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FOR OUR SPIRITUAL LIFE Radical Hospitality: The First Practice of Fruitful Congregations
by Robert Schnase
www.ministrymatters.com This article is featured in the Opening the Door (Nov/Dec/Jan 2008-2009) issue of Circuit Rider
July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Vibrant, fruitful, growing congregations practice
radical hospitality. Christian hospitality is the
active desire to invite, welcome, receive, and care
for those who are strangers so that they find a spiritual home and discover for themselves the
unending richness of life in Christ.
Churches that practice radical hospitality sense a
calling and responsibility to pray, plan, and work
to invite others and to help them feel welcome
and to support them in their faith journeys. Out of
genuine love for Christ and for others, their
members, staff and pastors take the initiative to
invite, welcome, include, and support newcomers
and help them grow in faith as they become part
of the body of Christ.
It's easy to focus on what we expect from the
church rather than what the church expects from
us, just as it's easy to expect God to do for us
what God created us to do for God. We are here
in the spirit of Jesus, “not to be served, but to
serve.” How are we doing in our churches? Do we
focus only on how our needs are met, or do we
open ourselves to the possibility that our needs are best met when we place ourselves in service
to others in Christ's name?
What Is RADICAL HOSPITALITY?
Radical means “drastically different from ordinary
practice, outside the norm,” and so it provokes
practices that exceed expectations, that go the
second mile, that take welcoming the stranger to
the max. By radical, don't think wild-eyed, out of
control, or in your face. Instead, imagine people
offering the absolute utmost of themselves, their
creativity, their abilities, and their energy to offer
the gracious invitation and reception of Christ to
others.
Aspiring to radical hospitality, following Jesus'
example of gathering people into the body of
Christ, inviting them to the banquet of God's
gracious love requires intentional focus on those
outside the community of faith. Jesus' example of
hospitality demands an unceasingly invitational
posture that we carry with us into our world of
work and leisure and into our practice of
neighborliness and community service. It involves seeing ourselves as sent out by Christ and going
out of our way, even at the risk of a sense of
awkwardness and inconvenience, to invite people
into some aspect of the church's ministry.
Sometimes members forget that churches offer
something people need. What do people need
that congregations offer?
People need to know God loves them, that they
are of supreme value, and that their life has significance. People need to know that they are
not alone; that when they face life's difficulties,
they are surrounded by a community of grace;
and that they do not have to figure out entirely
for themselves how to cope with family tensions,
self-doubts, periods of despair, economic
reversal, and the temptations that hurt
themselves or others. People need to know the
peace that runs deeper than an absence of conflict, the hope that sustains them even
through the most painful periods of grief, the
sense of belonging that blesses them and
stretches them and lifts them out of their own
preoccupations. People need to learn how to offer
and accept forgiveness and how to serve and be
served. As a school for love, the church becomes
a congregation where people learn from one
another how to love. People need to know that
life is not having something to live on but something to live for, that life comes not from
taking for oneself but by giving of oneself. People
need a sustaining sense of purpose.
Having said that, the last thing people want is to
be told by someone else what they need! Inviting
people into Christ does not involve pounding
people with “oughts” and “shoulds.” Some people
recognize their needs, and they search for
meaning, for others, and for God. But most
people discover their need for God's grace and for the love of Christ through the experience of
receiving it.
WHAT CAN WE DO?
To become a vibrant, fruitful, growing
congregation requires a change of attitudes,
practices, and values. Good intentions are not enough. Too many churches want more young
people as long as they act like old people, more
newcomers as long as they act like old-timers,
more children as long as they are as quiet as
adults, more ethnic families as long as they act
like the majority in the congregation.
We can do better. It takes practicing radical
hospitality—and all the redirecting of energy and
resources and volunteer time that comes with this. Church leaders can't keep doing things the
way they have always done them. Little changes
have big effects.
If every ministry changed a little toward
welcoming younger people, the cumulative effect
might change the direction of the church. From
safe and easily supportable new initiatives, such
as Parents' Night Out programs for young families
or Brown Bag Bible Studies in workplace
cafeterias, to more edgy ministries, such as alternative services in strip malls for the “tattoos
and piercings” crowd, churches can let the Radical
Hospitality they see in Christ lead them in
creative directions.
Churches marked by this quality work hard to
figure out how best to anticipate others' needs
and to make them feel at home in their
ministries. All churches offer some form of
hospitality, but radical hospitality describes churches that strive without ceasing to exceed
expectations to accommodate and include others.
A congregation marked by such hospitality adopts
an invitational posture that changes everything it
does. Members work with a heightened
awareness of the person who is not present, the
neighbors, friends, and co-workers who have no
church home. With every ministry, they consider
how to reach those who do not yet know Christ.
The willingness to risk something new creates a buzz and a stir in the community that strengthens
participation in all other ministries of the church.
In ways no one understands, when the
contemporary service begins to welcome new
people in a manner that exceeds expectations,
often the traditional Sunday school class for older
members grows as well. Word-of-mouth is still
the most important form of human
communication, and when people talk about congregations as places that make people feel
welcome and loved, then the church thrives.
What Difference Will this Make?
A woman was going through a rough time in her
personal and professional life; and in her search
for connections, hope, and direction, she began to
visit a few churches. After her first two worship
experiences to which she came alone, sat alone,
and left alone without anyone speaking to her or greeting her, her prayer for her next visit to
another church service was simply, “I only pray
that someone speaks to me today.”
Wow! What an indictment. Could that really
happen to visitors in our congregations? How
many of us have had that experience? Have you
ever arrived at a church, entered the hallways
and despite your obvious “lostness” and active
searching for signs and directions, passed by forty or fifty people without anyone even nodding at
you or offering to help you find your way? And
we've all experienced the ushers or greeters who
offer perfunctory handshakes without even
looking us in the eye, who hand us a bulletin and
push us along without any personal engagement
or warmth. We can do better.
For the visitor or the person who is searching for
spiritual help, “This Sunday is the only Sunday
that counts.” In the same way stores sometimes employ agencies to provide “secret shoppers” to
test the responsiveness of their salespersons and
employees, perhaps churches should consider
working with a few conscientious members of
another congregation, asking them to show up for
worship and provide a “secret visitor” analysis.
Churches aspiring to Radical Hospitality must
regularly ask: How are we doing at inviting guests
and at teaching people to invite others? How are we doing at genuinely and authentically
welcoming people? How can we offer the Radical
Hospitality we see in the life, teachings, death,
and resurrection of Christ? And how can we do
better?
A congregation changes its culture one person at
a time. Radical hospitality begins with a single
heart, a growing openness, a prayerful desire for
the highest good of a stranger. It begins when
one person treats another respectfully and loves the stranger enough to overcome the internal
hesitations to invite that person into the life of
Christ's church.
Churches that practice radical hospitality do not
look only at the numbers, corralling people
through processes to get them to join. Instead,
they genuinely engage people, listen to them, and
help them feel accepted, respected, connected,
needed, involved, and loved. They focus on the ultimate goal of helping newcomers grow into the
body of Christ's people.
Radical hospitality. People are searching for
churches that make them feel welcome and
loved, needed, and accepted. By repeating,
deepening, and improving on the practices of
investing in and welcoming people, fruitful
congregations share the gracious love of God in
Christ.
Excerpted with permission from Five Practices:
Radical Hospitality, part of the Five Practices of
Fruitful Congregations series of resources from
Abingdon Press.
https://www.ministrymatters.com/circuit_rider/41/opening-the-door-novdecjan-2008-2009https://www.ministrymatters.com/circuit_rider
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RAFFLE RETURNS
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Tickets returned unsold 50
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Total Income to date $10,304.00
Thank You to all who have made
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Our goal for this fundraiser is
$12,000.00. We are at 86% of our
goal.
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Parish Life Council
"The parish is where the Church lives. Parishes are communities of faith, of action, and of hope. They are where the Gospel is proclaimed and celebrated, where believers are formed and sent to renew the earth. Parishes are the home of the Christian community; they are the heart of our Church. Parishes are the place where God's people meet Jesus in word and sacrament and come in touch with the source of the Church's life." (USCCB, Communities of Salt and Light, pg. 1)
The Work of the parish life council is to foster a sense of community among all members of the parish and to encourage outreach and welcome to the larger
community. We are looking for volunteers who are
committed to building community within our parish to serve on this integral council. If this sounds like something that would interest you, please
contact Fr. Ken at the parish office (570-823-4988). The first meeting is scheduled for August 23, 2018.
In Case you were wondering….
The Parish Choir and musicians are on hiatus for the month of July. They will return to duty on August 11th.
Parish Prayer Ministry
Monthly Intention During our recent parish Liturgical Council Meeting, it was suggested that
we “ramp up” our parish prayer ministry and ask all parishioners to be involved in praying for a particular intention for the parish each month. Our Parish Intention for this month is: That all parishioners may grow in a
desire to know God more fully and enter into a deeper relationship with Him.
We ask all parishioners and friends of the parish to include this petition in your daily prayers and works of charity.
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July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Congratulations to Susan
and Michael Murphy who
are celebrating their 50th
Wedding Anniversary
this weekend. May God
grant them many years
filled with good health
and happiness.
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THE LITURGY Liturgy of the Eucharist I
by Fr. Gabe Huck
www.homilies.net
Every Sunday, every Lord's Day, the church assembles here in its house and processes into its liturgy. That procession we talked about a few weeks ago. There is our gathering together, song, the sign of the cross, greeting, prayer. It takes a while to give us a sense of being here not as so many individuals, but as the baptized people who are the church. When this church has so prepared itself, we open our book and read the scriptures, sing psalms and alleluias, listen to the homily and join in the prayers of intercession. Those prayers conclude what is really a whole liturgy in itself, the Liturgy of the Word. But from their earliest times, Christians have had another liturgy that has been bound to their keeping of the Lord's day. That is the Liturgy of the Eucharist. "Eucharist" is a word that comes from Greek and has to do with "giving thanks," with "praise" and with "blessing."
But Eucharist begins quietly. We need that. We have just finished what ought to be hard work; concentrating on the scripture and on making prayers of intercession takes energy and leaves us both lifted up and a little worn out. So we take quiet moments to get the room and ourselves ready for Eucharist. This is the time called the preparation of the table or preparation of the gifts. Bread and wine are brought forward, such simple things, food and drink associated with the tables of ordinary people. Here they are called "fruit of the earth" and "work of human hands" as they are placed on the table in our midst. At the same time, the "work of human hands" is seen in the money that is collected, money or other gifts that are explicitly "for the church and the poor." Money could be collected in other ways and at other times; this is, after all, the age of credit cards. Why here and now? Because the money and the bread and wine are bound together. We are about to surround a single table and make a single prayer and eat of one bread and drink of one cup. Part of our preparation for this seems to be this gesture of pooling our resources, putting into one basket some of the money we have earned or received. We get ready for Eucharist by setting a table with bread and wine, but even more by showing some important things in this collection of money. One is that we are bound to one another-thus some of our contribution is for the work of the church. A second thing we show is that this bond is not selfish but is for the life of the world-thus some of our money is for the poor. And third, we show that what we do here together is bound to all the business and
commerce and give-and-take of everyday life. Bread and wine show that, but perhaps money shows it even more clearly. When all is ready, we stand up. In fact, we stand and gather around the table; only our numbers in this room keep us from coming into a circle. The one presiding stands at the table also and says four words to us that are not so much an invitation as an order: "Lift up your hearts." Some remember the Latin when it was only two words: Sursum corda! "Hearts on high!" we might say. And we answer that we are ready for this: "We lift them up to the Lord." Then the presider gives the invitation to do that deed that is the very heart not of the liturgy only but of Christian life: "Let us give thanks to the Lord our God." And we say: "It is right and just." All right. It is. Giving thanks. Giving praise. That's the heart of things for us. Are we any good at it? Probably we are
better at asking God, better at saying we're sorry, better at almost anything than this.
How do we think about those next few minutes? What do we think happens between this invitation and the Lord's Prayer just moments later? Some would say, "A lot of words by the priest while we all kneel down and pray." Others would say, "The priest consecrates the bread and wine." But there is a problem with answers like these. It still seems like we become a very passive audience right at the moment when we are supposed to be most active. The prayer that the presider speaks is the prayer of the church, OUR prayer. We show this when we sing those acclamations: "Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might," and "When we eat this bread.." and the Great Amen that we sing at the end of this prayer. All of those are shouts of approval, commands to go ahead with this prayer. They are like bursts of single-hearted song.
Or are they? Sometimes they are not. Part of that may be our fault, part the presider's fault, part the fault of words that are not strong enough to bear the burden here, and part the fault of music that just doesn't get the job done for us. All of those can be improved. Our failure to make these moments the high point of the liturgy shows that the liturgy is very human. It isn't magic. From the presider's side, it takes great strength to lead the Eucharistic Prayer well, speaking a long prayer to God in the name of this assembly. A person can't do that without sensing that the assembly is attentive, wanting to give thanks and praise. That back-and-forth between the leader of the prayer and the ones praying is crucial. Posture, eyes, readiness to sing those acclamations-all these count. Despite an unfortunate distance between the leader and the assembly, we can get rid of all
papers and books and have eyes and all senses toward the table. We can sing out, by heart, the "Holy, holy" and the other acclamations. Though the spoken words of the prayer are familiar, we can try to hear them and make them our own prayer so that our "Amen" is real at the end. Though there are in English ten different forms that this prayer can take, each weaves together some common strands. Most obvious: This is a meal prayer. God is given all thanks and praise, not in the abstract but at a table on which are the bread and wine intended for the food and drink of this assembly. So this prayer echoes with all the meal blessings we say in our lives. We grow hungry and by God's grace are fed. All that we know about giving thanks we bring to this table. Over the bread and wine the presider puts words to our thanks, and they become words about Christ. All our thanks gravitate toward the body given up for the life of the world, toward the blood of the new and everlasting covenant, blood that was shed for all that sins might be forgiven. We call on the Holy Spirit to come upon these gifts and make them holy, make them for us the body and blood of our Lord, Jesus Christ. If we Catholics want to learn how to pray, then let us learn how to pray the Eucharistic prayer. Learn how to lift up our hearts and give God thanks and praise. Learn it here, at this table, gathered close to one another, gazing at simple bread and good wine. Copyright © 1992, Gabe Huck. Used by permission.
July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
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All Administrative Council Meetings begin with Vespers in Church at 6:00 pm. Meetings follow immediately in the Fr. Murgas conference room of the parish office. JULY 24th—Catechetical Council
AUGUST 2nd—Liturgical Council
AUGUST 9th - Social Justice Council
AUGUST 16th—Pastoral Council
AUGUST 23rd - PARISH LIFE Council
SEPTEMBER 20th - Finance Council
Food for July
Non-Dairy Creamers
ADMINISTRATIVE COUNCILS
PARISH MINISTRIES
PARISH COMMITTEES
The Development Committee will meet on Monday, August 6 at 6:30 pm in the Lower Meeting
Room of the Parish Office.
The Toy Bingo Committee will meet on Wednesday, August 22nd immediately following the Coronation of the Blessed Virgin.
The Young at Heart Committee will meet for their next monthly meeting on Tuesday, September 18 at 1 pm in the Fr. Murgas conference Room.
FAITH SHARING St. Andre’s Faith Seekers with
Michael Boris & Jackie Barkus
will meet at 6 pm on Monday August 6th in the Fr. Murgas Meeting Room of the Parish Office.
Disciples of the Spirit of Jesus
with Sr. Madonna will meet on Saturday, August 18th at 10:30 am in the Fr. Murgas Meeting Room of the Parish office. There is still room in this group for anyone who might be interested.
Sharers on the Journey with
Christ with Rosemary Shedlock will meet on Sunday, August 19th at 2:00 pm in the home of Elaine Snyder.
Loaves & Fishes
Summer Ordinary Time
Weekend of July 21-22 16th Sunday in Ordinary Time
4 pm Vigil Mass 5:30 pm Vigil Mass 8:00 am Mass 11:00 am Mass
Debt Reduction Envelope RAFFLE RETURNS DUE
SUMMER RAFFLE immediately after the 11 am Mass
Weekend of July 28-29 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time
4 pm Vigil Mass 5:30 pm Vigil Mass 8:00 am Mass 11:00 am Mass
SOCIAL JUSTICE COLLECTION SSCM Raffle Tickets on Sale
Monday, July 23
No Morning Mass
Monday, July 30
No Morning Mass
Tuesday, July 24
8 am Mass 5:30 pm NO CHOIR 6:00 pm PARISH CATECHETICAL COUNCIL
Tuesday, July 31
8 am Mass 5:30 pm NO CHOIR
Wednesday, July 25
8 am Mass 6 pm PC Agenda Meeting
Wednesday, August 1
8 am Mass
Thursday, July 26
8:00 am Mass Noon Exposition 6:00 pm Vespers
Thursday, August 2
8:00 am Mass Noon Exposition 1 pm Admin Staff Meeting 6:00 pm Vespers 6:00 pm Parish Liturgical Council
Friday, July 27
8 am Mass Friday, August 3 FIRST FRIDAY
8 am Mass 6 pm Confessions 6:30 pm Sacred Heart Devotions 7:00 pm MASS
Saturday, July 28
No Morning Mass 3:00 pm Confessions
VIGIL of 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time.
Saturday, August 4 FIRST SATURDAY
No Morning Mass 3:00 pm Confessions
VIGIL of 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time.
Get your Dancing Shoes Ready! Our Fall Dance will be Friday, September 14th
beginning at 6 pm in St. Mary’s Hall. Tickets will go on sale in August. Baskets are available for filling for our basket raffle which will be
held in conjunction with the Dinner/Dance.
Baskets can be picked up in the vestibule beginning July 23rd. If you need a basket before that, contact Tina Evans or the parish office and we’ll make sure you get one.
July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
There will be 2 opportunities
to COME and SEE
what a HOSPITALITY MINISTRY
looks like.
They will be held on Saturday,
August 11 following the 5:30
pm Mass and again on August 12
following the 11:00 am Mass.
They will be held right in the
church.
All parishioners are invited to
COME and SEE how easy getting
involved in welcoming the stranger
(or even the regular cast of
characters) can be.
The Sisters of Sts. Cyril and Methodius will once again be selling raffle tickets beginning next weekend in the
vestibule. The SSCM raffle will be held on August 15th. Many parishioners have been past winners. This could be YOUR YEAR to win big!
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FROM THE UNIVERSAL CHURCH
CHAPTER FOUR:
SIGNS OF HOLINESS IN
TODAY’S WORLD
IN COMMUNITY
140. When we live apart from others, it is very difficult to fight against concupiscence, the snares and temptations of the devil and the
selfishness of the world. Bombarded as we are by so many enticements, we can grow too isolated, lose our sense of reality and inner clarity, and easily succumb.
141. Growth in holiness is a journey in community, side by side with others. We see this in some holy communities. From time to time, the
Church has canonized entire communities that lived the Gospel heroically or offered to God the lives of all their members. We can think, for example, of the seven holy founders of the Order of the Servants
of Mary, the seven blessed sisters of
the first monastery of the Visitation in Madrid, the Japanese martyrs Saint Paul Miki and companions, the Korean martyrs Saint Andrew Taegon and companions, or the South American martyrs Saint Roque González, Saint
Alonso Rodríguez and companions. We should also remember the more recent witness borne by the Trappists of Tibhirine, Algeria, who prepared as a community for martyrdom. In many holy marriages too, each spouse becomes a means used by Christ for the
sanctification of the other. Living or
working alongside others is surely a path of spiritual growth. Saint John of the Cross told one of his followers: “You are living with others in order to be fashioned and tried”.[104]
142. Each community is called to create a “God-enlightened space in which to experience the hidden presence of the
risen Lord”.[105] Sharing the word and celebrating the Eucharist together fosters fraternity and makes us a holy and missionary community. It also gives rise to authentic and shared mystical experiences. Such was the case with
Saints Benedict and Scholastica. We can
also think of the sublime spiritual experience shared by Saint Augustine and his mother, Saint Monica. “As the
day now approached on which she was to depart this life, a day known to you but not to us, it came about, as I believe by your secret arrangement, that she and I stood alone leaning in a window that looked onto a garden… We opened wide our hearts to drink in the streams
of your fountain, the source of life that is in you... And as we spoke of that
wisdom and strained after it, we touched it in some measure by the impetus of our hearts... eternal life might be like that one moment of knowledge which we now sighed after”.[106]
143. Such experiences, however, are
neither the most frequent nor the most important. The common life, whether in the family, the parish, the religious community or any other, is made up of small everyday things. This was true of the holy community formed by Jesus, Mary and Joseph, which reflected in an
exemplary way the beauty of the
Trinitarian communion. It was also true of the life that Jesus shared with his disciples and with ordinary people.
144. Let us not forget that Jesus asked his disciples to pay attention to details. The little detail that wine was running out at a party. The little detail that one sheep was
missing. The little detail of noticing the widow who offered her two small coins. The little detail of having spare oil for the lamps, should the bridegroom delay. The little detail of asking the disciples
how many loaves of bread they had.
The little detail of having a fire burning and a fish cooking as he waited for the disciples at daybreak.
145. A community that cherishes the little details of love,[107] whose members care for one another and
create an open and evangelizing environment, is a place where the risen Lord is present, sanctifying it in accordance with the Father’s plan. There are times when, by a gift of the Lord’s
love, we are granted, amid these little
details, consoling experiences of God. “One winter night I was carrying out my little duty as usual… Suddenly, I heard off in the distance the harmonious sound
of a musical instrument. I then pictured a well-lighted drawing room, brilliantly gilded, filled with elegantly
dressed young ladies conversing together and conferring upon each other all sorts of compliments and other worldly remarks. Then my glance fell upon the poor invalid whom I was supporting. Instead of the beautiful strains of music I heard only
her occasional complaints… I cannot express in words what happened in my soul; what I know is that the Lord illumined it with rays of truth which so surpassed the dark brilliance of earthly feasts that I could not believe
my happiness”.[108]
146. Contrary to the growing consumerist individualism that tends to
isolate us in a quest for well-being apart from others, our path to holiness can only make us identify all the more with Jesus’ prayer “that all may be one; even as you, Father, are in me, and I in
you” (Jn 17:21).
APOSTOLIC EXHORTATION GAUDETE ET EXSULTATE OF THE HOLY FATHER FRANCIS ON THE CALL TO HOLINESS IN TODAY’S WORLD
[104] Precautions, 15.
[105] JOHN PAUL II, Apostolic Exhortation Vita
Consecrata (25 March 1996), 42: AAS 88 (1996),
416.
[106] Confessiones, IX, 10, 23-25: PL 32, 773-
775.
[107] I think especially of the three key words
“please”, “thank you” and “sorry”. “The right
words, spoken at the right time, daily protect and
nurture love”: Post-Synodal Apostolic Exhortation
Amoris Laetitia (19 March 2016), 133: AAS 108
(2016), 363.
[108] THÉRÈSE OF THE CHILD JESUS,
Manuscript C, 29 v-30r.
July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
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IN THE DIOCESE
Do You Want to Know More About the Annulment Process?:
In the Diocese of Scranton, the
annulment process is now more “user friendly” than you might expect, and there is no longer a processing fee.
Please contact your pastor or the Diocesan Tribunal Office (570-207-2246) to begin a conversation. It is possible to get clear answers to these questions and to renew your connection with the Church.
Notice Regarding the Sexual Abuse of A Minor
It is the policy of the Diocese of Scranton to report any allegation of sexual abuse of a minor to law enforcement. If you are a victim of sexual abuse, you are encouraged to immediately report the matter to law enforcement. If any priest, deacon, religious, lay employee or volunteer of the Diocese of Scranton has cause or reason to suspect that a minor has been subjected to any form of abuse, including child sexual abuse, the matter will be reported to law enforcement. In accordance with the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania’s Child Protective Services Law, reports of suspected child abuse should also be made immediately by phone to the 24 hour Child Abuse Hotline (ChildLine) at 1-800-932-0313 or electronically at www.compass.state.pa.us/cwis. It is also the policy of the Diocese to adhere to all civil and state regulations. To this end, the Diocese is equally committed to adhering to the norms of the Code of Canon Law and to upholding the tenets of the USCCB Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People, which includes supporting victims of sexual abuse in their pursuit of emotional and spiritual well-being. As such, information regarding an allegation of sexual abuse of a minor should also be reported to the Victim Assistance Coordinator, Mary Beth Pacuska at 570-862-7551 or to Diocesan Officials, including the Vicar General, Msgr. Thomas M. Muldowney, V.G. at 570-207-2269.
Diocese of Scranton Pilgrimage
to the
National Shrine Basilica of the Immaculate Conception
Saturday, September 22, 2018
Cost: $55.00 per person + lunch and personal spending
TO REGISTER:
Call: MARY at 570-823-4988
Scranton Catholic Charismatic Renewal
is sponsoring The 36th Annual Charismatic Conference
“HE RESTORES MY SOUL!”
August 3—5, 2018
University of Scranton
The Conference will feature inspiring speakers and uplifting music.
Mass will be celebrated each afternoon
A well-stocked book/gift store will be available
The full weekend Registration fee is $50.00 until July 23rd.
after July 23rd, it will be $65
Single-Day registration is available on site.
Commuting and Brown bagging are encouraged
Dormitory housing and cafeteria meals are available at a separate cost from
registration.
For Registration forms please see the bulletin board at
www.ccrscranton.org or
e-mail: [email protected] or
CCR Conference PO Box 3306
Scranton, PA 18505 or call
570-344-2214
July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
6:00 a.m. Buses begin to depart from various locations 9:30 a.m. Morning prayer on individual buses 11:00 a.m. Arrival at the
Basilica of the National Shrine 12:00 p.m. Welcome in the Upper Church, Fr. Hvozdovic 12:10 p.m. Tour of Faith - Upper Church – National Shrine Director of
Pilgrimages 12:30 p.m. Rosary for World Peace - Upper Church 1:00-3:00 p.m. FREE
TIME for lunch, touring, private prayer 2:00 p.m. Confession opportunity in the Crypt Church 3:00 p.m. Gather in the Upper Church to prepare for Mass 3:15 p.m. Pontifical Mass The Most Reverend Joseph C. Bambera, D.D.,
J.C.L., Bishop of Scranton, Celebrant and Homilist 4:45 p.m. Buses depart National Shrine 5:30 p.m. Evening Prayer on individual buses 10:30 p.m. Approximate return time to point of departure
Deadline for Reservations is July 31, 2018
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STEWARDSHIP
Arguably every church would like to be
known as friendly and welcoming to our
guests and in the community. Sometimes
however, the distance between that
desire and the practical reality of it is
unfortunately vast. But I don’t believe it’s
because we don’t care – I honestly think
we desire to be warm and inviting. I
believe it legitimately comes down to the
fact that most of us haven’t been
practically trained how to GREET others.
Leadership can exhort their people week
after week, month after month to be
friendly and engaging, but if we don’t
purposefully train and equip them,
ultimately we (ministry leaders) are
responsible for our guests feeling less
than embraced as they walk into our
church building and services.
Here’s my full disclosure: I am an
extremely outgoing extrovert. I have
learned that I can not (and should not)
expect everyone else to have my
personality. Quite frankly, that’s ungodly
and unproductive because God didn’t
make us all like me. (Can I get an
AMEN?!) Someone else’s engagement
and interaction with others does not and
will not look like just like mine – and
that’s OK. But I believe I can still make
the assumption that those who claim the
name of Christ will in fact engage in
some fashion, in their own way with
those around them. (Read: introverts
don’t get a blanket pass from people
ministry just because it’s not the easiest
for you. )
Listen…you know whether you are totally
comfortable starting a conversation from
scratch with a group of perfect strangers
or if you instead prefer to politely smile
at someone who is sitting by him/herself,
grab a friend, walk over, and kindly ask if
you could sit with them. It simply boils
down to having this Christ-like mindset:
people matter. PEOPLE MATTER TO GOD.
There’s hardly a clearer declaration from
the cross of Christ, which we remember
and celebrate this weekend. The issue
isn’t your style, approach, or personality,
it’s your willingness to put someone
else’s care and comfort above your own.
How can you and I show people that they
matter this weekend?
I was thinking about this the other day
as I was driving and I wanted to bring a
simple, practical piece of training to the
women in my Bible study. In my
conversation with God, he gave me a
simple acronym that I hope might prove
helpful to you: GREET.
G – Go. We have to be willing to initiate.
We have to be willing to put one foot in
front of the other and GO to them. Be
intentional. Don’t wait for our guests to
approach us. Go to them first. Try to
remember (some of us have to really try)
what it’s like to walk into a brand-new-to
-you church building for the first time.
Remember the thoughts, the feelings,
the angst, the unknown. It’ll help.
Gospel motivation: We
initiate with others,
because Jesus first initiated
with us. Go.
R – Reach out. Put your hand out and
shake theirs. It’s not hard. I promise. (It
actually might be the easiest one of all of
these–don’t waste it.)
Gospel motivation: Jesus
reached out for us first
when he willingly left his
throne in heaven.
E – Engage with them. Ask what their
name is. Ask if they’ve ever attended
before. Ask what their kids’ names and
ages are. Ask them how long they’ve
lived in the area. For this one, you really
need to know and understand your
personality. For example, if you have a
hard time with on-the-spot, get-to-know-
you, surfacey conversations, then make
sure you have a mental list of questions.
Equip yourself. Be prepared. Remember:
people matter and they matter enough to
have a couple of engaging questions
ready in your mind.
Gospel motivation: Jesus
first engaged with us
through his Holy Spirit. He
is the initiator of all things
faith.
E – Educate them. Listen to me: if they
are new to your building and services,
THEY KNOW NOTHING. They don’t know
where the bathrooms are. They don’t
know where the kids ministry is. They
don’t know what doors to enter for the
worship center. They don’t know if the
coffee is free or not (this has actually
been a question at my church). Educate
them. Find out what they need and help
them. Remove any possible obstacles to
their experience being completely
positive.
Gospel motivation: The
Holy Spirit taught us the
gospel while we were still
his enemies, and we can
teach others while they are
our strangers.
T – Thank them. Conclude your
conversation by thanking them for
coming. Thanking them simply shows
that we’re so glad they’re there. They
could have chosen any place of worship
in our area yet they chose ours. A
simple, sincere thank you will speak
volumes.
Gospel motivation: Jesus’
life, death, burial, and
resurrection will be
proclaimed. Their presence
means that they will sit
under the powerful hearing
of God’s Word. By his
grace, the Holy Spirit could
open their heart, enlighten
their eyes, and save their
soul…and that should make
us insanely grateful.
GREET. Go. Reach out. Engage. Educate.
Thank. Let me let you off the hook: this
conversation will only be a couple of
minutes. Keep it simple, kind,
intentional, and purposeful. I pray that
this information serves you and your
church body well.
July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Guests, Greeting, and the Gospel:
The how and why of Parish Hospitality by Courtney Cherest
www.one19ministries.com
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FINANCES
INCOME
EXPENSES
July 14-15 2018 July 12-18, 2018
PARISH COLLECTION Administration 731.61
In Church Mailed In Clergy Residence 82.18
Loose 229.75 -0- Liturgy 318.91
Offering 3,754.00 1009.00 Religious Education -0-
Holy Days -0- -0- Social Justice -0-
Initial -0- -0- Maintenance 1,316.11
Dues 184.00 523.00 Parish Assessment -0-
Debt Reduction 304.00 22.00 Insurance -0-
Holiday Flowers -0- -0- Taxes -0-
TOTAL PARISH COLLECTION
$4,471.75 $1,554.00 Transfer -0-
DIOCESAN COLLECTIONS Diocesan Collections -0-
Diocesan Collection
3.00 16.00 Debt Service
(Principal + Interest) -0-
TOTAL DIOCESAN
3.00 16.00 School Subsidy -0-
OTHER INCOME TOTAL EXPENSES $2,448.81
Candles 32.00
Rental of Properties
-0-
Perquisites -0- Previous Balance $3,077.30
Transfers -0- + Income this week +6,076.75
Miscellaneous -0- -Expenses this week -2,448.81
TOTAL OTHER INCOME
32.00 Balance Forward $6,705.24
TOTAL INCOME $6,076.75 Your Gift to God
July 14-15, 2018
Over $100.00 4 $20 35
$100.00 2 $16-19 0
$76-99 1 $15 19
$75 2 $11-14 7
$51-74 3 $10 75
$50 8 $6-9 1
$26-49 16 $5 48
$25 11 under $5 32
$21-24 2 Total Envelopes used
266
Is your gift to the parish each week an honest reflection of God’s goodness to you?
Mass Attendance
July 14-15, 2018
People In-Church Collection
Average Offering
per person
4:00 p.m. 118 2,001.25 16.96
5:30 p.m. 74 866.00 11.71
8:00 a.m. 67 789.50 11.79
11:00a.m. 64 815.00 12.74
Total 323 4,471.75 13.85
REMINDER: In order for our parish to remain solvent, the average weekly offering per person MUST equal or be greater than $15.00 consistently.
Votive Offerings
Bread and Wine
Intention Mary Alice Stranova
Offered by Friend
Sanctuary Candle
Intention Mr. & Mrs. Edward Alusick
Offered by Son David
DIOCESAN ASSESSMENTS (July 1, 2018-June 30, 2019)
Diocesan Assessment
School
Assessment
BALANCE
Prior
Balance 0.00 93,788.02 93,788.02
Current
Assessment 71,471.00 56,659.62 128,130.62
Amount
Paid 0.00 0.00 O.00
BALANCE DUE
71,471.00 150,447.64 221,918.64
The Monthly Assessment Installment for the Diocese is $5,956.00. (that is a little over 1 Weekend’s collection)
The Monthly School Assessment Installment is is $4,724.40 (another weekend’s collection)
To pay off the total current and past Schools Assessment, the monthly installment would be $12,537.30 (3 weekend collections.)
PARISH DEBT SERVICE
Parish Loan Amount Paid BALANCE Due
PRINCIPAL 400,000.00 48,812.27 351,187.73
INTEREST 12,000.00 15,190.17 -3,190.17
BALANCE 412,000.00 64,002.44 347,997.56
Please Note: The Parish Debt service has been paid to
date. This Account is current.
July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
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LOCAL EVENTS
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Seven Lovely Logics
1. Make PEACE with your PAST
so it doesn’t spoil your future.
2. What OTHERS think of you
is NONE of your BUSINESS.
3. TIME heals almost everything
Give TIME some TIME.
4. NO ONE is the
Reason for your HAPPINESS,
except YOU!
5. Don’t COMPARE your Life
to Others,
You have NO IDEA what
THEIR JOURNEY is about.
6. Stop THINKING so much,
It’s ALRIGHT not to know
ALL the ANSWERS.
7. SMILE,
you don’t own ALL the
Problems in the World
St. Ignatius Loyola Parish will hold
GRANDMA’S ATTIC (Flea Market)
in Fr. Conlan Hall
Thursday, June 26th 8 am –1 pm and 6—8 pm
Friday June 27th
8 am—1 pm only Saturday, June 28th
8 am—Noon (BAG DAY!) Bake Sale and food Items
available for lunch.
July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
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WEEKLY CALENDAR
LITURGICAL MINISTRY SCHEDULE
July 28-29, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Servers Lectors EMOC Hospitality
4:00 pm Rosemary Shedlock John Bednarz Rosemary Shedlock Mary Ann Amesbury
5:30 pm Manuel Baez Jackie Barkus Mimi Tosh Pat Baran Barb Deeb
8:00 am Ted Harowicz Anna Hudock Ted Harowicz Dolores Yesuvida
11:00 am John Benz Sr. Tina Hanrahan John Benz Joe Stone
Sixteenth Week in Ordinary Time July 23-29, 2018
Day and Date Time Intention Offered by Events
Monday, July 23 St. Bridget of Sweden
NO Morning Mass Scheduled
Tuesday, July 24 St. Sharbel 8 am Maryanne Frank Parish of SAB
5:30 pm NO CHOIR
6 pm Parish Catechetical Council
Wednesday, July 25 St. James the Great, Apostle
8 am Leo Magri Parish of SAB 6 pm PC Agenda Meeting
Thursday, July 26 Sts. Joachim and Anne
Parents of Mary,
Grandparents of Jesus
8 am Sophie Strazewski Family
Noon Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament 6 pm Vespers
Friday, July 27 Weekday
8 am John Harowicz Jr The Robbins Family
Saturday, July 28 Weekday
NO Morning Mass Scheduled 3 pm Confessions
Seventeenth Sunday in Ordinary Time VIGIL 4 pm Edward Lisofsky Mr. & Mrs. Tom Kane
SOCIAL JUSTICE COLLECTION SSCM Raffle Tickets available
VIGIL 5:30 pm Karen Zapotowski AJ & Margie Drier
SUNDAY 8 am Barnard Gryskecicz Loretta & Jeff Hines
SUNDAY 11 am Parishioners Pastor
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July 22, 2018 Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time