“Forgiveness”

Matthew 18:21-35

I. Why we should forgive

• We should forgive so as not to give Satan a foothold in our lives.– Unforgiveness gives Satan the opportunity to get a

grip on us spiritually.– We grieve the Holy Spirit.

I. Why we should forgive

• We should forgive because Christ forgave us.– Our relationships ought to be compassionate.– We ought to forgive just as God forgave us

through Christ.• He forgave us willingly.

• He forgave us completely.– TETELESTAI means “PAID IN FULL”

I. Why we should forgive

• We should forgive so we can have freedom from bitterness.– We need to put away damaging attitudes.

• Bitterness, rage and anger

– We need to get rid of damaging behaviors.• Brawling and slander, along with all malice.

II. How to forgive.

• Decide to forgive.– Forgiveness is never based on feeling.– We forgive because it is the right thing to do.

• Articulate your forgiveness.– Verbalize forgiveness to those who ask for it.– It helps to say the words even if confrontation is

neither possible or advisable.

II. How to forgive.

• Let go of the offense.– We need to resolve the issue and win over a

brother or sister in the Lord (Matthew 18).– We ought to forgive as the Lord has forgiven us.

Conclusion

• Forgiveness is not the same as forgetting.

• Forgiveness is not the same as trusting.

Forgiveness must be granted; it cannot be earned.

Trust cannot be granted; it must be earned.