episode 8 - dan martell, why balance is bullshit
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This is a podcast episode that I've been wanting to release for over 8 months now. It's a talk by my good friend Dan Martell ,and it completely shifted the tone of our event. This is my favourite talk from our stage to date, and hopefully it will be yours as well. http://www.mmtpodcast.com/8/TRANSCRIPT
D A N M A R T E L L … O N W H Y B A L A N C E I S B U L L S H I T.
B A L A N C E I S B U L L S H I TI F Y O U ’ R E T R Y I N G
T O D O S O M E T H I N G G R E A T, A N D …
… E X T R E M E F O C U S I S B A DI F Y O U F O C U S O N O N E T H I N G F O R T O O L O N G
“Our company got acquired, making me a multi millionaire at the age of 28. A few weeks later I
came home to see my fiancé holding the engagement ring and dropping it on the table, walking
out and saying this is done, I didn’t sign up for this. Don’t call me,
don’t try.”
“Here I am with all the money and resources and
anything you could possibly want in the world and nobody to share it with, not
even that...” !!
“The side effect of selling my company, (and I didn’t realize it at the time) is that I
got depressed because for the first time in a really long
time nobody cared if I got out of bed.”
!!
T W O T H I N G S T O D O• Make a list of things you want. In life, in a partner.
• Model the behaviour of people who are successful in all of those areas, not just one of them.
D A N ’ S P H I L O S O P H Y O N B A L A N C E
• One Personal
• One Health
• One Career
F I N D T H E R I G H T PA T T E R N F O R Y O U R F O C U S
- Have three goals to focus on for the year -
Dan only ever focuses on one or two of these at a time, the 3rd he will put on
maintenance mode. !
R E A L I Z E Y O U O N LY H A V E S O M U C H W I L L P O W E R
This doesn’t mean you ignore it, just that it is not your primary focus for a
period of time.
Having my son Max,
“I realized that I was creating
something that would live on
longer than me.”
“I was involved in this person and if
I did my job right, he would go on to create and influence people way
longer than my time on earth”
… W H A T P O R TA G E I S F O R S T R U G G L I N G T E E N S
C L A R I T Y I S F O R B U S I N E S S E S . .
“When you’re so deep in a hole you don’t know how you’re ever
going to get out. You don’t need someone who has
just shown up and read the manual. You need someone at the top of that climb telling you where
to put your hands and feet. “
- D A N M A R T E L L
“What makes me really happy, what really changed my life is gratitude.
GRATITUDE is the glue to happiness. “
H T T P : / / W W W. M M T P O D C A S T. C O M / 8 /
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