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Page 1: How to manage your time effectively Stef Hackney LSE Student Wellbeing Service 28 January 2015 1

How to manage your time effectively

Stef Hackney LSE Student Wellbeing Service

28 January 2015

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Aims

• Identify useful strategies for better time management

• Examine psychological issues • Explore common difficulties with

perfectionism and procrastination

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Message from a friend:

Failing to plan … is planning to fail

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Introduction

How do yougo aboutmanaging your time?

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Five basic principles

• Be realistic about the task….how long will it take?

• Be determined…..limit distractions/displacement

• Be organised………books, pens, coffee

• Balance the other parts of your life

• Be flexible…things may change

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Taking control of time

Ask yourself from time to time:

• How am I using my mental and physical energy now?

• Is this good use of my time?

• Identify priorities/commitments for the week ahead and write on blank sheet all sessions/ meetings; leisure activities; paid work; time for self; adequate rest/sleep.

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Personal Timetable

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Use personal timetabling to:

• acknowledge what you have achieved• save mental energy • be purposeful and realistic• meet deadlines and keep up with work• have effective study time and effective

relaxation • Enjoy yourself without guilt and worry

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Causal Dimensions of Time Management Problems for Students

Intrinsic/Emotive Extrinsic/External

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• Feel overwhelmed &‘frozen’ by all the tasks

• Anxiety about what is expected of them

• Anxiety about writing: worried about the quality of their work

• Wanting to live up to other people’s standards

• Wanting to live up to their own image of themselves

• Bored – motivation is low

• Workload is heavy & appears overwhelming

• Lack of clarity about what is expected

• Student not experienced in managing time independently

• Cultural dimensions: come from a society that is relaxed

about time• Course is not interesting

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Tips for avoiding distraction• Start with the unpleasant tasks first • Set yourself a time limit for reading. • Use active reading techniques. • Distraction problems can occur when the

subject being studied appears totally removed from the real world.

• If you find a particular recommended or set book hard to follow, try another that offers you a simpler or clearer explanation.

• If other students are distracting you, go somewhere else. Where others are working quietly, you are likely to do the same.

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Four Tips for Managing Time1. Start with the unpleasant tasks first – get

them out of the way early. 2. Set yourself a short time limit for reading: 40

– 45 minutes tends to be the maximum time most people can read before their concentration slips. At the end of the set time, stop and take a break.

3. Don’t struggle with books you find hard to read. If you find a particular set book hard to follow, try another that offers you a simpler or clearer explanation of the same subject.

4. Keep your working area clear of clutter: the Wall Street Journal reported that typical US Executive wastes 5 hours a week looking for misfiled/mislaid items. (Lindley 2006).

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Writing Strategies

• Free yourself up• Go for a walk; talk it out loud• Wait for a structure to arrive• Bullet points, mind maps, scribble ideas• Give yourself time to work it out – learning

and writing involve unconscious processes• Imagine looking back at this task in 6

months • Work with others, use study groups, etc.

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Common difficulties

• Perfectionism

• Procrastination

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Are you a perfectionist?

• You are never good enough, whatever you accomplish

• You can’t complete work or projects, waiting to get them just right

• You must always give 100% or else be mediocre or a failure

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What is perfectionism?

• Self-defeating thoughts and behaviours associated with high ideals, not realistic goals.

• Often mistakenly seen as desirable or even necessary for success.

• Recent studies show that perfectionist attitudes actually interfere with success. – The desire to be perfect can deny you a sense of

satisfaction and cause you to achieve far less than people with more realistic goals.

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Causes of perfectionism

• You may have learned early in life that you were mainly valued for your achievements.

• You value yourself on the basis of other people's approval.

• Your self-esteem is based primarily on external standards.

• You are vulnerable and sensitive to the opinions and criticism of others.

• To protect yourself you decide that being perfect is the only defence.

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Negative thoughts and feelings

• Fear of failure. • Fear of making

mistakes. • Fear of disapproval. • All-or-nothing

thinking. • Over-emphasis on

‘should’, ‘must’ and ‘ought’.

• Never being good enough.

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Fear of failure. Perfectionists often equate failure to achieve their goals with a lack of personal worth or value.•Fear of making mistakes. Perfectionists often equate mistakes with failure. In building their lives around avoiding mistakes, perfectionists miss opportunities to learn and grow.•Fear of disapproval. If they let others see their flaws, perfectionists often fear that they will no longer be accepted. Trying to be perfect is a way of trying to protect themselves from criticism, rejection, and disapproval.•All-or-nothing thinking. Perfectionists frequently believe that they are worthless if their accomplishments are not perfect. Perfectionists have difficulty seeing situations in perspective. For example, a straight ‘A’ student who receives a ‘B’ might believe, "I am a total failure".•Over-emphasis on ‘should’, ‘must’ and ‘ought’. Perfectionists often live with an endless list of rigid rules for what they must accomplish. With the emphasis on how everything has to be done, perfectionists rarely listen to what they really feel like doing.•Never good enough. Perfectionists tend to see others as achieving success with a minimum of effort, few errors, little emotional stress, and maximum self-confidence. At the same time, perfectionists view their own efforts as unending and forever inadequate.
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How is it maintained?

• Current triggers – eg research pressure• Negative predictions – ‘I won’t do it well’• Unhelpful behaviours,

– eg avoidance of writing, constant checking

• Confirming negative beliefs• Self Critical thoughts – ‘I’ve failed again’

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Vicious circle

• Set an unreachable goal.• Fail, as the goal was impossible.• Constant pressure leads to

chronic failure and reduces effectiveness.

• Self criticism and self-blaming leads to low self - esteem, anxiety and depression.

• At this point you may give up completely on your original goal and set yourself another unrealistic goal, thinking "This time if only I try harder I will succeed".

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4 common myths with perfectionism

• You can’t succeed without it

• It gets you the best results

• It enables you to overcome obstacles

• It helps you achieve and please others

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What can I do about it?

• Realize that perfectionism is undesirable– perfection is an illusion

that is unattainable.• Challenge self-defeating

thoughts and behaviours that fuel perfectionism.

• Cost benefit analysis of keeping high standards

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Strategies to move forward

• Set goals– realistic, reachable, sequential

• Experiment with standards for success– Try for 80% or even 60%

• Focus on the process not the end result

• Evaluate success in terms of what you accomplished and what you enjoyed

• Celebrate and learn from mistakes

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Realistic goals. Set realistic and reachable goals based on your own wants and needs and on what you have accomplished in the past. This will enable you to achieve and also will lead to a greater sense of self-esteem.Modest improvements. Set subsequent goals in a sequential manner. As you reach a goal, set your next goal one level beyond your present level.Try for less than 100%. Experiment with your standards for success. Choose any activity and instead of aiming for 100%, try for 90%, 80%, or even 60% success. This will help you to realise that world does not end when you are not perfect. Focus on process. Focus on the process of doing an activity not just on the end result. Evaluate your success not only in terms of what you accomplished but also in terms of how much you enjoyed the task.
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Common difficulties

• Perfectionism

• Procrastination

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What is procrastination?

• Putting off a task which needs to be done

• It can affect our study and writing• We may disguise avoidance by being

very busy • We may find things to do that are

interesting or even useful, but don't contribute towards the main goal

• It may involve feelings of anxiety, stress, guilt, shame and depression

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Overcoming Procrastination

• Use a diary• Prioritise and set

achievable targets• Revise targets• Acknowledge

progress• Stay focussed• Avoid avoidant

activities!• Reward yourself

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Procrastination – so what can you do about it ?

Aversion to the task- Develop motivation• Find a personal engagement with subject …• … how can I use this idea ?• … what’s significant in this for me ?• Why have I found this difficult in the past ?

…• … how is this different now ?• If I had to explain this to others • simply, how would I best • summarise it for them ?

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Procrastination – so what can you do about it ?

Impulsiveness / distractions- Long term vision - ‘Unpleasant’ tasks first- Short tasks / short term rewards- Involve others in pay-offs- Mix active / passive work e.g. reading- Study groups

• sharing research• teaching learning

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Procrastination – so what can you do about it ?

Time management issues:

- Allow more time for assignments … - … draft, leave, edit, redraft- Simple, realistic, daily goal-setting- Link short-term priorities to long-term

goals- Lower your expectations ?

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Procrastination – so what can you do about it ?

Environmental Factors

- Ask library staff for guidance- Find your favourite space- Keep it clear, focussed on - one activity

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What can I do?

• Look at your internal dynamics

• Write down any historic messages you carry about yourself

• Develop a more realistic assessment of your ability and worth as a person

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Sources of Advice & Help

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Sources of advice and help

Academic Adviser Departmental StaffDisability and Wellbeing Service Student Services Centre TLC study skills advisors Learning World Student Union and Advice Centre Medical Centre

Mental Health and Wellbeing Advisors Deans Financial Support Office Faith Centre Language Centre PhD Academy Student Union

Don't wait until problems have grown impossibly large

It’s OK to ask for help earlier

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LSE Student Counselling Service – KSW.507

• Free and confidential • Mainly short term counselling• Book appointments in advance• See Website for

– Stress management handouts– Self help resources – Relaxation MP3’s

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Future Workshops

How to manage your time effectively:• Mon 19th Nov 15.00 17:00

Location: NAB.LG.08

Stress Management • Mon 16th Nov  11.00 – 1.00 pm or• Mon  23rd Nov  11.00 – 1.00 pm or• Mon  30th Nov   11.00 – 1.00 pm• Location: TBC

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Future Workshops

Raise Your Self-Esteem: • Thurs. 19th Nov    11.00 am – 1 pm• Thurs 26th Nov     11.00 am – 1 pm• Thurs 3rd of Dec.  11.00 am – 1 pm Location: TBC

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Groups

• Stress Management Group (3 weeks)

• Self Esteem Group (3 weeks)

• Therapy Group (Ongoing)

• Places on all groups need to be booked in advance. Please see the website, Call Ext 3627, visit KSW.507 or email [email protected].

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Finishing Up…

• Look after yourself (diet, sleep)

• Keep a supportive structure for your daily life; have relaxation time

• See this as a time of discovery

• Recall past achievements• Challenge negative

thoughts• Imagine looking back at

the task from a future vantage point

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