.

4. describe strategies to use for helping your clients rebuild trust.

5. explain the importance for couples to create meaning and understanding of the affair.

6. Summarize ways to enhance your skills for guiding your clients through the forgiveness phase of treatment.

7. describe approaches that will help couples through the recommitment phase of therapy.

Types of Infidelity and Their Impact of TreatmentPhysical affairemotional affair and its 3 elementsPhysical-emotional affairatypical infidelity Complex affairs

Gender, Vulnerabilities and OpportunitiesGenetic Predispositionsonce a cheater, always a Cheater?opportunity in the Work Place, With Previous Partners and on the internet

The Assessment Phase of Infidelity Treatmentoral History interview and No Secrets Contract PtSd Symptomology, teaching Self-Soothing and PtSd HomeworkCommon Co-morbidities Such as depression and Substance abuse

Rebuild Trust Phase of HealingHigh and low Cost trust Building BehaviorsProve it Homework assignmentSti and Pregnancy testing Homework assignmentCatch Your Partner Pleasing You and the love Jar Homework assignment

Create Understanding and Meaning Phase of Therapythe Slippery Slope and Walls vs. Windows4 factors Groups that Set the ContextCreating the list of Changesthe regrettable incident exercise

Forgiveness Phase of TreatmentWhat forgiveness is, What it isn’t and the Potential Payoffsfears and apprehensionsthe Choice and repercussions of Not forgivingSelf-forgiveness, Cheap forgiveness vs. Genuine forgivenessthe 10 mistaken assumptions and maladaptive Personal Beliefs about forgivenessthe formal apology Session

Recommitment Phase of HealingBuild rituals of ConnectionPlan for reclaiming Places, People & events tarnished by the affairtrust StatementsCelebration to Signify mutual re-commitment

Build Protective Factors Phase of Therapyreversing Walls v Windowsimprove Conflict management Compromise and repair attempts increase love maps, fondness and admirationturning towards Behaviors

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Earn CE where you work! Bring this training & many others to your facility!

Have a seminar idea? A manuscript to publish? The nation’s top speakers and authors contact PeSi first. if you are interested in becoming a speaker or have a new topic idea, please contact anna rustick at [email protected] or call 715-855-8195.

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Sex Made Simple is a comprehensive guide to healing sexual issues and dysfunction, with dozens of strategies, techniques and methods to promote healthy sexuality for couples and individuals.

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Are you uncomfortable working with couples whose lives have been shattered by infidelity?

i’m sure you are because they are some of the most difficult clients to work with.

they bring so much conflict and pain to the therapy room and you feel torn between taking sides while you need to stay neutral.

It doesn’t have to be this way for you…

this workshop will help you expand your therapeutic tool box with practical and clinically relevant in-session interventions. marilyn Steinberg, mS, lmft will provide you with her proven, unique, creative and fun homework assignments for your clients who are healing from the trauma of infidelity.

You will leave this workshop with more confidence and a solid treatment plan for couples recovering from an affair.

Marilyn Steinberg, MS, LMFT, has dedicated her career to working with couples and families She has successfully worked with a variety of individual, couple and family issues such as infidelity, ineffective communication, conflict management issues, incest, depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, family of origin issues, rape, attention deficit disorders, family conflict, eating disorders, conduct disorders, grief, hoarding and other issues.

She received her Bachelor of arts degree in Psychology and master of Science degree in Child development and family Studies from Purdue University. ms. Steinberg is a Clinical fellow of the american association for marriage and family therapy (aamft), an aamft approved Supervisor, a Certified Gottman Seven Principles educator, a member of the indiana association for marriage and family therapy (iamft) and a past iamft Board member and region representative.

ms. Steinberg has published and presented both nationally and internationally on the topics of sexuality, family therapy, ethics, adolescence, gang behavior and residential care. She practices at life Strategies as a couple and family therapist, teaches undergraduate and graduate courses, and is an independent supervision consultant.Speaker disclosure:financial: marilyn Steinberg is in private practice. She has an employment relationship with life Strategies, llC. ms. Steinberg receives a speaking honorarium from PeSi, inc.Nonfinancial: marilyn Steinberg is a member of the illinois association for marriage and family therapy.

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