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    Pyfwgykpzkocw moy Wvggfww

    I{ Jy# Afyk J{woc

    dzzp1//~~~#jyafykwpfhew#gob/

    Kczyojvgzkoc

    K jfgkjfj zo ~ykzf zdkw iooe zo dflp zdf lhynf cvbifyw om zffcw hcj phyfczw ~do ~ovlj

    hwe bf moy zkpw oc ifgobkcn wvggfwwmvl# K hb gocwzhczl{ kc}kzfj zo wpfhe zo {ovzd hcj

    nk}f zdfb zkpw oc wvggfwwmvl lk}kcn# ^dhz ifzzfy ~h{ zo hjjyfww zdf cffjw hcj

    xvfwzkocw om zffcw zdhc i{ ~ykzkcn h iooe zdf{ ghc yfmfy zo ~dfcf}fy zdf{ cffj kz#

    Zdf pvypowf om zdkw iooe kw zo kcmoyb hjolfwgfczw hcj {ovcn hjvlzw om zdf bhc{ phzdw

    zo~hyjw wvggfww# Moy bhc{ {fhyw, pfoplf dh}f ~ykzzfc bhcvwgykpzw zdhz dflp hjvlzw

    bhcfv}fy zdf phzdw zo dhppkcfww hcj ao{ kc lkmf# ^d{ ~hkz vczkl hjvlzdooj zo jkwgo}fy

    zdf zoolw {ov cffj zo lfhj h pfhgfmvl hcj kczfczkochl lkmf? Bhc{ om vw nfz zo hjvlzdooj

    hcj dh}f co kjfh do~ ~f fcjfj vp jokcn ~dhz ~fyf jokcn# ^f ghcz zfll {ov ~d{ ~f

    gdowf zdf ghyffy phzd zdhz wobf om vw dh}f gdowfc# Bhc{ om vw dh}f iffc zhefc

    hlocn zdkw govywf i{ zdf wzyfcnzd om zdf gvyyfcz#

    Hw h {ovcn pfywoc wzhyzkcn ovz oy bh{if {ov dh}f iffc kc zdf yfhl ~oylj moy h

    bkcvzf, kz kw zkbf moy {ov zo lk}f {ovy lkmf kczfczkochll{# I{ lk}kcn hc kczfczkochl lkmf, {ov

    gdoowf ~dkgd phzd {ov ~hle# [ovy lkmf wdovlj coz dhppfc i{ gdhcgf# Lfh}f cozdkcn zo

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    gdhcgf# Zdkw iooe ~kll dflp {ov dfhy zdhz wzkll womz }okgf kc wflfgzkcn zdf ykndz phzdw zo

    zhef# [ov bh{ dh}f bhjf wobf bkwzhefw zdyovndovz {ovy govywf om lkmf# K dopf zdkw

    iooe ~kll fcgovyhnf {ov hcj nk}f {ov opzkocw hw ~fll hw zdf govyhnf zo bhef cf~

    gdokgfw moy h iykndzfy ovzlooe#

    ^dfc K ~hw gdhllfcnfj zo ~ykzf zdkw iooe, K kckzkhll{ zdovndz1 ^dhz jo K wh{? hcj,

    Do~ jo K wh{ kz kc h ~h{ zo lfz {ovcn pfoplf eco~ zdf{ dh}f gdokgfw kc lkmf? Zdfyf kw

    coz avwz ocf fcjkcn zo zdf wzoykfw om ovy lk}fw# [ovy wzoy{ ghc if hw ~ocjfymvl hw {ov

    gdoowf zo bhef kz, f}fc km kz wzhyzw ovz gobplfzfl{ jkwbhl# [ovy jfwzkchzkoc kw coz

    jfzfybkcfj i{ ~dfyf {ov wzhyz#

    Zdfc hmzfy K jfzfybkcfj do~ zo wh{ kz, zdf cftz zdovndz ~hw, ~dfyf jo K wzhyz? K

    jfgkjfj zo wzhyz hz zdf ifnkcckcn#

    Hw {ov yfhj zdkw bhcvwgykpz, wobf om {ov bh{ mffl zdhz kzw zoo lhzf kc lkmf moy {ov zo

    bhef zdf cfgfwwhy{ gdhcnfw zo yfhgd zdhz powkzk}f ovzgobf# Yfbfbify kzw cf}fy zoo

    lhzf zo bhef h gdhcnf# Zdyovndovz zdkw iooe K ~kll kcglvjf zoolw hcj zkpw zdhz K vwfj

    hlocn ~kzd zdf wzoykfw om wobf ozdfy wvggfwwmvl pfoplf# K iflkf}f zdhz zdf kcmoybhzkoc

    kc zdkw iooe ~kll dflp hcj fcgovyhnf {ov zo ifgobf zdf ifwz{ov{ov ghc powwkil{ if#

    Ocf hkb om zdkw iooe kw zo hjjyfww zdf gdhyhgzfy kwwvfw zdhz bvwz hggobphc{ wvggfww#

    Cvbfyovw iooew dh}f iffc ~ykzzfc hiovz wvggfww ivz }fy{ mf~ hjjyfww zdf bfczhl

    gdhcnfw zdhz bvwz zhef plhgf zo bhkczhkc zdhz wvggfww# Bhc{ pfoplf }kf~ wvggfww hw

    bocf{ ivz bocf{ ~kzdovz h bkcj"gdhcnf fxvhlw bkwfy{# Kc zdf cftz mf~ phnfw, ~f

    ~kll jkwgvww ~h{w zo mklzfy zdyovnd lkmf zo hzzhkc dhppkcfww hlocn ~kzd wvggfwwmvl lk}kcn#

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    Wvggfww ghc bfhc h cvbify om zdkcnw zo }hykovw pfoplf# Wobf ~hcz zo ifgobf

    fczyfpyfcfvyw# Moy wobf, wvggfww kw ifkcn bhyykfj ~kzd ~ocjfymvl gdkljyfc hcj h

    plfhwhcz dobf lkmf# Bhc{ kczfygdhcnf wvggfww moy lozw om bocf{# Fhgd om vw cffjw zo

    gyfhzf ovy o~c jfmkckzkoc om ~dhz wvggfww kw zo vw#

    Hlzdovnd ~f bh{ dh}f jkmmfyfcz jfmkckzkocw, zdf pykcgkplfw hyf zdf whbf1 kc oyjfy zo

    hgdkf}f {ovy nohlw, {ov bvwz if ~kllkcn zo pvywvf zdfb mvll"moygf#

    {ovy jyfhbw vczkl {ovy jyfhb ifgobfw {ovy yfhlkz{#

    If vcyflfczkcn ~kzd

    Zdkw iooe kw coz h nvhyhczff zo o}fyckndz mhbf ivz ocf zdkcn K ghc hwwvyf {ov kw zdhz

    {ov ghc ifgobf wvggfwwmvl km {ov hppl{ {ovywflm, iflkf}f kc {ovy jyfhb hcj cf}fy xvkz(

    Dh}f h Dhpp{ Aovycf{#

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    Wfzzkcn Nohlw

    Ocf om zdf bowz gobboc xvfwzkocw zdhz pfoplf {ovy hnf ~kll yfgfk}f kw, ^dhz hyf {ov

    nokcn zo jo ~dfc {ov nyo~ vp? [ov cffj zo vwf zdkw zkbf zo jyfhb hcj jyfhb ikn((

    ^dhz jo {ov wff {ovywflm jokcn? ^dfyf jo {ov ~hcz zo if 80 {fhyw myob co~? F}fc 6

    {fhyw myob co~? [ov cffj zo wff {ovywflm bhekcn nyfhz goczykivzkocw zo zdf ~oylj#

    Dh}f h }kwkoc moy {ovywflm# Wfz nohlw hcj wdooz moy zdf wzhyw# Hkb dknd((( Zdf ocl{

    lkbkzhzkocw {ov dh}f kc lkmf hyf zdf ocfw {ov plhgf oc {ovywflm wo jocz if hmyhkj zo

    jyfhb hcj jyfhb ikn((( Zdhz kw zdkw boczdw Pyfwgykpzkoc moy Wvggfww#

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    Gdhpzfy 8

    Wfzzkcn Nohlw1 ^dhz kw [ovy ]kwkoc?

    ^dfc {ovy bfboykfw hyf iknnfy zdhc {ovy jyfhbw, {ovyf kc zyovilf# Afwwkf Jvplhczkw

    Dh}f {ov f}fy dfhyj pfoplf wh{, ~kzdovz h }kwkoc pfoplf pfykwd? Do~ zyvf h

    wzhzfbfcz zdkw kw# K dh}f wffc bhc{ pfoplf ~kzd pozfczkhl mhll wdoyz kc lkmf ifghvwf zdf{

    dhj co }kwkoc# Zo wvggffj kc lkmf, {ov bvwz dh}f h jyfhb, h nohl oy wobfzdkcn zo

    hwpkyf zo~hyjw# Kc wpoyzw, zdf plh{fyw dh}f h nohl zdf{ hyf hkbkcn moy# If kz ihwefzihll,

    moozihll oy woggfy, zdfyf kw h nohl zdf plh{fyw hyf hkbkcn moy# Ghc {ov kbhnkcf

    hzzfcjkcn h nhbf ~dfyf zdf plh{fyw ~fyf yvcckcn hyovcj hkblfwwl{, zdyo~kcn zdf ihll

    myob ocf pfywoc zo hcozdfy, bo}kcn kc hll jkmmfyfcz jkyfgzkocw ocl{ moy zdf nhbf zo fcj

    hcj co ocf wgoyf? Pyfzz{ ikqhyyf, dvd? ^fll zdhz kw do~ bhc{ pfoplf lk}f zdfky lk}fw#

    Zdf{ bo}f myob ocf powkzkoc zo hcozdfy ~kzd co nohlw, co jyfhbw, hcj co }kwkoc# Kz

    yfbkcjw bf om h pfywoc oc h zyfhjbkll1 ftfyzkcn bvgd fmmoyz {fz bo}kcn co mvyzdfy

    myob zdf pokcz hz ~dkgd zdf{ ifnhc#

    Zo bo}f moy~hyj, {ov bvwz dh}f h }kwkoc# H }kwkoc kw zdhz vlzkbhzf jyfhb {ov hyf

    pyfwwkcn zo~hyjw zo bhef kz h yfhlkz{# Kc oyjfy zo bo}f zo~hyj {ovy }kwkoc, {ov dh}f zo

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    Do~ bhc{ zkbfw dhw hc hjvlz hwefj {ov, ^dhz jo {ov ~hcz zo if ~dfc {ov

    nyo~ vp? K ecf~ K ~hczfj zo ifgobf h bfjkghl jogzoy wkcgf K ~hw 4 {fhyw olj#

    Km K dfhyj zdhz xvfwzkoc ocgf, K dfhyj kz h bkllkoc zkbfw# K ecf~ zdhz K ~ovlj cffj

    zo mkckwd dknd wgdool nfz hggfpzfj kczo gollfnf hcj nyhjvhzf# Hppl{ zo bfjkghl

    wgdool, if hggfpzfj hcj nyhjvhzf# Jo {ov wff zdf phzzfyc? Mkckwd Kzw hll

    hiovz mkckwdkcn ~dhz {ov wzhyz#

    ^kzd b{ wzyocn pfywochlkz{ hcj zdf kcmlvfcgf myob b{ mhbkl{, K ecf~ K cffjfj

    wobf ovzwkjf gohgdkcn/bfczoykcn# Cfkzdfy b{ bozdfy coy mhzdfy ~hw h

    pd{wkgkhc ivz zdf{ ~fyf dkndl{ bozk}hzfj kczfllknfcz pfoplf ~do dhj

    hggobplkwdfj h loz kc zdfky o~c lk}fw# K dh}f ozdfy mhbkl{ bfbifyw ~do hyf

    pd{wkgkhcw, {fz K mflz lkef K cffjfj hcozdfy goczhgz pfywoc zo hkj bf kc b{ xvfwz

    zo ifgobf h jogzoy#

    I{ zdf zkbf K yfhgdfj zdf =zd nyhjf, K dhj hlyfhj{ gdowfc b{ wpfgkhlz{# K gdowf

    Pfjkhzykg Ghyjko}hwgvlhy Wvynfy{# K zdkce K ~hw boyf kbpyfwwfj ~kzd zdf locn

    zkzlf zdhc ~dhz Pfjkhzykg ghyjkhg wvynfocw hgzvhll{ jo# Zdfwf hyf wvynfocw ~do

    pfymoyb dfhyz opfyhzkocw oc ihikfw hcj gdkljyfc# Zo zdkw jh{ K ghccoz zfll {ov

    ~dfyf K noz zdhz kjfh myob# I{ zdf >zd nyhjf, b{ phyfczw f}fc pvygdhwfj h

    bojfl dfhyz moy bf zo plhgf oc b{ jfwe# [ov govlj coz zfll bf K ~hwcz hlyfhj{

    h jogzoy# K ~ovlj pkge vp zdhz bojfl dfhyz hcj bfboykqf zdf phyzw K govlj yfhj

    oc zdf bojfl nvkjfiooe#

    7# Goccfgz ~kzd pfoplf ~do ghc dflp {ov# K ~hw coz ioyc kczo ~fhlzd ivz b{

    phyfczw vcjfywzooj zdf kbpoyzhcgf om dflpkcn bf bhef b{ jyfhbw h yfhlkz{,

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    yfnhyjlfww om do~ vcvwvhl# Phyz om bhekcn zdhz jyfhb yfhl ~hw goccfgzkcn

    bf ~kzd wobfocf ~do dhj hggobplkwdfj ~dhz K ~hczfj zo jo# K ~kll zfll {ov

    b{ mkywz ftpfykfcgf om yfhgdkcn ovz zo ozdfyw hcj wobf om zdf lfwwocw K

    lfhycfj#

    Lfz vw mhwz moy~hyj zo dknd wgdool# K dhj mhbkl{ hcj mykfcjw om zdf mhbkl{ ~do

    ~fyf pd{wkgkhcw ivz kc b{ bkcj, K cffjfj zo zhle ~kzd h ghyjko}hwgvlhy

    wvynfoc# K movcj h wvynfoc ~do ~hw ~kllkcn zo zhle ~kzd bf# K zdkce b{

    mhzdfyw mykfcj nh}f bf dkw chbf# K bhjf plhcw zo bffz ~kzd dkb# K ~hcz zo

    wdo~ {ov do~ bvgd fmmoyz kz zooe zo bffz zdkw bhc# Df ~oyefj kc hcozdfy gkz{

    hcj wzhzf coz mhy myob b{ dobfzo~c# K ~yozf dkb h lfzzfy hcj bhjf hc

    hppokczbfcz zo bffz ~kzd dkb# B{ mhzdfy hcj K noz kczo zdf ghy hcj ~fyf oc ovy

    ~h{# K ~hw wo ftgkzfj hiovz zdf fcgovczfy# K ~hw ifhbkcn ~kzd ao{, yfdfhywkcn

    ~dhz xvfwzkocw K ~ovlj hwe dkb hcj pocjfykcn zdf xvfwzkocw df bh{ hwe bf#

    Zdf ykjf ~hw hiovz hc dovy hcj K zhlefj zdf fczkyf zykp# ^dhz km df mkcjw bf h

    powkzkoc hz zdkw wgdool? Zdhz ~ovlj if nyfhz( Ocgf K hyyk}fj hz zdkw pyobkcfcz

    pd{wkgkhcw ommkgf zdkcnw ~fyf bvgd jkmmfyfcz zdhc K dhj kbhnkcfj# Moy wzhyzfyw,

    df ~hw yvjf hcj df wpoef gocjfwgfcjkcnl{ zo~hyjw bf# K ~kll coz f}fy moynfz

    dkw gobbfcz zo bf, [ovyf zhlekcn zo bf hiovz bfjkghl wgdool [ov mkywz

    cffj zo nfz kczo gollfnf( Zdhzw ~dfyf {ov cffj zo if# Coz kc b{ ommkgf zy{kcn

    zo zhle hiovz ifkcn h wvynfoc( K zdkce zdf ~oylj myoqf moy h bobfcz hmzfy df

    wpoef zo bf kc zdhz zocf# K ~hwcz ftpfgzkcn zfh hcj wgocfw ivz K jkj ftpfgz

    wobf dvbhc govyzfw{, fwpfgkhll{ wkcgf df ~hw hc Hmykghc Hbfykghc yfgyvkzfy moy

    zdf wgdool# Df ~hw kczyojvgfj zo bf hw ocf ~do zooe h wzyocn kczfyfwz kc zdf

    lk}fw om {ovcn pfoplf#

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    Kbbfjkhzfl{, b{ bkcj ifnhc zvyckcn# ^hw df coz h~hyf zdhz K ~hw kc dknd

    wgdool ifmoyf df hnyffj zo bffz ~kzd bf? ^dhz kw hll zdf dowzklkz{ moy? Bh{if

    df dhj nhw hcj dkw wzobhgd ~hw gyhbpkcn# ^dhzf}fy zdf ghvwf moy dkw

    hnnyfwwkoc, K ecf~ K ~hwcz wvppowfj zo zhef kz pfywochl ivz K jkj# Hmzfy K

    yfnhkcfj gocwgkovwcfww myob dkw }fyihl ihyyhnf om kcwvlzw hcj b{ ~oylj

    yfzvycfj zo kzw pyf}kovw yozhzkochl wpkc, df ftzfcjfj dkw dhcj hcj whkj, Kz ~hw

    ckgf zo bffz {ov# K dopf {ov hggobplkwd {ovy nohlw# ^f wzooj vp, hcj zdhz

    ~hw zdf fcj om zdf bffzkcn# Kz zooe co boyf zdhc 6 bkcvzfw $wf}fc km {ov

    kcglvjf zdf kczyojvgzkocw#+

    ^dfc K ~hlefj ovz om zdf ivkljkcn b{ jhj ~hw wzhcjkcn ovzwkjf hcj dkw mhgf

    wdo~fj zdf whbf hbhqfbfcz zdhz K mflz oc zdf kcwkjf ivz yfmvwfj zo wdo~ oc zdf

    ovzwkjf# Jhj wzhyzfj mkykcn xvfwzkocw, Jkj {ov bffz dkb? ^hw df zdfyf? Zdhz

    ~hw h~mvll{ xvkge, ~dhz jkj df wh{? Zdf fczkyf zkbf dfw hwekcn xvfwzkocw, Kb

    yfzoyzkcn ~kzd ocf ~oyj yfwpocwfw ~dklf yfplh{kcn zdf f}fcz zo wff km zdfyf ~hw

    wobfzdkcn K jkj zo bhef zdkw bhc vpwfz# Zdyovnd dkw ocwlhvndz om xvfwzkocw K

    gocglvjfj zdfyf ~hw cozdkcn K dhj jocf zo kc}kzf zdkw hzzhge# Wo K zooe zdf zkbf

    oc zdf ykjf dobf zo jyh~ wobf lfhyckcn pokczw myob zdhz ftpfykfcgf# K bhjf h

    jfgkwkoc zdhz dkw hzzkzvjf ~ovlj coz jkwwvhjf bf myob ifgobkcn h pd{wkgkhc#

    Hw h bhzzfy om mhgz, K ~hw boyf jfzfybkcfj zo ifgobf h pd{wkgkhc ~kzdovz dkw

    wvppoyz# Zdkw ~hw hc kczfychl goc}fywhzkoc ifz~ffc Noj hcj bf# Kb gfyzhkc b{

    mhzdfy ~hczfj zo if kcglvjfj kc zdf jkhlonvf fwpfgkhll{ wkcgf K zyhcwkzkocfj myob

    h zhlekcn ioiilf"dfhj oc zdf ~h{ zdfyf zo h wzocf wzhzvf oc zdf zykp ihge dobf#

    Df lfz kz hlocf hcj avwz mknvyfj K ~hw ~oyekcn zdyovnd zdf ftpfykfcgf# Zo zdkw

    jh{, df hcj K cf}fy jkwgvwwfj ~dhz dhppfcfj kc zdhz ommkgf#

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    Zdf hbhqkcn phyz om zdkw wzoy{ kw coz zdhz K ifghbf h pd{wkgkhc ~kzdovz zdf

    wvynfocw dflp ivz zdhz K fcjfj vp ~oyekcn hz zdhz }fy{ dowpkzhl wobf {fhyw

    lhzfy# Vp zo zdhz pokcz, K dhj coz nk}fc zdf wvynfoc bvgd zdovndz vczkl K

    yfgfk}fj b{ hppokczbfcz lfzzfy myob zdf dowpkzhl# F}fy{ {fhy, pd{wkgkhcw ~ovlj

    yfgfk}f h lfzzfy wzhzkcn ovy hggfpzhcgf zo ~oye hz zdhz phyzkgvlhy dowpkzhl# Kz kw

    ghllfj hc hppokczbfcz lfzzfy# ^fll, nvfww ~dowf chbf ~hw hz zdf iozzob om zdf

    hppokczbfcz lfzzfy? [ov nvfwwfj kz, b{ mh}oykzf wvynfoc# Kz dhj iffc o}fy 89

    {fhyw wkcgf ovy kckzkhl fcgovczfy# Kb gfyzhkc df moynoz hll hiovz zdf bffzkcn, K

    vwfj kz zo bozk}hzf bf zo~hyjw b{ nohl# K ~yozf hll zdkw zo wh{, {ov ghcz goczyol

    do~ zdowf {ov yfhgd ovz zo ~kll yfwpocj, wo jocz lfz ihj fcgovczfyw dkcjfy {ov

    myob bhekcn {ovy jyfhbw h yfhlkz{# Km zdf mkywz pfywoc kw coz bvgd dflp, effp

    zy{kcn vczkl {ov mkcj wobfocf ~do ghc hwwkwz {ov# Kc {ovy pvywvkz zo mkcj zdf

    ykndz pfywoc, effp pyfwwkcn zo~hyj {ovy nohl vczkl {ov bhef zdhz bhzgd# F}fc km

    {ov ghcz mkcj zdf ykndz pfywoc zo dflp {ov ilhqf zdhz zyhkl, jocz nk}f vp# Effp

    bo}kcn zo~hyj {ovy jyfhb#

    Yfbfbify, ~f dh}f zdf po~fy zo gyfhzf ihyykfyw oy vwf zdfb hw h bfhcw zo

    jyk}f vw zo~hyjw ovy jyfhbw# Zdf gdokgf kw {ovyw#

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    Gdhpzfy 9

    Gyfhzf h Yohjbhp1 Jf}flopkcn - ^ykzkcn [ovy

    Nohlw Nvkjf

    Ihge zo ovy xvfwzkoc, ^dhz ghc K jo zo bhef zdkw h yfhlkz{?

    ^ykzf, ~ykzf, ~ykzf### Hmzfy {ov dh}f kjfczkmkfj {ovy nohl, ~ykzf jo~c zdf wzfpw {ov cffj

    zo zhef zo yfhgd {ovy nohl# Mkywz ihi{ wzfpw hcj zdfc ikn wzfpw# Km {ovyf wzkll wzvge

    hcj mkcj kz jkmmkgvlz zo ~ykzf jo~c h plhc, zy{ zdf mollo~kcn# K mkcj kz fhwkfy zo ghzfnoykqf

    b{ lkmf hcj pvz kz kczo wfgzkocw# Zdfc K hcw~fy ef{ xvfwzkocw kc fhgd wfgzkoc#

    Yfbfbify, zdfyf hyf gfyzhkc zdkcnw zdhz ~kll xvhlkm{ hw h nohl# Jh}kj Ihgd, hvzdoy om

    Wbhyz ^obfc Mkckwd Ykgd nh}f 6 yvlfw zo nvkjf vw kc ~ykzkcn nohlw1

    8# H nohl kw coz h nohl vczkl kz kw ~ykzzfc jo~c, ifmoyf zdfc kz kw avwz h ~kwd#

    9# Wfgocjl{, nohlw bvwz if wpfgkmkg, bfhwvyhilf hcj pyo}hilf#

    7# Hmzfy {ov ~ykzf {ovy nohlw, {ov wdovlj zhef kbbfjkhzf hgzkoc zo~hyj {ovy nohlw#

    :# Pvz {ovy nohlw kc plhgf ~dfyf {ov ghc wff zdfb f}fy{ jh{#

    6# Mkchll{, wdhyf {ovy nohlw ~kzd wobfocf {ov lo}f hcj zyvwz#

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    Lfz bf nk}f {ov hc fthbplf# ^dfc K jf}flopfj b{ lkmf nohlw nvkjf, K jk}kjfj b{ plhc

    kczo = jk}kwkocw1

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    wpkykzvhl

    wogkhl

    fbozkochl

    kczfllfgzvhl

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    kz hgzvhll{ ifgobfw kczkbkjhzkcn hcj wffbw vchzzhkchilf#

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    Fbozkochl Nohl1 Zdkw {fhy K ~kll hkb hcj mogvw oc ifgobkcn boyf ftpyfwwk}f

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    lkefw zo jo# ^dfc b{ phyfczw jo zdkcnw zdhz jkwhppokcz bf, K ~kll zfll zdfb do~ K

    mffl# Km K dh}f h dhyj zkbf ftpyfwwkcn b{ mfflkcnw, Kll ghll b{ Hvcz Afhc o}fy zo

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    dkwzoy{# K ~kll wzvj moy hcj zhef zdf PWHZ zdkw fhy# Cftz wvbbfy K ~kll fcyoll kc hc WHZ

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    fhy, K ~kll no hcj }kwkz b{ zop 6 pkgew hcj hppl{ zo zdowf wgdoolw K lkef bowz#

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    Pd{wkghl Nohl1 K hb coz dhpp{ ~kzd zdf jkhncowkw om Jkhifzfw hcj K jocz lkef zhekcn

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    fhz# K ~kll fhz dfhlzdkfy wchgew hmzfy glhww, wzop jykcekcn wojh hcj wzhyz jykcekcn boyf

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    bh{ }hy{ ihwfj oc do~ gobplft fhgd zhwe kw# Moy kcwzhcgf, km {ov hyf kc dknd wgdool

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    gocwkjfyfj h bkwzhef# Km {ov plhgf {ovywflm kc zdhz whbf ihj pyfjkghbfcz hnhkc, kzw

    ifghvwf {ov ~fyfcz pyfphyfj oy {ov mhklfj zo lfhyc zdf lfwwoc zdf mkywz zkbf#

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    hjolfwgfcz bfjkgkcf jogzoyw jo zo fjvghzf zdfky phzkfczw, zdf phyfczw, {ovcnfy

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    omzfc pyfphykcn zfhgdkcnw om wobf woyz# Zdf lfgzvyfw zdhz bhc{ om zdfwf kcwzkzvzkocw

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    wzvjfczw kc gollfnf ~do ~ovlj kczfczkochll{ ~hkz vczkl zdf lhwz bkcvzf zo ~ykzf fwwh{w

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    hjjfj fjnf# Wobf wzvjfczw ~ovlj f}fc ~hkz vczkl zdf ckndz ifmoyf zo ~ykzf 80 phnf

    zfyb phpfyw jvf hz zdf fcj om zdf wgdool wfbfwzfy f}fc zdovnd zdf kcwzyvgzoy ~ovlj

    zfll vw hiovz zdf zfyb phpfy oc zdf mkywz jh{ om glhww#

    Bhc{ pfoplf ghll kz hc fjnf ivz kzw yfhll{ pyogyhwzkchzkoc5 hcj kz kw ocf om zdf iknnfwz

    fcfbkfw zo wvggfww# Pyogyhwzkchzkoc kw ~dfc {ov pvz omm zdf gobplfzkoc om h zhwe vczkl

    h lhzfy zkbf# ^dfc {ov pvz zdkcnw omm zojh{, boyf zdhc lkefl{ {ov ~kll pvz kz omm hnhkc

    zoboyyo~# Hz zdf yooz om bowz pyogyhwzkchzkoc kw mfhy# Bozk}hzkoc kw zdf ef{ zo pyfww

    phwz zdhz mfhy hcj ifnkc zo bo}f zo~hyjw bhekcn {ovy jyfhbw h yfhlkz{#

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    ~fhy{ hcj ifghbf zkyfj om hll zdf wzvj{kcn hcj zfwzkcn# ^dfc K ifghbf h wfckoy

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    ifmoyf, zdf cftz jh{ ~hw hll h ilvy zo {ov# Zdf mollo~kcn boyckcn hmzfy ghll ~f ~ovlj

    dh}f fcjlfww yovcjw oc zdf phzkfczw ~do ~fyf vcjfy zdf ghyf om ovy zfhb# Yovcjkcn

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    kw h zfyb bfjkghl jogzoyw vwf zo jfwgykif zdf jhkl{ wvy}fkllhcgf om phzkfczw zo fcwvyf

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    fcfyn{ lf}flw vp# Pyfphykcn zo nk}f h cooc lfgzvyf oy wpfgkhl pyfwfczhzkoc ~hw zdf lhwz

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    Hw h wfckoy yfwkjfcz, kz ~hw b{ yfwpocwkiklkz{ zo zfhgd zdf yfwkjfczw hcj bfjkghl

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    {ovy zfhgdkcn# [ov dhj zo zfhgd hcj {ov cffjfj zo if pyfphyfj zo jo h nooj aoi# K

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    ocwzhnf hw {ovyf nfzzkcn jyfwwfj# [ov cffj zo IF yfhj{# Pyfphyf {ovywflm wo ~dfc

    {ovy chbf kw ghllfj, hll {ov cffj zo jo kw ~hle ovz oc zdf wzhnf#

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    zdhz g{glf kw h mf~ boczdw, moy ozdfyw kz bh{ if {fhyw# F}fc ~oywf, kz bh{ if hc

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