How to Sweet Talk Herby Nina Malkin

5 Things She’d Love to Hear

1. “You look amazing”– Appreciate that she primped for you– No need to be too specific, just let her

know you’ve noticed that she looks good!2. “How was your day”– It shows you care and are interested in

her life– Really listen to her response

3. “I’m really having a great time with you.”– Best thing you could say mid-date– You can get feedback on how she’s feeling

4. “What do you think about such-and-such topic?”– Seek out for her opinion; she will be flattered– Stay clear of obscure subjects she may not be

informed on or comfortable discussing

5. “I’d love to see you again.”– Great way to end a date– Assures to her you like her • Avoids the waiting-by-the-phone thing women tend

to do

5 Things She’d Hate to Hear1. “You’ve really got a great body. Do you

work out or something?”– Will make her feel uncomfortable– Avoid any particular body part or anything

lingerie-related2. “Oh, I know all about that!”– Women like intelligent men, but appreciate

humility– “Superior face” is not so sexy– If she wanted a know-it-all, she’d spend her

evening with the Wikipedia

3. “So I’ve been shopping for a new BMW.”– Transparent attempt to impress her; it will have a

reverse effect– Bag those “I’m a big man” comments about your

stuff, your status and your salary.

4. “Wanna come up to my place for a nightcap?”– Automatically think you are trying to get us into bed– Better to say, “I’d invite you to my place, but it’s a

wreck” and see if she insists that she doesn’t mind

5. “I’ll call you.”– OK, this is what she wants to hear, but some men

don’t follow through.– Follow through!

5 Things Guys Love to HearBy: Robert W. Harris

1. “ Then what happen?”• A man likes to think that his life is reasonably interesting.• When a girl just sit there, giving little smiles, and saying,

“Uh-huh” every few seconds it is not enough…• A man likes to be egged on with little comments like,

“You’re kidding! What happened next” or something like “Go on…”. With little comments like these a man will know that your interested and not just being polite.

2. “That’s pretty impressive.”• If a man mentions he has accomplished something he is

looking for an applauding effort. Make him feel like a king.

5 Things Men Love to Hear on a Date

3. “Thank you.”• Manners matter• Saying thank you it is the littlest thing that will make

the biggest difference.

4. “What do you do when you’re not at work?”• Women should probe for hidden passions• Show your interested in his complete picture (hobbies, talents, interests etc.)

5. “I’d like to get your opinion on something.”• Men love to feel useful by giving advice• Questions about shopping, past relations and other

girly questions are not the best questions to ask

1. “My Last Boyfriend…”• Why? Why bring it up• Men hear “I’m out with you right now, but I’m still thinking

a lot about another man.”

2. “Do you mind if I take this call?”• Of course they mind!• Unless a dire emergency, let your voicemail pick up

3. “So how do you feel about abortion?”• Men are not interested in getting into such touchy topics,

at least on a date• It’s a date, save heated topics for later

5 Things Men Hate to Hear on a Date

4. “And then I found this cute pair of sandals…” • Your not with your girl friends• Men wouldn’t subject you to talk stocks or favorite

sports team

5. “How do you feel about having a family?”• If asked on first few dates men will think biological

clock is ticking fast• Men want to get to know a woman first• Men don’t want to be known just as a potential baby

making machine