gender-ational management: what to do when they ain’t like you!
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GENDER-ATIONAL MANAGEMENT: What to do when they ain’t like you!. Lynn Anderson CRMC, CDMC, MIW Lynn Anderson Media [email protected] August 30, 2010. Shifting Workplace Balance. Do These People Look Like You, Your Boss or Your Employees?. The New You. - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
GENDER-ATIONAL MANAGEMENT:What to do when they ain’t like you!
Lynn AndersonCRMC, CDMC, MIW
Lynn Anderson [email protected]
August 30, 2010
Shifting Workplace Balance
Do These People Look Like You, Your Boss or Your Employees?
• By the end of the year 2000…• “Women for the first time, account
for the majority of American workers.”
• 40% of all Women over 18 are unmarried
• Single Parent Families– United States Department of Labor
• Changes for Working Men
US Census 2010: How Will It Change?
Attitudes: Home and Family
• “Family is a greater priority since 9/11” - 69%
• “Increased appreciation for my family…” - 80%
• “Feel less safe in my own home” - 28%
Source: NFO/American Demographics, 1/8/08
Values, Attitudes and Lifestyles
Return to “Core Values”• Family• Community
– Service & Charity
• Integrity– Honesty & Sacrifice
Balance– work/life– self– leisure
Authenticity Security
J. Walter Smith, Yankelovich MONITOR, Dec. 2008: Trying to Get Back to Business as Usual in Trying Times.
Source: DYG Scan / Yankelovich 2001
Core Values
Life Stage
Gender
The Intersection of:
Source: DYG Scan / Yankelovich 2001
Core Values
Life Stage
Gender
Generational Communication:
Knowing Who Your Employees Are And How To Talk To Them Is Critical To Their Success…and Yours!
Boomer Gen X Gen Y
Generation, Age, Attitudes
According To A July 2010 Harris Poll, To Save Money…
• People 65+ dropped the newspaper and cut back on dry cleaning
• 46-64 year olds dropped dry cleaning
• 34-45 year olds went to brown bagging
• 18-33 year olds stopped buying morning “coffee”
“Help!!! I have a bunch of ‘boomers’ on my staff…and I
sure don’t understand them!”
The “Forever Young” Baby Boomers
(1944-1961) 40 - 57
Born 1945-1964
• “Baby boomers will be teen-agers to the end of their days”• Boomers will never think of
themselves as Seniors• Sons and Daughters of the Mothers and Fathers of WWII… and may be caring for them now• Many with 2nd or 3rd marriages,
families, careers• “Set” in their ways?
The “Forever Young” Baby Boomers
Phil Goodman: Boomers: The Ageless Generation
• Live incredibly hurried lifestyles and IMPATIENT
• Job security, work longer, put off retirement
• First generation of “Dual Incomes”• Female working outside the home• Dawn of need for Child Care…and
combo Child Parent Care!• Realize need for paradigm shifts,
work at it
The “Forever Young” Baby Boomers (Con’t)
MOTIVATE THEM
The “Forever Young” Baby Boomers
(1944-1961) 40 - 57
• Respect• “Youthful” Agendas• SERVICES
“Help!!! I’m A ‘Boomer’ Manager,
and I can’t find any Gen Xers [born 1965-1979]
or Gen Yers [born after 1980]
who want to work as hard as I do!”
The “Always Cool” Gen X’ers
(1962-1976) 25 - 39
Born 1965-1979
The “Always Cool” Gen X’ers (1962-1976) 25 - 39
• “Gen X’ers define ‘cool’ and everyone else follows” Bob Rosner, Career Magazines
• Grown up in different world, different values, skills
• Great understanding of the internet
The “Always Cool” Gen X’ers (1962-1976) 25 - 39
• Strong need for self-expression • Crave information and seem to be
comfortable with information overload
• Don’t value job security, little loyalty to “job” …but a lot to the “boss!”
• Give them lots of chances to learn, redefine paradigms
Core Values• Self reliant• Own Agenda• Practical• Reactive• Modest• Survival obsessed• Authentic-oriented• Street wiseSource: DYG SCAN, Yankelovich 2001
The “Always Cool” Gen X’ers (1962-1976) 25 - 39
Gen Xers (born 1965-1979)• Grew up in the era of video games and personal
computers
• They are also painfully familiar with the price many Baby Boomers paid for focusing mainly on a career: high divorce rates and poor family relationships.
• As such, Gen-Xers do not see work as the most important thing in their lives, even though they themselves were often pampered.
Gen Xers (born 1965-1979)
• In addition, after seeing how their parents were laid off despite their hard work and loyalty to the company they served,
• Gen-Xers are prone to move from one employer to another in search of better benefits, professional growth and personal fulfillment.
• As employees, they are motivated more by
personal satisfaction with their jobs rather than overtime pay and career advancements, but…
Gen Xers (born 1965-1979)• As long as they are involved and learning and
contributing, they'll stay. Pay for performance may work too.
• Give them more money to go along with those bigger challenges.
• So how do you improve the relationship?
Gen Xers (born 1965-1979)• One trait that is shared by almost all Gen Xers
is, they like to explore and problem-solve on their own.
• So, to get the best results from them, you can tell them what you want them to do, but don't tell them how to do it. They want to figure that out themselves.
• If you work on improving that one-on-one relationship, you can eliminate a lot of problems that lead to high turnover.
Gen Xers (born 1965-1979)• Set clear deadlines for tangible results.
• Treat Xers' questions as opportunities to teach.
• Give them freedom to manage their own time and work; avoid micromanaging.
• Provide opportunities to interact with others; Xers work well in teams.
• Expect Xers to thrive in corporate cultures that value the individual.
Gen Xers (born 1965-1979)• Support the quest to learn and improve skills.
They see their resume--not the system--as their ticket to job security.
• Provide constant feedback that is specific and accurate.
• BE FLEXIBLE! To them, as long as their work gets done, it shouldn’t matter whether they come in at 10:30am today or leave at 3:30pm tomorrow, as long as they complete their projects within the agreed time frame.
• Celebrate successes!
MOTIVATE THEM• Expressions of individuality• THINGS
– Surprise: Investments!– “How would you spend an unexpected $50K”
Invest in future 55% Down pay home 11% Buy new car 7% Vacation 7%
Pay credit card bills 6% Go on Shopping Spree
6% Other 8%
Source: USA Today: Greenfield Online for MainStay Mutual Funds, May 2008
The “Always Cool” Gen X’ers
Young Adults “Wired” Generation Y, Echo, Millennials
(1977 - 1983) 18-24
Born After 1980
Young Adults “Wired” Generation Y, Echo, Millennials
(1977 - 1983) 18-24• Expectations:– Information is everywhere–Personal information has value–Choice is a Human right, individuality rules– There IS such a thing as a “free lunch”–Building trust doesn’t require face-to-face
interaction• No need for “paradigm shifts”…they never had
them!
Young Adults “Wired” Generation Y, Echo, Millennials
(1977 - 1983) 18-24
• “Y Generation internalizes net - online technology” Forrester Research
• Lifestyle and attitude is defined by technology
Core Values• Self-absorbed• Entitlement mentality• Entertainment-oriented• Fun obsessed• “Whatever”• Self-confident• Instinct-oriented
Source: DYG SCAN, Yankelovich 2001
Young Adults “Wired” Generation Y, Echo, Millenials
Young Adults “Wired”Generation Y, Echo, Millenials
“This is the largest, healthiest, most pampered generation in history.
They were expected to spend their spare time making the varsity team, not working part-time.
Their parents showed their love by staying late at the office to bring home more money.
The children expect to be home for dinner. Career dominance, their thinking goes, can be achieved by 5 p.m., can’t it?”
-- Clair Raines, noted generational expert and author
Gen X / Gen Y EmployeesMyth: They don't want to grow up.Reality: They really don't know how.
* Facing a delayed adulthood. * Getting married, having children later* Generally facing the “real world” later.
Why: Boomers partially responsible: As Parents:* coddle their children * Use their own good fortune = no adversity for
children
As career models * toll of working long hours & “paying one's dues* children corporate ladder = “there must be
another way.”
Myth: They have no respect for authority.
Reality: They have great respect for leaders * Don't respect authority “just
because.”
Why: Loyalty and respect must be earned. *When it is earned, it is given fiercely.
* Loyalty to the individual is the number one reason these people stay in the job.
Gen X / Gen Y Employees
Myth: They don't want to put in the hours to get ahead.Reality: They are willing to put in the time to do the job,
Why: View time as a currency not to be wasted
* Baby Boomers see time as something to invest, * Demand work-life balance and paid time off.
* Get the job done, put it behind them, enjoy life.
Boomer = lose the interest of these employees by looking too far into the future.
Gen X & Y= Live in timeframe based on
right now.
Gen X / Gen Y Employees
Check Out Clair Raines – this woman KNOWS her generations!
MOTIVATE THEM• Everything that embraces diversity• Flexibility
Source: DYG SCAN, Yankelovich 2001
Young Adults “Wired” Generation Y, Echo, Millennials
(1977 - 1983) 18-24
Gender
Differences!!!
Now…can we talk…
There is a world of difference between facts and truth.
Facts can obscure the truth.
Maya Angelou
• Men being paid more than women for the same job.
• Women not being included in certain company-sponsored activities, such as golf outings.
• Women being passed over for promotions.
• Men not being able to listen
• Men not being expressive with their feelings Joan Runnheim, Monster Career Advisor and president of Pathways Career Success Strategies,
DON’T LET PAST STEREOTYPES PARALYZE YOU
Get Past Stereotypes
• "Women tend to take things more personally; thus, you can't figure you're going to give her criticism and then she'll want to go out (for happy hour).”
• Respect is more important than control. "Men are often more comfortable in hierarchical situations.“
• Women should not be afraid of taking command. They don’t have to be liked to be respected."
Joan Runnheim, Monster Career Advisor and president of Pathways Career Success Strategies,
Gender Differences in Managing and Manipulating Others’ Feelings and Behaviors
• 219 undergrads participated- 150 female, 69 male, ages 18-49. Given tests on the ability to change people’s feelings AND behavior
• Findings: Women scored much higher than men in the ability to get others to change feelings and slightly higher in getting others to change behavior.Fehmidah Munir1, Joanna Pryce2, Cheryl Haslam1, Stavroula Leka3, Amanda Griffiths3 Mark Taylor, Ashley Meyers, Kimberly A.
Barchard University of Nevada, Las Vegas, April, 2004
Gender Differences in CommunicationIn General…
• Most men use “Report Talk”…no fluff, no “bunny trails.”
• Most women use “Rapport Talk”…look to build rapport.
• Most men want to “fix” problems
• Most women want to “explore” problems
Drs. Les and Leslie Parrot
Gender Differences in Management Style: Evidence from the Accounting Profession
Presentation by Deborah H. Turner, Ph.D., CPA DuPree College of Management,
Study commissioned by the American Woman’s Society of CPAs and supported financially by a number of firms including J.P. Morgan, Sara Lee, Deloitte & Touche, and KPMG Peat Marwick
Learn more about how female and male accountants interact with and influence others in their work organizations.
Management Skills Examined
• Problem analysis & decision-making
• Communicating• Time management• Coaching & developing• Conflict management• Delegating
Conclusions of study• Female accountants are at least as effective
at managing as their male colleagues…and maybe better.
• Females are more likely than males to use the most
effective style (transformational leadership, i.e. encourage others to approach problems from new perspectives)
* and less likely to use the least effective style (management by exception, i.e. (command and control).
Conclusions of study• Organizations that restrict the advancement
of women
• based on the false belief that women are not as good at managing as men
• may be underutilizing their female personnel, thereby reducing the effectiveness of their companies.
Ilene H. Lang, president and CEO of Catalyst.
“It is in everyone’s best interest to bring qualified women into leadership positions,
especially now when fresh perspectives are needed,”
“What is good for women is good for men, business, and the global economy.”