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E-1 Effective Chaplaincy& Local Church
2012 ICPC ATS Spokane, WAPatrick J. Hamman
July 2012 © Pat Hamman, Director inResponse Team inLife Clinic, LLC 1
Your TrainerPatrick J. Hamman, MA, MS,
CTSS•Ordained Pastor since 1980 (20 + yrs Pastor experience)
•Senior Police and Fire/EMS Chaplain, 25 years•Certified Trauma Services Specialist•Certified Crisis Responder (AACC)
•Compassion Fatigue Educator•Certified Teacher (States of WA & CA)
•Certified/Approved TrainerICPCFFCICISF CISMDisaster Behavioral HealthJuly 2012 © Pat Hamman, Director inResponse Team
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A Judeo-Christian perspective – explore the range of Pastoral Crisis CARE (PCC) opportunities
God's best plan for City Crisis CARE includes the active participation of local Churches (City Chaplain)
Develop a list of the “Top 10” Pastoral Crisis CARE basics which can be offered to local Churches
ASSUMPTIONS Pre-crisis PCC training in Churches:
1.Help build awareness & confidence2.Expand knowledge & skills3.Increase desire to support & partner with
Chaplains (missionaries) in crisis related ministries
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Effective Chaplaincy & Local Church
I myself am convinced, my brothers [and sisters], that you yourselves are full of goodness, complete in knowledge and
competent to instruct one another.It has always been my ambition to preach
the gospel where Christ was not known[especially in times of crisis]
…as it is written:“Those who were not told about Him will
see,And those who have not heard will
understand.”
Romans 15:14-21Isaiah 52:15July 2012 © Pat Hamman, Director inResponse Team
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Effective Chaplaincy & Local Church
Not that I have already attained this,…
I press on to take hold of that for whichChrist Jesus took hold of me.
I press on to win the prize for whichGod has called me heavenward in Christ
Jesus.
Philippians 3:12-14
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Effective Chaplaincy & Local Church
Pastoral Crisis CARETwo Simple Objectives
Be There...
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1. A Pastor for 20 yearsPolice & Fire/EMS Chaplain for 25
yearsDisaster Preparedness Educator for 13
years2. “What are the Ten PCC Basics I’d want
my Church members to understand & live?”
3. PCC not the Pastors job. He/she must train the people to do the “work of the ministry”
4. PCC is my code-word for crisis evangelism, proclaiming Good News in times of crisis
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Pat’s Intro to Pastoral Crisis CARE
• A training opportunity for everyone to be a Good Samaritan (Luke 10)
• Increasing buy-in
• PCC Training & Outreach builds upon itself
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Pat’s PCC Convictions
1. Practical, relational, emotional & spiritual
2. Blends God’s Word & Prayer with good mental health practice/science
3. Local Church is God’s Best Plan for Crisis CARE
4. Glocal Crisis CARE: “Prepare local then Go global.” (Acts 1:8; Matt 24, 25)
5. Jesus is our Role Model for Pastoral Crisis CARE
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Pat’s PCC Convictions
6. Jesus trained & sent His Disciples out to do Pastoral Crisis CARE (Matt 10 & Luke 10)
7. CARE-ing like Jesus• Ask questions & listen• Describe (relational)….Don’t prescribe (rules)• Let them discover…don’t declare
8. SIMPLE: Life-story + Scriptures + Spirit9. ESP Chaplains serve as an Interim Pastor
• Every Department needs a Chaplain• Every ESP family needs a Church & Pastor • Positive talk about your Pastor & Church
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Pat’s PCC Convictions
Pre-crisis PCC Training:1.Builds Confidence & Resiliency2.Emphasizes Jesus’ Grace and Truth3.Expands Knowledge & Skills4.Increases Confidence and Availability to
Serve5.Emergency: Need help NOW, call 9-1-16.Disaster: 100’s emergencies, same time &
place
Pastoral Crisis CARE training is the same for both
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Pat’s PCC Convictions
Following Jesus, Our ShepherdPastoral CARE in Times of Crisis (Psalm 23)
1. Intentional Shepherd (Ezekiel 34:16) I will search for the lost and bring back the strays. I will bind up the injured and strengthen the weak
2. Compassionate Shepherd (Matt 9:36) He had compassion on them because they were harassed and helpless like sheep without a shepherd.
3. Good Shepherd (John10:10-11, 14) Lays down his life for the sheep…
4. Great Shepherd (Heb 13:20) Back from the dead
5. Chief Shepherd (1 Peter 5:4) Crown of glory
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Jesus Sends Us into Crisis Harvest Matthew 9-10
1. Jesus’ Compassion & Command (9:35-38)2. Jesus‘ Authority (10:1-5)3. Go to the Needy (10:5-10) The diseased,
dying, despised, demonized…. hungry, poor, lonely, etc.
4. Go to Danger (10:11-16) Jesus sent them out like sheep among wolves.
5. Expect betrayal, hatred & persecution (10:17-39) “don’t be afraid…take up [your] cross”.
6. Promised provision and reward (10:9-10, 40-42)
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InjuredVictims
Displaced Tenants
Vendors, Suppliers
Neighbors
Contractors
FriendsBystanders
Survivors
Faith Community
Civic
Leaders
Schools
Police
Apartment
Fatality
Fire
Families
RADIO & TV
Internet
TV News
& Papers
Television
Blogs
Counselors
Fire
/EM
S Hospitals
Non Profits
Cell Phones & Texting
Video Recorders
An Example of a “Crisis” Harvest FieldMatthew 9:35-38
City
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Staff, OwnersResponder
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Funeral Homes
Med Ex O
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City
Pub
Wor
ks
Defining PartnershipA Partnership includes shared:
1. Resources2. Risks3. Rewards
In a Chaplain-Church “partnership”, each brings something to the table in all three areas. Examples?
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Small Groups – Collective Wisdom
Rate on a 1 to 10, and answer why?
1. How IMPORTANT is a “partnership” between the Chaplain and their local Churches?
2. How SUCCESSFUL are local Chaplain & Church “partnerships”?
3. What can we do to close the gap between the IMPORTANT and the SUCESSFUL?
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• Jesus used Police & Fire/EMS scenes to help describe Pastoral CARE & Loving Your Neighbor:
“Thief will steal, kill and destroy” (John 10:10)
“Robbers…beat him…half dead” (Luke 10:25-35)• Jesus listed disasters (plus) as end-times
PCC opportunities (Matt 24:14-24)• “Be still and know that I am God” is spoken
in the midst of earthquakes and wars (Psalm 46)
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Pat’s Pastoral Crisis CARE 10 Basics
From a house fire, car accident or suicide…to a regional earthquake or terrorist event,
PCC Basics are the same
• Living Esther 4:14: “For such a time as this”
• Today is the time to prepare/build for the next crisis opportunity. (Matt 7:24-25; Heb 3:15)
• Jesus wants His Church to be prepared to give an answer to all who asks about hope, especially in times of crisis. (1 Peter 3:15, Romans 15:13)
• Matthew 24:4-14 Proclaiming the ‘Gospel of the Kingdom” during times of crisis.
• Acts 5:42; 20:24 The Good News of God’s grace.
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Pat’s Pastoral Crisis CARE 10 Basics
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1 Crisis = Dangerous Opportunity
Written in Chinese, the word Crisis isexpressed in two different characters:
“Danger” + “Possibility”
A Crisis hashidden potentialand opportunity within it…..
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1 Crisis = Dangerous Opportunity
Three Crisis Questions:
1. Does anybody know I’m here?
2. Does anybody know I’m hurting?
3. Does anybody CARE?
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1 Crisis = Dangerous Opportunity
2 PastoralJohn 10 Jesus (Pastor/Shepherd)
Calls His sheep by name…leads them…[offers us] life to the full…lays down His life…[wants more] sheep [and] one flockEzekiel 34:16
Search for the lost and bring back the strays… bind up the injured and strengthen the weak…Psalm 23
He makes me lie down in green pastures…
beside quiet waters…through the valley of the
shadow of death…goodness and love…forever.
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3 Anatomy of a CrisisCrisis Formula = PE(s) + P + LEF + CS + R
A crisis is not an event.A crisis is one’s overwhelming
response to an event or life circumstance.
“Out of Balance”
• Precipitating Event(s)• Perception of
event/situation• Life Experience, Worldview
& Faith• Coping Skills (internal)• Resources (external)
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Crisis = OUT OF BALANCE
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3 Anatomy of a CrisisCrisis Formula = PE(s) + P + LEF + CS + R
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Precipitating
Event(s)Perception
Life Experience Worldview
Faith
Coping Skills
Resources
Not a Crisis
Mini Crisis
Crisis
3 Anatomy of a CrisisCrisis Formula = PE(s) + P + LEF + CS + R
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Per
cept
ion
Coping Skills
Resources
CrisisPE
Life Experience Worldview Faith
3 Anatomy of a CrisisCrisis Formula = PE(s) + P + LEF + CS + R
4 Crisis CARE
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Crisis CARE vs. Control Response
C ompassion C ontrol
A cceptance A nalyze
R eflection R escue
E ncouragement E nforce
4 Crisis CARE
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Compassion: Feeling another’s need or pain, and offering support and/or resources.
The foremost need of the victim or survivor.
Acceptance: Respecting all people, even when we don’t agree with them or their choices.
Allows them to lower their guard/defenses.
4 Crisis CARE
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Reflection: Listening and helping people keep life in perspective.
Invites them to explore their resources &
express their fears, desires, etc.
Encouragement: Offering hope which strengthens and looks to the future.
Empowers them to call on their resources and
to have a measure of hope.
5 Ministry of Presence (MOP)
Ministry means service
For the benefit of others
Giving your full attention:eye contactbody language
Engaging both your headand your heart
Requires TIME Together. Tests help build Trust
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5 Ministry of Presence is like:
Oxygen is required forlife …fresh clean air
Light always wins… thereare no dark switches
Salt is most effectivewhen scattered andinvisible. Salt createsa thirst, preserves andseasons
Aroma influences the atmosphere, and like hope, it’s contagious
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6 Gift of Availability (GOA)GOA is like JesusGOA speaks much louder than words/programsListening is KEY…eyes, body, mind & heartAt their convenience, as much as is reasonableNo Agenda…no strings attached. It’s a gift!GOA is not:
AppointmentProgramVoice MailEmail? Cell Phone, Text, Face Book…….32July 2012 © Pat Hamman, Director inResponse Team
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• Matthew 25:34-36 “a meal, drink, visit…”• Cup of cold water or “Chocolates”• Bread for a neighbor in the middle of the
night• Your peace, presence…non intrusive• LISTENING without judging or interrupting• Bless, not curse… encourage, pray
(silent?)• Single Mom Families & Foster Children• Blanket, writing tablet• Some band-aides and a ride to the doctor• Your “private” contact info? 33
7 Ministry of Small Things (MOST)
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The first thing Andrew did was to find his brother Simon… And he brought him to Jesus.Jesus looked at him and said, “You are Simon son of John. You will be called Cephas,…” [The next day] finding Philip, [Jesus] said to him, “Follow me.” Philip found Nathanael… “Can anything good come from there [Nazareth – a Crisis?]?” Nathanael asked. “Come and see,” said Philip. Jesus said [to Nathanael], “….You will see greater things than that.” (John 1:42-50)
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7 Ministry of Introductions (MOI)
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Jesus is on-scene [in the crisis]through us, today.
“We [Jesus & Father, by the indwelling Holy Spirit]
will make our home with him [believers]”(John 14:23,26)
This mystery, which is Christ in you,the hope of glory.
(Col 1:27)
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7 Ministry of Introductions (MOI)
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8 Psychological First Aid
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1. Focus on the first:Three minutesThree hoursThree days
2. Stabilize & Transfer to their support system, or to a higher level of care/support
3. Psychological First Aid is to Psychotherapy as Physical First Aid is to Surgery
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Immediate Safety & Practical Needs
Psychological First Aid
Relational Support
Spiritual
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8 Psychological First AidStarts at the Bottom & Builds Upward
Good Samaritan (Luke 10)
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1. You don’t have sufficient time to support the person through their crisis/need
2. You don’t have adequate knowledge, skills or resources
3. You recognize Cognitive, Emotional and/or Behavioral signs which suggest the need for a higher level of care and support.
4. Obvious/serious health issues5. Danger to self or others (9-1-1 ???)
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8 Psychological First AidWhen to Refer?
1. Eat (protein, fruits, vegetables)2. Drink (lots of water)3. Exercise (walk to “expel” the chemical
dump)4. Avoid (excess/extra) Caffeine and Alcohol5. Talk with a “Safe” person…. Ask them to
listen to you, not fix you.
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8 Psychological First AidInstructions for Survivors During & After a Crisis
1. Well doing, devoid of self-care, is, at best, doing well poorly. Exemplary care of others is rooted in vigilant self-care. Rest in the Storm by Kirk Jones
2. Be Ready to CARE by living a BALANCED LIFE:relationships (family & friends)diet, rest, exercise, prayer/word, play,, responsibilities, etc.
3. Talk with a safe peer, care giver or professional after a Crisis CARE opportunity.
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9 Self Care
1. Sympathy – feeling sorry for them• Feel FOR
2. Empathy – feeling their pain• Feel WITH
3. Compassion – feeling their pain + action• Feel AND Act by offering choices• Protect their dignity
4. Recognize that CARE-givers are in danger of:• Caring too much – Compassion Fatigue • Doing too much – Burn Out
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9 Self CareImportant Definitions
Be There...
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10 The BASIC Starting Point
Instilling Hope…it’s contagious!
CARE by MOP, GOA & MOI
MOST with your Head & Heart3 Common “Crisis” Questions