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“It’s the most wonderful time of the year!”

The malls are bustling with activity, Christmas lights twinkle through the night, and I love how the cold weather gives rise to so many sexy beards around town (keep them growing, guys!)

For some, however, this is quite arguably the worst time of year. It’s a time when old wounds are opened, a time when seeing one’s family might be hard. It can be very lonely for the single guy or gal, as well as a time of year when many go back into the closet. (“He’s just my friend, Mom”).

For me, it’s bittersweet. I love the music, the food, the company, but my family still doesn’t fully accept me, which hurts. (They live in Gwinnett, so cut ‘em a little slack.) It’s more than just the feeling of rejection, though — it’s the feeling that no matter what I do, I will never be able to give my family what they want: a straight son.

But, I do not give up hope; in fact, it invigorates me. In time, I hope they will come to their senses. This is one reason why I am so excited to hear that the Supreme Court will rule on a landmark case which just might a� ord us all the rights we deserve. Let’s hope this case is our community’s Brown v. Board of Education. The freedom to marry and conduct our lives in a fashion that all Americans currently enjoy would be the best gift we can get this season because it not only a� ects us, but generations in the making.

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RecipesSuccess

Berlin Sylvestre, Staff Writer

Cooking is fun, but when it’s time to party, don’t be the one trapped in the kitchen with the foie gras nibblers you aren’t pulling o� very well as the party winds down around you. We’ve put together some easy-peasy recipes that’ll let you get your mingle on while raking in the accolades for the delectable hors-d’oeuvres you so perfectly executed. Even better, the clean-up is easy and the grocery list won’t have you dipping into your 401k and heading to Namibia for exotic ingredients.

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BACON-WRAPPED WATER CHESTNUTS

You’ll need:• 1 package of bacon• half cup of soy sauce• 16 ounces of water chestnuts• 3 tablespoons of brown sugar• toothpicks

Soak whole water chestnuts in soy sauce at least four hours. In a separate container, soak some toothpicks in water to soften and prevent them from burning when you cook them later. Cut your bacon into half-slices.

After four hours, roll the chestnuts in brown sugar and wrap each one with half a slice of bacon, securing the little buggers with a toothpick right down the middle.

Place them on an ungreased baking sheet and pop them in the oven at 375 degrees for 12 minutes or until the bacon cooks completely.

Suggested dipping sauce: Absolutely nothing. The savory bacon and the snap of the water chestnuts go together like drunk and disorderly.

RASPBERRY-ALMOND BAKED BRIE

You’ll need:• 1 package of puff pastry sheets• 1 wheel of brie• half cup quality raspberry preserves• half cup slivered almonds• pinch of cinnamon and brown sugar• two tablespoons of melted butter

Brush a casserole dish with a little butter and place half a roll of pu� pastry sheets into it. (Note: For a crispier end result, spray each individual sheet with spray butter or brush them with melted butter.) Put the brie wheel directly in the middle. Hand-whip the raspberry preserves with a pinch of cinnamon until smooth, then slather over the top of the brie. Sprinkle on some almonds, saving a few for the top. Fold the pastry over the wheel and seal it together by brushing with butter. Put a healthy pinch of cinnamon and brown sugar on the top, then fi nish with what’s left of the almonds.

Bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes or until the pastry is golden-brown. Cool before cutting – it’s gooey when warm! You can slice it like tiny pieces of pie or however you prefer.

Suggested garnish: Sliced apples.

“But I don’t feel like cooking at all this year.” Been there, whined that. The good thing is: everything in this list, so get out your good knives.

CHIPOTLE AND CRANBERRY

CHEDDAR AND HONEY

You’ll need:• sizeable chunk of Chipotle and Cranberry Cheddar (it’s at Kroger and is crazy-delicious)• organic honey• toothpicks

Cut the cheese (shut up!) into bite-sized pieces and align them around a small bowl of honey and toothpicks. Sounds too simple to make an impact, but seriously: It’s an instant hit.

ROSEMARY-MOZZARELLA

BITES

• fresh-milk mozzarella balls• fresh rosemary sprigs• herb-infused olive oil• sundried tomatoes• sliced black or green olive rings

Soak the mozzarella balls in the herb-infused olive oil on the counter for at least 20 minutes. Cut the sundried tomatoes into pieces small enough to cover the top of the them. Snip your thoroughly-washed rosemary sprigs about an inch down from the top and strip the bottom half of its “leaves.” Place the tomatoes atop each mozz ball, and then top with an olive ring. Stab the rosemary sprigs through the olive ring until it reaches the plate and it’s game on!

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RecipesSuccess

Berlin Sylvestre, Staff Writer

Cooking is fun, but when it’s time to party, don’t be the one trapped in the kitchen with the foie gras nibblers you aren’t pulling o� very well as the party winds down around you. We’ve put together some easy-peasy recipes that’ll let you get your mingle on while raking in the accolades for the delectable hors-d’oeuvres you so perfectly executed. Even better, the clean-up is easy and the grocery list won’t have you dipping into your 401k and heading to Namibia for exotic ingredients.

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BACON-WRAPPED WATER CHESTNUTS

You’ll need:• 1 package of bacon• half cup of soy sauce• 16 ounces of water chestnuts• 3 tablespoons of brown sugar• toothpicks

Soak whole water chestnuts in soy sauce at least four hours. In a separate container, soak some toothpicks in water to soften and prevent them from burning when you cook them later. Cut your bacon into half-slices.

After four hours, roll the chestnuts in brown sugar and wrap each one with half a slice of bacon, securing the little buggers with a toothpick right down the middle.

Place them on an ungreased baking sheet and pop them in the oven at 375 degrees for 12 minutes or until the bacon cooks completely.

Suggested dipping sauce: Absolutely nothing. The savory bacon and the snap of the water chestnuts go together like drunk and disorderly.

RASPBERRY-ALMOND BAKED BRIE

You’ll need:• 1 package of puff pastry sheets• 1 wheel of brie• half cup quality raspberry preserves• half cup slivered almonds• pinch of cinnamon and brown sugar• two tablespoons of melted butter

Brush a casserole dish with a little butter and place half a roll of pu� pastry sheets into it. (Note: For a crispier end result, spray each individual sheet with spray butter or brush them with melted butter.) Put the brie wheel directly in the middle. Hand-whip the raspberry preserves with a pinch of cinnamon until smooth, then slather over the top of the brie. Sprinkle on some almonds, saving a few for the top. Fold the pastry over the wheel and seal it together by brushing with butter. Put a healthy pinch of cinnamon and brown sugar on the top, then fi nish with what’s left of the almonds.

Bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes or until the pastry is golden-brown. Cool before cutting – it’s gooey when warm! You can slice it like tiny pieces of pie or however you prefer.

Suggested garnish: Sliced apples.

“But I don’t feel like cooking at all this year.” Been there, whined that. The good thing is: everything in this list, so get out your good knives.

CHIPOTLE AND CRANBERRY

CHEDDAR AND HONEY

You’ll need:• sizeable chunk of Chipotle and Cranberry Cheddar (it’s at Kroger and is crazy-delicious)• organic honey• toothpicks

Cut the cheese (shut up!) into bite-sized pieces and align them around a small bowl of honey and toothpicks. Sounds too simple to make an impact, but seriously: It’s an instant hit.

ROSEMARY-MOZZARELLA

BITES

• fresh-milk mozzarella balls• fresh rosemary sprigs• herb-infused olive oil• sundried tomatoes• sliced black or green olive rings

Soak the mozzarella balls in the herb-infused olive oil on the counter for at least 20 minutes. Cut the sundried tomatoes into pieces small enough to cover the top of the them. Snip your thoroughly-washed rosemary sprigs about an inch down from the top and strip the bottom half of its “leaves.” Place the tomatoes atop each mozz ball, and then top with an olive ring. Stab the rosemary sprigs through the olive ring until it reaches the plate and it’s game on!

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What’s Your Holiday

Decorating Style?

The Over-DecoratorWalking into your house is like stepping inside a holiday disco ball. From the basement to the bathrooms you decorate, illuminate,

and generally throw up tinsel on every surface available. You get a head start on your holiday décor each year on December 23rd, buying out bargain bins and sale racks through mid-January so as to ensure you’ve got enough garland to decorate the dog. This year, consider getting rid of all that junk before you end up on an episode of “Hoarders.”

The TraditionalistYou don’t buy new decorations. Ever. Each ornament, hand-carved nativity figurine, and even your crocheted table spreads are at least 20 years old. With stories, stains, and nicks to prove their age, you

have fond memories of each piece. While your romantic look at the holiday season is indeed

beautiful, consider freshening up your looks with some new pieces this holiday season.

The ClassicistYou know what you like, and it isn’t cheap. Think Ralph Lauren. Think NYC. Think

– White House … You wouldn’t consider using anything other than real evergreen fir for

your garland and wreaths, and perceive people who decorate plastic trees as somehow “beneath you.”

You feel secure in the knowledge that you celebrate the holiday season in the only way

that Santa would consider liturgically correct. Take a chance on some fun modern accents this year – and perhaps donate a little money to Trees Atlanta for all the evergreens you’ve killed over the years. The Modernist

Color blocking is your favorite, but red and green are not to be seen. Opting instead for striking combinations of silver, gold, black, and white that mimic the magic of even the most beautiful window displays in New York (you secretly

know that Tom Ford would approve). Fortunately for you, nothing serious has to be changed for your New Year’s Eve celebration – and that’s your favorite part of the holiday season, anyways. The Minimalist

You opt out of decorating instead claiming that it’s the sentiment that counts. You justify skipping out on this because it takes away from the time you spend with other people and “it’s about being together, anyways.” Be careful, dear. You might find yourself

without wrapping paper on your gifts, if you get any in the first place. Taking part in the fun and hanging a little holly might even get you a kiss. Jump in and give it a shot.

The GrinchYou hate the holidays. Were you able you would book a trip to Aruba on November 15th and return on January 3rd, just to be sure you missed every last bit. When holiday

décor starts to line the pathways at your local big box stores and all the ads in your favorite magazines have snowflakes, you fight to keep from throwing up. Take an antacid and prepare for yet another holiday season.


ALL WHITE LIGHTS

What you think it says: “I’m traditional. Tasteful. Norman Rockwell would have painted my home.” What others think it says: “I make up for my slutty behav-ior with classic décor.” What could be said: “You’re an elitist bitch – and your tree matches the one on my popcorn tin.”

MULTI-COLORED LIGHTS

What you think it says: “I’m free-spirited. I love rainbow, cartoons, and holiday spe-cials.” What others think it says: “It looks like Times Square shot a load on your tree.” What could be said: “Turn o� the Bing Crosby special, get rid of the lawn ornaments, and unplug those obnoxious blinking lights.”

TABLETOP TREE

What you think it says: “I don’t take this holiday too seriously.” What others think it says: “Do you have a dwarf fetish or are you just lazy?” What could be said: “Spend-ing the holidays alone, huh?”

THE NEON COLORED TREE

What you think it says: “I’m enjoying the holidays with my highly-developed sense of irony … and I’m gay.” What others think it says: “You’re gay. And you’re just a wee bit tacky.” What could be said: “Your Pepto Bismol-colored tree makes me feel like my egg nog was spiked with acid.”

HANUKKAH BUSH

What you think it says: “I’m a forward thinking Jew.” What others think it says: “Jealous of the goyim, huh?” What could be said: “Even the two Menorahs and Hanukkah gelt don’t make up for the evergreen in the room.”

NO TREE

What you think it says: “I don’t need a tree for the holi-day, I have the holiday spirit.” What others think it says: “That queen hates Christ-mas. I heard his mom beat him with candy canes and ornaments for opening his presents early.” What could be said: “No tree? No presents.”

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It’s that time of year again! You know, when we occasionally have a day that is actually cold, and we may permit ourselves to believe that it could possibly snow … and of course, we can now wear layers comfortably. From fashionable thin scarves that are more accessory than function to thick knits that keep you toasty, here are a few standout options we came across at none other than our very own Bloomingdale’s. Prepare to �ll that “big brown bag.”

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Pack Like a ProAround this time of year we think of travel and all the inconveniences that come with it, but with these simple steps I’ll make sure that if nothing else, you’ll arrive in style without a hair – or garment – out of place. Follow these simple steps to packing like a pro.

Items that you may be required to remove for security should be placed near the top (i.e., laptop) in order to provide easy access. If you are packing these separately, then your next step is to place your lightest accessories on top of everything else (i.e., sunglasses, scarves, gloves, etc.) You can also place these in a separate bag to prevent shifting and protect them from damage. Zip to close, and you’re done!

A fl exible and lightweight option to luggage, a stylish du� el is always an excellent choice for short trips. It can also be utilized to carry items you will distribute over the holidays and folded up to fi t in a suitcase on your return trip home.

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First, place heavy

items like your shoes in bags to protect them from scuffi ng

and keep your garments clean. Use shoe trees or tissue paper to protect the shoes, or you can utilize the

space inside them to store belts, socks, or accessories. Be sure to distribute the shoes around the edges of the bag to stabilize your luggage and prevent one side from being too heavy. Wear

your heaviest shoes to travel and take light sneakers or drivers to provide comfortable alternatives.

After having packed away your shoes around the edges of the bag, place the largest items like your toiletries case (with liquids in a Ziploc bag) in the center of the

bag to maintain organization.

If you are carrying electronics or adapters pack them into a separate

toiletries case. This provides a means of organizing

these items while keeping them in one place. Keep this in the bottom of the bag as well.

Fold, then roll your jeans, T-shirts, and sweaters

to prevent wrinkling and place them in the bag next. They can be placed around the other items you have already

packed. Roll jeans bottom to top, while it is best to fold shirts and sweaters from the top down.

In order to ensure you don’t forget anything, prepare and lay out all the items you will need on your trip to prevent from having to repack later .

Be sure to place heavy objects like your toiletries (with liquids in a Ziploc bag) case at the bottom of the bag – and remember to place them near the wheels of the bag to prevent it being top-heavy.

Space around the two rails of the back of the suitcase can be utilized, but it is often forgotten. Place rolled jeans, T-shirts, or sweaters in these areas.

As with the duffel, place chargers, electronics, and adapters in their own toiletries case to keep them organized and ensure everything is packed.

Place each shoe in its own bag and nestle them atop the rolled garments you packed around the

back rails of the bag. This will keep your heaviest items near the wheels of the case and also provide extra support to keep your toiletry case in place. Remember to pack socks, accessories, and belts inside shoes to save space.

If packing a second pair of shoes, place them in bags as well and pack them along the rails nearer the top of the bag.

If you are taking ties with you, be sure to purchase a tie case to keep them in order and prevent wrinkling.

Additional accessories, such as watches, cuffl inks, and ties, can be placed inside their own toiletries case as well and packed near the back of the case.

Any books or guides can also be placed along the rails and back of luggage to prevent wrinkling and maximize space.

Additional accessories like sunglasses, scarves, and gloves can be placed near the back of the suitcase as well (providing that fragile items like sunglasses are in their cases). Alternatively, you can pack these last, however the soft front side of the luggage may not provide as much protection as you may prefer.

Items that you may be required to remove for security should be placed near the top (i.e., laptop) in order to provide for easy access.

Finally, shirts can be placed on top of everything else. You can keep them together or place them separately in plastic bags. Be sure to leave your shirt collars unfolded in order to prevent from creating additional creases.

The last item you should pack should be your suit. Fold one leg over the bottom of the hanger and bring it to the crotch of the pants, then fold the opposite leg over the fi rst leg. Hang the suit jacket over the hanger and button it up. Place it inside a garment cover and zip it up. Finally, fold it into thirds and place it on top of everything else. Zip it closed, and you’re ready to jet set!

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Amaryllis and Paperwhite

Forget Poinsettias. Festive flowers like Amaryllis and Paperwhite are as much a part of the holiday season as holly berries and mistletoe, are all the rage, and add a classy touch to your holiday décor. Check out Twelve Boutique in the Highlands to get the best in town.

Silver and Gold

Never underestimate the power of a clean white spread with accents in silver and gold to add a touch of class and holiday tradition. Of course not all of us have inherited the family heirlooms, so consider finding classy accoutrements and accessories in silver and gold at places like Johnathan Adler or Peridot in West Midtown, DRTC Studio on Juniper and 8th, and Stanton Home Furnishings and Armour & Co in the Virginia Highlands. Whether your style is contemporary or classic, these accents will add some sparkle whether in the form of designer flatware or a beautiful centerpiece.

Marvelous in Monochrome

Color blocking at its finest, a monochromatic color scheme utilizing varying shades of the same color creates a dramatic presence in any space and gives a feeling of unity to sometimes disparate or unrelated items. Start by identifying the dominant colors in your space and working them into the ornaments and accent pieces you purchase for the holidays, then decorate your tree, mantlepiece, or focal point with them. Although you are decorating with shades of one color, be sure to include neutral touches (i.e. a blue color scheme with touches of white, a green color scheme with touches of gold, etc).

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OPINION

Holiday BLUES?

5 tips to get you through

The holidays are always an emotional time of year. Whether you have recently lost a loved one, are estranged from your family, or fi nd yourself single at this year – you may be dreading the season and wondering how you will make it through. In order to identify and face the specifi c concerns you have about the coming holidays ask yourself a few simple questions:

If you have lived through loss, whether it be fresh or residual, you must recognize you are not alone in this grief. Although it is part of the human experience, loss is especially common in the LGBT community and has become a part of our culture. Sometimes recognizing the toll grief has taken on you is the most important step. Following are some recommendations on how to get out of your holiday funk:

1. What are my plans for the holiday season?

2. If this is the � rst Christmas I’ll be spending without a particular loved one, how do I feel about it? (If it is the second or more, ask whether you still have some re-sidual concerns or feelings about it and address them.)

3. What are my plans for Christmas Eve, Day, and New Year’s? 4. If I could do anything I wanted, what would I plan to do during these dates?

5. Do I � nd that my energy is being spent trying to please my family and continuing on with Christ-mas traditions and activities instead of genuinely enjoying them like in years past?

6. Do I dread going to places where people are happy and publicly celebrating and enjoying the holiday season (such as stores, parties, and church services)? Do I feel guilty for not wanting to par-ticipate in these activities?

7. What have I done or planned for myself dur-ing this time? Am I getting enough rest? Am I sleep-ing, eating, socializing, and exercising enough? Do I feel sel� sh or guilty because I prefer to be alone?

8. Do I � nd myself wondering how long this will last? Do I have a close friend with whom I can dis-cuss these issues without fear or reprisal or advice, but rather to hear me out and love me nonetheless?

1. Forgiveness: For most people this is indeed the hardest step. Forgiving yourself, your loved ones, and sometimes even the universe for pain, mis-takes, or abuses of the past is an exceedingly di� -cult task. � is is, however, an important part of let-ting go of your negative emotions to make room for new, positive experiences. Recognize that patience, kindness, and acceptance are key and strive to cre-ate new, wonderful memories this holiday season.

2. Take a moment: Truly, mastery in most things comes from taking the time to be conscious. Take time to consider your choices before making them. Let me emphasize that last part – everything is a choice. O� en we forget that even the most mun-dane decisions are choices we make and instead op-erate more reactively than we realize in true “knee-jerk” fashion. Rather than allowing raw emotion or instinct to dictate your responses to things outside your control, pause and consider whether it’s even something worthy of your concern. Counting to 10 can be a valuable tool. 3. Avoid substance abuse: Alcohol, drugs, and stimulants can help to you ‘numb’ yourself, escape the situation, or have the energy to accomplish ev-erything you want over the holiday season ... but they come with a price. Remember that there is no bad situation that substances can’t make worse. 4. Avoid the urge: If you � nd it di� cult to avoid engaging in substance abuse, � ghting with certain loved ones, or stressing yourself or others out dur-ing the holiday season, then you must � nd positive ways to redirect this stress. Focus your energy on positive things like volunteering in the kitchen, en-tertaining loved ones, hitting the gym, or sharing stories and experiences to distract yourself from potentially negative outbursts or actions.

5. Act your age: You’re an adult, so behave like one. By holding yourself to a higher standard, you will elevate the expectations for everyone else around you. Every experience o� ers a unique op-portunity for personal development and provides you with a vantage point from which to identify and empathize with other people in the future. You must � rst be able to let go of the person you once were to become the person you want to be, so iden-tify the life you want to lead and the characteristics with which you would like to be associated in order to ensure that you begin taking the steps to achieve it. Take responsibility for and love the life that you have. � at is the only way to enjoy the holidays and your life in general, while living it to the fullest.

Sometimes taking our own advice is the hardest thing to do, and I even recognize that these recom-mendations are a daily challenge for me as well. If, a� er reading this, you � nd that you are still strug-gling then reach out to someone close or seek guid-ance from a professional therapist. Remember: Asking for help doesn’t make you weak. In fact, it takes some exceptional strength to admit that you cannot do everything on your own. Don’t forget: Working toward a better tomorrow will ensure that you will have “a wonderful life.”

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12.13.2012THE ONE AND MANY VOICES OF JIMMY JAMESMIXX 8 PMCome out and enjoy the incredible talent of Jimmy James whose incredible impersonations include Cher, Liza Minelli, Judy Garland, Eartha Kitt, Billie Holiday, and so many more – as well as his very own hits like the epic “Fashionista” we all know by heart. Tickets are $25 in advance and $30 at the door.

11.22.2012 – 1.6.2013SEASON OF MAGICPIEDMONT PARKBundle up and head to the park with your loved one, your friends, and your family for some holiday cheer. The many attractions available to enjoy include skating at the Southwest Rink, horse-drawn carriage rides, carousel rides, and romantic fi reside dining at the Park Tavern. Proceeds raised support the Piedmont Park Conservancy. Find out more at PiedmontPark.org.

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After so many requests from all you holiday party goers for my holiday party rules, I’ve decided a reprint is in order. Enjoy!

What makes a successful party? Girl, you know it’s all about the people. And as a frequent party cras… goer, I’d like to share some ideas on how to be the perfect party guest.

1. Be the fi rst to show up and the last to leave. People really appreciate you showing up half an hour early so you can watch them fi nish their last-minute touches. Also, if you’re the last one to leave, then they will know how much you really love them. You can’t just say, “I love you;” You have to show it. Don’t make the mistake of offering to help clean up—it really offends people. They want to do it themselves. They know where everything goes.

2. Bring a hostess gift. These people have worked really hard putting on this party and you must show your appreciation. No expense spared! I recommend a nice bottle of Blue Nun, Two Buck Chuck or an apple. If you want to bake something, nothing impresses like a cheese and mayonnaise sandwich. Remember, It’s the thought that counts!

3. Dress appropriately. You don’t want your host to feel like you’re all snooty and high palootin, er um highfalutin. Camoufl age is casual yet you won’t stand out. Plus it goes with everything!

4. Plant yourself near the bar! Your host has worked hard to provide an assortment of nice drinks so show them your appreciation by trying them all—beer, wine and liquor. They’ll never tell you how much they appreciate it but you’ll know next time they give you that look.

5. Double dip. It helps keep the mood casual. Show your host you feel comfortable. Remember, it’s just friends together. Your host won’t say anything but they’ll appreciate you setting that tone. If your cracker breaks in the dip, leave it. It makes it look more “earthy.” By the end of the night, it will look like a sculpture.

6. Keep the conversation interesting. Again, these are your friends. They want to know how you really feel about their religious and political beliefs. What better time than a holiday party? Remember, you only have a short period of time with each guest so make sure you hammer your point home. If you’ve been drinking (which I highly recommend) speaking louder really helps get your point across.

Following these tips will guarantee your party host won’t forget you. Hollerrrrr!

Love and lashes,

Please send comment and feedback to me at [email protected]

Mary Edith Pitts

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After so many requests from all you holiday party goers for my holiday party rules, I’ve decided a reprint is in order. Enjoy!

What makes a successful party? Girl, you know it’s all about the people. And as a frequent party cras… goer, I’d like to share some ideas on how to be the perfect party guest.

1. Be the fi rst to show up and the last to leave. People really appreciate you showing up half an hour early so you can watch them fi nish their last-minute touches. Also, if you’re the last one to leave, then they will know how much you really love them. You can’t just say, “I love you;” You have to show it. Don’t make the mistake of offering to help clean up—it really offends people. They want to do it themselves. They know where everything goes.

2. Bring a hostess gift. These people have worked really hard putting on this party and you must show your appreciation. No expense spared! I recommend a nice bottle of Blue Nun, Two Buck Chuck or an apple. If you want to bake something, nothing impresses like a cheese and mayonnaise sandwich. Remember, It’s the thought that counts!

3. Dress appropriately. You don’t want your host to feel like you’re all snooty and high palootin, er um highfalutin. Camoufl age is casual yet you won’t stand out. Plus it goes with everything!

4. Plant yourself near the bar! Your host has worked hard to provide an assortment of nice drinks so show them your appreciation by trying them all—beer, wine and liquor. They’ll never tell you how much they appreciate it but you’ll know next time they give you that look.

5. Double dip. It helps keep the mood casual. Show your host you feel comfortable. Remember, it’s just friends together. Your host won’t say anything but they’ll appreciate you setting that tone. If your cracker breaks in the dip, leave it. It makes it look more “earthy.” By the end of the night, it will look like a sculpture.

6. Keep the conversation interesting. Again, these are your friends. They want to know how you really feel about their religious and political beliefs. What better time than a holiday party? Remember, you only have a short period of time with each guest so make sure you hammer your point home. If you’ve been drinking (which I highly recommend) speaking louder really helps get your point across.

Following these tips will guarantee your party host won’t forget you. Hollerrrrr!

Love and lashes,

Please send comment and feedback to me at [email protected]

Mary Edith Pitts

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FENUXEWHOROSCOPES : 12/13 - 12/26

Your symbol is the ram, which explains why your Gold Member status on PowerBottomsATL.com includes free hemorrhoid cream.

Karaoke at Mary’s is made better by your unmistakable falsetto. Your secret: snorting estrogen tablets before going on.

It’s not so much that you have a big head about your sexual prowess; it’s just making love to your Mario Lopez body pillows doesn’t count.

Notoriety is nice, but your claim to fame? Being the reason LeBuzz breathalyzes people before letting them in.

We were pretty impressed with your ‘north pole’ during the Santa Speedo Run. Too bad that, during an overzealous cartwheel, the Jeff Stryker dildo fell out. (You ran really fast after that!)

You got a head start on cardio when you dreamed Insurrection was having a Black Friday butt-bead blowout. Not bad.

Last year, you drank yourself into a stupor before heading out to ogle holiday lights. The brightest show? The reds and blues in your rearview. No drinking and driving, pal.

It would be sexy that you can play the “Island of Misfi t Toys” song on guitar if only you didn’t point to that thing on your back to demonstrate that you’re one, too.

Capricorn [DEC. 22 – JAN. 19]

We love what you’ve done with the place, but when are you going to move out of the house you’ve been squatting in all month?

libra [SEPT. 23 – OCT. 22]

AQUARIUS [JAN. 20 – FEB. 18]

PISCES [FEB. 19 – MAR. 20]

scorpio [OCT. 23 – NOV. 22]

ARIES [MAR. 21 – APR. 19]

Taurus [APR. 20 – MAY 20]

SAGITTARIUS [NOV. 23 – DEC. 21]

GemIni [MAY 21 – JUN. 22]

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After gift-wrapping yourself in Saran Wrap while waiting for your lover to get home, you remember she’s working a late shift. And that you’re lactose intolerant. And you just drank a milkshake. And you’re wrapped too tightly to move. Nice.

When people at Piedmont’s Reindog Parade ask you which pup is yours, your whispered response (“I haven’t decided yet — they all look delicious.”) proves you’re the creeper we love and adore.

Alcoholism isn’t funny, but that perpetually red nose works for the Rudolph costume, so we applaud your hard work.

virgo [AUG. 23 – SEPT. 22]

CANCER [JUN. 21 – JUL. 22]

LEO [JUL. 23 – AUG. 22]

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10TH ANNUAL TOY PARTY 12.2.2012 • Americas Mart 3Community members brought tons of toys for good girls and boys to the 10th Annual Toy Party.

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AID ATLANTA CELEBRATES 30 YEARS 11.29.2012 • AID AtlantaAID Atlanta opened their doors to the community to celebrate their 30th Anniversary.

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TWO MARTINIS AND A MICROPHONE 11.24.2012 • Mary’sAmateur entertainment took a rowdy birthday party to the next level Saturday night at the always-happening Mary’s.

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TWO MARTINIS AND A MICROPHONE 11.24.2012 • Mary’sAmateur entertainment took a rowdy birthday party to the next level Saturday night at the always-happening Mary’s.

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