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Healthy Healthy RelationshipsRelationshipsFe brua ry 1 1 , Fe brua ry 1 1 ,
2 0 1 32 0 1 3Co nflic t Re -Co nflic t Re -
So lutio nSo lutio n(The Fig ht Within)(The Fig ht Within)
PURPOSEPURPOSEDivorcing the past to advance into the
future.
“IF WE ARE FOCUSED ON THE FUTURE, WE HAVE NO TIME TO FLIRT WITH THE PAST.”
CONFLICT
Conflict begins and ends with US, as INDIVIDUALS. We have ENTIRELY TOO MANY ARGUMENTS WITHIN OURSELVES. These ARGUMENTS don’t allow us to hear and TRUST ANYONE WHO IS ATTEMPTING TO GUIDE US IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION.
OUR FUTURE THE PAST
Going to the show.
Do you hear strange voices at times?The vo ic e o f the p a s t is the vo ic e o f FAMILIA-RITY; At tim e s
thevo ic e o f the p a s t is lo ud e r tha n the vo ic e o f the future
be c a us e welike to be c o m fo rta ble a nd d o wha t fe e ls g o o d to us .
Everythingthat tastes good is not good for us.
When my mind changes, my will and emotions will change.
My Mind ~ WHAT I THINK My Will ~ WHAT I WANT My Emotions ~ HOW I FEEL
Re-SOLUTION
• A Re-Solution is an issue THAT HAS ALREADY BEEN SOLVED BY SOMEONE ELSE.
This is a problem that has already been solved by someone else.
Someone taught us how to solve the problem therefore when we
encounter this SAME problem it must be re-solved by us.
A two year old does not know THE ANSWER to this problem nor
does he understand why this problem needs to be RE-SOLVED.
Been There, Done That.
Wisdom Key: We do not have to think about problems or issues that have already been solved by OTHERS.
Summary• Co nflic t be g ins a nd e nd s with US, a s INDIVIDUALS. • A Re -So lutio n is a n is s ue THAT HAS ALREADY BEEN SOLVED BY
SOMEONE ELSE.• The vo ic e o f the p a s t is the vo ic e o f FAMILIA-RITY; At times the• voice of the past is louder than the voice of the future.• Whe n m y m ind cha ng e s , m y will a nd e m o tio ns will cha ng e .