healthy relationships - conflict resolution pt.3
DESCRIPTION
Healthy Relationships is a program that assists students in divorcing the past to advance into the future. Many of the issues faced by our youth are associated with one event or a series past of events. This training allows students to detach themselves from those circumstances in order to see a clear picture of what a healthy relationship looks like.TRANSCRIPT
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Healthy Healthy RelationshipsRelationshipsMa rch 4, 2 0 1 3Ma rch 4, 2 0 1 3
Co nflic t Re -Co nflic t Re -So lutio nSo lutio n
(The Fig ht Within)(The Fig ht Within)
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Summary Re-View• We Re-Solve c o nflic t by be ing honest with o urs e lve s .• We will ha ve m uch ins ta bility in o ur future s if we a lwa y s g e t wha t we
wa nt NOW.• So m e o ne ha s to win a nd s o m e o ne ha s to lo s e . Bo th p a rtie s c a nno t win
in a c o nflic t s itua tio n.• The ro o t o f c o nflic t is sELFISHNESS, “What I say goes cause I am in
control. ”
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PURPOSEPURPOSE
Divorcing the past to advance into the future.
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Conflict• The fight we have with the past is a self-
affliction. We ha ve be e n to rn be twe e n two lo ve rs (Our future and the past) be c a us e we ha ve a te nd e nc y to be INDECISIVE. What does this mean?
We s a y o ne thing a nd d o a no the r thing CON-TRARY to wha t we s p o ke .
The past will put us to SLEEP resulting in CONFLICT.
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CSS Topic ~ Information Management• There are OPINIONS• There are FACTS
And there is the TRUTH!
TRUTH MINIMIZES CONFLICT.
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We m a na g e info rm a tio n a c c o rd ing to OUR NEEDS, NOT OUR WANTS (or desires).
The s a fe s t wa y to m a na g e info rm a tio n is by THE TRUTH be c a us e the truth NEVER CHANGES.
The key that will unlock the door of
Success is PRIORITY.
MAKE THIS DECISION NOW!
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YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE!We a re no t to a llo w unidentified p e o p le into o urho m e s (lives). If the y want a c c e s s the y NEED to c a llbe fo re the y c o m e . Then….1 . Ring the door bell or knock on the door : Alerts us someone wants to
come in.2. Look through the keyhole – ID the person; Let them in if we trust them.
They must wait in order for us to let them in (TRUST).3. Take off your shoes : You will not bring dirt into our house. REMAIN
IN THE FRONT ROOM!
Everyone and everything should knock or ring the doorbell before entering the
house (our lives).
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Past vs Purpose
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Summary The fight we have with the past is a self-affliction. TRUTH MINIMIZES CONFLICT. We m a na g e info rm a tio n a c c o rd ing to OUR NEEDS, NOT OUR WANTS (or
desires). The s a fe s t wa y to m a na g e info rm a tio n is by THE TRUTH be c a us e the truth
NEVER CHANGES.
Everyone and everything should knock or ring the doorbell before entering thehouse (our lives).