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Effective Discipline Techniques for Parents October 19, 2010 Presented by Beverly R. Robinson

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Effective Discipline Techniques for Parents

October 19, 2010

Presented by Beverly R. Robinson

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Ways to Help Children Become Emotionally Healthy

• Explaining

• Touching

• Hugging

• Listening

• Being honest

• Being open

• Being together

• Trusting

• Setting limits

• Respecting

• Fostering independence

• Not judging

• Encouraging

• Returning feelings

• Supporting

• Empathizing

• Teaching

• Working together

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When you think of disciplining

What do you think of ?

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Do you think of ?

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Discipline Discipline is the use of methods to teach

children behavior guidelines.

Teaching these guidelines should begin as the child begins to move around.

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To get along in the world…

• Children need some basic guidelines for behavior.

• Adults have the responsibility to teach children how to behave.

• Older brothers and sisters help by setting good examples.

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Discipline Teaches• Self-control

• Limits

• Behavior patterns that are acceptable to society.

It should involve respect, support and encouragement as well as communication of limits or boundaries.

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Effective discipline should be based on:

Love

and

Understanding

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Effective Techniques

Set limits

with rules

Rules are necessary to

protect a child from

danger and set examples

of acceptable behavior.

Everyone is more

confident and comfortable

knowing how to act in a

new situation.

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Communication Tell the child what he or she should do rather

than what they should not do!Keep explanations simple and brief, they have

limited vocabulary and a limited attention span.

Be prepared to repeat over and over to toddlers.

The difficult hostile child is the one who needs love and guidance the most!

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Positive Reinforcement

• Children repeat the actions they are praised for!

• Children give up any actions that are ignored by others.

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Be Consistent!Discipline the same way every time that behavior occurs.

Be Fair! It may vary from one child to another.

Be Firm!Stick to your rules.

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Rewards

• Reward the good behavior – don’t only notice the negative behavior.

• Be immediate and direct with discipline and rewards – hugs are free!

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DO:

• Set good examples and be the role model.• Discipline on the spot-the child may forget why he/she is

being punished.• Use timeout-remove the child from the misbehavior- this

should give them time to think about the misbehavior.• Take away privileges to promote desired behavior-

especially with older children.• Discipline the behavior-not the child!• Consider the child’s age and ability. Exploration is common

for toddlers. • Match the consequence with the crime (misbehavior).

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DON’T:• Rely on physical punishment-use it sparingly!• Make threats you cannot keep – older children.• Do not yell – talk to the child and explain why he

or she should or should not do certain things.• Parents should be in agreement about discipline or

not be in disagreement in front of the child.

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Negative ReinforcementPunishment

• It tends to discourage the behavior with which it is associated.

• Punishment should not take the place of encouragement and clearly stated limits.

• It can be part of positive and effective discipline, when used with good judgment.

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AdolescenceParents must make clear and sensible rules about

many areas of concern for teenagers: • Driving• Using drugs, alcohol, and tobacco• Dating• Use of technology• Choosing friends and activities with friends during

“free” time • Curfews

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Adolescence

• The same rules for disciplining children apply to adolescents. The tone was set as children.

• Adolescents want the rules and consequences to be fair.

• They want to be respected as a young adult.

• But, they must understand their parents rules and

consequences, in advance.

• Take away privileges: cell phone, driving, party or friends.

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Effective Discipline Techniques

Beverly R. [email protected]