how to speak ,so that people want to listen !
TRANSCRIPT
![Page 1: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/1.jpg)
How to speak so that people want to listen ?
- - Praneeth Ponnekanti
![Page 2: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/2.jpg)
THE HUMAN VOICE ● It's the instrument we all
play.
● It's the most powerful sound in the world, probably.
● And yet many people have the experience that when they speak, people don't listen to them. And why is that?
![Page 3: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/3.jpg)
How can we speak powerfully to make change in the world?
![Page 4: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/4.jpg)
![Page 5: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/5.jpg)
THERE ARE A NUMBER OF HABITS THAT WE NEED TO MOVE AWAY FROM !
![Page 6: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/6.jpg)
I've assembled for your pleasure here seven deadly sins of speaking !
![Page 7: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/7.jpg)
THE SEVEN DEADLY SINS OF SPEAKING :
1. Gossip2. Judging3. Negativity4. Complaining5. Excuses6. Exaggerating7. Dogmatism
![Page 8: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/8.jpg)
Don’t Gossip
“If they gossip about everyone to you,then they are gossiping about you too…”
![Page 9: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/9.jpg)
Don’t Judge
“If you judge people,then you have no time to love them.”
![Page 10: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/10.jpg)
Negativity
“Being positive wont guarantee you’ll succeed, but being negative will guarantee you wont. “
![Page 11: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/11.jpg)
Don’t complain
“Have a heart of praise, it is better than mournful complaints”
![Page 12: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/12.jpg)
![Page 13: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/13.jpg)
Don’t lie
“One lie is enough to question all truths.”
![Page 14: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/14.jpg)
DOGMATISM”Dogmatism is the greatest of mental illness to the human happiness.”
“Erase the confusion between opinion and fact.”
![Page 15: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/15.jpg)
So finally,
DONT
gossipjudgebe negativecomplaintmake excuseliebe dogmatic
![Page 16: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/16.jpg)
But, is there a positive way to think about this?
![Page 17: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/17.jpg)
H A I LFOUR cornerstones,foundations for a powerful speech :
1. Honesty2. Authenticity3. Integrity4. Love
![Page 18: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/18.jpg)
“Be clear and straight”
![Page 19: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/19.jpg)
“ Be Yourself. “
![Page 20: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/20.jpg)
![Page 21: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/21.jpg)
Wish the people !
![Page 22: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/22.jpg)
![Page 23: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/23.jpg)
USE YOUR VOICE PROPERLY
Concentrate on these factors of your voice:
1. Register2. Timbre 3. Prosody4. Pace5. Pitch6. Volume
![Page 24: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/24.jpg)
FinallyPowerful speaking +Designed soundscapes =Conscious listening
![Page 25: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/25.jpg)
Keep them in mind
Win the hall
![Page 26: How to speak ,so that people want to listen !](https://reader036.vdocuments.us/reader036/viewer/2022062308/55d0c5afbb61ebef458b4852/html5/thumbnails/26.jpg)
Created by,
Praneeth Ponnekanti , IIITD&M Kancheepuram
During an internship by,
Prof. Sameer Mathur , IIM Lucknow
www.IIMInternship.com