godly homes in an ungodly world - 14 maintaining godly homes
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Godly Homes in an Ungodly World - 14
Maintaining Godly Homes
WE have discussed
• What is the home• The purpose of
marriage• Preparations for
marriage• Various roles within
the home
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Problems• Problems WILL arise – clashes in
personalities, with society & needs
• How we handle these situations will determine how strong and godly our homes will be
• God’s word gives guidance in dealing with problems
Types of problems• Poor communication – 1 Pet. 3:7• Finances – Matt. 6:24• Worldliness – 1 John 2:15-17,
Jas. 4:1-4• Improper attitudes – cf. Eph.
4:26• The “rut” – everyday routine• Infidelity – Heb. 13:4
Types of problems• Poor communication – 1 Pet. 3:7• Finances – Matt. 6:24• Worldliness – 1 John 2:15-17,
Jas. 4:1-4• Improper attitudes – cf. Eph.
4:26• The “rut” – everyday routine• Infidelity – Heb. 13:4
Dealing with problems• Each problem has its own unique
solution
• Seek first the kingdom of God – Matt. 6:33, Psalm 127:1
• Address them – ignoring problems usually makes the worse
cf. 1 Cor. 5:6
Dealing with problems• HONESTLY evaluate yourself –
few problems are unilateral. How are you handling the problem?
• Note: I am not to blame yourself when others are guilty (i.e. being manipulated) – just acknowledge your part if it is there!
Dealing with problems• BE accountable – take
responsibility for your conduct – Rom. 14:12, Gal. 6:5
• Maintain a godly attitude – meditate on things that are godly.
cf. Eph. 4:26, Phil. 2:14, 4:8
Dealing with problems• Build on your strengths – find the
good in yourself and others and start there – 1 Cor. 13:5-6
• Be patient – marriage/parenting is a marathon, not a sprint! Solutions take time 1 Cor. 13:4, Jas. 2:4,
Luke 21:19
Dealing with problems• Learn to fight fair – Don’t “pile
on” or “save up” problems, know where the line is you cannot cross, cool off, etc.
“As unto the Lord”• At times we will ALL fail. Not
everyone wants to do right.• What if my spouse/child/parent is
not doing their part?• Realize that YOU are accountable
for you! Do your part “as unto the Lord” Eph. 5:22, 25, Col. 3:23
“As unto the Lord”• In the home:• Do what you are supposed to do
with all your might• Often times our conduct is a
RESPONSE to what we expect of the other person
• Someone has to stop the cycle of trouble - what not me?
“As unto the Lord”• Their sin - Does not excuse your
accountability – Rom. 14:12, 2 Cor. 5:10
• Let THIS be your motivation to do the right thing!
• Often times this conduct leads to a good response by the other party
“As unto the Lord”• BUT, if everyone lives “as unto
the Lord” there is NOTHING that can keep a home from being godly and THRIVING!
A taste of heaven• Gen. 2:24 – The home began
with God’s institution• Much of what we read about our
relationship with God is equated to the home
A taste of heaven• Eph. 2:19, Gal. 6:10 - The
“household of God”• “Children of God” – Phil. 2:15, 1
John 3:1-2• He is our Father – Matt. 5:16,
6:9, 14• He chastens us as children –
Heb. 12:5-11
A taste of heaven• “Adoption as sons” - Gal. 4:5,
Eph. 1:5• Husband/wife compared to Christ
and His church – Eph. 5:22-33• “Betrothed” to Christ– 2 Cor. 11:2• The New Jerusalem, bride of the
Lamb – Rev. 21:2, 9, 19:7, 22:17
God’s directions for the home is no accident! In
heaven, we will experience relationship
with Him and one another. We will be “one
big happy family”
May we strive to make our homes as close to God’s
will as we can!