hed positive attitude

8/17/2019 HED Positive Attitude

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POSITIVEATTITUDE


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HOW MUCH DO YOU SEE OF ANICEBERG?

Visible

Invisible(Attitude)

KNOWLEDGEAND SKILLS


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Take this sh!t "ui# t

dete!$ine %hat kind &thinke! 'u a!e

! ea*h state$ent+,lease ans%e! "uestinsas 'u a*tuall' a!e(!athe! than h% 'u

think 'u shuld be)+ anddn-t %!!' i& s$e"uestins see$ t s*!ein the -%!n. di!e*tin/


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ease o e: ways - s!a y " So$et%$es -& Ra'ely - ( a)*Ne+e' -,

When s$ethin. une0,e*ted &!*es'u t *han.e 'u! ,lans+ 'u a!e"ui*k t s,t a hidden advanta.e inthis ne% situatin 1 2

3u like $st & the ,e,le 'u $eet1 2

When 'u think abut ne0t 'ea!+'u tend t think that 'u %ill bebette! 4 than 'u a!e n% 1 2


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Please Note: Always -5 Us!ally " #So$et%$es -& Ra'ely - ( a)*

Ne+e' -, 3u &ten st, t ad$i!e the thin.s & beaut'

1 2

When s$ene 5nds &ault %ith 'u ! %iths$ethin. 'u have dne+ 'u *an tell thedi4e!en*e bet%een use&ul *!iti*is$ and /su!.!a,es-+ %hi*h is bette! i.n!ed 1 2

3u ,!aise 'u! best &!iend $!e &ten than'u *!iti*i#e hi$ ! he! 1 2

3u believe that the hu$an !a*e %ill su!vive%ell int the ne0t *entu!' 1 2

3u a!e su!,!ised %hen a &!iend lets 'u


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Please Note: Always -5 Us!ally " #So$et%$es -& Ra'ely - ( a)*

Ne+e' -, 3u think 'u a!e ha,,' 1 2

3u &eel *$&!table $akin. 'u!sel& the ta!.et& 'u! %n 6kes 1 2

3u believe that+ ve!all+ 'u! state & $ind hashad a ,sitive e4e*t n 'u! ,h'si*al health 12

I& 'u $ade a list & 78 &av!ite ,e,le+ 'u!na$e %uld be the!e n it t 1 2

When 'u think ba*k ve! the ,ast &e% $nths+'u tend t !e$e$be! 'u! su**ess be&!e 'u!setba*ks and &ailu!es 1 2


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S*!in.9 Ttal Pints 1 2

I& the su$ & all the s*!es is9Ao+e 559 :nside! 'u!sel& a su,e!sta! ;

s$ene %h is .%/.ly o0t%$%st%1

52 " 559 E0*ellent 3u a!e a /e)!%)e0os%t%+e t.%)3e'

#5 " 529 Gd 3u a!e a 0os%t%+e t.%)3e'4so$et%$es

#2 " #59 Fa%' 3u! ,sitive side and 'u!ne.ative side a!e evenl' $at*hed

Below #29 3u tend t be 0ess%$%st%1 Think& %a's t be*$e ,ti$isti*


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What is Attitude< Attitude is a ,!e=dis,sitin t !es,nd in a

,sitive ! ne.ative %a' t s$ene !s$ethin. in ne>s envi!n$ent When a ,e!snsa's he likes ! dislikes s$ethin.+ an attitude is

bein. e0,!essed It e0,!esses individuals ,sitive! ne.ative &eelin. abut the sa$e b6e*t

(Schermerhorn)

Is this .lass hal&&ull ! hal& e$,t'<


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FORMA6ION OF A66I6UDE

?Ps'*hl.i*al &a*t!s

?a$il' &a*t!s

?S*ial &a*t!s

?O!.ani#atinal &a*t!s

?E*n$i*al &a*t!s

?Pliti*al &a*t!s


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a &a$us ,e!sn %h%as de&eated seven ti$es

%hile !unnin. &! ,liti*al@*e<

Ab!aha$ Lin*ln%as de&eated in seven

di4e!ent ele*tins 3et he,e!sisted and su**eeded inbe*$in. the 7th+ and ne

& the $st !es,e*ted+,!esidents & the UnitedStates


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a *a!tnist %h%as tld b' the edit!

& the Kansas :it'ne%s,a,e!+ BIt>s eas't see &!$

these sket*hes that

'u have n talentCWalt Disne'9 %as 5!ed &!$a ne%s,a,e! 6b e%und u, din. vluntee!%!k &! a *hu!*h in an ld

!un d%n .a!a.e One da'he de*ided t sket*h ne& the $an' $i*e that%e!e !unnin. th!u.h the.a!a.e This $use

be*a$e the &a$us


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an auth! %hse 5!st *hild!en>s bk

%as !e6e*ted b' F di4e!ent ,ublishe!s<

D! Seuss9 T%ent'=th!ee

di4e!ent ,ublishe!s!e6e*ted his 5!st bk+%hile the FHth a**e,tedand sld $illin

*,ies & it


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a &a$us sin.e! %h %as 5!ed a&te! his5!st ,e!&!$an*e at the G!and Ole O,!'


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a 7a$o!s a1t'ess w.o *'o00e* o!t o7

.%/. s1.ool a)* .el* a +a'%ety o7 o** 8os

Wh,i Gldbe!.d!,,ed ut & hi.hs*hl+ %!ked as ab!i*kla'e! and li*ensed*s$eti*ian A&te!.!aduatin. &!$ Jeaut'

:lle.e+ she tk a 6b ata $!tua!' 50in. the hai!and a,,l'in. $ake=u, t

the *!,ses


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a &a$us auth! %h lived n %el&a!e &! 'ea!s in

an a,a!t$ent in&ested %ith $i*e<

K %lin.auth! & the a!!'Ptte! se!ies+ lived &!'ea!s+ in an a,a!t$entin&ested %ith $i*e+

and %as !e6e*ted b'7F ,ublishe!s be&!e.in. n t &a$e and&!tune


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a 7a$o!s at.lete w.o was 1!t 7'o$ t.e +a's%ty as3etall tea$ %) .%/. s1.ool?M%1.ael 9o'*a)

was t.e at.lete w.o was 1!t 7'o$t.e +a's%ty as3etall tea$ A)/'ya)* e$a''asse*4 .e e/a) to /et!0 ea'ly ea1. $o')%)/ to 0'a1t%1ew%t. t.e 8!)%o' +a's%ty 1oa1.

E+e)t!ally .e )ot o)ly $a*e t.e+a's%ty tea$4 !t also e1a$e o)eo7 t.e $ost 0o0!la' at.letes %) t.ewo'l* M%1.ael 9o'*a) %s !ote* assay%)/4 ;I .a+e $%sse* $o'e t.a)


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a) %)+e)to' w.o was t.'ow) o!t o7 s1.ool %) t.e ea'ly/'a*es e1a!se .%s tea1.e's t.o!/.t .e 1o!l*)t lea')?

6.o$as Al+a E*%so)was t.e %)+e)to' w.o was3%13e* o!t o7 s1.oolFollow%)/ t.%s4 .e was.o$es1.oole* y .%s$ot.e' It too3 .%$ o+e'

@22 t'%es e7o'e .e /ott.e la$e)t '%/.t 7o' t.el%/.t !l E*%so) %s!ote* as say%)/: ;I .a+e)ot 7a%le* se+e) .!)*'e*

t%$es I .a+e )ot 7a%le*o)1e I .a+e s!11ee*e* %)0'o+%)/ t.at t.ose se+e).!)*'e* ways w%ll )otwo'3 W.e) I .a+e

el%$%)ate* t.e ways t.atw%ll )ot wo'34 I w%ll )*


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a 7a$o!s Ha'+a'* U)%+e's%ty *'o0 o!t?

Ma'3 !13e'e'/ -*'o00e* o!t o7Ha'+a'*

U)%+e's%ty Hewe)t o)to e1o$et.e yo!)/est$%ll%o)a%'e at t.e

a/e o7 (= a)* %st.e CEO o7Fa1eoo3


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a) %)+e)to' o7 a 7'%e* 1.%13e) 'e1%0e t.atwas 'e8e1te* y $o'e t.a) ,222 'esta!'a)t

ow)e's?a!land David Sande!s(bette! kn%n as :lnelSande!s) had his &!ied

*hi*ken !e*i,e !e6e*tedb' $!e than 7+888!estau!ant %ne!sbe&!e it %as a**e,tedb' ne Tda'+ ,e,lestill eat it at K:s a*!ssthe %!ld


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Pos%t%+e s Ne/at%+e Att%t!*ePos%t%+eatt%t!*eSeein. b!i.ht side &

li&eE0,e*tin. the best t

ha,,en

und in ,e,le %ith

sunn' + ,sitiveutlk in li&e

It is a state & $ind%!th devel,in.

Ne/at%+e att%t!*eSeein. the da!k side

& li&e

E0,e*tin. the %!se

t ha,,enund in hstile

disa.!eeable ,e,le

It is state & $indthat needs t beavided


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Ne.ative attitude• A )e/at%+e att%t!*e %s 1.a'a1te'%e* y a

/'eat *%s*a%) 7o' e+e'yt.%)/

• So$eo)e w.o 1o)sta)tly 0o%)ts o!t t.e

)e/at%+e %) e+e'yt.%)/• A )e/at%+e att%t!*e %s 1o)ta/%o!s a)*

t.e'e7o'e a+o%*%)/ 0eo0le w%t. o)e %s t.eest way o7 0'e+e)t%o)

• O)1e yo! .a+e a )e/at%+e att%t!*e4 yo!w%ll !)l%3ely e ale to 'e1o+e' a)* sel77!lll%)/ ta3es a .ol*


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6.e Powe' o7 Pos%t%+e Att%t!*eee0 yo!' t.o!/.ts 0os%t%+ee1a!se yo!' t.o!/.ts

e1o$e yo!' wo'*see0 yo!' wo'*s 0os%t%+e

e1a!se yo!' wo'*s e1o$eyo!' e.a+%o'

ee0 yo!' e.a+%o' 0os%t%+e

e1a!se yo!' e.a+%o'e1o$es yo!' .a%ts

ee0 yo!' .a%ts 0os%t%+ee1a!se yo!' .a%tse1o$es yo!' +al!es

ee0 yo!' +al!es 0os%t%+ee1a!se yo!' +al!ese1o$es yo!' *est%)y

Ma.at$a Ga)*.%


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%7es %ttle J!est%o)%7es %ttle J!est%o)

“Are some people just born

positivethinkers

. . . or is it their

CHOICE?”


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Vide


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Winne!s a.ainst all dds


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YOU

Beware the Bullets

But sta ositive!

Beware the Bullets

But sta ositive!

Negative Work

Environment

Past

Experiences

O t h e r P e o p l e ’ s

e h a v i o r

Ouch!


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@ R!les o7Pos%t%+e

6.%)3%)/


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M7 Wait T W!!'

O)ly KL o7 w.at wewo''y ao!t 1o$es

t'!e

M F D l Th


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M F Devel, The

Attitude O& G!atitudeee0%)/ t.e /'at%t!*e

to yo!'sel7 %sl%3e w'a00%)/ t.e /%7ta)* )ot 0'ese)t%)/ %t

M 3 lth I


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M 3u! ealth Is

3u! Wealth6a3e t%$e to ee'1%se4

1at1. !0 o) yo!' slee0a)* eat '%/.t


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M 9' b$e!an.sDo so$et.%)/ 7o'

so$eo)e else6.e /oo* yo! *o

1o$es a13 to yo!

M K Wh T


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M Kn% When T

Sa' BNCI7 yo! always say

;yes> to 0lease0eo0le yo! '!) t.e

'%s3 o7 so!''elat%o)s.%0 t.a)w.e) yo! sa%* ;)o>

M U d t d th


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M Unde!stand the

,%e! & dis*i,lineI7 yo! *%s1%0l%)e

yo!'sel74 yo! w%lle)8oy t.e 7'!%t t.e

l%7e t%$e


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S%$0le t%0save &aith in 'u!sel& and inthe P%e! & the Unive!se

Ass*iate 'u!sel& %ithha,,' ,e,le

ead ins,i!in. st!ies

ead ins,i!in. "utes


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S%$0le t%0s:hse t be ha,,' it is a$atte! & *hi*e

Lk at the b!i.ht side & li&e:hse t be and sta'

,ti$isti*ind !easns t s$ile $!e&ten


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S%$0le t%0se,eat a@!$atins that ins,i!eand $tivate 'u

Visuali#e nl' %hat 'u %ant tha,,en

Lea!n t $aste! 'u! thu.htsLea!n *n*ent!atin and$editatin


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Psitive *$$uni*atinDo)t Do

:$,lain E0,!ess a,,!e*iatin

Tea! ,e,le d%n Juild ,e,le u,

I.n!e ,e,le G!eet ,e,le

Take ,e,le &! .!anted Tell ,e,le the' a!evalued

Lau.h at s$ene Lau.h %ith s$ene

Pint ut thin.s that a!e%!n.

:eleb!ate the thin.s thata!e !i.ht

Je sa!*asti* Je sin*e!e

Je st!ai.ht &a*e s$ile


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ealth bene5ts

• In*!eased li&e s,an

• L%e! !ates & de,!essin

• L%e! levels & dist!ess

• G!eate! !esistan*e t the *$$n *ld• Jette! ,s'*hl.i*al and ,h'si*al %ell=bein.

• edu*ed !isk & death &!$ *a!divas*ula!disease

• Jette! *,in. skills du!in. ha!dshi,s andti$es & st!ess


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A ,sitive utlk hel, t *,e u, bette! %ithst!ess

edu*e the ha!$&ul health e4e*ts & st!ess

Psitive Q ,ti$isti* ,e,le live a health' li&e

Psitive thinkin. sta!t %ith sel& talkI& 'u believe 'u a!e din. e0*ellent s a!e

'uRR


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G!u, A*tivit'9 G!u, Si#e t HEa*h .!u, shuld have ne sheet & ,a,e! titled+

BPe,le %ith .d attitudesC+

n %hi*h the' %!ite the %!d+ BATTITUDEC+ .in. d%n

the le&t side ! the 5!st ,a!t & this a*tivit'+ student.!u,s %ill think & all the *ha!a*te!isti*s & a ,e!sn%ith a .d attitude %ithin $inutes The' shuld%!ite thse *ha!a*te!isti*s in senten*es that be.in%ith ea*h lette! & the %!d ATTITUDE+ as in this

e0a$,le9A9 Al%a's sees the best in ,e,le and situatins

T9 Ttall' *ntent %ith %hat the' have

T9 Takes ti$e t Bst, and s$ell the !sesC


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N% assi.n at least & these "uestins t ea*h student .!u,9

7List s$ene 'u kn% %h *nsistentl' has a ,sitive attitude Wh'

d the'<

F List s$ene 'u kn% %h *nsistentl' has a ne.ative attitude

What thin.s in thei! li&e *ause this ne.ative attitude<

% *an 'u have a .d attitude+ even %hen thin.s a!en>t .in.

'u! %a'<

HDes a .d attitude de,end n the a$unt & lu*k 'u>ve had!e*entl'< Wh'<

I& 'u *uld+ %hat *i!*u$stan*es %uld 'u like t *han.e in 'u! li&e

t hel, 'u have a bette! attitude<


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Pe,le %ith .d attitudes en6' li&e $!e than,e,le %ith ne.ative attitudes Wh'<

I& a &!iend has a ne.ative attitude abut eve!'thin.+%hat a!e th!ee thin.s 'u *an d t hel, the$ *han.ethei! attitude<

What a!e th!ee %a's t avid ! ve!*$e ane.ative attitude %hen 'u *an>t *nt!l a ne.ativeenvi!n$ent ! bad *i!*u$stan*es<


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Ga$e: E)*-o7-t.e-Wo'l* Deate

• T% ,la'e!s a!e in a debate Jth ,la'e!s !e,!esentthe sa$e ,e!sn+ nl' o)e %s %) t.e $%*st o7 .a'*t%$es and t.e ot.e' %s *eat%)/ 7'o$ t.e

7!t!'e• When the 5!st ,la'e! sa's I lst $' 6b+ I-$ neve!

.in. t 5nd anthe! ne that ,a's $e %hat I-$%!th+ this is te!!ible The *ha!a*te! &!$ the &utu!e*an sa' 3u &und a bette! 6b and .t ,aid $!e

• The ,u!,se & the .a$e is t 5nd ,sitive ut*$es&! situatins that $a' see$ ne.ative Like thesa'in. .es as ne d! *lses+ anthe! ne ,ens


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A*tivit' 9 le Pla'I)te'+%ew S1'%0t , Pos%t%+e:BGd $!nin.+ $' na$e is 1! ! s2 and I %ill be

*ndu*tin. 'u! inte!vie% this $!nin.C

E0tend 'u! hand t shake hands %ith the a,,li*ant

BPlease have a seatC

BWe a!e inte!vie%in. &! the ,sitin & a !estau!ant hsthstess We a!elkin. &! s$ene %ith .d *ust$e! se!vi*e and *$$uni*atin skills+s$ene %h is de,endable and .ets aln. %ith the!s This ,e!sn %ill be the5!st ,e!sn t .!eet .uests %hen the' *$e int u! !estau!ant+ s it is ve!'i$,!tant t us that the hst dis,la's a ,sitive and %el*$in. attitudeC

BN%+ I have s$e "uestins t ask 'uC


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A*tivit' 9 le Pla'INTEVIEWEE S:IPT (Ne.ative)F This ve!sin & the inte!vie% shuld be ve!=

the=t, BbadC The *andidate shuld bed!essed ina,,!,!iatel'+ %ea!in. sun.lasses+*he%in. .u$+ dis,la'in. ,! ,stu!e+dis!.ani#ed+ late+ et*

In &a*t+ the inte!vie%ee desn>t ,a' attentin%hen the inte!vie%e! be.ins ; and desn>t!eali#e that the inte!vie%e! 4e!ed t shakehands be*ause heshe %as t bus' ,uttin. a*ell ,hne in hishe! ,*ket


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Inte!vie% S*!i,tPos%t%+e Ne/at%+e9BDid 'u b!in. a *,' &

'u! !esu$ea$)+ I did

13u ,en u, a &lde! 'ub!u.ht %ith 'u t the

inte!vie% (%he!e 'uhave *,ies & 'u!!esu$e) 3u hand ne*,' t the inte!vie%e!2

9BDid 'u b!in. a *,' &'u! !esu$e


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Pos%t%+e Ne/at%+e

9BTell $e a little bit abut'u!sel&C

I have lived in 1'u! *it' !state2 all & $' li&e+ I lve bein.a!und ,e,le+ and I lvelea!nin. ne% thin.s i.ht n%+I>$ lea!nin. a ne% lan.ua.ebe*ause I think it is i$,!tant

t be able t*$$uni*ate %ith a va!iet' &,e,le I als like din. ,h'si*al%!k and en6' .a!denin. and

lands*a,in.

9 BTell $e a little bitabut 'u!sel&C

Well+ I>ve been takin. alittle ti$e 4 latel' ;t!avelin. a!und theUnited States I>$ t!'in. t.et ne tatt &!$ eve!'state I>ve al!ead' .t a,!ett' .d sta!t+ see<

1Sh% the inte!vie%e!'u! a!$2


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Pos%t%+e Ne/at%+e

9BWhat a!e 'u! st!en.ths$ a !eall' .d listene!

Dn>t .et $e %!n.+ I>$ a.d talke! t+ but I thinklistenin. skills a!e even $!ei$,!tant I>$ als a .d!.ani#e! It desn>t $ake

an' di4e!en*e i& it is!.ani#in. $' *lset ! a t!i,%ith $' &a$il' I lve all the,lannin. and !.ani#in. that.es int it

9BWhat a!e 'u!st!en.ths


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Pos%t%+eNe/at%+e

9BWhat a!e 'u! %eaknessest st!ess ut at allbe*ause I have a .d idea &%hat t d ne0t

9BWhat a!e 'u!%eaknessest think &an'thin. Oh 'eah+ I have a%eakness &! i*e *!ea$ Ibet I *uld eat an enti!e.alln in ne sittin. I als

like t slee, late eall'+ I>$$u*h $!e & a ni.ht %lthan an ea!l' bi!d Su!e theea!l' bi!d .ets the %!$+ but%h %ants %!$s an'%a'<


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Pos%t%+e Ne/at%+e

9BWh' d 'u %ant t %!khe!ed .et t $eet eve!',e!sn that %alks th!u.hthe d! 3u! !estau!ant has

a .d !e,utatin &! "ualit'&d and se!vi*e and that>sthe t',e & !estau!ant I>d be,!ud t %!k in I think $'"ualities %ill 5t ni*el' he!e

9BWh' d 'u %ant t

%!k he!ed be able t .et

&!ee $eals i& I %!ked &! a!estau!ant Plus+ I>$ livin.at h$e %ith $' $$and she %ants $e t ,a'!ent%h'+ I dn>t kn%


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Pos%t%+e Ne/at%+e

9BTell $e abut 'u! !e*ent 6bC

I %!ked in a *a&ete!ia I .t

t $eet a lt & ,e,leS$e da's %e!e easie! thanthe!s I set a .al &! $'sel&

t s$ile at eve!'ne I $et+es,e*iall' thse ,e,le %hsee$ed u,set ! de,!essedIt $a' see$ like a b!in. 6bt s$e ,e,le but nt $e

9BTell $e abut 'u!!e*ent 6bC

Uh+ the last 6b I had %as

at a s,!tin. .ds st!e That %as a %hile a.+thu.h ; and it didn>t lastt ln.


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Pos%t%+eNe/at%+e

9BWh' did 'u leave that,sitint d bth studiesand %!k at the sa$eti$e

9BWh' did 'u leave that,sitint al%a's see e'e t e'eS$eti$es *ust$e!s %e!e,!ett' !ude

%hen %e didn>t have the s,!tse"ui,$ent the' %anted and$' $ana.e! e0,e*ted $e tbe ni*e t these ,e,le %henthe' *lea!l' didn>t dese!ve itLet>s 6ust sa' I le&t b' $utuala.!ee$ent


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Pos%t%+eNe/at%+e9BD 'u have an'

"uestins &! $ed ask i& 'u havea

t!ainin. ,!.!a$ 'u ,ut'u! sta4 th!u.h ta*hieve that<

9BD 'u have an'"uestins &! $e


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Pos%t%+e

Je&!e 'u leave9

I als have a list & !e&e!en*es

&! 'u1and the inte!vie%e! a sheet

& ,a,e!2

Thank 'u &! the

inte!vie% it %as a ,leasu!e t$eet 'u

1O4e! a ,!&essinal+ 5!$handshake ; and a s$ile2


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Vide


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Watch your definitions -they become thoughts

Watch your thoughts -

they become words Watch your words -

they become actions

Watch your actions -they become your destiny

Watch your definitions -they become thoughts

Watch your thoughts -

they become words Watch your words -

they become actions

Watch your actions -they become your destiny

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B3u *annt tail!=$ake thesituatins in li&e but 'u *antail!=$ake the attitudes t 5t

thse situatinsCXi. Xi.la!


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6.e C.o%1e %s YOURS6.e C.o%1e %s YOURS

W%t. a Ne/at%+e att%t!*eyo! 1a) )e+e' .a+e a

0os%t%+e *ay W%t. a Pos%t%+e att%t!*e yo!1a) )e+e' .a+e a a* *ay


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Let>s *n*ludeEa*h da' %hen %e .et u,

t .et u! da' sta!ted %e*an *hse t have a

,sitive ! ne.ativeattitude Ou! attitude %illhave a hu.e i$,a*t nu! dail' su**ess !&ailu!e Ea*h da' %hen

'u lk in the $i!!!*hse t have a ,sitiveattitude Su**ess %ill&ll%


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T su$ u,Y

hed positive attitude

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