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CHANGE
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PUBERTY
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Sampling
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Testing
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Concluding
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Middle school is not this.
And middle school is not this.
Instead, middle school is this.
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Mind WarpCognitive Development
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Cognitive Development
CONCRETE THINKING results in a rigid, black-and-white understanding of the world. A world without nuance or paradox.
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Cognitive Development
ABSTRACT THOUGHT described in a simple way, is thinking about thinking.
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ABSTRACT THINKING
HYPOTHESIZINGSPECULATINGEMPATHIZINGDOUBTINGEMOTINGSELF-PERCEIVINGIDENTITY FORMATION
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The SCIENCE of BRAIN
DEVELOPMENT
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FRONTAL LOBE
FOCUSFORETHOUGHTIMPULSE CONTROLORGANIZATIONPLANNINGJUDGMENTEMPATHY
INSIGHTEMOTIONAL CONTROL
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TEMPORAL LOBE DEVELOPMENT
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MYELINIZATION AND NEURON WINNOWING
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EXAMPLES
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The Expanding Color Palette
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Emotional Whiplash
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2 ERRORS
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Acknowledging emotions, but in a diminishing way.
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Ignoring emotions, especially extreme or unpleasant ones.
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4 WINS
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When we employ a “come alongside” approach.
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When we ask ‘WHY’.
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When we don’t just grin and bear it.
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When we teach to understand rather than control.
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Multiple Affinity Groups
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The Role of Self-Perception
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Girls’ Friendships
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Guys’ Friendships
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Guys’ Friendships
“The Wolf Pack”
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Guys’ Friendships
“The Wolf Pack”“The Loner”
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Girls form friendships by talking. Guys form friendships by doing.
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I can do it, just don’t leave me.
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Carefree life of a child = DependenceResponsibilities of adulthood = Independence
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Teens need boundaries.
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Independence is a transaction.
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Operating System Upgrade
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Moral Therapeutic Deism
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I’ll just chuck it.
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Faith Evolution
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The Importance and Beauty of Doubt
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THREE EPOCHS OF YOUTH CULTURE
IDENTITY1950 to 1970
AUTONOMY1970 to 2000
AFFINITYToday
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TODAY’S TEENS
A culture of information.Everything available with a click of the mouse
A culture of immediacy.No delayed gratification.
A disposable culture.Use it, then toss it.
A driven/sedentary culture.Suburban paradox.
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Walking hormones?
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Walking hormones?Hair in new places.
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Walking hormones?Hair in new places
Body Shape and Height
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Walking hormones?Hair in new places
Body Shape and HeightBreast and Penis Size
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Walking hormones?Hair in new places
Body Shape and HeightBreast and Penis Size
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Walking hormones?Hair in new places
Body Shape and HeightBreast and Penis Size
Menstruation and Ejaculation