forgiveness in interpersonal relationships - cole connor
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Cole Connor
July 16’th, 2012
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Have you ever wondered…
What is forgiveness?
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YES?! WELL,
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• There are 3 types
of forgiveness.
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1. DIRECT FORGIVENESS
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2. INDIRECT FORGIVENESS
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On Condition
• 3. Conditional Forgiveness
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Forgiving, but with a condition or stipulation
Like making someone sleep on the
couch maybe?
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So WHO
forgives or is
faced with
forgiveness?
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At some point in everyone’s life, we are all faced with the choice of forgiving someone or something, but we all choose to forgive in a different way.
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So what have people disagreed on in the field of forgiveness in interpersonal relationships?
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For example, in a study conducted by Andy Merolla, the results showed that indirect forgiveness was the most common followed by direct then conditional, but the interesting part was that conditional was the most common in dating relationships….
HMMM…
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So yeah…
That was my PowerPoint. I hope you
enjoyed it and didn’t fall asleep or get
distracted. But if you did, I FORGIVE you.
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CREDITS
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