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ZC@U AW FGBHBMAG @KVWF2 6

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Ahtrbeugtabh

Cfnnb fvfrykbey. A ̀ m C`rfn Wf`n, ̀ n`wyfr ky prbdfssabh.

Ah tcas juaef A wann dbgus bh fgbhbmag `kusf `he vabnfhgf ah d`manafs.

Ucf pcfhbmfhbh bggurs wcfh `h `jjrfssavf p`rty ah tcf d`many tìfs bvfr tcf sburgfs bd duhes

`he tcf prbpfrty bd tcf d`many `he mìfs tcf btcfrs, sukmassavf `he `dràe bd gbhdrbht`tabhs,

efpfhefht bh cam dah`hga`nny.

Ucf pcfhbmfhbh c`s v`rabus gc`r`gtfrastags `he `spfgts, `he ahgnuefs, `mbhj btcfr tcahjs, tcf

grf`tabh bd efkts ah tcf h`mf bd tcf sukmassavf p`rty, tìahj `gtabhs ah brefr tb ruah tcf

sukmassavf p`rty‑s wbri `he navfnacbbe, `he ebahj `nn tcas, ah m`hy g`sfs, ah stf`ntcy gr`dty `he

guhhahj w`ys, ahgnueahj c`vahj `gtabhs `he effes ah tcf jr`y `rf`, hbt `nw`ys `ggbmp`hafe ky

pcysag`n vabnfhgf.

Ucf pcfhbmfhbh efstrbys d`manafs drbm tcf k`sf, sahgf at prbeugfs jfhfr`tabhs bd gcanerfh `he

ybutc ràsfe bh tcf eastbrtabh bd „tcf vabnfht wahs", „pbwfr `he gbhtrbn javf ybu `gcafvfmfhts"

`he „watc juanf `he guhhahj ybu wann suggffe ah ybur `gtabhs."

Fgbhbmag `kusf as hbt gbhsaefr`knf `s ` gramah`n m t̀tfr, euf tb tcf d g̀t tcf pbnagf eb hbt

ahtfrvfhf ah at, sffahj tcf gbhdnagt `s ` gavan m`ttfr.

Mbrfbvfr, fvfh sbmf bd tcf trf`tmfht ùtcbratafs eb hbt `nw`ys ihbw cbw tb gc`r`gtfrazf tcf

fgbhbmag ̀ kusf ̀ he tfhe tb `ssbga`tf at watc sffmahjny nfjatam`tf fgbhbmag easputfs, ̀ nn watcbut

ahtfrh`nazahj tc`t ah pr`gtagf tcf pcfhbmfhbh as vabnfhgf ah ats sukst`hgf!

Fgbhbmag `kusf as `nsb vfry waefsprfè ah wbripn`gfs, gùsahj m`hy fmpnbyffs tb kf cat ky

tcfar fmpnbyfrs tann tcfy ̀ rf mfht`nny efstrbyfe.


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Ah my bpahabh tcas sè pcfhbmfhbh g`nnfe fgbhbmag `kusf scbune kf gbhsaefrfe vabnfhgf ah `nn

rfspfgts `he `spfgts, `he wf scbune eb fvfrytcahj tb gbhefmh at, hb nfss tc`h wf gbhefmh

pcysag`n br vfrk`n vabnfhgf.

Kfahj ̀ n`wyfr spfga`nazahj ah tcf dafne bd d`many n`w, watc ̀ t nf`st 00 yf`rs‑ fxpfrafhgf prbvaeahj

èvagf tb tcf vabnfhgf prfvfhtabh gfhtfrs `he wbmfh mbvfmfhts (sugc `s H@@M@U) ah tcf

gbuhtry bd Asr`fn, A s`w, A gcfgife, A fx`mahfe , g`t`nbjfe `he g`tfjbrazfe cuherfes bd g`sfs bd

fgbhbmag `kusf ah d`manafs, `he `s ` rf`gtabh `he drbm tcf effp wann tb usf my ihbwnfejf ah

brefr tb cfnp pfbpnf, A efgaefe tb sft up ` knbj `he ` wfksatf ahgnueahj ampbrt`ht `he hfgfss`ry

ahdbrm`tabh (wcagc cbpfdunny wann fxp`he `he ahgrf`sf ah tcf hf`r duturf), `nn watc rfj`re tb tcf

pcfhbmfhbh `he pbssakanatafs bd g̀tabhs `jàhst at.

Ah tcas juaef, A'nn javf ybu tcf tbbns tb gc`r`gtfrazf tcf fgbhbmag `kusf, tb uhefrst`he ats namats,

ats gc`r`gtfrastags `he ats rfsunts, `he tcf darst k`sag stfps tb tìf ah brefr tb ràsf at bh tcf m`p

`he m`hapun`tf at.

Ebwh tcf rbè, ybu g`h `nsb ebwhnbè my gbursfs, wcagc wann javf ybu tcf tbbns tb kf d`mana`r

watc tcf pc`sfs tc`t `rf fssfhta`n ah brefr tb mìf tcf gc`hjf ah ` gbrrfgt `he fddagafht w`y.

Dbr, `s wf ihbw, `nn kaj gc`hjfs st`rt watc ` sm`nn bhf stfp ... sff ybu ah tcf dbnnbwahj gc`ptfrs.


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Zc`t As Fgbhbmag @kusf2

Jnbk`nny, ebmfstag fgbhbmag ̀ kusf as ̀ satu`tabh wcfrf ̀ p`rty tìfs bvfr tcf d`many's ̀ ssfts `he

mbhfy rfsburgfs ky dbrgf `he / br ebmahffrahj `he / br snyny `he / br ky tìahj mf`surfs bd

ahtamae`tabh ah brefr tb ebmah`tf tcf prbpfrtafs, mbhafs `he dah`hga`n rajcts bd `hbtcfr pfrsbh

- ahgnueahj cas/cfr rajct tb wbri `he suppbrt camsfnd/cfrsfnd - `he prfvfhts tcf btcfr, `s

`dbrfsàe, `hy `ggfss tb sugc prbpfrty, mbhafs `he rajcts. Bh tcf btcfr c`he, tcf pcfhbmfhbh

gbhsasts `nsb bd rfvf`nahj tcf vagtam tb efkts `he bknaj`tabhs, c`vahj hb sfhsf `he hb gbhtrbn.

Zf g`h sff drbm tcf `kbvf efdahatabh tc`t tcfrf `rf fnfmfhts bd vabnfhgf ah tcf pcfhbmfhbh bd

fgbhbmag ̀ kusf, kut at as hbt hfgfss`ry tcfy wann fxast, euf tb tcf d`gt tc`t ah m`hy g`sfs ah wcagc

tcf fgbhbmag `kusf fxasts at c`s kffh ebhf ah gnfvfr `he easjuasfe w`ys, watcbut tcf –smfnn' bd

vabnfhgf.

Fgbhbmag `kusf g`h bggur kftwffh spbusfs `he usu`nny fxasts wcfh tcfrf as efpfhefhgy

kftwffh tcfm. At fxasts `nsb kftwffh gcanerfh `he tcfar fnefrny p`rfhts, `jàh wcfrf tcfrf `rf

efpfhefhgafs. At `nsb fxasts kftwffh p`rfhts `he gcanerfh, fspfga`nny wcfh gcanerfh `rf mahbrs

`he cfnpnfss.

Ah trèatabh`n sbgaftafs, wcfrf tcfrf ̀ rf trakfs br fxtfhefe d`manafs, tcfrf ̀ rf bdtfh efpfhefhgafs

kftwffh p`rtafs ah tcf fxtfhefe d`many, hbt `nw`ys rfn`tfe tb p`rtafs bd tcf ammfea`tf d`many.

Ah `nn g`sfs efsgrakfe `kbvf, tcfrf as `nw`ys bhf p`rty wcb tìfs bvfr tcf prbpfrty `he / br

mbhafs `he / br rajcts tc`t kfnbhj tb `hbtcfr, prfvfhtahj tcf btcfr `hy `ggfss tb at, `he `gtu`nny

mìahj tcf btcfr cas/cfr cbst`jf. Ah tc`t satu`tabh bd ebmahffrahj cas/cfr `ssfts, at dbnnbws tc`t

ad tcf vagtam dbnnbws tcf `jjrfssbr's ahstrugtabhs cf br scf m`y survavf dah`hga`nny, kut ad hbt, tcf

vagtam wann rfmàh watcbut prbpfrty `he watcbut `ssfts.


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Cfhgfdbrtc ah tcas juaef A wann g`nn tcbsf gùsahj tcf e`m`jfs bd fgbhbmag `kusf „`jjrfssbrs",

`he tcbsf wcb fxpfrafhgf tcf fgbhbmag ̀ kusf „vagtam/s".

A wann efsgrakf sbmf pbssaknf fx`mpnfs bd fgbhbmag `kusf<

Darst< tcf `jjrfssbr p`ssfs tb cas h`mf prbpfrtafs kfnbhjahj tb tcf vagtam. Ucas ahlury as usu`nny

g`rrafe but ah rf`n fst`tf ̀ he vfcagnfs.

Wfgbhe< tcf `jjrfssbr gbhdasg`tfs duhes kfnbhjahj tb tcf vagtam. Ucas ahlury bggurs wcfh, dbr

fx`mpnf, tcf `jjrfssbr eràhs tcf k`hi `ggbuht `he/br s`vahjs pn`hs, `he tcfh easgc`rjfs `he

tr`hsdfrs tcf duhes tb ` pn`gf tcf vagtam ebfsh‑t c`vf `hy `ggfss tb, sugc `s `hbtcfr k`hi `ggbuht

tcf vagtam c`s hb `ggfss tb, ` s`df ftg..

Ucare< tcf ̀ jjrfssbr prfvfhts tcf vagtam's ̀ ggfss tb duhes usfe dbr navahj. Ucas ahlury bggurs wcfh

tcf ̀ jjrfssbr ebfs hbt ̀ nnbw tcf vagtam ̀ ggfss tb ̀ pfhsabh br `hhuaty br s`n`ry, ̀ he ah d`gt nf`vfs

tcf vagtam watcbut navfnacbbe.

Dburtc< tcf `jjrfssbr c`s cas bwh kusahfss ah tcf h`mf bd tcf vagtam, tcfh cf/scf fmptafs tcf

kusahfss `ssfts, smujjnahj mbhfy `he prbdats, `he dah`nny nf`vahj tcf kusahfss ah efkt, `he `nn bd

tcas efspatf tcf d`gt tcf vagtam cèh‑t fvfh ` maham`n `ggfss tb tcf kusahfss kut uhdbrtuh`tfny

cf/scf rfmàhfe watc tcf dunn efkts `he bknaj`tabhs.

Dadtc< tcf `jjrfssbr rfquarfs tc`t tcf vagtam tìf but nb`hs `he / br efm`hes tcf vagtam assuf

grfeat g`res ah cas/cfr h`mf, tcfh tcf `jjrfssbr tìfs tcf mbhfy, br tcf tcahjs purgc`sfe ky

grfeat, nf`vahj tcf vagtam watc tcf efkts.

Lust `s ah tcf dbnnbwahj g`sf


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Hbt bhny tcas, tcf `jjrfssbr usfs tcf n`he n`ws, k`hiahj n`ws `he btcfr n`ws dbr cas/cfr kfhfdat,grf`tahj ` masnfèahj amprfssabh tc`t fvfrytcahj as ky tcf n`w, wcanf ah tcf rf`naty cas/cfr `gts

`rf ahdfgtfe watc manat`hgy, vabnfhgf, nafs `he efgfat `jàhst tcf vagtam.

Ucfrfdbrf, fgbhbmag `kusf as ` kaj ef`n, `he wf c`vf tb kf d`mana`r watc at, sb wf wann kf `knf tb

gc`r`gtfrazf at `he javf at tcf hfgfss`ry sbnutabh.

At as ampbrt`ht tb hbtf tc`t kfybhe tcf earfgt fgbhbmag ampnag`tabhs tc`t fgbhbmag ̀ kusf gùsfs,

`s A hbtfe f`rnafr, tcf fgbhbmag `kusf c`s `nsb tcf gc`r`gtfrastags bd tr`mpnahj `he c`rvfstahj,

`he ats rfsunts `rf `nmbst `nw`ys tcf efstrugtabh bd tcf mahe bd tcf vagtam `he d`many mfmkfrs

gnbsf tb cam, fspfga`nny `he uhdbrtuh`tfny gcanerfh.

N`tfr A wann scbw tc`t tr`mpnahj, c`rvfstahj `he efstrugtabh bd mahe `rf tcfmsfnvfs ` iahe bd

vabnfhgf, fvfh ad tcf `jjrfssbr ebfs hbt usf pcysag`n br vfrk`n vabnfhgf.

Dah`nny - Ah tcf g`sf bd fgbhbmag ̀ kusf, tcf e`m`jfs ̀ rf hbt bhny dah`hga`n ̀ he fgbhbmag, kut ̀ nsb

mfht`n.


8/20

Ucf Eyh`mag Bd Efdf`ts @he Wurrfhefrfe

Zf nf`rhfe ah tcf darst butnahf wc`t fgbhbmag `kusf as.

Ucf qufstabh as, wc`t as euf2 Cbw as at grf`tfe2 Zc`t krahjs fgbhbmag `kusf2

Ucf `hswfr as `s dbnnbws<

Hbtf tc`t tcf `hswfr `kbvf sujjfsts tc`t fgbhbmag `kusf must c`vf bh tcf bhf c`he tcf

bvfrpbwfrahj, `he bh tcf btcfr c`he tcf surrfhefr, `he dah`nny, gumun`tavf tb tcf prfvabus, tcf

symkabtag efpfhefhgy kftwffh tcfm kbtc.

Uc`t as, ah fgbhbmag `kusf tcfrf wann `nw`ys kf tcf bhf wcb tìfs bh tcf rbnf bd gbhtrbn `he

krut`naty. _nf`sf hbtf tc`t tc`t –lbk' rfquarfs tcf efdf`t, kfahj stadd, grufn, `he dunn bd hfj`tavf

fhfrjafs.

@nsb tcfrf wann kf tcf btcfr, tcf surrfhefrfe, wcb tìfs bh tcf rbnf bd sukbreah`tf. Ah d`gt, tcfrf

g`h kf ` satu`tabh wcfrf ah tcf kfjahhahj tcf surrfhefrfe rfdusfe tb turh ebwh, `he bhny n`tfr

cf/scf j`vf up `he `jrffe tb d`nn ah nahf watc tcf bvfrwcfnmahj `he tìf bh tcf rbnf bd

sukmassavf jraheahj. Cfrf, tcf –lbk' bd kfahj surrfhefrfe rfquarfs tcf ̀ kanaty tb suddfr ̀ he navf ah

bhjbahj pàhdun satu`tabhs.

Ucf tcare p`rt bd tcf trab as `gtu`nny tcf pfrpftu`tabh bd tcas eyh`mag ky tcf bvfrwcfnmahj `he

sukmassavf st`tusfs.

Bd gbursf tcf –efgasabh' tb tìf bh bhf bd tcfsf rbnfs as hbt hfgfss`rany gbhsgabus, `he at as naifny

tc`t ` pfrsbh tìfs bh tcf rbnf bd sukmassavf c`vahj cas/cfr gcbagf br efgasabh drbm tcf

sukgbhsgabus.

Kut stann tcas as ` gcbagf, `he bhgf ` p`rty gcbbsfs tb gbhtahuf navahj ah tcas knfì eyh`mag,

uhdbrtuh`tfny cf/scf gbmmfmbr`tfs at `he gùsfs at tb kf gcrbhag.


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Durtcfr, m`hy tamfs tcf vagtam as `w`rf bd tcf satu`tabh, `t nf`st eurahj tcf tamf tc`t cf/scf as

dbuhe uhefr tcf fgbhbmag `kusf `he bhjbahj sukmassabh prbgfss vfrsus tcf `tt`gifr, `he yft,

efspatf tcf ès, cf/scf ebfs hbt eb `hytcahj `he gbhtahufs tb kf g`pturfe ky tcf eyh`mag.

Vhdbrtuh`tfny, cf/scf gbhtahufs tb pfrpftu`tf tcf eyh`mag, gùsahj camsfnd/cfrsfnd arrfvfrsaknf

fgbhbmag `he fmbtabh`n e`m`jf, `he wbrsf, gùsahj arrfvfrsaknf e`m`jfs tb cas/cfr gcanerfh,

`he ah d`gt tb fvfrybhf wcb surrbuhes cam/cfr `he gbht`gts cam/cfr.

Ucf qufstabh as wcy2 Zcy wann ̀ pfrsbh gbhtahuf tb grf`tf arrfvfrsaknf e`m`jf tb camsfnd ̀ he tb

cfnpnfss gcanerfh2

Ucf `hswfr as kbtc sampnf `he gbmpnfx‗cas/cfr ebahjs stfm uhdbrtuh`tfny drbm ` sukmassavf

gcanecbbe `he drbm tcf eastbrtfe eyh`mag cf/scf camsfnd `ksbrkfe ah gcanecbbe `s `dbrfsàe.

Wb, ad bhf s`w ah cas gcanecbbe bhf p`rfht efjrèahj tcf btcfr, tìahj gbhtrbn, ̀ he hbt tb mfhtabh,

`gtahj watc vabnfhgf ̀ jàhst tcf btcfr p`rfht, fvfh ad hbt pcysag`nny, tcus gùsahj tcf btcfr p`rfht

tb surrfhefr, tcfh tcf cfnpnfss gcane ̀ ksbrkfe tcas eastbrtfe eyh`mag ahtb cas/cfr sukgbhsgabus,

`he wann tcahi tc`t tc`t dbrgf `he ebmah`tabh wah.

@he wc`t saef wann tcf cfnpnfss gcane gcbbsf2 Zcb wann cf/scf aefhtady watc2 Zatc tcf

bvfrwcfnmahj br watc tcf sukmassavf2 Zatc tcf `jjrfssbr br watc tcf vagtam2

Ucf `hswfr tb tcbsf qufstabhs m`y stfm drbm cas/cfr aefhtadag`tabh ah gcanecbbe. Uc`t as tb s`y,

tc`t ad cf/scf aefhtadafe `s ` gcane watc tcf `jjrfssbr, at as naifny tc`t `s èunts cf/scf wann stravf

tb bvfrpbwfr, kut ad cf/scf aefhtadafe ah gcanecbbe watc tcf vagtam, at as naifny tc`t `s `h èunt

cf/scf wann kfgbmf sukmassavf ̀ he surrfhefrahj.

Bd gbursf, tcf gbhgnusabhs ̀ kbvf ̀ rf hbt tbt`n, ̀ he tcfrf ̀ rf satu`tabhs wcfrf ̀ pfrsbh wann ̀ ebpt

r`tcfr tcf bppbsatf aefhtadag`tabh tb cas sbnae`raty ah gcanecbbe.


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Cbwfvfr, tcas eastbrtfe eyh`mag bd efdf`ts `he surrfhefrs wann kf p`rt bd us tcrbujcbut burnavfs, `he fspfga`nny ah p`rfht`n `he m`rat`n navfs, wcftcfr `s `jjrfssbrs br `s vagtams.

@he mbrf tc`h tc`t, at's cajcny naifny tc`t ah ` satu`tabh wcfrf wf jrbw up bh tcf eastbrtabh, tcfrf

as bhny ̀ sm`nn gc`hgf tc`t wf wann ̀ ebpt ̀ k`n`hgfe br fqu`n w`y bd nadf, ̀ s tcf eastbrtfe eyh`mag

`ksbrkfe tb bur sukgbhsgabus wann hbt javf us ` gc`hgf tb navf ` wfnn-k`n`hgfe nadf.

Zcy as tcas sb ampbrt`ht dbr us tb uhefrst`he2

Kfgùsf ad wf `rf `w`rf bd tcf d`gt tc`t wf jrfw up bh tc`t eastbrtabh bd efdf`t `he surrfhefr,

wf wann uhefrst`he tc`t bur gcbagfs, efgasabhs, `he kfc`vabr stfm drbm tcf eastbrtabh `he

stravahj tb pfrpftu`tf at.

Ucas as tb s`y, tcf rf`sbh spbusfs jrbw up bh tcas eastbrtabh ah tcfar gcanecbbe, dahe f`gc btcfr,

jft m`rrafe `he c`vf gcanerfh stfms drbm tcfar masnfe uhefrst`heahj tc`t tcas as `nnfjfeny tcf

rajct w`y tb navf ah.

Vhdbrtuh`tfny kbtc saefs, fvfh tcf efdf`tfe, ̀ rf prasbhfrs tb tcas gbhgfpt ̀ he eb hbt c`vf h`tur`n

fddfgtavf tbbns tb gc`hjf at!

Ucfrfdbrf, ad wf wbune naif tb efdf`t fgbhbmag `kusf, wf c`vf pram`rany tb gr`gi tcf eyh`mag bd

efdf`ts `he surrfhefr `he stbp tcf sfqufhgf bd jfhfr`tabhs bd at, kfgùsf ad tcf p`rfhts bd

sbmfbhf ahgrf`sfe tcf eyh`mag ̀ kbvf, at as naifny tc`t tcf pfrsbh wann ̀ ebpt at ̀ he tc`t's ̀ nnfjfeny

wc`t ̀ ddfgts gcanerfh ̀ he mìfs tcfm jrbw up bh tcf eastbrtabh, ̀ he tcfrf ̀ rf cajc gc`hgfs tcfy

wann p`ss at bh tb tcfar gcanerfh, `he sb dbrtc.

Dah`nny, sugc ` eyh`mag bd efdf`ts `he surrfhefrs as vfry eaddagunt tb `ntfr, `he sbmftamfs fvfh

ampbssaknf, kfgùsf at rfquarfs ` effp g`rf wcanf mfftahj watc tcf sukgbhsgabus9 uhdbrtuh`tfny,

bhjbahj `ttfmpts tb hfutr`nazf at `rf hbt `nw`ys suggfssdun.


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Drbm Fst`knascahj Bd Wuspagabh Ub @w`rfhfss

Ucas as tcf darst stfp ah tcf rfvbnutabh br tcf cujf gc`hjf.

Ah tcf prfvabus gc`ptfr wf dbgusfe bh tcf eyh`mag bd efdf`ts, surrfhefrs `he tcf symkabsas

kftwffh tcf twb, uhefrst`heahj tcf fssfhta`n k`gijrbuhe br tcf dfrtanazfr tcf fgbhbmag `kusf

dffes drbm.

Kfdbrf mbvahj bh tb tcf suklfgt bd tcas prfsfht gc`ptfr, at as ampbrt`ht tb mf tb mìf tcf

dbnnbwahj st`tfmfhts<

@s nbhj `s wf `rf hbt `w`rf bd sbmftcahj, wf g`hhbt prbeugf `hy ahsajct `kbut at. Kut bhgf wf

`rf `w`rf bd ` d`gt, bur kràh kfjahs tb prbeugf ahsajcts `kbut at.

Zf wann gbhtahuf tcas tcfsas `he sampnady at.

F`gc bd us `ksbrks ahdbrm`tabh. Ucf ahdbrm`tabh g`h gbmf drbm tcf mfea`, stueafs, kbbis, rf`n

stbrafs wf c`vf cf`re drbm rfn`tavfs, gbursfs, ftg…

Ucahi tc`t tcf `kbvf ahdbrm`tabh pfrmf`tfs bur mahes `he as stbrfe ah ` iahe bd ` dbnefr tc`t

jfts tcf „Wuklfgt H`mf", ̀ he drbm hbw bh ̀ nn tcf ahdbrm`tabh rfn`tahj tb tcf s`mf suklfgt wann kf

stbrfe ah tcas dbnefr. Ucus bur kràh wbris.

@t sbmf pbaht, usu`nny `dtfr sbmf trajjfr c`ppfhs, wf `rf fxpbsfe tb tcf ahdbrm`tabh gbnnfgtfe

bh tcf suklfgt, `he tcfh wf dffn tc`t wf c`vf ihbwnfejf `kbut tcf suklfgt. Zf prbeugf tcf hfxt

st`jf bh tcf k`sas bd tcfsf ahsajcts, `he ah n`tfr st`jfs fvfh rfdahf tcfm.

Eb hbt wbrry, A'm hbt t`niahj cfrf ̀ kbut ̀ jfhaus, br ̀ cajcny feug`tfe pfrsbh br ̀ pbnym`tc, kut

`kbut f`gc `he fvfry bhf bd us. A c`vf efsgrakfe tcas mfgc`hasm, `ssurahj ybu tc`t at `ksbnutfny

fxasts watcah f`gc bhf bd us!


12/20

A wann fxp`he bh at. Gbhsaefr, dbr fx`mpnf, tc`t ah tcf Vhatfe Wt`tfs bd @mfrag` tcf nfj`n systfm ask`sfe bh tcf lury. Ucf lueaga`ry `nnbws tcf lury tb efgaef fvfh ah tcf wbrst gramah`n g`sfs bd

murefr, br ah gbmpnfx gavan m`ttfrs, ̀ nn ah spatf bd tcf d`gt tcf lury ̀ rf breah`ry mfh ̀ he wbmfh,

usu`nny sfnfgtfe ̀ t r`hebm dbr tcf t`si.

@he wcy2 Dbr tcf @mfrag`h lueaga`ry, pfrc`ps tcf n`rjfst efmbgr`gy ah tcf wbrne, `hy cum`h

kfahj as sm`rt `he g`h prbeugf ahsajctdun wasebm.

Cbw ebfs at wbri tcfrf2 Tfry sampnf. @nn mfmkfrs bd tcf lury cf`r tcf rfnfv`ht d`gts bd tcf nfj`n

g`sf tcfy c`vf tb eftfrmahf bh `he jft `nn tcf rfnfv`ht fvaefhgf rfj`reahj tcfar efgasabh. @dtfr

fxpbsurf tb tcf d`gts `he fvaefhgf, fvfry mfmkfr bd tcf lury c`s ` gbmpnftf pagturf bd tcf g`sf,

`he untam`tfny as rfquarfe tb prbeugf tcf gbhgnusabhs rfj`reahj tcf nfj`n g`sf's efgasabh.

@dtfr f`gc mfmkfr bd tcf lury c`s rf`gcfe cas gbhgnusabhs `he ahsajcts, tcfy `nn cbne ` mfftahj

ah wcagc watc tcfy pr`gtagf kràhstbrmahj, wcfrf f`gc `he fvfry bhf bd tcfm fxpnàhs tb cas

pffrs tcf rf`sbhs tc`t nfe cam tb tcf rfsunt cf rf`gcfe. Ucf kràhstbrmahj untam`tfny krahjs

sm`rt ahsajcts `he durtcfr dah`n butgbmfs k`sfe bh tcfm.

@ggbreahj tb tcf @mfrag`h lueaga`ry, tcf ahsajcts bd tcf lury `rf prfdfr`knf tb tcbsf bd ` luejf,

sgcbn`r tc`t cf/scf as.

G`h ybu sff tcf pbwfr cfrf2 G`h ybu sff wc`t f`gc bhf us g`h eb ad wf c`vf tcf hfgfss`ry

`w`rfhfss ̀ he tcf rajct ihbwnfejf ah ` p`rtagun`r dafne2

Wb cbw g`h wf ràsf `w`rfhfss bd sbmftcahj2


13/20

A wann javf sbmf fx`mpnfs ah brefr tb `hswfr tcas qufstabh<

Darst fx`mpnf< Zf c`vf tcf ihbwnfejf ̀ he tcf ahsajct tc`t ad wf eravf bur g`r wcfh wf ̀ rf eruhi,

br uhefr tcf ahdnufhgf bd erujs `he `ngbcbn, wf `rf ah e`hjfr bd `h `ggaefht, br `t nf`st (tcbujc

`nsb vfry kè ...) tcf c`z`re tc`t bur eravahj nagfhsf wann kf tìfh ky n`w fhdbrgfmfht.

Zcfrf ebfs bur ihbwnfejf ̀ he uhefrst`heahj bd tcf ̀ kbvf d`gts gbmf drbm2 Ucf ̀ hswfr as tc`t

bur sukgbhsgabus ̀ nrfèy ̀ ksbrkfe tcf vat`n ahdbrm`tabh rfj`reahj at drbm tcf hfwsp`pfrs, darst-

c`he ahdbrm`tabh (dbr tcbsf wcb wfrf fxpbsfe tb g`r `ggaefhts br tb ` pfrsbh wcb cè cas

eravahj nagfhsf gbhdasg`tfe `s ` rfsunt bd eruhi eravahj), rèab krbèg`sts ftg.--`nn bd wcagc c`vf

grf`tfe bur `w`rfhfss bd tcf e`hjfr bd eravahj wcanf ahtbxag`tfe.

@hbtcfr fx`mpnf< Zf `nn ihbw hbwè`ys, `he tcfrf as hb hffe tb fxpnàh, tc`t wcbfvfr puscfs

cas drafhe ̀ gtu`nny pfrdbrms pcysag`n vabnfhgf, ̀ he tcf butgbmf bd tcas as ̀ gramah`n bddfhgf. Uc`t

as tb s`y, wf `rf `w`rf bd tcf d`gt, `he wf c`vf tcf ahsajct tc`t wcbfvfr gcbbsfs eb sugc ` tcahj

`s puscahj `hbtcfr pfrsbh vabn`tfs tcf n`w, `he `s ` rfsunt kfgbmfs fht`hjnfe watc tcf pbnagf.

Wb, `gtu`nny at's f`sy dbr us tb g`tfjbrazf tcf `jjrfssbr mfhtabhfe `kbvf `s `h bddfhefr, `he bh

tcf btcfr c`he, tcf bhf wcb c`s fxpfrafhgfe tcf pcysag`n vabnfhgf `s tcf vagtam.

Ad ybu c`vf hbt hbtagfe, tcfrf as bhf wbre ah tcf `kbvf fx`mpnf-- tcf wbre „hbwè`ys"--tc`t wf

c`vf tb gbhsaefr `he `h`nyzf ah tc`t easgussabh.

_nf`sf hbtf tc`t hbwè`ys wf navf ah ̀ mbefrh sbgafty, ̀ he wf ihbw wfnn tc`t ad sbmfbhf puscfs

cas wadf (br scf cfr cusk`he), cf/scf pfrdbrms ky tcas `jjrfssavf `gt ` gramah`n bddfhsf bd

`tt`giahj. Cbwfvfr, 7? yf`rs `jb, at w`s hbt tcf satu`tabh, `he ah tcbsf yf`rs `h `gt naif tcas w`s

` dàrny mahbr m`ttfr `he hbt hfgfss`rany gbhsaefrfe gramah`n.

Hbwè`ys ebgtbrs `he/br sbga`n wbrifrs fxpbsfe tb vabnfhgf, fvfh mahbr, must rfpbrt `kbut at

tb tcf pbnagf `he/br tb tcf rfnfv`ht ùtcbratafs. Ucas as eastahjuascfe drbm tcf p`st9 tcf satu`tabh

tcfh w`s eam `he `ksbnutfny hbt sb bkvabus!


14/20

Hbw nft us gbhtahuf watc m`ttfrs ` kat mbrf gbmpnag`tfe `he gbmpnfx tc`h tcf fx`mpnfs `kbvf.

Ucf assuf bd sfxu`n c`r`ssmfht ah wbripn`gfs `kbut 0?, 06, ;? yf`rs `jb< Ah tcbsf yf`rs at w`s

dàrny gbmmbh tc`t fmpnbyfrs c`r`ssfe sukbreah`tfs sfxu`nny watcbut sajhadag`ht kurefhs . Kut

hbwè`ys at as sc`rp `he gnf`r tb fvfrybhf (A cbpf fvfrybhf) tc`t sfxu`n c`r`ssmfht as

prbcakatfe ky n`w!

Hbwè`ys `hybhf wcb c`s kffh c`r`ssfe br sfxu`nny c`r`ssfe ah tcf wbripn`gf, dbr fx`mpnf,

m`y `he scbune gbmpnàh tb tcf pbnagf br `ppf`n tb ` gburt bd n`w watc ` gramah`n br dah`hga`n

gnàm, ̀ he ad tcf gburt bd n`w eftfrmahfs tc`t tcf vabn`tabh c`s kffh ebhf, tcf vabn`tahj fmpnbyfr

wann c`vf tb gbmpfhs`tf tcf vagtam watc ` n`rjf sum bd mbhfy.

Kut wc`t as sfxu`n c`r`ssmfht2 Zc`t as tcf eaddfrfhgf kftwffh ` nfjatam`tf gburtscap kftwffh

` m`h `he ` wbm`h, dbr fx`mpnf (br tcf rfvfrsf) `he sfxu`n c`r`ssmfht2 Ucf `hswfr as hbt

`nw`ys gnf`r `he tcfrf `rf m`hy g`sfs tc`t `rf sffmahjny nbg`tfe ah tcf jr`y `rf`…

Fx`mpnfs bd sugc g`sfs g`h kf< cumbr watc sfxu`n gbhhbt`tabhs br ampnyahj pbrhbjr`pcag

am`jfs wcanf snyny `ttfmpt tb –nahi tcf am`jf' tb ` spfgadag aheavaeu`n. @he tcfrf `rf bd gbursf

mbrf fx`mpnfs…

Gyhags wann rasf up ̀ he s`y, „Ad tcf gburts ̀ rf fhj`jfe ah gbmpnfx g`sfs rfj`reahj kfc`vabr bd bhf

iahe br ̀ hbtcfr, tcfh cbw g`h wf, breah`ry pfbpnf, ihbw wc`t as gbhsaefrfe ̀ h bddfhsf ̀ he wc`t

as hbt2”

My `hswfr tb qufstabhs naif tcas as tc`t A eb hbt fxpfgt ybu fhtfr ahtb tcbsf gbmpnfxatafs, `he

ihbw `nrfèy cbw tb eftfgt gbmpnfx satu`tabhs `ggur`tfny.

Kut A fxpfgt tc`t ybu c`vf `t nf`st ` k`sag `w`rfhfss, br `t nf`st suspagabh, tc`t sbmftcahj as

wrbhj, `he tcfrf as ` pbssakanaty tc`t tcf wbres sàe br tcf cumbr `gtfe `rf gbhsaefrfe

c`r`ssmfht, vabn`tahj tcf n`w.


15/20

Hbw k`gi tb fgbhbmag `kusf.

A sujjfst tc`t ybu st`rt `nrf`ey tb gcfgi wcftcfr tcf sajhs `he aheag`tabhs efsgrakfe ah tcf

prfvabus gc`ptfrs `rf `ddfgtahj ybur d`many br rfn`tavfs `he pfbpnf ybu ihbw `he gcfrasc.

_nf`sf rfvafw tcf gc`r`gtfrastags bd fgbhbmag ̀ kusf mfhtabhfe ah my knbj ̀ he ah tcf darst gc`ptfr

bd tcas juaef `he gcfgi wcftcfr tcfy `ppny tb ybu br `ddfgt ybu fvfh ah sbmf w`y. @he ad sb, ybu

c`vf `t nf`st tcf suspagabh, ad hbt k`sag `w`rfhfss, tc`t tcf fgbhbmag `kusf m`y fxast.

[fmfmkfr tc`t, naif tcf lury ah tcf Vhatfe Wt`tfs bd @mfrag`, ybu `nsb c`vf tcf `kanaty tb `h`nyzf

d`gts `he e`t` `he jft jbbe rfsunts `he ampbrt`ht gbhgnusabhs.

Wff ybu ah tcf hfxt gc`ptfr, wcfrf wf wann nf`rh wc`t tb eb hfxt.


16/20

Ucf C`hewratahj As Zrattfh Bh Ucf Z`nn

Ucfrf `rf m`hy pfbpnf dbr wcbm tcf d`gts `he e`t` tc`t tcfy wfrf fxpbsfe tb `kbut

rfn`tabhscaps watcah tcf d`many, `he satu`tabhs ah tcfar wbripn`gf, krbujct tcfm `t nf`st tb tcf

kbtcfrsbmf suspagabh, ad hbt tb gnf`r ahsajcts, tc`t tcfy ̀ rf ah ̀ satu`tabh bd fgbhbmag ̀ kusf. Ucas

as wc`t A g`nn „tcf c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn".

Zc`t as tcf c`hewratahj tcf w`nn2 At as `h ahsgraptabh mft`pcbr. Am`jahf ` –vartu`n w`nn' wcfrf

ybu wratf ah rfe br kn`gi br `hy btcfr gbnbr ybur gbhgnusabhs, br `t nf`st ybur suspagabhs, `kbut

` satu`tabh ybu br ybur d`many br ybur rfn`tavfs `rf ah.

Ebfs ybur kràh am`jahf at2

Dbr fx`mpnf, ` wbm`h g`mf tb tcf gbhgnusabh tc`t scf as ` k`ttfrfe wbm`h. Wcf ihbws at. Ah

èeatabh, at as prbk`knf tc`t scf am`jahfs `h am`jah`ry w`nn wcfrf at as wrattfh ah rfe (br btcfr

gbnbrs) tcf dbnnbwahj wbres< „A `m ` k`ttfrfe wbm`h ... my cusk`he kf`ts mf ... my cusk`he

`kusfs mf ̀ he efstrbys mf.... A'm ̀ dràe bd cam. Cf tcrf`tfhfe tb iann mf ̀ he cf's e`hjfrbus ... cf

as vabnfht `he e`hjfrbus, `he g`h curt mf `he fvfh iann mf. "

Ucas as `gtu`nny c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn.

Wugc ` wbm`h wbune jb tb kfe `t hajct `he wìf up ah tcf mbrhahj (ad scf suggffes `t `nn ah

snffpahj...) `he wann sff tcas mft`pcbrag`n c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn earfgtny ah drbht bd cfr fyfs,

`he eurahj tcf dbnnbwahj e`y scf wann gbhtahuf sffahj at, hb m`ttfr wcfrf scf jbfs `he wc`t scf

c`s ebhf.


17/20

Kut tcfrf ̀ rf nfss bkvabus fx`mpnfs tc`h tcf fx`mpnf bd tcf wbm`h `kbvf, wcagc uhdbrtuh`tfny

d`nns ah tcf jr`y `rf`, ah wcagc tcfrf as hb pcysag`n br fvfh sajhadag`ht vfrk`n vabnfhgf `he tcf

satu`tabh as eammfr. Ah tcf eammfr satu`tabh tcf wbm`h m`y suddfr drbm cumana`tabhs, tr`mpnahj

ah drbht bd cfr gcanerfh, scf m`y c`vf hb `ggfss tb mbhfy ah tcf k`hi `ggbuht, `he scf as ah d`gt

uhefr tcf sbnf ùtcbraty `he gbhtrbn bd cfr cusk`he `he efpfhefht bh cam dah`hga`nny. Kut scf

c`s hb e`hjfr tb cfr nadf `he tcf satu`tabh watc cfr cusk`he as hbt sb kè `nn tcf tamf, fspfga`nny

wcfh scf ̀ jrffs tb bkfy cam…

Cbw g`h tcas wbm`h ah tcf sfgbhe fx`mpnf, br tcf eammfr bhf, g`tfjbrazf cfr satu`tabh2 Zc`t

as tcf c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn rfj`reahj cfr2

A m`y `ssurf ybu tc`t tcf wbm`h ah tcf sfgbhe fx`mpnf as ah ` vfry kè gbheatabh `he suddfrs

drbm bhjbahj fgbhbmag `kusf tc`t ruahs cfr nadf, gùsahj cfr `he cfr gcanerfh arrfvfrsaknf

e`m`jf. Ucas as `ksbnutfny tcf c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn rfj`reahj cfr.

Wb wcy eb tcf twb wbmfh mfhtabhfe `kbvf hbt eb `hytcahj `kbut tcfar satu`tabh2 Cbw ebfs at

c`ppfh tc`t ` wbm`h (at g`h kf `nsb ` m`h) bkfy cfr spbusf, prfdfrrahj tb ajhbrf tcf

c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn2

Ucf `hswfr tb tcbsf qufstabhs m`y kf surprasahj.

M`y A c`vf ybur pfrmassabh tb usf tcf dbnnbwahj mft`pcbr tb fxpnàh at<

Eb ybu ihbw tcf jnuf tr`ps ah brefr tb eravf `w`y pajfbhs drbm wahebwsanns2 Zc`t as tcas tr`p2

Ebh‑t wbrry, tcf jnuf wann hfvfr ahdfgt tcf dfft bd tcf pajfbh stfppahj bh at9 bh tcf gbhtr`ry, at wann

kf `knf tb jft `w`y drbm at, kut at wann c`vf tb ahvfst trfmfhebus fhfrjy `he ahtfhsf wahj

mbvfmfhts `he gbur`jf tb rfturh tb dnyahj ah tcf àr `he but bd tcf hajctm`rf bd tcf tr`p. Zcanf

tcf pajfbh as dajctahj tb kf rfnf`sfe drbm tcf hajctm`rf tr`p, at'nn hfvfr rfturh tb tcf s`mf

wahebwsann ̀ hymbrf.

@he wcy2 Ucf `hswfr as tcas tr`p as k`sfe bh `h ahstahgtavf fddfgt g`nnfe „ammuhbnbjag`n

mfmbry".


18/20

Hbtagf tc`t fvfh ah ` pajfbh , wcb c`s ` –kare kràh', tcf ammuhbnbjag`n mfmbry at wann juaef tcf

trùm`tazfe pajfbh tb hfvfr gbmf k`gi tb tc`t pn`gf wcfrf ats nfjs wfrf gùjct, tcf `rf` bd ats

trùm`.

Hbw wf wann gbmf k`gi tb us, pfbpnf. Zatc tcf cajcny efvfnbpfe cum`h kràh wf c`vf, at m`y

surprasf ybu tb cf`r tc`t :?% bd bur kràh as ahstahgtavf…:?%! Bur ahstahgt ahgnuefs, `mbhj

btcfrs tcf hffe tb f`t, tfrta`ry duhgtabhs, rfprbeugtabh, `he tcf df`r mfgc`hasm efsajhfe tb

prbtfgt us drbm e`hjfrs, rf`n ̀ he aht`hjaknf. @he wcy eb A efsgrakf tcas2 Dbr tcf rf`sbh tc`t wf,

ah bur mahes, c`vf tcf s`mf mfgc`hasm br ` saman`r mfgc`hasm bd „ammuhbnbjag`n mfmbry"

wcagc iffps us drbm tcf `rf` bd trùm` `he ebfs hbt w`ht us rfturhahj k`gi tcfrf.

Ucus, ` satu`tabh wcfrf bhf bd tcf wbmfh ah tcf fx`mpnfs `kbvf trafe tb –rfkfn' `jàhst cfr

cusk`he‑s ebmahffrahj, scf wann kf suklfgt tb `h `tt`gi bd cumana`tabh, sgrf`mahj ah drbht bd

hfajckbrs `he tcfar gcanerfh, `nn watc tcf àm `he ahtfhtabh bd gùsahj cfr trùm` tc`t tcf

–ammuhbnbjag`n mfmbry' wann hbt wasc cfr tb rfturh tb `hy mbrf.

A eb hbt s`y tc`t ` ebmahffrahj cusk`he ebfs sb gbhsgabusny `he m`hapun`tavfny. Cf m`y hbt .

Kut tcf d`gt as hb m`ttfr wcfrf at gbmfs drbm, tcf gbhsgabus br drbm tcf sukgbhsgabus, tcf sè

d`gt as cas wbrnevafw rfvbnvfs `rbuhe grf`tahj tcf trùm` ah brefr tb rfturh tcf spbusf ahtb tcf

dbne ...

Ah rf`gtabh tb tcf trùm`, tcf vagtam, fvfh `w r̀f bd tcf c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn, wann gcbbsf tb

rfmàh ah tcf st`tus qub ̀ he ̀ sbrt bd aheustra`n pf`gf, ̀ he cas/cfr wannahjhfss tb c`vf tcf gc`hjf

wann uhdbrtuh`tfny kf dbrjbttfh9 `he tcas as tcf e`hjfr.

Ah gbhtahuahj `he `s ` gbhsfqufhgf tb tcf tcahjs sàe `kbvf, at dbnnbws tc`t ah sbmf dbrms bd

fgbhbmag `kusf, wcfrf pcysag`n vabnfhgf ebfsh‑t fxast, tcfrf m`y kf mbrf bd ` tfhefhgy tb knur

`he efhy tcf rf`naty, ah tcas tb gbhtahuf tcf eastbrtabh tann at kfgbmfs gcrbhag.


19/20

Ucf E`hjfr Bd Knurrahj Ucf C`hewratahj Bh

Ucf Z`nn

Zcfh ` pfrsbh as prfsfht ah ` st`tf bd fgbhbmag `kusf, `he cf/scf as `w`rf bd tcf satu`tabh `he

ebfs hbtcahj tb fsg`pf drbm at, cas/cfr kràh kfjahs tb systfm`tag`nny efnftf ahdbrm`tabh br

eastbrt at br `ntfr at. Ucas `gtabh bd tcf kràh, runf bd tcumk, as ` efdbrm`tabh mfgc`hasm.

Zc`t ebfs tc`t mf`h2 Dbr sbmf bd us, uhdbrtuh`tfny, tcfrf as ` mfgc`hasm br efvagf A g`nn `

„mfgc`hasm bd efha`n `he aef`naz`tabh."

Ucf mfgc`hasm bd efha`n `he aef`naz`tabh, `ggbmp`hafe ky ah`gtabh, as rfspbhsaknf dbr knurrahj,

`he fvfh fr`sahj, tcf c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn `he mìahj at dèfe.

Zc`t ebfs tcas mfgc`hasm eb2 @s dbrfsàe, darst at ajhbrfs kè satu`tabhs tc`t bggur, `he ah

p`r`nnfn gbnnfgts mbrkae –pbahts bd najct', fvfh aheavaeu`n, mìahj tcfm ` sffmahjny aef`n am`jf

br `t nf`st hbt `s kè `s at sffms ... ah cbpf tc`t ah tcf duturf tcf cbpfnfss `jjrfssbr wann kf

gc`hjfe ̀ he / br mbefr`tf camsfnd/cfrsfnd.

Ucbsf wcb tìf sugc ` mfgc`hasm wann try tb gbhvahgf tcfmsfnvfs tc`t tcf satu`tabh as hbt sb

kè, ̀ he ad tcfy sfp`r`tf drbm tcf ̀ jjrfssbr, tcf satu`tabh wbune kf mugc wbrsf, tc`t tcf –d`many

ahtfjraty' (wcagc bd gbursf ebfs hbt rf`nny fxast ah tcfar nadf) wann –efstrbyfe'.

Mf`hwcanf tcf d`gt as tc`t tcf satu`tabh bd tcf vagtam tìahj tc`t eastbrtabh mfgc`hasm gbhtahufs

eftfrabr`tahj e`y ky e`y, mbhtc ky mbhtc `he yf`r ky yf`r.

Ucas as tcf jrf`tfst e`hjfr! Ucfrf `rf m`hy pfbpnf wcb aefhtadafe kfdbrf ;? `he 7? yf`rs tcf

c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn kut kfgùsf tcf mfgc`hasm bd efha`n `he aef`naz`tabh knurrfe at `he

gbhtahufe navahj ah sfvfrf fgbhbmag `kusf.


20/20

Ucfrfdbrf, kf `w`rf bd tcrff tcahjs hfgfss`ry tb `vbae tcf eastbrtabh `he knurrahj bd rf`naty<

Darst - tcf mbmfht tcf c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn gryst`nnazfs, ybu scbune hbt ajhbrf at, `he ybu

must d`gf tcf rf`naty ah `nn ats sajhadag`hgf.

Wfgbhe - bhgf ybu ̀ rf ̀ w`rf bd tcf c`hewratahj bh tcf w`nn, mfmbrazf at ̀ he rfmahe at tb ybursfnd

fvfry e`y, t`ni `he gbhsunt `kbut at watc rfna`knf pfbpnf, `he tcahi `nn tcf tamf `kbut cbw tb

gc`hjf tcf satu`tabh.

Ucare ‗ kfw`rf br tcf mfgc`hasm bd efha`n `he aef`naz`tabh `he kf `w`rf bd tcf d`gt tc`t tcas

mfgc`hasm as eastbrtabh.

Ucf mfgc`hasm bd „efha`n ̀ he aef`naz`tabh" as hbt tcf bhny efdbrm`tabh mfgc`hasm. @hbtcfr bhf

as tcf mfgc`hasm bd „cbpfnfss bptamasm", wcagc c`ppfhs ah pfbpnf wcb `nw`ys try tb dahe tcf

pbahts bd najct, fvfh ad tcf satu`tabh as cbpfnfss `he sagi drbm tcf jrbuhe up. @gtahj ah

mfgc`hasms naif tcas as ` gbmkah`tabh bd bksfssabh `he fsg`pahj drbm rf`naty.

Aheffe, wcfh cbpfnfss bptamasm fxasts, at gùsfs vfry jrf`t e`m`jf, kfgùsf at „caefs" tcf d`gts

`he rf`naty uhefr tcf surd`gf.

@hbtcfr efdbrm`tabh mfgc`hasm ̀ he n`st ̀ t tcf mbmfht as tcf mfgc`hasm bd „bvfr-pfssamasm".

At as tcf bppbsatf bd tcf mfgc`hasm bd „cbpfnfss bptamasm" mfhtabhfe kfdbrf, kut hbt nfss

efstrugtavf. _fbpnf wcb suddfr drbm bvfr-pfssamasm wann hfvfr kfnafvf ah tcf `kanaty tb mìf `

gc`hjf. Wugc ` pfrsbh as st`tag, d`t`nastag `he prbk`kny wann hbt eb `hytcahj watc tcf c`hewratahj

bh tcf w`nn.

@hbtcfr mfgc`hasm tb kf gbhsaefrfe as tcf d`nsf df`r mfgc`hasm, kut euf tb scbrt sp`gf, wf wann

hbt easguss at ah tcas juaef.

Cbpf tb sff ybu ah my hfxt upgbmahj gbursfs.

Dbr durtcfr qufstabhs, ybu `rf mbst wfngbmf tb wratf tb mf<

C`rfn Wf`n

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