Every husband needs a nagging wife.

… a vanquished wife is the last thing you need.

Olufemi Fasanya 08037257479, 08083906405www.heavenonearthmarriage.blogspot.com

I strongly believe in the power of words; I have decided to extract from my yet to be published article, word that I believe will help make your relationship now and in the future a success.

My prayer is that a word from this presentation will make a better partner out of you.

Shalom

• Nagging itself is not totally a bad word when it’s properly used, if the men are willing to consider what they are being nagged on.

• Due to the man’s logical nature, it’s natural for him to think up a great plan for his family (often the motive isn’t right) and present it to his wife (that is if he ever does that before the wife gets to know) expecting her to say ‘yes my lord.’

• I believe strongly that if every husband is honest enough, they will admit that there was a time in the life of their marriage that it was the unaccepted opinion of their wife that they were nagged to accept that actually saved the day. Some will also have a lamentation that, they wish they had listened to their wives years ago.

• I have come to this conclusion, behind every successful man is a woman that nagged and behind every man that failed is a woman that kept quiet.

• There is no home more horrifying than the one that the wife has being silenced; the husband might feel like a victor who has vanquished an opposition, but he has actually silenced an integral part of his life.

• Wives are like the conscience of their husbands; we really don’t like most of the things our conscience asks us to do, but in the end, its wisdom reveals itself in the result that comes forth from obeying or rejecting its suggestions.

• Once a man’s conscience is silenced, he is a walking dead; a zombie.

• One advantage of the emotional nature of the woman is the ability to know something intuitively; they can sense danger even in calm waters with a level of accuracy that the male logic may not discern.

• Why is it that husbands’ don’t listen to their wives? I believe the key answer is our ego; we want to be seen as the initiator and leader of every plan in the family. We want the emperor position; the one who dish the order and the subjects obey unquestionably.

• If we must be effective as leaders in our homes, we must not be paramount leaders; history has shown that leaders with this status don’t have a lasting dynasty.

• When our wives nags, instead of telling them to go to hell, we need to learn to listen to what they have to say and then make logical deductions considering their opinion because the outcome we will get from it will not affect us only but also the entire family.